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The Left have a become a snivelling self-righteous mob, busy bodying around, trying to shame others

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Northermcharn · 09/05/2026 18:17

I read this quote and it encapsulates exactly how I feel

'I never thought I'd see the day when the Right became the cool ones giving the finger to the establishment, and the Left became the snivelling self-righteous ones going around shaming everybody'

AIBU to think this is what many people think these days? We didn't leave the left, the left left us.

*the quote is from John Lydon aka Johnny Rotten. He's deliberately provocative in lots of ways, but he meant this one. I fully expect some people to come on the thread to tell us all how he's a horror and said he likes Donald Trump. That would be them missing the point.. but.. Let Them..

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RampantIvy · 10/05/2026 10:02

Andthatmyfriendisthat · 10/05/2026 09:39

You just invented a scenario in an attempt to slur people who voted in a way you disagree with. You're either very, very stupid, or have simply indulged yourself in venomous, thoughtless hatred for so long you actually cannot understand simple facts anymore. Or both.

Gosh! Did you mean to be so rude? Are you OK?

The posts on the local Facebook pages are from people who think the local Reform councillors will stop illegal immigrants, and the comments and images below are pretty typical examples of the Reform voters' posts, unfortunately.

Haha I'm laughing at quite a few people trying to defend the labour council that was. Except it LABOUR LOST

Dry ya eyes mates labour who?

Taxi for Houghton tatty bye old bean

Nar what when fromage came to tarn he got eggd lmao

The Left have a become a snivelling self-righteous mob, busy bodying around, trying to shame others
The Left have a become a snivelling self-righteous mob, busy bodying around, trying to shame others
BIossomtoes · 10/05/2026 10:03

Andthatmyfriendisthat · 10/05/2026 09:37

Reform and Restore voters are in the majority. Screaming abuse at them, bullying them, attempting to terrorise them into submission won't work this time.

You will find yourself becoming a laughing stock and pariah if you try.

Edited

They’re not in the majority. 70% of the votes cast on Thursday were for parties other than Reform and only a third of the English electorate was able to vote at all. I’m quite happy to watch them wend their merry way and reap what they’ve sown.

Incidentally, the screaming abuse and bullying on this thread are all in one direction. Why can’t you just be happy you got what you wanted on this occasion? I was celebrating in 2024, not haranguing people who didn’t vote the way I did.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 10:03

EsmeSusanOgg · 10/05/2026 10:02

I do not think so. I think people absolutely need to look at why people are voting Reform. And perhaps instead of pandering to right wing narratives do something about the issues impacting many people. Incidentally very little to do with immigration.

Absolutely. But I do think they need to look at immigration too.

EsmeSusanOgg · 10/05/2026 10:04

38thparallel · 10/05/2026 09:54

'The left' as you put it, haven't been shaming people enough. If you know anybody who voted Reform or intends to vote Reform in the future you need to call them out in public, make them explain themselves to society/their friends/colleagues etc. Make them a pariah in society. They'll get the message soon enough.

@InstantlyBella The former East Germany did this. The Stasi forced large numbers of citizens to inform on their friends and neighbours, using various means such as threatening to take away a son or daughter’s place at medical school etc. Anyone critical of the government was cancelled.
Do you really want society run like this?
in UK at the moment there is still the secret ballot. Do you think how people vote should be made public?

... I hasten to add the people most likely to push an authoritarian approach ARE Reform. Lots of talk about free speech, but only where it allows them to say whatever they like. They actively attempt to restrict media access/ censor media (banning journalists in Nottinghamshire from attending open council meetings for example).

InstantlyBella · 10/05/2026 10:05

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 10:03

Absolutely. But I do think they need to look at immigration too.

If it was up to me, I would open the borders for the next few years leading up to the next national election and give citizenship to every single person who comes here. Make sure they drown out Reform's votership completely.

Then the right will never get anywhere in UK politics ever again.

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 10/05/2026 10:06

Givemeachaitealatte · 10/05/2026 09:21

But they haven't explicitly said they'd protect abortion rights, they do want to repeal protections for women and girls in the equality act. They have consistently voted against legislation that would prevent sexual harm and violence against women and girls. Most of labour isn't radical left anymore, it's centrist slightly left.

