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To think the main Mumsnet demographic are out of touch politically

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Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

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Itchthescratch · 08/05/2026 08:51

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 08:46

Oh i spoke too soon, it's just gone to 2 new councils for Reform.

The nature of these elections means that lots of councils can't be won by Reform because there aren't enough seats up for grabs to win a majority. This is a crazy system really because it obviously forces a lot of Councils into a position of no overall control even though it's obvious that if all seats were available then they would be won by a party. No overall control is arguably the worse of all outcomes.

You need to look at the number of Councillors each party is winning or losing to understand what is really going on.

BIossomtoes · 08/05/2026 08:51

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 08:48

Conservatives take Westminster from Labour... 😂

That’s no surprise. Westminster has almost always been Tory in my lifetime.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 08:51

hettie · 08/05/2026 07:27

In a national vote latest polling suggests that reform is getting about 26-30% of the vote. The other 60% is split reasonably equally 15-20% for most other parties.
So in that unassailable maths Mumsnet seems pretty representative. Around 60% of the population are not reform voters. Some of that 60% wont be that vocal about politics and some if that 60% will and will have strong anti reform views.
I think the issue with our current 'news' via social media is it is so algorithmically driven that it will entirely reflect your views. So anywhere that you come across different views will seem odd. But in fact it's not odd. 60% of people are not reform voters so outside of your algorithms expect that to be reflected.

I agree with that, except it's not 60% of the population but 60% of the turnout which, based on a 40% turnout shows that approximately 89% of the total electorate have not opted to vote for Reform. That puts the op's claim that non Reform voters are all out of touch somewhat into question!

CissyHoustonJustDontKnowWhattodoWithMyselfNSOUL · 08/05/2026 08:51

Snorerephron · 08/05/2026 08:34

I am intrigued by people voting for reform in local elections. What kind of changes are they hoping to see? At the local level I mean?

Because on social media it seems to be just the local racists and brexiteers celebrating. Are they planning new policies where foreigners only get their bins emptied once a month?

Our local reform candidate couldnt explain a single thing he was interested in at the local level

As sure as night follows day they'll fuck up
Which is a good thing I'd rather they're shown for incompetence at local level rather than National level.

dizzydizzydizzy · 08/05/2026 08:52

People feel very strongly about Reform. I would guess
that many Reform supporters keep quiet because they know they will get a pile on.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 08/05/2026 08:52

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 08:48

Conservatives take Westminster from Labour... 😂

LB Westminster has historically been a conservative council for decades. The short Labour interim was just an aberration. It's returned to what it always was

moderate · 08/05/2026 08:52

I would like to point out that being desperate to flee from your war-torn country does not imply that you will not be importing attitudes that increase rape culture in the UK.

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 08:53

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 08:51

I agree with that, except it's not 60% of the population but 60% of the turnout which, based on a 40% turnout shows that approximately 89% of the total electorate have not opted to vote for Reform. That puts the op's claim that non Reform voters are all out of touch somewhat into question!

Not really since looking at mn you’d think Labour would do well, they haven’t. All the posts on percentages apply to Labour but even more so.

The op makes a valid point.

Naunet · 08/05/2026 08:54

LoudTealHare · 08/05/2026 06:15

I live in a Reform controlled council and they are truly out of their depth! The got voted in on the lie that the council could stop the boats which they can’t, that’s down to national policy! Unfortunately Reform supporters are a bunch of bigots who seem to lack the capacity to research the truth for themselves. The best example is Farage referent asylum seekers as illegal migrants, they’re not illegal until their claim for asylum is refused! Remember Reform is lead by a bunch of multi millionaire ex Tories who have absolutely no interest in the average person! I worry for the younger generation who are going suffer due to the elderly racists voting them in!

I bet you don't even see the bigotry in your own post do you?

I cannot stand this fanatical, American style politics, of just throwing around insults rather than debating and listening to others views. Its so childish and only benefits politicians.

AnnPerkins · 08/05/2026 08:54

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:54

It's totally the opposite in my opinion. And the venomous insults on here, calling the ellectorate at best 'thick, uneducated and stupid' are quite frankly embarrasing.

I think we can assume both of these are true at once. There are loud voices shouting from both extremes, on MN and IRL.

I think the 'shy' voters are the ones considering voting Tory now. We'll see what happens over the next 2-3 years.

Freysimo · 08/05/2026 08:55

I would describe myself as centre right and in a general election would probably vote Conservative. I live in Wales and yesterday voted Reform for the first time, purely to stop Plaid having an overall majority. I'm impressed by Kemi Badenoch and have high hopes for her at next general election.

Underthinker · 08/05/2026 08:55

glitterpaperchain · 08/05/2026 08:49

Is she wrong though? She's saying that because of FPTP the actual number of people who voted Reform may be a minority. Can you address the point?

