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To think the main Mumsnet demographic are out of touch politically

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Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

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Leavelingeringbreath · 08/05/2026 07:11

LoudTealHare · 08/05/2026 06:15

I live in a Reform controlled council and they are truly out of their depth! The got voted in on the lie that the council could stop the boats which they can’t, that’s down to national policy! Unfortunately Reform supporters are a bunch of bigots who seem to lack the capacity to research the truth for themselves. The best example is Farage referent asylum seekers as illegal migrants, they’re not illegal until their claim for asylum is refused! Remember Reform is lead by a bunch of multi millionaire ex Tories who have absolutely no interest in the average person! I worry for the younger generation who are going suffer due to the elderly racists voting them in!

I hate reform, but I have to say they are correct that those crossing the channel in small boats are not asylum seekers.
One of the principles of asylum is that you claim asylum in the first safe country you arrive at. If you've passed through France, a perfectly safe country, and chosen not to claim asylum there but to continue to attempt to get to Britain you are an economic migrant. Asylum is about safe harbour.

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 07:12

Su1rlie · 08/05/2026 07:08

Oh they will notice , nothing like whining about local gov in Spotted groups. Will be interesting to see the fall out when they see how totally shite Reform are at actually working or doing anything for their electorate- aside from spending £££ on flags.

@Su1rlie The venom is literally dripping off your post. There is just no need for it.

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Su1rlie · 08/05/2026 07:12

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 07:12

@Su1rlie The venom is literally dripping off your post. There is just no need for it.

Oh I think there is.

Cheesipuff · 08/05/2026 07:13

ChaseTheSin · 08/05/2026 07:11

Without resorting to insults I think a lack of understanding about how the political system works is a huge problem - lots of Reform voters have been quoted as saying they’re voting for Reform in local council elections to “fix the NHS”. I don’t think a lot of people understand the different responsibilities of local and national government. 🙁

I also don’t think a lot of less well off voters who vote Reform understand the catastrophic impact on their lives should Reform form the next government - deep welfare cuts and a private health service will affect the poorest and vulnerable far more than they’ll affect me 😢.

All parties need to make welfare payment cuts or we are stuffed and our children and grandchildren are more stuffed

YoulookniceJacky · 08/05/2026 07:14

If this was a general election Labour would be shitting themselves 😂
It’s great to see such a big shake up when it’s been labour or conservative for so long!
These two parties have been way too dismissive of the others but it’s cost them dearly. I also think a lot more people vote reform than people believe. Go into any big city centre on a weekend and ask the locals what they think about the men arriving on the boats.

ChaseTheSin · 08/05/2026 07:15

Cheesipuff · 08/05/2026 07:13

All parties need to make welfare payment cuts or we are stuffed and our children and grandchildren are more stuffed

I don’t disagree but there are ways and means - I also think we need a massive shake up of funding for the NHS but again it’s how it’s done.

Savvysix1984 · 08/05/2026 07:16

I don’t think a vote for Reform is necessarily a protest vote, otherwise the conservatives would’ve been up in numbers as the next realistic governing party.
I don’t agree with Reform values but I can understand why people might vote for them.

LlynTegid · 08/05/2026 07:17

You can get and understand why some people have voted Reform and criticise their choice as well.

For most people politics is something they don't engage with much, and given the great reduction in tv watching generally, probably less than even five years ago.

lljkk · 08/05/2026 07:17

There are & long have been loud supporters of UKIP/Reform on here.

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 08/05/2026 07:18

I am a Tory voter, and at one point I wouldn’t have said that on here as I might as well have posted that my hobby was kicking puppies.

I am concerned about a Reform government though. Even more so that they’re seeming landsliding a local election with almost no local policies other than blackmail. Which makes me hugely concerned for the intelligence of the general population and the direction of the country.

Dinggirl · 08/05/2026 07:19

hattie43 · 08/05/2026 05:30

MN has a hard core group of left wing voters who think the louder they shout and the more they insult they will persuade people they are wrong . Well no-one except the well heeled of Islington wants their nonsense . Reform are doing well and all the left have done is turn their support underground because people can’t be bothered to debate left wing zealots .

