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To think the main Mumsnet demographic are out of touch politically

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Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

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Abandofangelsincivvies · 08/05/2026 09:55

Cherriesandapples1 · 08/05/2026 09:51

Yep Stafford have a reform council and I believe they've had a few resign or get kicked out when their racism came to light. Also stunts where they refused to do anything in council meetings because they are 'checking the councils homework' which they just repeated over and over again. Maybe crack on and actually make some decisions. They promised council tax would go down... It went up. Every reform voter/mp/councillor may not be racist but I think there is a higher percentage in there that would be silly to ignore
They make promises and then eaten they don't deliver say they never made those promises. And as for the man of the people Nigel, I fail to see how he represents the people when he is just as privileged as any of the others that went to private school, rich, with suggestions that would ultimately impact on those who are voting for him negatively. I don't particularly align myself to any political party but I could never bring myself to vote for them

Very well said.

Yes, suggest everyone ignores what Reform says and actually look at what their councillors and MPs do once in office. You will soon be persuaded not to waste your vote on them.

ginasevern · 08/05/2026 09:56

I'm a life long Labour voter but I don't live in a leafy suburban middle class area. I live on a large council estate. I don't sneer at Reform voters because I can understand how we arrived at this situation. Just look at the history books. The world is in turmoil and changing faster than it did during the Industrial Revolution. People are insecure and scared. But I would never vote for Reform because they don't represent any of my personal views. I wouldn't vote for the Greens either because, apart from a whole host of other reasons, they are equally populist. And I believe either of them would be a disaster for the country.

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:57

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:54

Brexit caused the small boats problem. Before Brexit we didn’t have this issue as we could send them back to the first EU country they came
through. And we’re poorer for it.

This is not the full picture.

Yes we lost our right to return to any country we could prove that they had travelled through or already claimed asylum from.

But we also lost our duty to take as many asylum seekers as the EU chose to dole out to us. The city Hungary and Slovakia have been in coding fighting. And with Spain just giving official leave to remain to 500,000 migrants at one fell swoop, who knows how many would be heading our way with an EU luggage tag on their suitcase.

Should read "the duty Hungary and Slovakia have been in court fighting".

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:58

moderate · 08/05/2026 09:48

Because profit, by its very nature, must be unevenly distributed in order to recognise and reward those who create value.

Full redistribution destroys incentives.

Zero redistribution allows capital to accumulate in the hands of the very few.

The optimal balance is a messy one created by checks and balances.

Uh huh. Why is the redistribution of profit so wildly unequal and why do those who are vital to the profit making process enjoy so little of it?

Admittedly it's easier to say that the 'left" hates the existence of profit but that entails turning a blind eye to a lot of thought and theory. You could almost say it was a meaningless soundbite.

StandingDeskDisco · 08/05/2026 09:58

Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 09:54

Your first point is stupid. Most people with primary or even secondary aged kids do not have dead parents. The parents I know all work, that goes for mum and dad.

Secondly fine. Sell the farms. What happens then?

  1. We have to import more food destroying the environment
  2. We lose what little food security we have left
  3. The land is bought by greedy developers and other ‘very wealthy people’ to use for less useful purposes

All worth it though eh, to see those awful wealthy people be stripped of everything they have ?

Most people with primary or even secondary aged kids do not have dead parents.

Are you assuming that people only inherit from parents?

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 09:59

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 09:43

If you think I'm wrong and that my point wasn't valid, why not simply take the time to write an intelligent and reasoned post explaining exactly why you perceive my argument to be flawed?

Claiming to be so insulted by something that I didn't even say in order to explain why you're not willing to engage with my perfectly reasonable post simply creates an impression that you don't actually know how to respond.

Or maybe i'm off to bed after a long 12hr night shift, hence my posting time.

I could respond but i'm under no illusion anout how i will be patronised.
My point and the reason i made the post has been completely proven on every single page of this thread.