I would say the Labour government are Centrist as are many of their MP's but there are a large vocal backbench element who are hard left (plus the Unions). Labour were elected on a centre Left platform of growth, helping working people and business. Starmer is too weak to stand up to the Hard Left element of his party, he hasn't got the charisma to charm them into looking at the bigger picture, and has caved in to them so many times they think they can just ignore what he says and act as the official opposition if they don't like what he says. How can you get anywhere when you suspend MP's for voting against your own budget, then say 'Oh yeah OK lets do what you wanted anyway' and pretending its because suddenly the economy is strong enough to deal with it when anyone with eyes can see its not? Putting stupid and ill thought out policies through that would have been fine if they had thought about it for 5 seconds, and many people would agree with, like capping the Winter fuel payment, but not making it so that pensioners who haven't worked a day in their lives get the same pension as those who have paid 25 years of NI. Stupid unforced error after stupid unforced errors. Good ideas made bad over and over again. Those same Leftist MP's not a peep out of them when it comes to funding cuts in education, or to scrutinise how actually inheritance tax for farmers could be made fairer for family farms, etc etc.

Whatafustercluck · 10/05/2026 10:08

Andthatmyfriendisthat · 10/05/2026 09:44

Just keep swallowing the copium. I am embarrassed for you, and I pity you. The future is centrist, the left are done for now, and you will spend the next few years screaming and weeping.

I won't check back, radicalised far leftists having tantrums is amusing, but you are incapable of learning or responding rationally, which does become boring very quickly.

Goodbye. Good luck. You are going to need it.

I have stated a fact. You have responded emotionally to a fact. So who is irrational do you think?

EsmeSusanOgg · 10/05/2026 10:09

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 10:03

Absolutely. But I do think they need to look at immigration too.

But it is not the priority the media have made it. Quite frankly.

It is just that is is easy to see (note the race aspects).

What they should be doing is looking at how to 1) raise tax revenue to pay for improved services and 2) support the economy to recover from a pretty terrible 10 years (Covid, Brexit, wars etc.).

Actually make changes that support people. And be honest that recovery will cost money and take time.

They also need to tackle things like foreign interference in UK politics by actually banning foreign donations to political parties. By having proper meaty fine for social media companies that continually allow fake news through lack of moderation (incidentally what the social media companies have asked governments to do as they cannot justify the cost of proper moderation without having a hefty negative financial consequence if they do not. Shareholders rules).

Also talk to people. Find out what the real concerns are that are being blamed on immigration, vaccines, women not being submissive to mental etc. most of that comes down to people not being able to afford a basic pleasant life.

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 10/05/2026 10:10

RampantIvy · 10/05/2026 09:35

And sanctimonious clueless far left Mumsnetters are still calling people names and sticking their fingers in their ears shouting wah wah wah.

And Reform voters who confuse local elections with a general election are better?

The hard Left and the Hard Right are two cheeks of the same arse. Polanski and Farage are both charlatans. The centre ground Libertarian Left/Right has always been where most progress has been made. That has been left abandoned and wide open. Even by the so called Lib Dems, who are actually called Liberal Democrats!

EasternStandard · 10/05/2026 10:16

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 10:00

Oh I see we’re in the “Reform surges don’t matter bla bla only this percentage of the electorate voted” stage of denial here. Who is going to save the day? Labour? The Greens?

It takes 30% plus to get in power. Not many can get close. Agree quibbling over the term majority is pointless, of course that 30% ish can give a parliamentary majority.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 10:18

InstantlyBella · 10/05/2026 10:05

If it was up to me, I would open the borders for the next few years leading up to the next national election and give citizenship to every single person who comes here. Make sure they drown out Reform's votership completely.

Then the right will never get anywhere in UK politics ever again.

Sure.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 10:20

So the solution is apparently “give full citizenship to anyone without limits so they vote for parties I approve of”. Righto.

Yuasa · 10/05/2026 10:23

Andthatmyfriendisthat · 10/05/2026 09:37

Reform and Restore voters are in the majority. Screaming abuse at them, bullying them, attempting to terrorise them into submission won't work this time.

You will find yourself becoming a laughing stock and pariah if you try.

Edited

Hyperbole is always a go-to for those without an argument, isn't it? (Along with condescension and changing the goalposts mid-discussion.) Examples of being 'screamed at' or 'bullied' by someone on the left, please.

Meanwhile, you end your post with a neat little threat.

Givemeachaitealatte · 10/05/2026 10:26

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 10/05/2026 10:06

I would say the Labour government are Centrist as are many of their MP's but there are a large vocal backbench element who are hard left (plus the Unions). Labour were elected on a centre Left platform of growth, helping working people and business. Starmer is too weak to stand up to the Hard Left element of his party, he hasn't got the charisma to charm them into looking at the bigger picture, and has caved in to them so many times they think they can just ignore what he says and act as the official opposition if they don't like what he says. How can you get anywhere when you suspend MP's for voting against your own budget, then say 'Oh yeah OK lets do what you wanted anyway' and pretending its because suddenly the economy is strong enough to deal with it when anyone with eyes can see its not? Putting stupid and ill thought out policies through that would have been fine if they had thought about it for 5 seconds, and many people would agree with, like capping the Winter fuel payment, but not making it so that pensioners who haven't worked a day in their lives get the same pension as those who have paid 25 years of NI. Stupid unforced error after stupid unforced errors. Good ideas made bad over and over again. Those same Leftist MP's not a peep out of them when it comes to funding cuts in education, or to scrutinise how actually inheritance tax for farmers could be made fairer for family farms, etc etc.

