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To think the main Mumsnet demographic are out of touch politically

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Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

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ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:23

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 08/05/2026 09:23

hattie43 · 08/05/2026 05:30

MN has a hard core group of left wing voters who think the louder they shout and the more they insult they will persuade people they are wrong . Well no-one except the well heeled of Islington wants their nonsense . Reform are doing well and all the left have done is turn their support underground because people can’t be bothered to debate left wing zealots .

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Hitler was popular too. As was Mussolini. Doesn't mean they were good choices. Appealing to racist right-wing viewpoints which offer quick (impossible and unrealistic) fixes will always be popular with some of the population.

FlyingApple · 08/05/2026 09:24

TheGreatDownandOut · 08/05/2026 09:22

I’m sorry if I am being thick but I don’t understand your point? Reform voters will vote for Reform?

I won’t be one of them.

"I suspect for many it’s a protest vote. The only chance they’ll get to tangibly show the current government that they’re not in favour"

So if it's a protest vote, who do they actually want to vote for?

mcmuffin22 · 08/05/2026 09:24

Voting whatever way you want couldn't make you 'out of touch'. You should vote how you want to vote.

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 09:25

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Hameth · 08/05/2026 09:25

Foxyloxy89 · 08/05/2026 06:43

Which items are you referring to re funding? From what I understand, millions (if not billions) of taxpayers money is wasted each year, or at the very least spent frivolously (House of Lords anyone?) if the spending is controlled then we wouldn't need to raise taxes to such extremes.

If money could be saved, it would have been. There is a little froth but the biggest surge in welfare is the escalator of rising pensions. House of Lords yes maybe save £10 million, halve the attendees, but if a million is 11 days, a billion is 31 years. We need billions and billions. We can reduce tax but without spending changes it just goes into higher gilt yields anyway as Truss showed.
We can save on some of the welfare claims but again data is not the plural of anecdotes. These are generally Tory rules and it's difficult to get. So the odd blue haired person claiming anxiety is bad but the real savings will only come from freezing pensions or holding it to a lower rate of increase.

Ps Farage and his £5 million... could reform voters have a proper go at justifying secret donations from an offshore crypto currency mogul whose products Farage promotes?

ChamonixMountainBum · 08/05/2026 09:25

Purplewarrior · 08/05/2026 05:52

I don’t know anyone irl who would admit to voting Reform. I can’t imagine any of my friends would, and certainly nobody I work with.

I am from a very ordinary council flat background. I do not earn a six figure salary or have a partner who does.

This sounds like the old school 'silent Tory' vote, people who kept their own counsel while it was fashionable to loudly deem anyone right of centre as thicko racists.

Muffsies · 08/05/2026 09:26

lonelyplanetmum · 08/05/2026 09:15

Do I think the MN demographic is out of touch politically. Well it looks like it doesn't it.... But generally on MN we are alert to Red Flags. If some-one shows you who they are, we believe them.

Surely it is the historically predominantly male Reform supporters who are really out of touch with reality, they are disregarding the huge red flags. Those who voted Reform yesterday also seem to have astonishingly short memories. To make me feel better, here is a little reminder of the things that Farage (and his vanity project Reform) stand for....

Red flag 1:

Reform’s anti environment policy is focused on maximizing fossil fuel extraction, abandoning net-zero targets, reversing green subsidies, and accelerating fracking. Yes really I think they even proposed a windfall tax on wind power?

Red flag 2:

Farage sometimes masks it, but his true position is to dismantle the NHS. He even states in his memoirs that it was the NHS that almost killed him, and a private health care diagnosis saved him. He has often said that he is open to anything regarding healthcare in particular a French-style insurance health system.

Red flag 3 (should be 1)

He has displayed hard wired racist and antisemitic behaviour since childhood including actually saying “Hitler was right” and “gas ’em” about Jewish people. (This shows you who the person is, and has been expressly confirmed by several school contemporaries.)