The largest minority though.

And I don't know if I agree with the OP's premise, but nothing they said demonstrated a lack of understanding of the electoral system IMO.

Megifer · 08/05/2026 08:56

I detest Reform but can see why people are voting for them, anyone not up Labours arse gets lumped together, shot down and labelled far right and they are sick and tired of it. Those responsible for this are now reaping what they sowed. But it will still be someone else's fault.

Theseventhmagpie · 08/05/2026 08:56

Pretfeen · 08/05/2026 06:09

At least spell electorate properly when you're making the point they're not thick or uneducated if they vote Reform...

In my experience Reform voters always fall into 3 camps:

Uneducated/ ignorant and don't even read Reform's policies properly and realise they're voting against their own interests.

Very rich, so they have a vested interest in voting for a party funded by and looking out for billionaires and millionaires.

Racist, who vote purely based on hate of immigrants and foreigners.

Do enlighten us with your “experience” with this??
Im assuming you must be a political analyst of some sort 😂

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 08:56

Underthinker · 08/05/2026 08:55

The largest minority though.

And I don't know if I agree with the OP's premise, but nothing they said demonstrated a lack of understanding of the electoral system IMO.

Agree

glitterpaperchain · 08/05/2026 08:57

Underthinker · 08/05/2026 08:55

The largest minority though.

And I don't know if I agree with the OP's premise, but nothing they said demonstrated a lack of understanding of the electoral system IMO.

I didn't say they had a lack of understanding

Whysnothingsimple · 08/05/2026 08:58

TreesandGreen · 08/05/2026 08:49

But, Reform 'politicians' are out of touch.
It's the party of billionaires. They don't care remotely about ordinary people who struggle.
It's a tragedy to me that people have fallen for the rhetoric that immigration is the cause of their problems. When in fact the NHS, the care sector, hospitality etc would collapse if not for immigration.
Desperate people seeking refuge from war & persecution are not the cause of our problems, the tax avoiding, multiple-home-owning billionaire class are the cause of our problems. To punch down is pretty disgusting to be honest.
I'm not a privileged person, I'm a struggling low-paid renter with complex health issues.
I will never ever blame those worse off than myself for the challenges I face. Depressing that so many people are 😔

It’s not just the economic side of high immigration though it’s the watering down of our culture, it’s being made to feel like a foreigner in your own country, it’s people experiences of being heckled by migrants, the intimidation they feel when large groups of them hang around, it’s the fact they don’t feel their children are safe.

imagine sending your kid to school and then coming home saying no one spoke English in one of their classes (or they did but chose only to communicate to each other in a language other than English.

it’s people’s real experiences like this, not economics which drive many people to question immigration

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 08:58

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 08:48

Labour though, ouch for them.

ouch? I think it's more they need life support

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 08:59

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 08:58

ouch? I think it's more they need life support

Ha true.

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 08:59

Theeyeballsinthesky · 08/05/2026 08:52

LB Westminster has historically been a conservative council for decades. The short Labour interim was just an aberration. It's returned to what it always was

Indeed. Labour just couldn't Hold it. Of course they couldnt..

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 09:00

CurlewKate · 08/05/2026 05:46

Well, it looks to me as if the Mumsnet demographic is centre right/right/Reform. Which is why any poster left of centre stands out. And is then accused of shouting/bullying/whatever because they don’t agree with the consensus.

And yet yesterday we had a poster expressing the view, which was agreed with by others, that Reform voters shouldn't be allowed a vote.

I'm not seeing what you're seeing.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:02

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I don't believe you're posting in good faith at all so I'd just like to say that MrsBennets posts are informed and interesting, unlike your own.

Greenwitchart · 08/05/2026 09:03

Whysnothingsimple · 08/05/2026 08:45

I think educated people can put together a better perspective than “you don’t vote the way I do and therefore you must be thick”. Educated people seek to understand different perspectives and how to decrease division. On that basis there are a lot of uneducated people here

I can understand different perspectives but that is not the issue here. It is about having non negotiable boundaries and values that mean I don't listen to or vote for people who are racists/xenophobic/pretend to be a "man of the people" while getting funded by shady billionaires.

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 09:03

BIossomtoes · 08/05/2026 08:51

That’s no surprise. Westminster has almost always been Tory in my lifetime.

But then Labour won it. And now of course, rather than holding it, they've only gone and Lost it again. Who knew they'd be so tragic? Well, most people now at least.

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 09:04

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 09:02

I don't believe you're posting in good faith at all so I'd just like to say that MrsBennets posts are informed and interesting, unlike your own.

This is what the op means. That she’s ‘not posting in good faith’.

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