How about look what they have done though. They got the workers right bill through parliament to strengthen workers rights, helped reduce child poverty, strengthened animal welfare and actually shown great diplomacy in a very volatile world. While I don't disagree that labour and Starmer have made mistakes, I'm unsure of why he is such a pariah in the media?

MasterBeth · 10/05/2026 10:27

ProudAmberTurtle · 09/05/2026 18:24

I don't like Nigel Farage but the establishment is the BBC, the government, the pro diversity obsession of all the institutions that run the country and so on.

Farage is obviously not part of that.

I'm not convinced he's particularly anti establishment but the very fact that he calls out immigration shows he's not part of the establishment - which is presumably why he's got significant support

And there was me thinking the establishment was the banks, the City the billionaires, the Times and the Telegraph and the elite public schools i.e all of the institutions that have shaped and paid Farage...

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 10:29

Yuasa · 10/05/2026 10:23

Hyperbole is always a go-to for those without an argument, isn't it? (Along with condescension and changing the goalposts mid-discussion.) Examples of being 'screamed at' or 'bullied' by someone on the left, please.

Meanwhile, you end your post with a neat little threat.

Oh come on you are at least equally likely to be abused by left leaning posters on social media as right leaning ones. Tribalism is the problem here, don’t add to it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 10:29

MasterBeth · 10/05/2026 10:27

And there was me thinking the establishment was the banks, the City the billionaires, the Times and the Telegraph and the elite public schools i.e all of the institutions that have shaped and paid Farage...

It’s both, isn’t it?

5MinuteArgument · 10/05/2026 10:31

Yes, I believe the far left have become bullying and nasty and there's a level of hysteria. The tik tok video of a leftist attacking an effigy if Farage was an example of this.

There are also bad attitudes on the far right.

Yuasa · 10/05/2026 10:36

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 10:29

Oh come on you are at least equally likely to be abused by left leaning posters on social media as right leaning ones. Tribalism is the problem here, don’t add to it.

Ok, I thought that might be what was meant by this - online forums, cancel culture, etc. Not what has been going on in the recent electoral campaigning.

As you know, cancel culture and purity spirals have been strongly challenged by those on the left and centre. I abhor them and most people I speak to do. As for debating online, apart from threads like this (where I don't think anything I've ever posted could be accused of bullying or screaming) I don't get involved at all and I don't think the majority of people do. It's a cesspit and not reflective of what the electorate think. It really isn't fair to ascribe to the 'Left' the views of SM obsessives.

MaturingCheeseball · 10/05/2026 10:36

InstantlyBella · 10/05/2026 10:05

If it was up to me, I would open the borders for the next few years leading up to the next national election and give citizenship to every single person who comes here. Make sure they drown out Reform's votership completely.

Then the right will never get anywhere in UK politics ever again.

And how do you think that would pan out?

Come on, I’d like a reply. So “open borders” - how many would come? Millions, many millions. How would the country pay benefits? House people? Provide healthcare? We’d have vast camps of new arrivals - all in order for you to give them a vote….

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 10:42

Yuasa · 10/05/2026 10:36

Ok, I thought that might be what was meant by this - online forums, cancel culture, etc. Not what has been going on in the recent electoral campaigning.

As you know, cancel culture and purity spirals have been strongly challenged by those on the left and centre. I abhor them and most people I speak to do. As for debating online, apart from threads like this (where I don't think anything I've ever posted could be accused of bullying or screaming) I don't get involved at all and I don't think the majority of people do. It's a cesspit and not reflective of what the electorate think. It really isn't fair to ascribe to the 'Left' the views of SM obsessives.

The same, women on FWR report being insulted on their own doorsteps for asking about women’s sex based rights.

ByKindNavySwan · 10/05/2026 10:42

Desperatelyseekinglazysusan · 10/05/2026 09:19

How many are working full time and how many are choosing to work part time and receive UC top ups? If they were on a full time minimum wage they would not be eligible for UC.

It's possible to work full time on more than minimum wage and still get Universal credit if you're single with young children.

Whatafustercluck · 10/05/2026 10:43

EsmeSusanOgg · 10/05/2026 10:04

... I hasten to add the people most likely to push an authoritarian approach ARE Reform. Lots of talk about free speech, but only where it allows them to say whatever they like. They actively attempt to restrict media access/ censor media (banning journalists in Nottinghamshire from attending open council meetings for example).

