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To think the main Mumsnet demographic are out of touch politically

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Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

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m1ghtl1ke · 08/05/2026 09:34

orangegato · 08/05/2026 09:28

MN users must live in lovely areas untouched by immigration then. I go to my town and I’m the only English person I see all day.

Must be nice to not know what that feels like!

Oh come on! The only English person really! Do you spot check passports.

comment like this are not helping your cause.

Monty36 · 08/05/2026 09:34

Another reason to be wary of Reform is that they will be entirely self serving.

Like their siblings across the Pond their interests will be financial. They really really won’t be bothered about little people. Except to get their votes of course !

But contracts, opportunities, money. Farage is a money man. Tice is a money man.

I am talking only about the top brass in Reform. The lower orders will believe.

Hameth · 08/05/2026 09:35

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 09:17

Yes. And it's almost as if no one on the left is capable of making the link between a population rise of 10-20million in 20-30 years due mainly to immigration- and the NHS collapsing. But we need the immigrants to staff the NHS for the immigrants

Nope. Its life expectancy. Most NHS resources are for the over 65s. It also explains a lot of population rise.

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 08/05/2026 09:35

Rather like the BBC, MN is simultaneously accused of being too left wing and too right wing! I find the different political views interesting. However I find the political baiting posts very tedious. There's an anti Starmer post on Chat every day. Give it a fucking rest.

TheHateIsNotGood · 08/05/2026 09:35

I don't see whats wrong with NOC Councils as it seems more democratic to me rather than councils making decisions along political party lines. Due to local government reorganisation there are no elections where I live.

However, I live in a ward with a Reform councillor county councillor who seems to just want to improve things for the local residents and admits it's been a steep learning curve. The main blocker to trying to fix even the smallest thing has been the unelected council officers based 50 miles away in County Hall who have been on the gravy train for years.

I think it's a steep learning curve for any new councillor of any persuasion but the ones aligned to the traditional big 3 are taken under the wing of their more experienced colleagues until they learn the ropes whereas the Reform councillors have no one to teach them how it all works.

Just to note there never has been a bunch of St George flags flying here but you might see the odd Union Jack attached to a permanent flagpole.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:36

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:33

Both ‘sides’ are as bad as each other.

I don't think they are. I think the nature of the left/right divide is that it's impossible to tell a left winger that they are an idiot for wanting society to be more fair, but very easy to mock a right winger for understanding just how difficult or even impossible this is in a global economic environment.

That's before you add a visceral left wing hatred of profit, while having no desire to understand the purpose and benefits of profit to an economy.

It's so very easy to stand on that left wing moral high ground and hurl insults down on the right wing you perceive as morally below you. It's much harder to do the reverse, and imo, that's a balance you see played out all the time in political discussion on forums.

Having said that, MN seems to be much higher quality debate than I've come across elsewhere.

Why would there be a left wing hatred of profit rather than an opposition to the unequal distribution of that profit?

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:37

Brexit which has cost the UK so much, including a 6–8% lower GDP per capita and 12–18% lower investment than if the UK had remained in the EU?

If you believe that to be true can you explain why neither Germany nor France have experienced those gains while we have been out of the EU, and why our growth has consistently exceeded theirs for some time now?

glitterpaperchain · 08/05/2026 09:38

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 09:25

I am not a bot! Just stop.

You haven't made or addressed any actual points though? So why are you here?

Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 09:39

hattie43 · 08/05/2026 05:30

MN has a hard core group of left wing voters who think the louder they shout and the more they insult they will persuade people they are wrong . Well no-one except the well heeled of Islington wants their nonsense . Reform are doing well and all the left have done is turn their support underground because people can’t be bothered to debate left wing zealots .

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This. There is a small but incredibly vocal group of posters who seem to compromise either middle class Green voting university professor types, or particularly astute benefit claimants who make snotty comments about working people and how they feel they should be financed with zero scrutiny. They leap on any thread they don’t like, report all the responses before accusing the OP of being Nazi before sharing messages of support among one another to demonstrate what great people they are.

It’s tiresome and I’m not surprised Reform have made these gains although I would never vote for them myself.

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:39

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:36

Why would there be a left wing hatred of profit rather than an opposition to the unequal distribution of that profit?

You tell me. It's almost a swear word used by many on the left.

Hameth · 08/05/2026 09:39

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:33

I don't understand (a) why you would notice that or (b) why it would upset you.

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Also in my area people dont carry their passports in a visible way so I wouldn't know... oh, wait... is there another way of identifying a "British" person... so even if you are born in UK you're still not really one of us?

Agrumpyknitter · 08/05/2026 09:39

Foxyloxy89 · 08/05/2026 05:36

Absolutely. I wouldn't want a Reform government but am hoping this will make the current government take the worries of the country seriously now. The people have spoken. Sort out the Welfare Bill, make work worthwhile, abolish business rates, stop building on our green belt and raise the tax threshold. Oh and get the navy in the channel to sort out the small boats chaos. That is what the working people who hold this country together want.

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I agree.

