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To think the main Mumsnet demographic are out of touch politically

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Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

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Araminta1003 · 08/05/2026 13:08

Have Reform actually managed to take a large naice middle class area yet? Thought not?…

If MN is privileged, it follows you aren’t going to find many pro Reform here. Looking at Richmond (the most sought after area in the UK), the Lib Dem’s have a full landslide (all 54 seats).

House prices in Reform areas will go down further, judging by MN. Like I said before, one could judge by the amount of flags both where they were going to win and generally how poor an area is.

On the upside, the Lib Dem’s are not doing too badly.

Essex is interesting but not really a surprise. Saw similar in Kent. They have always been the paupers In the SE, relatively speaking.

Mangelwurzelfortea · 08/05/2026 13:09

AliceandOscar · 08/05/2026 13:06

Reform is like Trump, they give easy answers to complex questions, which makes them popular as people want to believe that the U.K. problems can be resolved with just a bit of ‘stopping people not like us from coming over here/having benefits’
The problem is that as the major parties recognise from years of experience that these problems are not easily solved without pain somewhere along the line and who wants to vote for pain.
Hopefully as people are seeing Trump’s promises are the lies they were, they will start asking just how Reform will create this amazing new world.

Exactly - well put.

Allisnotlost1 · 08/05/2026 13:09

rememberingthem · 08/05/2026 12:43

All deliveries were done early in the morning and the workers parked in the carpark! Unlike the literal hundreds that turn up at prayer times ( remember its not a mosque!!) and park all over the place causing havoc!

So there’s insufficient parking for the current use. That’s annoying if it’s a route you need to travel through or you need to park nearby, and it could be dangerous. But it’s a council issue, not an Islam issue. If the building were being used as a nursery or for kids activities there’d be a lot of (bad) parking at specific times.

chickenss · 08/05/2026 13:12

GodDamnitDonut · 08/05/2026 12:48

It’s not really a safe thing to say in this country is it?

My family live in Poland and some of them are openly racist, they can talk about it though as their views are socially accepted there. The country is proud of it’s stance on border control and immigration.

that’s not the case in the UK , therefore people are pushed underground or resort to voting for parties that appear to be the closest to their views (without sharing those views openly).

the debate here is very aggressive

You want to be openly racist, to discriminate people based on their ethnicity/ race, to oppose equality for everybody, to speak and encourage hatred for the other openly?

Mangelwurzelfortea · 08/05/2026 13:13

Allisnotlost1 · 08/05/2026 13:09

So there’s insufficient parking for the current use. That’s annoying if it’s a route you need to travel through or you need to park nearby, and it could be dangerous. But it’s a council issue, not an Islam issue. If the building were being used as a nursery or for kids activities there’d be a lot of (bad) parking at specific times.

It's a problem in every town (probably most of them now) where the population has grown but the infrastructure hasn't. Most schools were built for a world where all the kids lived locally and walked to the school and that's not the case in most towns or cities now.

Allisnotlost1 · 08/05/2026 13:14

Octavia64 · 08/05/2026 12:37

There is a perception in some areas and with some people that multicultural means not a level playing field.

for example in my mums town a new big mosque has been built. The parking is a bloody nightmare. It basically doesn’t have any and the surrounding streets get full up.

this pisses residents off.

so far so normal. Parking is something of a hot button topic - see all the threads here about school parking and so on.

but the white working class people who live in this town (which is about half Pakistani heritage Muslim) believe very strongly that “you are not allowed to complain about Muslims” and there is a sense in which they are right as any verbal whinging about the parking at the mosque is shut down a lot harder than whinging about parking anywhere else.

the reform candidates for the council made quite a big thing over it - we’re not allowed to complain on social media about the parking at the mosque because the lefty libs will come along and tell us off and the lefty libs promptly did come along and tell them off.

british people want to moan. They particularly like to moan about parking and they are also very alert to suggestions of unfairness. If any moaning about anyone Muslim gets shut down while moaning about non Muslims is ok then that’s clearly unfair.

reform took Lancashire council in 2025 largely off the back of issues like this.

I expect them to be shit at running it. So do quite a lot of the people in my mums town. But reform really do speak to a lot of people on this sort of thing.

a lot of the left these days has gone down the “there are people you are not allowed to complain about and words you cannot say” and honestly if you don’t understand why this is it just comes across as controlling and childish.

