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To think the main Mumsnet demographic are out of touch politically

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Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

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StandingDeskDisco · 08/05/2026 09:44

Campionandforgetmenots · 08/05/2026 09:41

How patronising. You are out of touch and wildly so.

Define 'out of touch'.

I took it to mean being unaware of how the current issues in society affect the poorest, the working class, and the wider population in general.

I can be extremely 'in touch' with the issues and the effects they have on ordinary people, whilst also seeing how under-educated and under-informed people are deceived by Reform

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 09:45

Campionandforgetmenots · 08/05/2026 09:41

How patronising. You are out of touch and wildly so.

Agreed. pp sounds like she's in a Labour (group) think tank

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:45

Hameth · 08/05/2026 09:35

Nope. Its life expectancy. Most NHS resources are for the over 65s. It also explains a lot of population rise.

It's both aging and increased population. The estimate is that 40% of the budget goes on the over 65s. You can't simply dismiss a population increase of over a quarter. Even healthy people take some NHS resources.

Plus increasing weight of the younger population.

glitterpaperchain · 08/05/2026 09:45

RattlingTin · 08/05/2026 09:43

Where do you live? I live in London, which has the highest number of immigrants in the UK (over 40% non uk born). I see/meet English people every day in my borough. Seems unusual that you don’t meet any at all in your town.

Plus you can't tell if someone is English or not just by looking at them...

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:46

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:39

You tell me. It's almost a swear word used by many on the left.

No, I'm asking you. I can't tell you because it's your view and not mine.

moderate · 08/05/2026 09:48

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:36

Why would there be a left wing hatred of profit rather than an opposition to the unequal distribution of that profit?

Because profit, by its very nature, must be unevenly distributed in order to recognise and reward those who create value.

Full redistribution destroys incentives.

Zero redistribution allows capital to accumulate in the hands of the very few.

The optimal balance is a messy one created by checks and balances.

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 09:48

ERthree · 08/05/2026 09:41

Yet, i find Labour voters are the most bigoted.

100% agreed. Misogynistic and bigoted = many (not all) Labour supporters. None so blind as those who will not see (aka the Labour Party)

lonelyplanetmum · 08/05/2026 09:48

Monty36 · 08/05/2026 09:34

Another reason to be wary of Reform is that they will be entirely self serving.

Like their siblings across the Pond their interests will be financial. They really really won’t be bothered about little people. Except to get their votes of course !

But contracts, opportunities, money. Farage is a money man. Tice is a money man.

I am talking only about the top brass in Reform. The lower orders will believe.

Yes but the electorate seem to forget the extreme self serving nature of Reform.. Honestly I do not understand how voters, like Trump voters, have such short term memories.

As a P.S to my earlier post. I don’t think MN users are out of touch and detached from political reality. MN generally know not to disregard warning signs. But the Reform councillors and supporters, need to first research and understand immigration properly (small boats are a tiny percentage of our immigration statistics) and secondly stop ignoring the many red flags surrounding Reform some of which I listed in an earlier post. My 5th Red flag in addition to my earlier ones, is the financial self serving dodgyness of Farage including:

🚩£32,000- spent on one single trip flying to the USA to try and fawn over Trump in July 2024 immediately after being elected as the MP for Clacton. He rushed to the States to see Trump referring to him as his ‘ close personal friend’ who had just been shot at. Except on that visit Trump refused to see him! Trump has refused to see him again recently too.

🚩Just under £500,000 personal support from Arron Banks in return for supporting Brexit including a chauffeur & a Land Rover Discovery (valued at £32,300) plus £20,000 for a driver. Plus the rent and bills for a £4.4 million, three-bedroom Chelsea house and garage, rented for an estimated £13,000 a month via Banks's firm, Rock Services, plus furnishings for the house.

🚩£2 million in EU salaries, allowances and expenses while simultaneously being anti-EU . He lost part of his MEP salary, after an official enquiry discovered funds for parliamentary staffing were entirely misspent.

🚩 £380,000 undeclared payments -recently apologized to Parliament for failing to declare this sum.

🚩£5,000,000 recent personal gift from billionaire Christopher Harborne, apparently triggering his u turn on his decision not to stand as an MP. The Electoral Commission and parliamentary standards authorities are investigating it.