Indeed, and here's a selection of local comments in response to an online article about the elections, accompanied by a photo of brown skinned people (councillors). This is what people deem to be acceptable 'free speech' these days:

"Taxi drivers awards ceremony?" (139 likes)

"Is this England?" (89 likes)

"We’re all talking in a ‘hush’ way. Now here the real reason here, there are many more muslims in this photo. In my opinion, it does not matter what colour your skin is. As a Christian country, it’s reasonable to expect the people that govern this country should be Christian.
I will leave it here."

"Does this mean taxi fares will be cheaper looks like local taxi firm's Xmas party".

"Looks more like Bangladesh to me".

"Was this an English election, in England?"

"Spot the white face".

"The corruption in that photo is rife".

"That picture speaks a thousand words".

"This is [local city] in England yes?"

"OMG. I wonder if i could stand for parliament in Pakistan".

"Looks like a grooming gang".

"Oh my word. That's all I'm saying. Explanation not required."

"Spot the non Asian".

"Didn't know [local city] was in Pakistan. Countries [sic] done".

"2026 best food delivery man".

"Was the picture taken in Islamabad?"

"The absolute state of that photo".

"Any English left it [local city]?"

"Well done to Pakistan".

"[Local city]? I think you used the wrong photo by accident because this photo looks like it's from Bangladesh".

"Didn't have any white ones?"

"All British patriots".

"Spot the real English white man".

"Where in Pakistan was this photo taken?"

"You would not believe this is England".

"Home grown British politicians in charge".

"Proof that the climate is getting warmer".

"Spot the white man".

"Spot the white man".

"Look at this picture, it literally screams we need restore, the only party that will end this nightmare of what you see here".

"And how many anglo saxon white faces do you see there?"

"Barely an englishman amongst them, I wonder if I went to Pakistan and started a political party if I’d be accepted…… and people say the uk is racist haha".

"Where in the middle east is this?"

"Don't see British people".

Comment after comment like this, because 'free speech innit'. For context, if it matters, the majority of those in the photo were born here. The only comment that got moderated out was one directly referencing 'Pakis'.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 10:46

Whatafustercluck · 10/05/2026 10:43

Indeed, and here's a selection of local comments in response to an online article about the elections, accompanied by a photo of brown skinned people (councillors). This is what people deem to be acceptable 'free speech' these days:

"Taxi drivers awards ceremony?" (139 likes)

"Is this England?" (89 likes)

"We’re all talking in a ‘hush’ way. Now here the real reason here, there are many more muslims in this photo. In my opinion, it does not matter what colour your skin is. As a Christian country, it’s reasonable to expect the people that govern this country should be Christian.
I will leave it here."

"Does this mean taxi fares will be cheaper looks like local taxi firm's Xmas party".

"Looks more like Bangladesh to me".

"Was this an English election, in England?"

"Spot the white face".

"The corruption in that photo is rife".

"That picture speaks a thousand words".

"This is [local city] in England yes?"

"OMG. I wonder if i could stand for parliament in Pakistan".

"Looks like a grooming gang".

"Oh my word. That's all I'm saying. Explanation not required."

"Spot the non Asian".

"Didn't know [local city] was in Pakistan. Countries [sic] done".

"2026 best food delivery man".

"Was the picture taken in Islamabad?"

"The absolute state of that photo".

"Any English left it [local city]?"

"Well done to Pakistan".

"[Local city]? I think you used the wrong photo by accident because this photo looks like it's from Bangladesh".

"Didn't have any white ones?"

"All British patriots".

"Spot the real English white man".

"Where in Pakistan was this photo taken?"

"You would not believe this is England".

"Home grown British politicians in charge".

"Proof that the climate is getting warmer".

"Spot the white man".

"Spot the white man".

"Look at this picture, it literally screams we need restore, the only party that will end this nightmare of what you see here".

"And how many anglo saxon white faces do you see there?"

"Barely an englishman amongst them, I wonder if I went to Pakistan and started a political party if I’d be accepted…… and people say the uk is racist haha".

"Where in the middle east is this?"

"Don't see British people".

Comment after comment like this, because 'free speech innit'. For context, if it matters, the majority of those in the photo were born here. The only comment that got moderated out was one directly referencing 'Pakis'.

Im guessing that’s Facebook? Facebook comments are a cesspool.

Whatafustercluck · 10/05/2026 10:48

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 10:46

Im guessing that’s Facebook? Facebook comments are a cesspool.

It was - the local newspaper's Facebook page (apparently moderated...) But generally reflects what I've seen across all social media platforms.

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