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To think the main Mumsnet demographic are out of touch politically

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Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

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Underthinker · 08/05/2026 09:04

glitterpaperchain · 08/05/2026 08:57

I didn't say they had a lack of understanding

No but the othet poster did, starting this mini feud about who and was not rude.

Feis123 · 08/05/2026 09:05

Labour are shit, Conservatives are shit and this shit-show goes on and on - maybe it is time to let someone else drive for a bit? To break the vicious two-party circle of sameness?

BIossomtoes · 08/05/2026 09:06

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 09:03

But then Labour won it. And now of course, rather than holding it, they've only gone and Lost it again. Who knew they'd be so tragic? Well, most people now at least.

It was always going to be an aberration. I fully anticipate Wandsworth returning to the Tories today as well. It’s not as significant as you’d like us to think it is.

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:06

TreesandGreen · 08/05/2026 08:49

But, Reform 'politicians' are out of touch.
It's the party of billionaires. They don't care remotely about ordinary people who struggle.
It's a tragedy to me that people have fallen for the rhetoric that immigration is the cause of their problems. When in fact the NHS, the care sector, hospitality etc would collapse if not for immigration.
Desperate people seeking refuge from war & persecution are not the cause of our problems, the tax avoiding, multiple-home-owning billionaire class are the cause of our problems. To punch down is pretty disgusting to be honest.
I'm not a privileged person, I'm a struggling low-paid renter with complex health issues.
I will never ever blame those worse off than myself for the challenges I face. Depressing that so many people are 😔

Desperate people seeking refuge from war & persecution are not the cause of our problems

You're quite right.

But "students" using visas, holiday visa over stayers, and people coming by sea and land from a safe country where they can apply for asylum if they choose to are definitely a problem.

Refusal of the left leaning to accept that is, imo, a major factor in the Reform vote.

CurlewKate · 08/05/2026 09:07

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:00

And yet yesterday we had a poster expressing the view, which was agreed with by others, that Reform voters shouldn't be allowed a vote.

I'm not seeing what you're seeing.

Edited

Did someone genuinely say that? Blimey.

glitterpaperchain · 08/05/2026 09:07

Underthinker · 08/05/2026 09:04

No but the othet poster did, starting this mini feud about who and was not rude.

Ok I'm not interested in a feud that's why I asked OP to address the actual point

RedTagAlan · 08/05/2026 09:08

dizzydizzydizzy · 08/05/2026 08:52

People feel very strongly about Reform. I would guess
that many Reform supporters keep quiet because they know they will get a pile on.

Nah. There are loads of reform threads on here that I can't be arsed with, as a leftie, because they just want to pile on instead of discussing. The reformers that is.

BH90210 · 08/05/2026 09:08

Pretfeen · 08/05/2026 06:09

At least spell electorate properly when you're making the point they're not thick or uneducated if they vote Reform...

In my experience Reform voters always fall into 3 camps:

Uneducated/ ignorant and don't even read Reform's policies properly and realise they're voting against their own interests.

Very rich, so they have a vested interest in voting for a party funded by and looking out for billionaires and millionaires.

Racist, who vote purely based on hate of immigrants and foreigners.

  1. concerned about the effects of large amounts of illegal immigrants does not necessarily = racism
Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 09:08

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:02

I don't believe you're posting in good faith at all so I'd just like to say that MrsBennets posts are informed and interesting, unlike your own.

What on earth? You mean you don't agree with me so as a result you want to invalidate me.
This is EXACTLY my point.

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MulberryBrandy · 08/05/2026 09:09

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:06

Desperate people seeking refuge from war & persecution are not the cause of our problems

You're quite right.

But "students" using visas, holiday visa over stayers, and people coming by sea and land from a safe country where they can apply for asylum if they choose to are definitely a problem.

Refusal of the left leaning to accept that is, imo, a major factor in the Reform vote.

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Reform blame the Tories - they called it the "Boriswave" ....

Anjo2011 · 08/05/2026 09:09

Beth Rigby on Sky just said to Starmer voters think you are the problem but he just cannot acknowledge that. He is the problem and by carrying on it just damages Labour even further, if that’s possible. You can see why people have gone for other options and who can blame them.

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 09:10

BIossomtoes · 08/05/2026 09:06

It was always going to be an aberration. I fully anticipate Wandsworth returning to the Tories today as well. It’s not as significant as you’d like us to think it is.

Ah it's cute you're still sticking up for Labour. Like a football team fan who'll loyally and forever support their team as they sink to the conference division. Commendable.

moderate · 08/05/2026 09:10

glitterpaperchain · 08/05/2026 08:57

I didn't say they had a lack of understanding

You asked if “she” was wrong, the “she” in question being the originator of that accusation.