StandingDeskDisco · 08/05/2026 09:48

Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 09:44

Because the policies they support don’t redistribute wealth, they target aspiration and the delight is in simply seeing money being taken off people who in most cases have worked bloody hard for it.

  1. School fees VAT
  2. Farming IHT

Look at the absolute glee on here that children would be forced to leave their schools, or that an elderly farmer who has got up at the crack of dawn every day of his life to feed the nation low cost produce is going to pay so much IHT that he has no hope of passing on the farm.

But somebody who has sat on their arse claiming they can’t work despite being able bodied and completely mentally astute deserves a ‘pay rise’

It’s all loathsome

people who in most cases have worked bloody hard for it.

I haven't seen the statistics, but I would bet good money that the majority those who send their DC to private school have inherited most of their wealth, not worked hard for it.
Likewise, most farms are inherited, not bought with money the farmer has earned themselves.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:49

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 09:43

Ha ha killer point? No. A point of amusement ..yes. Interesting that you project on to me your own way of thinking. Hilarious. Labour fans are so tetchy today.

(not that its any of your business but for tedium's sake, I'm a West Londoner)

That's great, so you'll understand why it's of no interest or significance if a traditionally Tory council goes back to Tory control after a blip. Nothing more to be said really!

bobby81 · 08/05/2026 09:50

Great post from @Foxyloxy89 I totally agree.

ManchesterMonkey · 08/05/2026 09:50

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

Sorry about that. It’s probably something to do with your disgusting racism.

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 09:50

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:49

That's great, so you'll understand why it's of no interest or significance if a traditionally Tory council goes back to Tory control after a blip. Nothing more to be said really!

Labour are losing every which way to other parties.

OnceUponATimed · 08/05/2026 09:51

CoastalCalm · 08/05/2026 08:17

If there was a send them back political party whose only policy was ICE style round up and eviction from the country they’d give Reform a real challenge - that’s the only thing many of their voters care about.

This potentially will be Restore. I am hoping they come along for the general election and split the far right vote.

Bertiebiscuit · 08/05/2026 09:51

ThursdayNext1 · 08/05/2026 06:22

What makes you think it’s mainly elderly people voting for reform? I found out 2 colleagues from work have stood as reform candidates. They are younger than me! (Early 40s)

Typical ageism. Apparently only old people are racists. Really? What about the antisemitism of so many Green Party members, mostly young?

BeanQuisine · 08/05/2026 09:51

Peony1985 · 08/05/2026 06:03

Sure you aren’t confusing this site with NetHuns?
Its definitely more left leaning.

Its usually a few posters defending a right wing Conservative / Brexit/ Reform position whilst the rest of the thread piles on them.

Pretty sure I’ve never seen support of Trump on here so we all agree on him.

But the leader of Reform absolutely adores Trump, and even more disgustingly, he loves the criminal dictator Putin too. So we can take it for granted that Reform voters are more than happy with Trump and Putin as well.

Cherriesandapples1 · 08/05/2026 09:51

CurlewKate · 08/05/2026 07:20

I do think it’s out of touch to vote for a Reform council because it suggests you haven’t had a look at how the current ones are doing…..

Yep Stafford have a reform council and I believe they've had a few resign or get kicked out when their racism came to light. Also stunts where they refused to do anything in council meetings because they are 'checking the councils homework' which they just repeated over and over again. Maybe crack on and actually make some decisions. They promised council tax would go down... It went up. Every reform voter/mp/councillor may not be racist but I think there is a higher percentage in there that would be silly to ignore
They make promises and then eaten they don't deliver say they never made those promises. And as for the man of the people Nigel, I fail to see how he represents the people when he is just as privileged as any of the others that went to private school, rich, with suggestions that would ultimately impact on those who are voting for him negatively. I don't particularly align myself to any political party but I could never bring myself to vote for them

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 09:51

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:49

That's great, so you'll understand why it's of no interest or significance if a traditionally Tory council goes back to Tory control after a blip. Nothing more to be said really!

It's funny - I understand you can't see the funny side. That's ok, you're hurting right now. Buckle up it'll get much worse by Sunday..

moderate · 08/05/2026 09:51

TheHateIsNotGood · 08/05/2026 09:35

I don't see whats wrong with NOC Councils as it seems more democratic to me rather than councils making decisions along political party lines. Due to local government reorganisation there are no elections where I live.

