That is really fab in your family - I do think it’s one of the toughest jobs out there, though one that can make the most difference.
I think more may be drawn to the NHS support work than social overall - just as hours/conditions.
I agree that how care is set up is not great, particularly the respect offered to carers. Although, saying that the council my ma was in was changing guidance - and making it worse for those being cared for and even harder for local care agencies - taking it towards a model of larger agencies, some based not even in the area but just conglomerate type things. This would increase the issues you raise tbh not start to alleviate them, so not looking great for any change.
Having said all that - the majority of our NEET youngsters still couldn’t slot in there - I’ve taught NEETs and whilst I’m sure there’s plenty different than those I had - they would have needed a lot of intervention and support to get to any role, let alone function in a care role.
There’s also no money, only Lib Dem’s have ever spoken much about care and it’s not going to change any time soon, so we are where we are and can’t change it and will have to keep relying on visas. Interestingly, a good few years ago I used to get EU students and they often worked in care and hospitality - albeit whilst they swapped up their qualifications for U.K. acceptable ones - I don’t know if/how much this changed after Brexit.
What I don’t like is the apparent dismissal of a lot of excellent carers on visas plugging an essential gap for our elderly/vulnerable. The dependent visa for carers was stopped a while ago so that was one complaint covered.
As I’ve said upthread there are drs worrying about people in the NHS wanting to leave, or at least feeling unwelcome and many carers get regular abuse - this really must stop - it’s an abhorrent way to behave to other people. It’s driven by this asylum stuff and I know folk can’t tell the difference fgs, but that shouldn’t make a difference, as we all should, at the very least, be humane to each other - and in turn help integration.
This is not any individual’s fault the stuff you don’t like - and I can tell you Reform will not be changing it along your preferred lines - it’s all ‘money to me, money to me, money to my mates’ - care is the last thing they’d think to improve and the NHS well - privatised.