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To think the main Mumsnet demographic are out of touch politically

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Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

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TunnocksOrDeath · 08/05/2026 10:46

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:54

It's totally the opposite in my opinion. And the venomous insults on here, calling the ellectorate at best 'thick, uneducated and stupid' are quite frankly embarrasing.

If you actually check the data, the primary driver of whether someone is likely to vote for Reform is their level of education, and it's an inverse correlation. That is data. Not opinion.
It's not ok to call someone stupid. It is ok to point out that they might be guilty of willful ignorance if they refuse to listen to uncomfortable truths.
If you look at the blatant lies on certain issues told by members of Reform / UKIP to get elected or win support, those lies are/were easily fact-checked from reputable data sources and yet the people who want to believe those lies -because it's easy and doesn't require any extra thinking - swallow them wholesale and vote accordingly.

rememberingthem · 08/05/2026 10:46

hattie43 · 08/05/2026 05:30

MN has a hard core group of left wing voters who think the louder they shout and the more they insult they will persuade people they are wrong . Well no-one except the well heeled of Islington wants their nonsense . Reform are doing well and all the left have done is turn their support underground because people can’t be bothered to debate left wing zealots .

Edited

Spot on!

rememberingthem · 08/05/2026 10:48

AlexaStopAlexaNo · 08/05/2026 06:05

I’m just looking forward to the people in Reform areas getting what they voted for. FAFO 🤭

Edited

And it’s exactly this attitude as to why people vote reform! Superior and smug!

JasmineMac · 08/05/2026 10:49

hattie43 · 08/05/2026 05:30

MN has a hard core group of left wing voters who think the louder they shout and the more they insult they will persuade people they are wrong . Well no-one except the well heeled of Islington wants their nonsense . Reform are doing well and all the left have done is turn their support underground because people can’t be bothered to debate left wing zealots .

Edited

May as well have closed thread on the first reply; nailed it.

Hoanna · 08/05/2026 10:50

CurlewKate · 08/05/2026 05:46

Well, it looks to me as if the Mumsnet demographic is centre right/right/Reform. Which is why any poster left of centre stands out. And is then accused of shouting/bullying/whatever because they don’t agree with the consensus.

totally the opposite, but thank you for the effort in retoric.
Any christian, traditional pro-English person on mumsnet is quickly accused of racism and tried to be silenced

ByKindNavySwan · 08/05/2026 10:51

@BatchCookBabe The same can be said about Reform voters who won't (or can't) articulate why they're voting for Reform. Instead they just call non-Reform voters leftards, snowflakes, Islamists, etc etc.

inkognitha · 08/05/2026 10:52

Lunalara · 08/05/2026 10:33

I used to be right wing and “woke up” when I saw how far right leaders were acting, especially Trump. Even when I was right wing, Farage gave me the ick. He isn’t the right option moving forward. We are heading down a dangerous path if we vote Reform in the GE.

This is not at all what I was talking about.

But thanks for showing that the people posting in support of the Left can't address the arguments put in front of them, and whatabout to blame everyone else.

Cheesipuff · 08/05/2026 10:52

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 10:45

That isn't robust evidence which suggests a case for welfare retrenchment though.

So we just keep piling on the debt for our children and grandchildren to deal with -as long as we get the pensions and benefits we demand that’s ok?

Hoanna · 08/05/2026 10:52

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:54

It's totally the opposite in my opinion. And the venomous insults on here, calling the ellectorate at best 'thick, uneducated and stupid' are quite frankly embarrasing.

It is totally the opposite. And also coming from someone who is all day everyday on mn

Allisnotlost1 · 08/05/2026 10:55

user45789032 · 08/05/2026 10:23

But if you can't learn from the Brexit lies and subsequent debacle, if you can't learn from everything Reform has effed up when they do win a seat, if you can't learn from Farage's open corruption and if you can't learn from what's happening under Trump, what are you other than those things?