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Left wing zealots have no debate...they can never give a good reason for their arguments. They just insult everyone who disagrees with them! They are well-meaning but incredibly naive, I think. A few years ago on Mumsnet, it was impossible to say anything that didn't fit in with the leftie narrative. I'm glad it's got more moderate since. And I'm not even a Reform voter! 😄

CurlewKate · 08/05/2026 07:20

I do think it’s out of touch to vote for a Reform council because it suggests you haven’t had a look at how the current ones are doing…..

boobot1 · 08/05/2026 07:20

Purplewarrior · 08/05/2026 05:52

I don’t know anyone irl who would admit to voting Reform. I can’t imagine any of my friends would, and certainly nobody I work with.

I am from a very ordinary council flat background. I do not earn a six figure salary or have a partner who does.

This is interesting. I live in a wealthy area. Lots of people are very vocal about voting reform. Interestingly my parents live on a council estate and the residents are also vocally reform. This is why when people said they knew no one voting reform, I was surprised. A large percentage of people Ive spoken to from all sorts of backgrounds are voting reform. People are rightfully angry. I dont like ANY of the options.

ThatCyanCat · 08/05/2026 07:21

It's got its demographic. It's not a cross section of all society - it's mostly women, for a start - and it was never intended to be. It's its own community who like this as a lifestyle and parenting discussion site. You might as well complain that the local yoga class or book group is out of touch politically because it doesn't reflect the country at large.

Obviously, Reform is a fucking disaster and soon there's going to be a lot of finding out. But I don't think that's MN's fault.

Boomer55 · 08/05/2026 07:21

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

I think Reform are like the Tories/Thatcher were in the 80's. No one admitted to voting for them openly, but plenty did.

DinosaurBlue · 08/05/2026 07:21

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 06:33

@Pretfeen It was actually a deliberate spelling mistake and you have proved my point wonderfully!

Ha it really wasn’t. 😂

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 08/05/2026 07:22

pavillion1 · 08/05/2026 07:02

Yeah because that worked out great the last time 😳

I like Kemi Badenoch. She is nothing like Boris Johnson.

Kpo58 · 08/05/2026 07:22

Leavelingeringbreath · 08/05/2026 07:11

I hate reform, but I have to say they are correct that those crossing the channel in small boats are not asylum seekers.
One of the principles of asylum is that you claim asylum in the first safe country you arrive at. If you've passed through France, a perfectly safe country, and chosen not to claim asylum there but to continue to attempt to get to Britain you are an economic migrant. Asylum is about safe harbour.

Doing asylum that way isn't fair either otherwise places like Italy would have to take almost most of the asylum seekers who travel to Europe. It would help if we actually allowed people to claim Asylum before getting or allowed them safe passage to do so in a legal manner.

Lou7171 · 08/05/2026 07:22

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 07:12

@Su1rlie The venom is literally dripping off your post. There is just no need for it.

It's not literally dripping off..

And they're 100% correct.

napody · 08/05/2026 07:23

Purplewarrior · 08/05/2026 05:52

I don’t know anyone irl who would admit to voting Reform. I can’t imagine any of my friends would, and certainly nobody I work with.

I am from a very ordinary council flat background. I do not earn a six figure salary or have a partner who does.

Yep. If you're 'driven underground' I think its because deep down you know, however much you want to protest the decades long shitshow we've had, that reform are not decent people.

godmum56 · 08/05/2026 07:24

Sartre · 08/05/2026 05:30

I think you can recognise why they’re doing so well without agreeing with their policies and that doesn’t make a person out of touch.

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Beeloux · 08/05/2026 07:24

There seems to be a belief that mostly only old people vote Reform.

Not around here. I’m in my twenties and voted for them, along with most of the people I know my age.

Left wingers seem to love to argue their case and brand anyone with a different opinion to them as a fascist. Right wingers tend to stay quiet and vote.

Hjsjshsn · 08/05/2026 07:25

Boat crossings are down compared to last year. It’s not immigration that is screwing this country. Home office publishes weekly figures on boat crossings. If people checked the stats they would see a very different picture to what media portrays. Apart from shouting about immigration what else do reform stand for?

Leavelingeringbreath · 08/05/2026 07:26

Kpo58 · 08/05/2026 07:22

Doing asylum that way isn't fair either otherwise places like Italy would have to take almost most of the asylum seekers who travel to Europe. It would help if we actually allowed people to claim Asylum before getting or allowed them safe passage to do so in a legal manner.

It doesn't change the fact that it's true though, they have chosen to pass through a safe western country and undertake a ridiculously dangerous journey to get to Britain. They aren't asylum seekers.

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 07:26

It's obvious the sneering bullies have just woken up. The last page of posts have become more and more unpleasant. Just insult after insult. It's embarrasing.

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