It’s weird that all the residents of the streets surrounding the mosque are not Muslim isn’t it? They all complain about people driving to the mosque and parking in their streets.

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 13:31

TheGreatDownandOut · 08/05/2026 12:38

This! Criticise Reform all you like but stop calling the voters thick

Some people can't help themselves (projecting their own insecurities I expect). It tells us why Labour are where they are.

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 13:34

Expect more and more mosques to be built
'Whoever builds a mosque in which the Name of Allah is mentioned, Allah will build a house for him in Paradise'

Slightyamusedandsilly · 08/05/2026 13:35

AliceandOscar · 08/05/2026 13:06

Reform is like Trump, they give easy answers to complex questions, which makes them popular as people want to believe that the U.K. problems can be resolved with just a bit of ‘stopping people not like us from coming over here/having benefits’
The problem is that as the major parties recognise from years of experience that these problems are not easily solved without pain somewhere along the line and who wants to vote for pain.
Hopefully as people are seeing Trump’s promises are the lies they were, they will start asking just how Reform will create this amazing new world.

Exactly. Which is exactly what Hitler did. Demonise a group. Promise to get rid of that group and BOOM! your problem is gone.

Except it won't be.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 08/05/2026 13:36

chickenss · 08/05/2026 13:12

You want to be openly racist, to discriminate people based on their ethnicity/ race, to oppose equality for everybody, to speak and encourage hatred for the other openly?

No, of course not. But the 'I'm not racist but...' brigade really wind me up.

They know they hate (insert minority group). We know they're racist. The pretence is just pathetic.

CissyHoustonJustDontKnowWhattodoWithMyselfNSOUL · 08/05/2026 13:38

rememberingthem · 08/05/2026 11:55

You do realise that automatically labelling people you disagree with as a racist no longer has the desired effect? It doesn’t shut us up because its nothing to do with race and everything to do with incompatibility and the pace of the changes being to fast!

I'm not labelling anyone I know racist rhetoric when I see it.
I was on the fringes of extreme far right id ology .
I've committed racial hate crimes in the 90s and woke up to the fact it was all a load of bollocks.
I'm not advocating a free for all and sundry to walk into the UK.
It should be a strict procedure processed within 6months in the interest of fairness one appeal and if failed you get pinged out of the UK.
Not appeals lasting years.

Sesma · 08/05/2026 13:38

The left are generally very shouty so probably seems like it

RedTagAlan · 08/05/2026 13:42

Slightyamusedandsilly · 08/05/2026 13:36

No, of course not. But the 'I'm not racist but...' brigade really wind me up.

They know they hate (insert minority group). We know they're racist. The pretence is just pathetic.

There was a Florida councilman who summed it up well re Trump, and I paraphrase:

" Not all the people who vote for Trump are racists. But all the racists do vote for Trump".

Applies well to Reform I think.

Clavinova · 08/05/2026 13:53

Allisnotlost1 · 08/05/2026 13:14

It’s weird that all the residents of the streets surrounding the mosque are not Muslim isn’t it? They all complain about people driving to the mosque and parking in their streets.

This local MP talking about inconsiderate parking outside two mosques is Sikh;

https://www.birminghammail.co.uk/news/midlands-news/birmingham-neighbourhood-friday-prayers-parking-33794781

Underthinker · 08/05/2026 13:57

RedTagAlan · 08/05/2026 13:42

There was a Florida councilman who summed it up well re Trump, and I paraphrase:

" Not all the people who vote for Trump are racists. But all the racists do vote for Trump".

Applies well to Reform I think.

Many racists vote green now. But I don't go around calling people antisemitic for voting Green.

TreadLight · 08/05/2026 13:59

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 11:23

The Green party, though not my party of choice, isn't far left in any sense.

Having looked at their policies, I’d describe them as populist left. Lots of sound bites and things people want to hear, but no concept of the complexities of reality which means if they get into power, they will either disillusion their voters because they can’t do what they promised, or they will attempt to implement their policies and collapse society in the process. In just the same way way as Reform are the populist right. Two sides of the same coin.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 08/05/2026 14:07

Underthinker · 08/05/2026 13:57

Many racists vote green now. But I don't go around calling people antisemitic for voting Green.