Red flag 4: Lies in the Brexit campaign including extremist propaganda including about Turkey joining the EU which was a complete falsehood, as it is a frozen Turkey. Basically it would need to meet 35 criteria, and can’t- ever, largely due to Cryprus.

Labour are not shit compared to all this they really aren't. There have been a few mistakes but overall they are improving education funding, reducing NHS waiting lists, improving the minimum wage, improving workers rights.

Red flag 2 is terrifying. If Reform ever get anywhere near the NHS it's done for, and we'd never get it back.

southcoastsammy · 08/05/2026 09:27

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 06:33

@Pretfeen It was actually a deliberate spelling mistake and you have proved my point wonderfully!

Er, sure it was OP. Sure it was.

TheGreatDownandOut · 08/05/2026 09:27

I get that some people are angry. But trying to explain the huge rise of reform voters away by suggesting they are all stupid is a pretty stupid thing to say

Lifesd · 08/05/2026 09:27

mellongoose · 08/05/2026 05:44

I think there are disproportionately a lot of leafy middle class London suburbian Labour voters on here, as well as a lot of people from Scotland. I also think many people with opposing views stay quiet and don’t post. The drubbing received often isn’t worth the bother.

It started with Brexit (dare I say it) and political discourse has been in the gutter since.

PS I live in the SW. I support neither Labour nor Reform.

Agree and anyone who does actually agree with immigration/benefit reform and dares to post about it automatically gets accused of being a Russian/reform bot - it is quite tiresome.

charliehungerford · 08/05/2026 09:27

Purplewarrior · 08/05/2026 05:52

I don’t know anyone irl who would admit to voting Reform. I can’t imagine any of my friends would, and certainly nobody I work with.

I am from a very ordinary council flat background. I do not earn a six figure salary or have a partner who does.

They might not admit to it but it doesn’t mean they won’t do it. Anyone who says they are a Reform supporter is generally verbally attacked and dismissed as a racist/islam hating/knuckle dragging/thick/uneducated xenophobic idiot. No wonder they keep quiet, but I think there are a lot more of them out there than people realise. Beware the ‘quiet’ Reform voters.

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 09:27

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 09:25

I am not a bot! Just stop.

That poster is just proving your point.

Hameth · 08/05/2026 09:27

BH90210 · 08/05/2026 09:08

  1. concerned about the effects of large amounts of illegal immigrants does not necessarily = racism

Men convicted of DV and SA standing outside hotels with brown people inside so they can be "protecting our women" is, however.

orangegato · 08/05/2026 09:28

MN users must live in lovely areas untouched by immigration then. I go to my town and I’m the only English person I see all day.

Must be nice to not know what that feels like!

TheGreatDownandOut · 08/05/2026 09:29

FlyingApple · 08/05/2026 09:24

"I suspect for many it’s a protest vote. The only chance they’ll get to tangibly show the current government that they’re not in favour"

So if it's a protest vote, who do they actually want to vote for?

Oh sorry, understand now - not enough coffee yet!

I have absolutely no idea, there are a few years yet until the GE and the political landscape could shift before then.

Monty36 · 08/05/2026 09:29

The issues with Reform are many.

They use soundbites. That people respond to.

But you cannot do the a decent days work of public administration by talking soundbites.
They will find that it is not as easy as they think. And, in many places where they have been elected in, this has been found to be the case.
That is just one of the issues. But an important one.

moderate · 08/05/2026 09:29

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:10

It's a tragedy to me that people have fallen for the rhetoric that immigration is the cause of their problems. When in fact the NHS, the care sector, hospitality etc would collapse if not for immigration.

This is the one that's always trotted out.

It is perfectly possible for intelligent people to value every immigrant in the NHS etc and also believe that other people should not be able to choose to invite themselves to live in our country at our expense and sometimes at risk of our security.

Agreed. It’s so fatuous. Like saying that it’s outrageous to have a legal system that can lock people up because people are the backbone of the economy.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:29

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 09:25

I am not a bot! Just stop.

Read carefully and then you can apologise.