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Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 09:59

StandingDeskDisco · 08/05/2026 09:58

Most people with primary or even secondary aged kids do not have dead parents.

Are you assuming that people only inherit from parents?

Very few people are going to receive an inheritance from a non parent big enough to put 2 kids through private school. Get real.

HeadofAudiology · 08/05/2026 10:00

LoudTealHare · 08/05/2026 06:15

I live in a Reform controlled council and they are truly out of their depth! The got voted in on the lie that the council could stop the boats which they can’t, that’s down to national policy! Unfortunately Reform supporters are a bunch of bigots who seem to lack the capacity to research the truth for themselves. The best example is Farage referent asylum seekers as illegal migrants, they’re not illegal until their claim for asylum is refused! Remember Reform is lead by a bunch of multi millionaire ex Tories who have absolutely no interest in the average person! I worry for the younger generation who are going suffer due to the elderly racists voting them in!

The got voted in on the lie that the council could stop the boats

Neither councils, nor the devolved parliaments have the power to stop the boats. Only central government has such powers.

Reform has never claimed that councils can stop the boats and if they were to make such a claim, the other parties would be shouting it from the rooftops, which they aren't.

I think you made it up, but please feel free to post a link to Reform lying about this, if you can.

Reform supporters are a bunch of bigots who seem to lack the capacity to research the truth for themselves.

Show proof Reform lied about councils stopping the boats and I might believe it isn't you who lacks capacity to research the truth. As for being a bigot, I will give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you are not, because I have the intellectual capacity not to make sweeping judgements on people I don't know based on their political affiliation.

I worry for the younger generation who are going suffer due to the elderly racists voting them in!

I might have to reconsider what I said above...

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 10:00

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 09:59

Or maybe i'm off to bed after a long 12hr night shift, hence my posting time.

I could respond but i'm under no illusion anout how i will be patronised.
My point and the reason i made the post has been completely proven on every single page of this thread.

Yep it has.

BananagramBadger · 08/05/2026 10:00

I feel like a lot of people who vote Reform would look at the rise of Trump and MAGA as a bad thing for the world/embarrassing thing for Americans, and yet are voting for another populist grifter who doesn’t believe his own words.

The country does need change, but the belief that Nigel is doing this for any reason but personal gain doesn’t logically follow.

CuriousKangaroo · 08/05/2026 10:00

Just because something is popular, it doesn’t mean it’s good. There may be a lot of Reform supporters, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t short sighted, stupid, and blinded by hatred.

ThatCyanCat · 08/05/2026 10:01

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 09:59

Or maybe i'm off to bed after a long 12hr night shift, hence my posting time.

I could respond but i'm under no illusion anout how i will be patronised.
My point and the reason i made the post has been completely proven on every single page of this thread.

What's your point, what's the reason you've made it and how has it been consistently proven?

sally037 · 08/05/2026 10:01

My issue is a problem with the large chunk of the electorate who think Reform will save the day with immigration. Their party is filled with ex-Tories who supported mass immigration and millionaires who want cheap labour to be poured into UK.

It’s bonkers.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 10:02

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 09:59

Or maybe i'm off to bed after a long 12hr night shift, hence my posting time.

I could respond but i'm under no illusion anout how i will be patronised.
My point and the reason i made the post has been completely proven on every single page of this thread.

You could respond, but you're not going to? Well, what a surprise!

LikeGolddust · 08/05/2026 10:02

StandingDeskDisco · 08/05/2026 09:40

MN demographic is not out of touch.
But it does skew towards the educated middle class. We generally post in full sentences here with proper punctuation. 'Text' abbreviations are not often used.

As the under-educated working class is a larger demographic, their vote will have a greater effect. It is they who are voting Reform.

Just because many of us don't vote Reform, it does not mean we are 'out of touch' or don't understand the issues at stake.

How contemptuous you are of your fellow citizens.

moderate · 08/05/2026 10:02

ManchesterMonkey · 08/05/2026 09:50

Sorry about that. It’s probably something to do with your disgusting racism.

