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To think the main Mumsnet demographic are out of touch politically

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Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

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BIossomtoes · 08/05/2026 08:39

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 08:37

It’s not a misunderstanding of the electoral system anyway. It’s just a kicking to Labour. Even Labour MPs have recognised the deep dislike of Starmer on the doorstep.

It appears to depend on the doorstep.

ThatCyanCat · 08/05/2026 08:40

And all this said... it's supposed to be about potholes, bin collections and public libraries.

Gablefable · 08/05/2026 08:40

ThatCyanCat · 08/05/2026 08:31

It seems strange to me that you're constantly accusing everyone of having nothing but insults, because to be honest that's all I see here from you. It was a well reasoned post and you haven't rebutted it at all.

Absolutely.
Call me cynical but the whole thread appears to have been set up for precisely that purpose.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 08:41

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 08:37

It’s not a misunderstanding of the electoral system anyway. It’s just a kicking to Labour. Even Labour MPs have recognised the deep dislike of Starmer on the doorstep.

None of that is relevant to the point which I was making.

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 08:41

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 08:37

Well, since you were so kind as to wait for me, perhaps you could respond to my point? If you understood it?

Point proven. Stop calling me stupid please.

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Whysnothingsimple · 08/05/2026 08:42

I think it’s pretty certain there will be a Reform government next. Hopefully the results reflect that the Greens don’t really have any chance of gaining much traction with their embedded anti semitism. No doubt Polanski showing his true colours over the past week or so led to a much lower win than they were probably expecting.

The Reform landslide will hopefully see many of the electorates clear concerns reflected in the policies of more centrist parties to try and bring voters back to the centre

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 08:42

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 08:37

Well, since you were so kind as to wait for me, perhaps you could respond to my point? If you understood it?

Labour will miss what’s happening and make various excuses.

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 08:42

So far today, and it is far from over, Labour have lost 8 councils. And there's a long way to go. They're good at something at least.

Reform have only won 1 council so far, which is promising, hopefully no more.

And the 'Greens' have won 0 councils so far, excellent.

Bikenutz · 08/05/2026 08:43

I don’t think some of mumsnet are very engaged with politics on a meaningful level.

Everyone has an opinion but there are a sizeable chunk of posters who have little clue about the realities of maintaining roads, managing waste, enacting immigration policy on the ground, etc.

Starbright102 · 08/05/2026 08:44

MidnightPatrol · 08/05/2026 05:46

A vote for reform is ultimately just a protest vote against the failure of the current and former governments parties to achieve anything at all.

I don’t think reform have a clue what they’re doing, and I suspect most won’t know what reform really stand for beyond ‘stop the boats’ rhetoric.

I think it really emphasises how pissed off a lot of the country is with the spiralling levels of immigration and seemingly inability of any leadership to actually reduce it though. It’s fascinating to see the immigration numbers every year and the government surprised by them - as though it isn’t something they can control.

Its not really a protest vote anymore when they are getting this many votes

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 08:45

Beeloux · 08/05/2026 07:24

There seems to be a belief that mostly only old people vote Reform.

Not around here. I’m in my twenties and voted for them, along with most of the people I know my age.

Left wingers seem to love to argue their case and brand anyone with a different opinion to them as a fascist. Right wingers tend to stay quiet and vote.

Fascism isn't used as an insult, it's used to describe a political movement. To be fair, it's more accurate to describe Reform as crypto/quasi fascist or fascistic, in the same way that the Nazi party was before evolving into fully blown fascism. The point here is that the risk exists and can be seen to exist through looking at historical precedent. Let's not forget that Reform's rhetoric, particularly among the grass roots, is similar to that of the NF/BNP in past decades and in turn, those parties had real and demonstrable links with Nazism. So we need to be very careful about how we use and how we criticise use of the word and concept of fascism because it's not trivial; it remains a real danger.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 08:45

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 08:41

Point proven. Stop calling me stupid please.

I did not call you stupid. I said that your post reflects a lack of understanding of our electoral system and I explained why. You can choose to write a reasoned and rational response to the points raised in my post, or you can choose to throw your toys out of the pram. I think we both know which one it's going to be.

artfiend · 08/05/2026 08:45

CurlewKate · 08/05/2026 05:46

Well, it looks to me as if the Mumsnet demographic is centre right/right/Reform. Which is why any poster left of centre stands out. And is then accused of shouting/bullying/whatever because they don’t agree with the consensus.

Are you serious? Widely recognised as a Labour stronghold on the internet.

Whysnothingsimple · 08/05/2026 08:45

Greenwitchart · 08/05/2026 08:39

Probably because people on Mumsnet tend to be more educated and have basic common sense so they can spot a xenophobic, racist, Russia/Trump loving grifter with questionable funding sources who helped destroyed our economy by supporting Brexit when they see one...

Plus the majority are women who know that Reform is not a friend of women having rights and control of their bodies. And also a younger demographic than the many pensioners who love Farage.

I will never vote for a Poundland Trump.

My local authority in Kent is led by Reform. They have been useless o far and simply brought us higher council tax and general mismanagement.