However, I live in a ward with a Reform councillor county councillor who seems to just want to improve things for the local residents and admits it's been a steep learning curve. The main blocker to trying to fix even the smallest thing has been the unelected council officers based 50 miles away in County Hall who have been on the gravy train for years.

I think it's a steep learning curve for any new councillor of any persuasion but the ones aligned to the traditional big 3 are taken under the wing of their more experienced colleagues until they learn the ropes whereas the Reform councillors have no one to teach them how it all works.

Just to note there never has been a bunch of St George flags flying here but you might see the odd Union Jack attached to a permanent flagpole.

However, I live in a ward with a Reform councillor county councillor who seems to just want to improve things for the local residents and admits it's been a steep learning curve. The main blocker to trying to fix even the smallest thing has been the unelected council officers based 50 miles away in County Hall who have been on the gravy train for years.

If this is the case across enough of the country then the “you’re all racists” bloc are about to get a rude awakening from their complacency.

Abandofangelsincivvies · 08/05/2026 09:52

orangegato · 08/05/2026 09:28

MN users must live in lovely areas untouched by immigration then. I go to my town and I’m the only English person I see all day.

Must be nice to not know what that feels like!

MN uses are a diverse group of people who hopefully won’t be swayed by inflammatory propaganda.

Funny that you should support a party run by one of the elites you object to? Nigel Farage lives in a lovely area in a quaint village in outer Bromley, Kent, and has an estimated personal worth of between £3 and £5 million and that’s before you count his outside earnings.

BeanQuisine · 08/05/2026 09:52

AlexaStopAlexaNo · 08/05/2026 06:05

I’m just looking forward to the people in Reform areas getting what they voted for. FAFO 🤭

Edited

Me too. Although I'm British I don't live there any more, so if they want to vote for nasty morons and flush themselves down a fascist toilet, I'm content to sit back and watch.

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 09:53

BeanQuisine · 08/05/2026 09:52

Me too. Although I'm British I don't live there any more, so if they want to vote for nasty morons and flush themselves down a fascist toilet, I'm content to sit back and watch.

You do realise you'll be drinking that in no time..

LondonSymphony · 08/05/2026 09:54

Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 09:44

Because the policies they support don’t redistribute wealth, they target aspiration and the delight is in simply seeing money being taken off people who in most cases have worked bloody hard for it.

  1. School fees VAT
  2. Farming IHT

Look at the absolute glee on here that children would be forced to leave their schools, or that an elderly farmer who has got up at the crack of dawn every day of his life to feed the nation low cost produce is going to pay so much IHT that he has no hope of passing on the farm.

But somebody who has sat on their arse claiming they can’t work despite being able bodied and completely mentally astute deserves a ‘pay rise’

It’s all loathsome

I’m a Labour voter traditionally and agree about school VAT. I saw an interesting stat that the most expensive schools like Eton have been unaffected by it entirely; it’s the smaller schools where aspirational middle class people might tighten their belts to send their kids that are impacted.

Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 09:54

StandingDeskDisco · 08/05/2026 09:48

people who in most cases have worked bloody hard for it.

I haven't seen the statistics, but I would bet good money that the majority those who send their DC to private school have inherited most of their wealth, not worked hard for it.
Likewise, most farms are inherited, not bought with money the farmer has earned themselves.

Your first point is stupid. Most people with primary or even secondary aged kids do not have dead parents. The parents I know all work, that goes for mum and dad.

Secondly fine. Sell the farms. What happens then?

  1. We have to import more food destroying the environment
  2. We lose what little food security we have left
  3. The land is bought by greedy developers and other ‘very wealthy people’ to use for less useful purposes

All worth it though eh, to see those awful wealthy people be stripped of everything they have ?

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:54

Brexit caused the small boats problem. Before Brexit we didn’t have this issue as we could send them back to the first EU country they came
through. And we’re poorer for it.

This is not the full picture.

Yes we lost our right to return to any country we could prove that they had travelled through or already claimed asylum from.

But we also lost our duty to take as many asylum seekers as the EU chose to dole out to us. The city Hungary and Slovakia have been in coding fighting. And with Spain just giving official leave to remain to 500,000 migrants at one fell swoop, who knows how many would be heading our way with an EU luggage tag on their suitcase.

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