I really think the thing that Reform voters lack is critical thinking skills. You’re voting against your own interests if you are a woman and are working. Look at the policies.

Brexit caused the small boats problem. Before Brexit we didn’t have this issue as we could send them back to the first EU country they came
through. And we’re poorer for it.
All we will do now is spend more money housing them in detention centres.
The poor will pay as there will be no healthcare for you, no maternity leave no employment rights either. Oh and gun laws will be relaxed too what joy.

glitterpaperchain · 08/05/2026 09:40

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:39

You tell me. It's almost a swear word used by many on the left.

I believe you have misunderstood the issues with profit

Campionandforgetmenots · 08/05/2026 09:40

100% luxury beliefs. I can’t look half the time, most are so asleep, it’s embarrassing.

StandingDeskDisco · 08/05/2026 09:40

MN demographic is not out of touch.
But it does skew towards the educated middle class. We generally post in full sentences here with proper punctuation. 'Text' abbreviations are not often used.

As the under-educated working class is a larger demographic, their vote will have a greater effect. It is they who are voting Reform.

Just because many of us don't vote Reform, it does not mean we are 'out of touch' or don't understand the issues at stake.

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 09:40

glitterpaperchain · 08/05/2026 09:38

You haven't made or addressed any actual points though? So why are you here?

Because she wants to highlight posts like ‘why are you here’

Campionandforgetmenots · 08/05/2026 09:41

StandingDeskDisco · 08/05/2026 09:40

MN demographic is not out of touch.
But it does skew towards the educated middle class. We generally post in full sentences here with proper punctuation. 'Text' abbreviations are not often used.

As the under-educated working class is a larger demographic, their vote will have a greater effect. It is they who are voting Reform.

Just because many of us don't vote Reform, it does not mean we are 'out of touch' or don't understand the issues at stake.

How patronising. You are out of touch and wildly so.

ERthree · 08/05/2026 09:41

LoudTealHare · 08/05/2026 06:15

I live in a Reform controlled council and they are truly out of their depth! The got voted in on the lie that the council could stop the boats which they can’t, that’s down to national policy! Unfortunately Reform supporters are a bunch of bigots who seem to lack the capacity to research the truth for themselves. The best example is Farage referent asylum seekers as illegal migrants, they’re not illegal until their claim for asylum is refused! Remember Reform is lead by a bunch of multi millionaire ex Tories who have absolutely no interest in the average person! I worry for the younger generation who are going suffer due to the elderly racists voting them in!

Yet, i find Labour voters are the most bigoted.

LondonSymphony · 08/05/2026 09:42

There’s a difference between calling Reform voters thick / racist, etc, and criticising Reform themselves. The latter is fair game and there’s a lot to go at.

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 09:43

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:21

I'm really not sure that's the killer point you imagine it to be. Are you from London?

Ha ha killer point? No. A point of amusement ..yes. Interesting that you project on to me your own way of thinking. Hilarious. Labour fans are so tetchy today.

(not that its any of your business but for tedium's sake, I'm a West Londoner)

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 09:43

If you think I'm wrong and that my point wasn't valid, why not simply take the time to write an intelligent and reasoned post explaining exactly why you perceive my argument to be flawed?

Claiming to be so insulted by something that I didn't even say in order to explain why you're not willing to engage with my perfectly reasonable post simply creates an impression that you don't actually know how to respond.

glitterpaperchain · 08/05/2026 09:43

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 09:40

Because she wants to highlight posts like ‘why are you here’

Eh? I've asked OP to address actual points but that's just been ignored

RattlingTin · 08/05/2026 09:43

orangegato · 08/05/2026 09:28

MN users must live in lovely areas untouched by immigration then. I go to my town and I’m the only English person I see all day.

Must be nice to not know what that feels like!

Where do you live? I live in London, which has the highest number of immigrants in the UK (over 40% non uk born). I see/meet English people every day in my borough. Seems unusual that you don’t meet any at all in your town.

MyFellowScroller · 08/05/2026 09:43

eyeballer · 08/05/2026 05:58

@MidnightPatrol could it possibly be that “fixing” immigration is not an easy issue?

Mostly we agree that it is difficult to 'fix' immigration, the problem is that we do not see that Labour the party of Government is doing anything about it.
Criminals are still supported by the Courts to remain on flimsy excuses but but there is no intention of changing the law to help deport them. This Week Shabana Mahmoud called for changes to make asylum applications easier, She wants more of them here.
Labour do not care how it affects ordinary people.

Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 09:44

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:39

You tell me. It's almost a swear word used by many on the left.

Because the policies they support don’t redistribute wealth, they target aspiration and the delight is in simply seeing money being taken off people who in most cases have worked bloody hard for it.

  1. School fees VAT
  2. Farming IHT

Look at the absolute glee on here that children would be forced to leave their schools, or that an elderly farmer who has got up at the crack of dawn every day of his life to feed the nation low cost produce is going to pay so much IHT that he has no hope of passing on the farm.

But somebody who has sat on their arse claiming they can’t work despite being able bodied and completely mentally astute deserves a ‘pay rise’

It’s all loathsome

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