I think educated people can put together a better perspective than “you don’t vote the way I do and therefore you must be thick”. Educated people seek to understand different perspectives and how to decrease division. On that basis there are a lot of uneducated people here

StandFirm · 08/05/2026 08:45

BIossomtoes · 08/05/2026 08:21

That’s a really nasty and completely unwarranted attack on one of the most measured posters. Oh, the irony!

Indeed!

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 08:46

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 08:42

So far today, and it is far from over, Labour have lost 8 councils. And there's a long way to go. They're good at something at least.

Reform have only won 1 council so far, which is promising, hopefully no more.

And the 'Greens' have won 0 councils so far, excellent.

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Oh i spoke too soon, it's just gone to 2 new councils for Reform.

Iocanepowder · 08/05/2026 08:46

Anjo2011 · 08/05/2026 07:44

That alone is reason enough for many.

Well yes.

And I do understand it.

We are lucky enough to live in a relatively low-crime area. The main type of crime is domestic incidents. I’m also aware of a few car and bike thefts. So this obviously stuck out to many people and as my street is next to the school in question, it was a shame for me to have to see police patrol for a while afterwards.

None of the other parties acknowledged residents’ concerns about the hotel, so while i wouldn’t vote reform, I understand why others would and i expect it, so in that way, i wouldn’t agree that i am out of touch with political reality.

But it of course depends what is ging on in everyone’s local area and what priorities are.

ForWittyTealOP · 08/05/2026 08:46

Leavelingeringbreath · 08/05/2026 07:26

It doesn't change the fact that it's true though, they have chosen to pass through a safe western country and undertake a ridiculously dangerous journey to get to Britain. They aren't asylum seekers.

Actually people don't necessarily choose. Traffickers aren't akin to travel agents, they're violent and exploitative.

MulberryBrandy · 08/05/2026 08:47

The LibDems have just exceeded the number of councillors the Tories have. I suppose Tories must be losing to LibDems and Reform.

Northermcharn · 08/05/2026 08:48

Conservatives take Westminster from Labour... 😂

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 08:48

MulberryBrandy · 08/05/2026 08:47

The LibDems have just exceeded the number of councillors the Tories have. I suppose Tories must be losing to LibDems and Reform.

Labour though, ouch for them.

Squeeky112 · 08/05/2026 08:49

Foxyloxy89 · 08/05/2026 05:36

Absolutely. I wouldn't want a Reform government but am hoping this will make the current government take the worries of the country seriously now. The people have spoken. Sort out the Welfare Bill, make work worthwhile, abolish business rates, stop building on our green belt and raise the tax threshold. Oh and get the navy in the channel to sort out the small boats chaos. That is what the working people who hold this country together want.

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This is not what people want - it is what people have been told they want, and been convinced over a long period of time that it is what we want.

Yes - make work worthwhile (but protect those who genuinely cannot work)
Maybe - abolishing business rates for small businesses would help, but in my experience that leads to big landlords pushing up rents instead (our town is full of charity shops - they don't pay rates, but pay more in rent as the landlords have an easy way to cash in). More radical changes are needed.
Yes - stop building on the green belt.
Yes - raise the tax threshold
AND - tax the very rich (Mr Farage, for example) more to cover the costs of the above changes.
What - there is no smal boats chaos. There are fewer crossings now than under the Tories. The biggest cause of crossings is Brexit. But even so, there aren't that many people actually coming across. Every day in the press and social media, but very few in real life.

I think the difficulty in any political party/group/view is that there are lots of different opinions between people of the same overall political persuassion. It isn't as straightforward as saying everyone wants X, Y, Z as we all want different versions of things.

glitterpaperchain · 08/05/2026 08:49

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Is she wrong though? She's saying that because of FPTP the actual number of people who voted Reform may be a minority. Can you address the point?

TreesandGreen · 08/05/2026 08:49

But, Reform 'politicians' are out of touch.
It's the party of billionaires. They don't care remotely about ordinary people who struggle.
It's a tragedy to me that people have fallen for the rhetoric that immigration is the cause of their problems. When in fact the NHS, the care sector, hospitality etc would collapse if not for immigration.
Desperate people seeking refuge from war & persecution are not the cause of our problems, the tax avoiding, multiple-home-owning billionaire class are the cause of our problems. To punch down is pretty disgusting to be honest.
I'm not a privileged person, I'm a struggling low-paid renter with complex health issues.
I will never ever blame those worse off than myself for the challenges I face. Depressing that so many people are 😔

Allisnotlost1 · 08/05/2026 08:49

Foxyloxy89 · 08/05/2026 05:36

Absolutely. I wouldn't want a Reform government but am hoping this will make the current government take the worries of the country seriously now. The people have spoken. Sort out the Welfare Bill, make work worthwhile, abolish business rates, stop building on our green belt and raise the tax threshold. Oh and get the navy in the channel to sort out the small boats chaos. That is what the working people who hold this country together want.

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But these are broadly Reform policies - the tax threshold rise is almost identical to their position. So why would you not want a Reform government when you agree (and seem think the majority of others agree) with these policies?

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