BIossomtoes · 08/05/2026 09:29

orangegato · 08/05/2026 09:28

MN users must live in lovely areas untouched by immigration then. I go to my town and I’m the only English person I see all day.

Must be nice to not know what that feels like!

You’re Robert Jenrick and I claim my £5.

Abandofangelsincivvies · 08/05/2026 09:29

No op the opposite. Why on earth would any reasonable person vote for the same people who brought us Brexit which has cost the UK so much, including a 6–8% lower GDP per capita and 12–18% lower investment than if the UK had remained in the EU? And knowing that our economy still faces long-term, structural damage from trade barriers, reduced labour supply, and increased business costs? And knowing that Brexit made the immigration problem worse?

Why on earth would anyone trust Nigel Farage who lied blatantly about the money he promised on the now infamous NHS bus?

Why would anyone trust their MPs who are generally wierd and incompetent?

Why would anyone trust a party funded by wealthy expats who are unhappy with the amount of tax they have to pay back home?

Like Trump, Farage is not a builder, or intent on building consensus, he is an untrustworthy disrupter who wants to make money for himself and his clan of friends. And he likes to incite hatred between different communities in the UK and pray on people’s fears. When we all know that peace brings prosperity.

So on the basis of all of the above, it’s completely sensible, rational and fair not to support Reform whether you are an ordinary working class person like me, or whether you are a business owner and entrepreneur.

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 09:30

Monty36 · 08/05/2026 09:29

The issues with Reform are many.

They use soundbites. That people respond to.

But you cannot do the a decent days work of public administration by talking soundbites.
They will find that it is not as easy as they think. And, in many places where they have been elected in, this has been found to be the case.
That is just one of the issues. But an important one.

Labour’s over reliance on soundbites is causing them issues.

Hameth · 08/05/2026 09:31

Megifer · 08/05/2026 09:12

Have to agree with this. There are parts of my local area that are pretty much no go zones now, and Im harassed almost daily at a train station when I travel to the office to the point this week its been agreed I can reduce my days in the office even further as my end employer knows how bad it can get.

DS and other local school kids get grief off gangs hanging around and weekly newsletters encourage them to walk home in groups and be alert.

That being said Reform can still suck a nut, but some people really are blissfully unaware how bad it is in some places.

Its true. We have put alternative travel plans for women staff because of harassment and intimidation from young men in a nearby underpass. They are white with a local accent, though.

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:33

TheGreatDownandOut · 08/05/2026 09:13

Both ‘sides’ are as bad as each other. Over on the other election thread, after a quick skim through, it’s full of people accusing Reform voters of being idiots or racists and I’m tired of reading it.
Not to mention that the sheer number of people who have voted for them cannot mean that they are all idiots or racists.

Maybe people should ask themselves why so many people believe that immigration is the only and main issue we face in this country. I’m not saying it’s not an issue, I’m not convinced it’s as big of an issue as it’s being made out to be though. But I largely blame the media for this - the constant messaging of the boats etc is what has caused Reform to make such huge gains as well as the failings of the status quo.

But I do really wish people would stop accusing vast numbers of the population of being stupid. It makes me cringe every time I see it.

Both ‘sides’ are as bad as each other.

I don't think they are. I think the nature of the left/right divide is that it's impossible to tell a left winger that they are an idiot for wanting society to be more fair, but very easy to mock a right winger for understanding just how difficult or even impossible this is in a global economic environment.

That's before you add a visceral left wing hatred of profit, while having no desire to understand the purpose and benefits of profit to an economy.

It's so very easy to stand on that left wing moral high ground and hurl insults down on the right wing you perceive as morally below you. It's much harder to do the reverse, and imo, that's a balance you see played out all the time in political discussion on forums.

Having said that, MN seems to be much higher quality debate than I've come across elsewhere.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:33

orangegato · 08/05/2026 09:28

MN users must live in lovely areas untouched by immigration then. I go to my town and I’m the only English person I see all day.

Must be nice to not know what that feels like!

I don't understand (a) why you would notice that or (b) why it would upset you.

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