Being pro Palestinian isn't anti Semitic. It's anti Zionism.

Underthinker · 08/05/2026 14:15

Slightyamusedandsilly · 08/05/2026 14:07

Being pro Palestinian isn't anti Semitic. It's anti Zionism.

I didn't say it was.

Bloozie · 08/05/2026 14:18

Hoanna · 08/05/2026 10:50

totally the opposite, but thank you for the effort in retoric.
Any christian, traditional pro-English person on mumsnet is quickly accused of racism and tried to be silenced

@Hoanna - I see that you're defending the right to hold traditional, Christian pro-English views in this country. I hope this means that you're a Christian because I've been wanting to ask a Christian Reform supporter...

Which bit of the Bible are you using to reconcile your faith with the policies and rhetoric of Reform UK? I'm assuming just the Old Testament.

Because it can't be do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Or love thy neighbour as thyself.

It definitely isn't love your enemies.

I can't see it being the parts of the Sermon on the Mount where Jesus warns against judgmental attitudes, false prophets, and hypocritical religious display, and emphasised the need to act on your words.

And it's deffo not the bit where Christ says you should give the shirt off your back to someone less fortunate than you.

Or the bits where he warns that the love of money is the root of all evil.

I can't think of a single reason why a Christian - as in, someone who follows the teachings of Christ - would be attracted to Reform, so I am hoping you can help me.

Kerensa70 · 08/05/2026 14:26

But that sounds a lot like reform 🤣

Kerensa70 · 08/05/2026 14:28

Pretfeen · 08/05/2026 06:09

At least spell electorate properly when you're making the point they're not thick or uneducated if they vote Reform...

In my experience Reform voters always fall into 3 camps:

Uneducated/ ignorant and don't even read Reform's policies properly and realise they're voting against their own interests.

Very rich, so they have a vested interest in voting for a party funded by and looking out for billionaires and millionaires.

Racist, who vote purely based on hate of immigrants and foreigners.

This is so rude, judgemental and ignorant.

Underthinker · 08/05/2026 14:30

Bloozie · 08/05/2026 14:18

@Hoanna - I see that you're defending the right to hold traditional, Christian pro-English views in this country. I hope this means that you're a Christian because I've been wanting to ask a Christian Reform supporter...

Which bit of the Bible are you using to reconcile your faith with the policies and rhetoric of Reform UK? I'm assuming just the Old Testament.

Because it can't be do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Or love thy neighbour as thyself.

It definitely isn't love your enemies.

I can't see it being the parts of the Sermon on the Mount where Jesus warns against judgmental attitudes, false prophets, and hypocritical religious display, and emphasised the need to act on your words.

And it's deffo not the bit where Christ says you should give the shirt off your back to someone less fortunate than you.

Or the bits where he warns that the love of money is the root of all evil.

I can't think of a single reason why a Christian - as in, someone who follows the teachings of Christ - would be attracted to Reform, so I am hoping you can help me.

I'm not Christian, but if you're saying Christianity is incompatible with controls on immigration then no country, and no UK political party is compatible with Christian values, they all impose limits to some degree.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 14:31

TreadLight · 08/05/2026 13:59

Having looked at their policies, I’d describe them as populist left. Lots of sound bites and things people want to hear, but no concept of the complexities of reality which means if they get into power, they will either disillusion their voters because they can’t do what they promised, or they will attempt to implement their policies and collapse society in the process. In just the same way way as Reform are the populist right. Two sides of the same coin.

Why is the Green party populist? What elite has it identified and opposed?

Bloozie · 08/05/2026 14:32

Underthinker · 08/05/2026 14:30

I'm not Christian, but if you're saying Christianity is incompatible with controls on immigration then no country, and no UK political party is compatible with Christian values, they all impose limits to some degree.

No other UK political party is wanging on about being a Christian nation and restoring Christian values though.

Mangelwurzelfortea · 08/05/2026 14:37

Bloozie · 08/05/2026 14:32

No other UK political party is wanging on about being a Christian nation and restoring Christian values though.

Edited

Farage wouldn't know a Christian value if it bit him on the arse.

His version of Christianity is going to church once a year at Christmas (if he can be bothered/is sober enough), accidentally watching some of Songs of Praise if it's on when his wife's sorting out his tea, and knowing half the words to the Lord's Prayer.

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