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:10

It's a tragedy to me that people have fallen for the rhetoric that immigration is the cause of their problems. When in fact the NHS, the care sector, hospitality etc would collapse if not for immigration.

This is the one that's always trotted out.

It is perfectly possible for intelligent people to value every immigrant in the NHS etc and also believe that other people should not be able to choose to invite themselves to live in our country at our expense and sometimes at risk of our security.

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 09:10

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 09:08

What on earth? You mean you don't agree with me so as a result you want to invalidate me.
This is EXACTLY my point.

Edited

A good indication of the skew on this site is that any thread like this will have a Labour supporter accusing posters of not being real.

echt · 08/05/2026 09:11

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

And why not? Reform is despicable. Doing well in the elections doesn't mean they aren't a bunch of cunts.

LemonyCurd · 08/05/2026 09:11

Peony1985 · 08/05/2026 06:03

Sure you aren’t confusing this site with NetHuns?
Its definitely more left leaning.

Its usually a few posters defending a right wing Conservative / Brexit/ Reform position whilst the rest of the thread piles on them.

Pretty sure I’ve never seen support of Trump on here so we all agree on him.

I’ll be your first. I would vote Trump if I lived in the states. I would not currently vote Reform (or Labour!).

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 09:11

Anjo2011 · 08/05/2026 09:09

Beth Rigby on Sky just said to Starmer voters think you are the problem but he just cannot acknowledge that. He is the problem and by carrying on it just damages Labour even further, if that’s possible. You can see why people have gone for other options and who can blame them.

Quite. Embarrassed for him.

Megifer · 08/05/2026 09:12

Whysnothingsimple · 08/05/2026 08:58

It’s not just the economic side of high immigration though it’s the watering down of our culture, it’s being made to feel like a foreigner in your own country, it’s people experiences of being heckled by migrants, the intimidation they feel when large groups of them hang around, it’s the fact they don’t feel their children are safe.

imagine sending your kid to school and then coming home saying no one spoke English in one of their classes (or they did but chose only to communicate to each other in a language other than English.

it’s people’s real experiences like this, not economics which drive many people to question immigration

Have to agree with this. There are parts of my local area that are pretty much no go zones now, and Im harassed almost daily at a train station when I travel to the office to the point this week its been agreed I can reduce my days in the office even further as my end employer knows how bad it can get.

DS and other local school kids get grief off gangs hanging around and weekly newsletters encourage them to walk home in groups and be alert.

That being said Reform can still suck a nut, but some people really are blissfully unaware how bad it is in some places.

SlumChum · 08/05/2026 09:12

I've seen the whole political spectrum on here, so I don't know where you're coming from.

I just know it will be hilarious when Reform get in here thinking they can stop the boats, and realise the only thing that have authority over is street sweeping and repainting the lampposts. Although, maybe control of the lampposts was what they've been after all this time? Tomorrow - dominion over the roundabouts!

TheLandlordsAreFrowning · 08/05/2026 09:13

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Why on earth would Mrs B plan to leave the UK just because Reform has done well in the English local elections?

Personally I enjoy Mrs B's posts, as pp says they are sensible and measured.

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 09:13

Anjo2011 · 08/05/2026 09:09

Beth Rigby on Sky just said to Starmer voters think you are the problem but he just cannot acknowledge that. He is the problem and by carrying on it just damages Labour even further, if that’s possible. You can see why people have gone for other options and who can blame them.

I wondered when this would be put to him, I assume he just deflected. He can’t get it. Labour generally can’t.

DrySherry · 08/05/2026 09:13

Reform seem to be very popular, I'm ready to give them a go personally.

glitterpaperchain · 08/05/2026 09:13

moderate · 08/05/2026 09:10

You asked if “she” was wrong, the “she” in question being the originator of that accusation.

Yes because I'm interested in OP's opinion which hasn't been shared?

TheGreatDownandOut · 08/05/2026 09:13

Both ‘sides’ are as bad as each other. Over on the other election thread, after a quick skim through, it’s full of people accusing Reform voters of being idiots or racists and I’m tired of reading it.
Not to mention that the sheer number of people who have voted for them cannot mean that they are all idiots or racists.

Maybe people should ask themselves why so many people believe that immigration is the only and main issue we face in this country. I’m not saying it’s not an issue, I’m not convinced it’s as big of an issue as it’s being made out to be though. But I largely blame the media for this - the constant messaging of the boats etc is what has caused Reform to make such huge gains as well as the failings of the status quo.

But I do really wish people would stop accusing vast numbers of the population of being stupid. It makes me cringe every time I see it.

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