If we’re really honest, on educational attainment and other measures - languages spoken, numeracy, civic/political literacy - the UK is behind many OECD countries. It’s not just an affliction of Reform voters and, like any party, people will vote for them for a range of reasons.

Hameth · 08/05/2026 10:55

LikeGolddust · 08/05/2026 10:34

it doesn't explain the population rise at all.

Longer life expectancy helped prop up the small natural-change component of population growth for part of the last 20 years, but it is not a major reason in any way. The overwhelming cause remains high net international migration. Further the longevity effect is now fading as the population ages and births stay low. According to the latest official ONS projections (28 April 2026), deaths are projected to outnumber births in the UK every year from mid-2026 onwards. This is a clear “demographic turning point” - the UK’s existing population is no longer replacing itself through births. All future population growth will come entirely from net international migration.

The UK's population in mid 2005 was around 60.4 million.
https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/populationandmigration/populationestimates/timeseries/ukpop/pop

Mid 2024 the latest ONS estimate was 69.3 million
https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/populationandmigration/populationestimates/bulletins/annualmidyearpopulationestimates/mid2024

An increase of around 8.9 million.

According to the University of Oxford based COMPAS (Google them they are considered highly reputable and independent)

“More than half (65%) of the increase in the UK population between 2004 and 2023 was due to the direct contribution of net migration. […] Natural change […] fell into negative territory in 2023. As a result, net migration has accounted for 98% of population growth since 2020.”

https://migrationobservatory.ox.ac.uk/resources/briefings/the-impact-of-migration-on-uk-population-growth/

So immigration accounts for some 65% of total growth 2004–2020 and an astounding 98% since 2020. (so the longevity affect impacts only the 35% of growth and then 2%)

You can also go straight to the raw ONS data if you want to verify it yourself
Latest UK-wide bulletin: Population estimates for the UK, mid-2024
Downloadable datasets: Search for “components of population change” on the ONS website.

You need to also ratio the the number of young people to old people for a sustainable population rise. The public spending resources allocated to pensioners requires a greater number of working people, qv Japan and its problems. So if expectancy rises and GDP on pension welfare grows from 4 per cent in the past to 5.1% approx now to 7.1% in 2060 you have to plan for a proportionate rise in working age people otherwise we are a zombie economy. Im tapping on a phone so difficult to set out the full complexity but you need to work out what we need to do to plan for those needs, and that's nit excessive growth. Malthus was disproved 😀

Bloozie · 08/05/2026 10:56

user45789032 · 08/05/2026 10:23

But if you can't learn from the Brexit lies and subsequent debacle, if you can't learn from everything Reform has effed up when they do win a seat, if you can't learn from Farage's open corruption and if you can't learn from what's happening under Trump, what are you other than those things?

Exactly this.

NotNigel · 08/05/2026 10:56

Tell us PPs, did you go to vote?

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 08/05/2026 10:58

KaleQueen · 08/05/2026 10:32

People who vote reform are thick as mince or bigots. They also believe pencils are in polling stations so ‘they can rub your votes out’. Just my opinion. Which I’m perfectly entitled to.

That was actually said to me last night by my OH (not a reform voter), so god knows where that’s being said but I assume online.

JasmineMac · 08/05/2026 10:58

TunnocksOrDeath · 08/05/2026 10:46

If you actually check the data, the primary driver of whether someone is likely to vote for Reform is their level of education, and it's an inverse correlation. That is data. Not opinion.
It's not ok to call someone stupid. It is ok to point out that they might be guilty of willful ignorance if they refuse to listen to uncomfortable truths.
If you look at the blatant lies on certain issues told by members of Reform / UKIP to get elected or win support, those lies are/were easily fact-checked from reputable data sources and yet the people who want to believe those lies -because it's easy and doesn't require any extra thinking - swallow them wholesale and vote accordingly.

I think you may be somewhat behind the times on your denomination data.

