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To think the main Mumsnet demographic are out of touch politically

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Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

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EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 10:30

Bloozie · 08/05/2026 10:28

I was talking about the voters. Not the party. People voted for change. Things ARE changing.

But not fast enough.

Because the voters are thick. It isn't anti-democratic to say that. It just means that democracy allows thick people a voice, as it should.

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Same.

BatchCookBabe · 08/05/2026 10:31

hattie43 · 08/05/2026 05:30

MN has a hard core group of left wing voters who think the louder they shout and the more they insult they will persuade people they are wrong . Well no-one except the well heeled of Islington wants their nonsense . Reform are doing well and all the left have done is turn their support underground because people can’t be bothered to debate left wing zealots .

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This in spades. ^ Many people who support Reform don't speak up on here, lest they be accused of being thick, racist, bigoted, homophobic, badly educated, gammon, flag shagger, etc.... The list of the insults and put downs that come from the 'left' is endless..

The left seem incapable of a decent debate, and don't want to listen to the reasons WHY people are voting for REFORM, they're too busy shouting people down and calling them stupid and racist, and laughing at them. 4 or 5 posters usually join in too, and it's uncomortable to witness when a pile on occurs.

If people DO post to explain why they are voting for Reform, or why they think others may be doing so, they still get laughed at and ridiculed, with the 'tell us you're a thick racist without telling us you're a thick racist!' type of comment, and the usual 😂emoji. None of the left ever say 'hmmm, I hear what you're saying poster, but I really wouldn't vote for Reform, and this is why.........'

I have no idea why the left always hurl insults and nasty remarks. It does no good whatsoever, as people know they're not badly educated and racist just because they are voting Reform, (maybe a small minority are but not all.) Hurling insults, laughing at, and ridiculing people who vote for Reform, causes further division, and doesn't stop people voting for them.

Disclaimer I have never voted for Reform, and don't particularly want them in power, but IMO it would be worse if The Greens got in power! 😱

Oh, and to the OP @Veiledveritas YANBU.

p.s. I am not responding to ANYone on 'the left' who addresses my post here - (if anyone does,) as I CBA to get into an argument, as the left are impossible to talk to on here..... I do wonder if they are like this in real life... and talk to people how they talk to some people here in the real world....... (calling people thick, racist, and badly educated if they don't agree with their left-wing politics, and say they may be voting for Reform.........) 🤔

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Midnights68 · 08/05/2026 10:31

Itchthescratch · 08/05/2026 10:13

It's scary how many anti-democracy posts there are on this thread. People have voted as they often do, in their own perceived best interest. You might not be able to get your head around how Reform's policies will deliver better outcomes for them but they are undoubtedly best placed to understand what matters most to them and to assess candidates and manifestos against this.

To call Reform voters stupid, short sighted and blinded by hatred just highlights how little you understand them. There is a huge difference between education and intelligence. It also stands to reason that different levels of education are linked to different socio economic groups who will experience life very differently and naturally have different priorities. This isn't a sign that they are stupid.

Do you think Reform’s policies will deliver better outcomes for their voters?

Verv · 08/05/2026 10:31

Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 09:44

Because the policies they support don’t redistribute wealth, they target aspiration and the delight is in simply seeing money being taken off people who in most cases have worked bloody hard for it.

  1. School fees VAT
  2. Farming IHT

Look at the absolute glee on here that children would be forced to leave their schools, or that an elderly farmer who has got up at the crack of dawn every day of his life to feed the nation low cost produce is going to pay so much IHT that he has no hope of passing on the farm.

But somebody who has sat on their arse claiming they can’t work despite being able bodied and completely mentally astute deserves a ‘pay rise’

It’s all loathsome

Completely agree with this.

moderate · 08/05/2026 10:31

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 10:26

All of it.

I don’t really have the time or inclination to explain obvious things to obtuse people.

KaleQueen · 08/05/2026 10:32

People who vote reform are thick as mince or bigots. They also believe pencils are in polling stations so ‘they can rub your votes out’. Just my opinion. Which I’m perfectly entitled to.