How’s that attitude working out for you, in light of today’s results?

Shakeoffyourchains · 08/05/2026 10:02

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:33

I don't understand (a) why you would notice that or (b) why it would upset you.

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Or (c) how @orangegato could possibly know that.

Unless she's claiming to speak directly to every single person she encounters?

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 10:02

ThatCyanCat · 08/05/2026 10:01

What's your point, what's the reason you've made it and how has it been consistently proven?

Her point is in the opening post.

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 10:04

ginasevern · 08/05/2026 09:56

I'm a life long Labour voter but I don't live in a leafy suburban middle class area. I live on a large council estate. I don't sneer at Reform voters because I can understand how we arrived at this situation. Just look at the history books. The world is in turmoil and changing faster than it did during the Industrial Revolution. People are insecure and scared. But I would never vote for Reform because they don't represent any of my personal views. I wouldn't vote for the Greens either because, apart from a whole host of other reasons, they are equally populist. And I believe either of them would be a disaster for the country.

Yes x100 👏

BH90210 · 08/05/2026 10:04

Allisnotlost1 · 08/05/2026 09:20

It’s a bit disingenuous to suggest only Reform voters/supporters are concerned about illegal migration, particularly when Reform really don’t have any workable policy to deal with it and muddle legal and illegal migration. Labour, and the Tories before them, borrowed Reform rhetoric and even policy that was found to be illegal, ineffective or so expensive that it was a sledgehammer to crack a nut.

I didn’t suggest this

moderate · 08/05/2026 10:04

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:58

Uh huh. Why is the redistribution of profit so wildly unequal and why do those who are vital to the profit making process enjoy so little of it?

Admittedly it's easier to say that the 'left" hates the existence of profit but that entails turning a blind eye to a lot of thought and theory. You could almost say it was a meaningless soundbite.

Because the checks and balances are still trying to catch up with the social media revolution. Any other questions?

Bertiebiscuit · 08/05/2026 10:07

10namechangeslater · 08/05/2026 08:22

I personally will never vote reform. They would be an absolute disaster for this country. How any woman could vote for them is beyond me.

I don't know how any woman could vote Green or Labour since neither know what a woman even is,fervently believing that a man has only to pop on a frock and lo, he's a woman, entitled to use women's toilets, changing rooms, women's hospital wards, Refuges, rape crisis centres and women's prisons.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 10:08

LondonSymphony · 08/05/2026 09:54

I’m a Labour voter traditionally and agree about school VAT. I saw an interesting stat that the most expensive schools like Eton have been unaffected by it entirely; it’s the smaller schools where aspirational middle class people might tighten their belts to send their kids that are impacted.

The policy wasn't about spite or teaching someone a lesson so whether it affects high or higher earners more isn't relevant. It was put in place to ensure fairness. People who choose to spend on luxuries normally have to pay VAT on those luxuries so it was an anomaly that it wasn't charged on private education. That's now been rectified.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 10:11

Shakeoffyourchains · 08/05/2026 10:02

Or (c) how @orangegato could possibly know that.

Unless she's claiming to speak directly to every single person she encounters?

That poster would have a surprise if they saw my family in the street and made those assumptions, it's fair to say!

StandingDeskDisco · 08/05/2026 10:11

LikeGolddust · 08/05/2026 10:02

How contemptuous you are of your fellow citizens.

What do you find contemptuous?

That I identified how social class affects voting behaviour?

Or that I identified how a large portion of the population are under-educated? (This is a polite way of saying ill-informed, led by soundbites, and not able or willing to look deeply into the actual policy issues)

Or that I identified the working class with the under-educated? (this is statistically likely as the working class is the largest demographic, and it is somewhat axiomatic that the middle class is better educated)

Or that I assume it is mostly the under-educated and/or the working class that vote Reform? (ignoring the statistically-irrelevant small number of ultra-rich who vote Reform as they would actual benefit from their policies)

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