All of the parties put forth policy pledges that are highly unlikely; to suggest otherwise is 'wilful ignorance'. Swallowing wholesale the pre election policy of any party is folly.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 10:58

Cheesipuff · 08/05/2026 10:52

So we just keep piling on the debt for our children and grandchildren to deal with -as long as we get the pensions and benefits we demand that’s ok?

Well that's one way of looking at it. Another way is examining what percentage of GDP and government spending goes on benefits and pensions and whether that's remained stable over the past couple of decades. Or you could look at the results of austerity and whether cutbacks reduce spending or increase knock-on costs - poverty and deprivation are expensive in more than one way. I dispute that we "demand" pensions and benefits - I think that it's acceptable and appropriate to expect a basic standard of living within a society and in fact we can't afford not to provide that, particularly when people aren't able to work (including retired and disabled people and carers, which are the groups making up the vast majority of benefits claimants).

Allisnotlost1 · 08/05/2026 10:58

orangegato · 08/05/2026 09:28

MN users must live in lovely areas untouched by immigration then. I go to my town and I’m the only English person I see all day.

Must be nice to not know what that feels like!

Obviously don’t out yourself but can you give any idea of where you live? It’s hard to imagine given how ethnic groups are distributed across the country.

KaleQueen · 08/05/2026 11:00

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 08/05/2026 10:58

That was actually said to me last night by my OH (not a reform voter), so god knows where that’s being said but I assume online.

It’s all over my community groups on Facebook and our council even had to put an explanation on their facebook feed to stop the conspiracies getting out of control. People honestly believe pencils are being used for sinister reasons.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 11:00

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 08/05/2026 10:58

That was actually said to me last night by my OH (not a reform voter), so god knows where that’s being said but I assume online.

I've also heard that. It's quite Trumpian!

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 08/05/2026 11:01

rememberingthem · 08/05/2026 10:48

And it’s exactly this attitude as to why people vote reform! Superior and smug!

They are also posting in the comments section of Facebook calling people fascists and telling them to, ‘go educate themselves’. No ability to self reflect and ponder if it was this attitude that might have made people turn against their ideology in the first place 🤦🏼‍♀️

RedTagAlan · 08/05/2026 11:02

Hoanna · 08/05/2026 10:50

totally the opposite, but thank you for the effort in retoric.
Any christian, traditional pro-English person on mumsnet is quickly accused of racism and tried to be silenced

I suppose declaring oneself to be pro English could be seen as problematic in the United Kingdom. Not all UK citizens are English after all.

Just a minor point really.

Mangelwurzelfortea · 08/05/2026 11:02

I always think MN seems far more right than left-wing so can't agree with the OP about that.

Also Reform might be doing well, but that's because they appeal to poorly educated people who can easily be motivated by fear.

Cheesipuff · 08/05/2026 11:03

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 10:58

Well that's one way of looking at it. Another way is examining what percentage of GDP and government spending goes on benefits and pensions and whether that's remained stable over the past couple of decades. Or you could look at the results of austerity and whether cutbacks reduce spending or increase knock-on costs - poverty and deprivation are expensive in more than one way. I dispute that we "demand" pensions and benefits - I think that it's acceptable and appropriate to expect a basic standard of living within a society and in fact we can't afford not to provide that, particularly when people aren't able to work (including retired and disabled people and carers, which are the groups making up the vast majority of benefits claimants).

So we just continue into bankruptcy?

BIossomtoes · 08/05/2026 11:03

Cheesipuff · 08/05/2026 10:42

I must be in some parallel universe -our tax income does not cover our outgoings or interest payments on loans -how don’t you know this look up google

Edited

Do you mean revenue from income tax? Because that’s about a quarter of the Treasury’s revenue.

Raven08 · 08/05/2026 11:04

Its racism, ableism and homophobia that is despised.
Maybe take a look who you are supporting?
I assume all reform voters are independently wealthy and will cope with the destruction of the nhs? That they are not women, or disabled, or a poc, or young, or have send?
I also assume they are aware that reform isnt a political party and is a private company?
Now....where did that £5million go?....

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