FurierTransform · 08/05/2026 10:33

I mean for sure OP is correct. I'm sure you likely saw the exact same thing in e.g the run up to Brexit, or Jeremy Corbyn. 'The left' are loud in a few specific communities, & I guess this is one.

Lunalara · 08/05/2026 10:33

inkognitha · 08/05/2026 10:27

IMHO, MN has been historically more left-leaning than the rest of the UK due to various socio-economic factors. But this has changed over the last few months, in line with the rest of the country.

But many of these active left-leaning posters cannot comprehend or accept they are losing the moral and political superiority. So, they are going through the 5 stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance.

Denial and anger are in full swing. It is not a good look to win support or elections, but it's the level they're at.

I used to be right wing and “woke up” when I saw how far right leaders were acting, especially Trump. Even when I was right wing, Farage gave me the ick. He isn’t the right option moving forward. We are heading down a dangerous path if we vote Reform in the GE.

LikeGolddust · 08/05/2026 10:34

Hameth · 08/05/2026 09:35

Nope. Its life expectancy. Most NHS resources are for the over 65s. It also explains a lot of population rise.

it doesn't explain the population rise at all.

Longer life expectancy helped prop up the small natural-change component of population growth for part of the last 20 years, but it is not a major reason in any way. The overwhelming cause remains high net international migration. Further the longevity effect is now fading as the population ages and births stay low. According to the latest official ONS projections (28 April 2026), deaths are projected to outnumber births in the UK every year from mid-2026 onwards. This is a clear “demographic turning point” - the UK’s existing population is no longer replacing itself through births. All future population growth will come entirely from net international migration.

The UK's population in mid 2005 was around 60.4 million.
https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/populationandmigration/populationestimates/timeseries/ukpop/pop

Mid 2024 the latest ONS estimate was 69.3 million
https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/populationandmigration/populationestimates/bulletins/annualmidyearpopulationestimates/mid2024

An increase of around 8.9 million.

According to the University of Oxford based COMPAS (Google them they are considered highly reputable and independent)

“More than half (65%) of the increase in the UK population between 2004 and 2023 was due to the direct contribution of net migration. […] Natural change […] fell into negative territory in 2023. As a result, net migration has accounted for 98% of population growth since 2020.”

https://migrationobservatory.ox.ac.uk/resources/briefings/the-impact-of-migration-on-uk-population-growth/

So immigration accounts for some 65% of total growth 2004–2020 and an astounding 98% since 2020. (so the longevity affect impacts only the 35% of growth and then 2%)

You can also go straight to the raw ONS data if you want to verify it yourself
Latest UK-wide bulletin: Population estimates for the UK, mid-2024
Downloadable datasets: Search for “components of population change” on the ONS website.

United Kingdom population mid-year estimate - Office for National Statistics

https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/populationandmigration/populationestimates/timeseries/ukpop/pop

FlyingApple · 08/05/2026 10:34

Campionandforgetmenots · 08/05/2026 09:41

How patronising. You are out of touch and wildly so.

I don't know where they get these embarrassing tropes. The "working class" vote this way, the "middle class" votes this way. Move on 😂

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 10:34

StandingDeskDisco · 08/05/2026 10:29

Because the checks and balances are still trying to catch up with the social media revolution.

I took that to be a comment on how the big tech companies are raking in gazillions in unfair profit, a situation that the poster believes will be rectified when the 'checks and balances' catch up with the internet age (not to mention how these companies operate across national boundaries).

I am not holding my breath on that one.

Oh ok, well I guess in that case the poster is at least trying to engage even if what they say isn't very relevant.

I was wondering more about situations like the CEO of Starbucks who rather neatly is paid 6,666 times the average earnings of an Starbucks employee. Without him, they wouldn't have their job but without them, he wouldn't have his job. So why is the profit shared so unequally?

(I know you're not arguing with me here but I'm not sure the pp will come back to answer so I thought I'd put it out there anyway because it's an interesting question!)

