I live in what has historically been a very rural and fairly poor area, in a small market town.
there’s people who have lived here their whole lives and still have opinions about eg Fred from number 62 based on something he said in 1977. Not joking.
in the last 20 years loads and loads of housing estates have been built and the town has really changed in character. Previous to this it was pretty much 100% white British.
I moved here three years ago. There are six Christian churches of various denominations plus the Nigerian Christians rent a room in one of the halls to have their services in. The people here have heard of other religions and I did once see a lady in a headscarf walking down the street but by and large they don’t know any Muslims, Jews, Buddhists, Hindus or any other religion. There’s plenty of people now who are Eastern European or African but they are largely Christian.
the people who live here are aware that if you fly the English flag (and quite a few of them do have flagpoles and fly various flags including Ukraine, football clubs etc) it’s considered not ok. They know that there’s been a media furore over flying British/English flags on lampposts. They aren’t quite sure why that is but they are fully aware that (from their perspective) a lot of people hate the English flag and you’ll get a lot of online hate for flying it.
there’s one trans bloke in the town. He was born here and has lived here for sixty years. He’s had mental health problems all his life. He’s in social housing and lives on benefits. He spends most of his time going to the various coffee mornings the various churches run and complaining about how hard it is to find clothes that fit him. He wears an ill-fitting assortment of dresses (usually two or three at once) that he buys from charity shops.
again, the people that live here mostly think he’s mad. But they know (again from their perspective media) that these days if someone who is clearly a man and has been a man all his life wants to say he is a woman you aren’t allowed to argue with him. So everyone pretty much ignores him unless he’s drunk in the high street again and shouting at random passers by.
so what people see is that these days there is stuff you aren’t allowed to do and stuff you aren’t allowed to say and there seems to be no real reason why you aren’t allowed to do it and say it except that it might upset people.
and frankly most of the people in my town think that trans bloke would be better served by some actual MH treatment and stopping drinking rather than not being allowed to say to him that he’s a bloke.