Castellio · 08/05/2026 10:35

DeftGoldHedgehog · 08/05/2026 10:16

IMO Reform voters are turkeys voting for Christmas and out of touch politically, and with any kind of reality of what is going to happen if Reform are elected in their are or as a government. And it is them who will be the worst affected by it. I have much deeper pockets and will be fine, whatever.

It’d the same here in Scotland either people both for SNP. I work for an English finance company. I could choose to hop to England at the drop of a hat and my company would accommodate it. If I wanted to stay they’d be happy to pay me via GBP. It’s the public sector workers and those on benefits that would see their income drastically slashed. And yet they’re more likely to suck up the SNPs nonsense. madness.

Midnights68 · 08/05/2026 10:36

LikeGolddust · 08/05/2026 10:34

it doesn't explain the population rise at all.

Longer life expectancy helped prop up the small natural-change component of population growth for part of the last 20 years, but it is not a major reason in any way. The overwhelming cause remains high net international migration. Further the longevity effect is now fading as the population ages and births stay low. According to the latest official ONS projections (28 April 2026), deaths are projected to outnumber births in the UK every year from mid-2026 onwards. This is a clear “demographic turning point” - the UK’s existing population is no longer replacing itself through births. All future population growth will come entirely from net international migration.

The UK's population in mid 2005 was around 60.4 million.
https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/populationandmigration/populationestimates/timeseries/ukpop/pop

Mid 2024 the latest ONS estimate was 69.3 million
https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/populationandmigration/populationestimates/bulletins/annualmidyearpopulationestimates/mid2024

An increase of around 8.9 million.

According to the University of Oxford based COMPAS (Google them they are considered highly reputable and independent)

“More than half (65%) of the increase in the UK population between 2004 and 2023 was due to the direct contribution of net migration. […] Natural change […] fell into negative territory in 2023. As a result, net migration has accounted for 98% of population growth since 2020.”

https://migrationobservatory.ox.ac.uk/resources/briefings/the-impact-of-migration-on-uk-population-growth/

So immigration accounts for some 65% of total growth 2004–2020 and an astounding 98% since 2020. (so the longevity affect impacts only the 35% of growth and then 2%)

You can also go straight to the raw ONS data if you want to verify it yourself
Latest UK-wide bulletin: Population estimates for the UK, mid-2024
Downloadable datasets: Search for “components of population change” on the ONS website.

But the ageing population puts a very significant strain on the NHS.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 10:39

moderate · 08/05/2026 10:31

I don’t really have the time or inclination to explain obvious things to obtuse people.

Clearly, you are evidently a very busy person.

Castellio · 08/05/2026 10:40

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 10:34

Oh ok, well I guess in that case the poster is at least trying to engage even if what they say isn't very relevant.

I was wondering more about situations like the CEO of Starbucks who rather neatly is paid 6,666 times the average earnings of an Starbucks employee. Without him, they wouldn't have their job but without them, he wouldn't have his job. So why is the profit shared so unequally?

(I know you're not arguing with me here but I'm not sure the pp will come back to answer so I thought I'd put it out there anyway because it's an interesting question!)

One thing a lot of public sector workers fail to understand is the laws of supply and demand in the private sector jobs market. I’m not in a union because if I don’t like my terms and conditions I’ll get a new job thanks. I get paid what my skills are worth. Same at Starbucks. The CEO is paid the value of their skills. The barista too. If the barista left the company could hire another person on the same low wage.

my sibling works for a university and is always whining about not getting a ‘real terms’ pay rise etc, but if you’re a specialist in 14th century poetry then your skills are hardly in demand in another sector so why would a uni - that is haemorrhaging money - pay you more?

maddiemookins16mum · 08/05/2026 10:41

Nobody will admit to voting Reform on MN but I suspect there are loads. Plus, honestly, MN is not a true reflection of real life in many, many ways.

Cheesipuff · 08/05/2026 10:42

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 08:30

Evidence for this?

I must be in some parallel universe -our tax income does not cover our outgoings or interest payments on loans -how don’t you know this look up google

Crocsarentslippers · 08/05/2026 10:42

The problem with Reform voters is that they are voting for such an obviously odious bunch of hypocritical grifters with no clear policies apart from attacking the poor and minorities, that it's difficult to ascertain WHY they are voting in such a way, and they certainly can't explain it without mumbling something about immigration that is such a huge issue NO party can solve it without the cooperation of the EU, which we are no longer part of.

Protest vote doesn't cover it. Just don't vote at all if you can think of doing is voting for such a nasty set of incompetent, self interested characters.

I also don't think it's a minority that are thick and racist, in my experience of listening to them and reading their posts on social media, that is EXACTLY what they are. It's a huge majority.

People can vote as they wish; if they want to be shilled by Farage and Dubai Tice, then they should own it, not bleat about being misunderstood.

As for Mumsnet, I think it's quite RW to be honest; the sneering at lower class public figures, the pearl clutching at having to pay tax like the commoners etc.

It's quite laughable to suggest otherwise.

Nemorth · 08/05/2026 10:43

I’m so disappointed in people choosing Reform but understand that this is their vote and political freedom is important. I can but hope England is using the local elections as a protest vote. I understand that the electorate probably feels misled and disappointed in their current politicians.

I’m Scottish. I hope we have no Reform MSPs but am preparing myself for there to be one or two.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 10:44

Castellio · 08/05/2026 10:40

One thing a lot of public sector workers fail to understand is the laws of supply and demand in the private sector jobs market. I’m not in a union because if I don’t like my terms and conditions I’ll get a new job thanks. I get paid what my skills are worth. Same at Starbucks. The CEO is paid the value of their skills. The barista too. If the barista left the company could hire another person on the same low wage.

my sibling works for a university and is always whining about not getting a ‘real terms’ pay rise etc, but if you’re a specialist in 14th century poetry then your skills are hardly in demand in another sector so why would a uni - that is haemorrhaging money - pay you more?

I'm not sure we understand one another's point here. Are you arguing that being an integral part of a profit making entity holds little intrinsic value? That value isn't normative? That people selling their labour don't deserve to be paid a living wage or one that keeps up with inflation depending on what that labour involves? That public sector workers lack intelligence?

My point, it has to be said, isn't complex. I'm questioning norms and values in advanced capitalist societies. That's all.

moderate · 08/05/2026 10:45

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 10:39

Clearly, you are evidently a very busy person.

I see your reading comprehension matches your political acumen.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 10:45

Cheesipuff · 08/05/2026 10:42

I must be in some parallel universe -our tax income does not cover our outgoings or interest payments on loans -how don’t you know this look up google

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That isn't robust evidence which suggests a case for welfare retrenchment though.

StandingDeskDisco · 08/05/2026 10:45

Castellio · 08/05/2026 10:40

One thing a lot of public sector workers fail to understand is the laws of supply and demand in the private sector jobs market. I’m not in a union because if I don’t like my terms and conditions I’ll get a new job thanks. I get paid what my skills are worth. Same at Starbucks. The CEO is paid the value of their skills. The barista too. If the barista left the company could hire another person on the same low wage.

my sibling works for a university and is always whining about not getting a ‘real terms’ pay rise etc, but if you’re a specialist in 14th century poetry then your skills are hardly in demand in another sector so why would a uni - that is haemorrhaging money - pay you more?

This belief in an absolute law of supply and demand ignores social factors.
Most top jobs are given to "people who look and sound like us".
There is a very good reason that the phrase 'old boys club' exists.

The CEO is not paid the value of their skills. They are paid what a small, elite, self-interested group deem the value of their mutual skills and 'worth' as a social type.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 10:45

moderate · 08/05/2026 10:45

I see your reading comprehension matches your political acumen.

Thank you, that's kind.

Hoanna · 08/05/2026 10:46

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

I have seen comments over the years here of some very very deluded women who claim to be professional women, etc etc

no wonder the cliche you cannot trust what people post on anonymous forums about their real lives is true. But as we say: through their acts you shall know them, usually one's mental content shared in a written passage reveals things also

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