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Violent rapist allowed to stay in UK to rape again

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Trint · 01/05/2026 07:28

Is there already a thread on this case? I will ask for this one to be removed if so. I am just angry that this horrible man’s feelings were put before the fact that he had a fetish about violent rape.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5ye594p0z0o
It is quite wrong that the judge ordered he should be allowed to stay in the UK when it was clear to the Home Office that he would rape again.
Sorry, I have tried to insert a question about there being an inquiry into the decision of the judge to let him stay to rape women again but my phone won’t let me.

Custody picture of Gift Oladele

'Truly depraved' rapist jailed for 17 years for Wrexham attack

Gift Oladele, 24, had successfully fought a deportation bid after a previous sex attack.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5ye594p0z0o

OP posts:
hairbearbunches · 01/05/2026 12:02

5128gap · 01/05/2026 07:50

I think this case highlights serious flaws in the way we deal with dangerous violent men within our CJS. This is a hugely important issue.
I think it is wrong to use cases like this to prop up anti immigration agendas because it perpetuates the falsehood that if we deport people the problem will go away.
Had this man been simply deported he would have posed a threat to women in his country of origin. I don't think its any more acceptable for Nigeran women to be raped than British ones.
Had this man been deported, it would have made no difference to the fact that our system permits dangerous men to rape women. We would have been safe from this one man, but just as much at risk from the white British men who rape.
Making this about immigration rather than about how the UK deals with dangerous men in general is trying to fit a problem into your preferred solution which is short sighted and ineffective.

I can't agree with this at all. It's bad enough that we have to deal with our own home grown rapists/violent offenders against women. Why should we have to deal with the same sort of men from other countries?

I still think about that poor girl who wrote an essay as part of her GCSEs arguing the same, that it was discriminatory to stop foreign criminals coming to this country because we also had our own. She went on to be murdered, by a Latvian man who was suspected of murdering his wife back home and waltzed into Britain on FOM to do the same here.

It absolutely is a failure of immigration control that we don't know who we are letting in. We should have a robust system in place from the get go and if any do happen to fall through the cracks, it should be a one strike and you're gone with no possible route of return.

Serious flaws in the way we deal with dangerous violent men in the CJS shouldn't absolve the policy makers of any culpability with regard to very, very lax immigration controls. The two things can both be true at the same time.

Clavinova · 01/05/2026 12:14

Lemonthyme · 01/05/2026 10:43

Indeed. As he had his formative years growing up in the UK, it's likely that it's our culture who has at least had an influence on his behaviour than anything else. This is not an argument about growing up in misogynistic cultures abroad but what we grow here, what we put up with here.

That's what I think people are missing.

As he had his formative years growing up in the UK

He was aged 11 when he moved here - formative years are typically defined as birth to age 8.

WiggyPig · 01/05/2026 12:41

JHound · 01/05/2026 10:48

The Begum case is not comparable. She has no other citizenship except British. This man is not a citizen of Britain but IS a citizen of Nigeria. No other country was obliged to take Begum because she had no other citizenship to enforce that right.

It does demonstrate though how inconsistent the law can be though.

Begum was considered such a threat she could be made stateless. This man at least has another country he can be sent to as he has the right to live there via citizenship.

Edited

That's completely wrong - the ONLY reason that we could deprive her of citizenship was that she would NOT be made stateless, because she had the option of taking up Bangladeshi citizenship by descent to which she was automatically entitled until the age of 21 or 24, I can't recall which.

She chose not to take that up and is now stateless. The reason we have allowed back other adult male ISIS fighters deported from Syria is that they were over the age to take up that citizenship and therefore could be entitled to no other citizenship but British.

So yes, it's directly comparable. Person with Nationality A is in Country B and commits a crime. Country A strips them of citizenship and they can't be deported to Country A despite having (originally) had nationality of that country. If Nigeria were to strip Oladele of citizenship (or question whether he really is a citizen - people are not always truthful about their nationality) then he couldn't be deported there. I don't know what their laws on deprivation of citizenship are though.

JHound · 01/05/2026 12:42

Trint · 01/05/2026 11:58

@Birdsongisangry
You write,
I don't think that we should be sent to a country we've never known because our DNA is from there. Referencing Odele being Nigerian
This man was a criminal. He is 24 . He could have applied for British Citizenship at anytime. He chose not to do so. In his heart he was Nigerian or he would have bothered with British citizenship. He has had plenty of time. His mother and presumably lots of relatives are Nigerian. The UK law is quite clear on foreign criminals. Yet, you want to protect him and keep him here. In between his first conviction and the second, did he apply for British citizenship?
Odele wants it all ways and that is not fair. It is completely unfair on his victims.

I disagree with your point on why he did not apply for UK citizenship.

I am only and only see myself as British yet still have other passports. I was just fussed enough to do the paperwork. Others never give it a second thought.

JHound · 01/05/2026 12:44

WiggyPig · 01/05/2026 12:41

That's completely wrong - the ONLY reason that we could deprive her of citizenship was that she would NOT be made stateless, because she had the option of taking up Bangladeshi citizenship by descent to which she was automatically entitled until the age of 21 or 24, I can't recall which.

She chose not to take that up and is now stateless. The reason we have allowed back other adult male ISIS fighters deported from Syria is that they were over the age to take up that citizenship and therefore could be entitled to no other citizenship but British.

So yes, it's directly comparable. Person with Nationality A is in Country B and commits a crime. Country A strips them of citizenship and they can't be deported to Country A despite having (originally) had nationality of that country. If Nigeria were to strip Oladele of citizenship (or question whether he really is a citizen - people are not always truthful about their nationality) then he couldn't be deported there. I don't know what their laws on deprivation of citizenship are though.

This is factually inaccurate. She did not have another citizenship and was made stateless.
Having the ability to another citizenship is not holding that citizenship. Having a claim to another citizenship is not holding that citizenship. You cannot enforce residency rights on a “claim”.

That is not comparable to this case where he actually holds Nigerian citizenship. He IS a citizen of Nigeria.

The two are not comparable.

HermioneWeasley · 01/05/2026 12:45

Bringemout · 01/05/2026 08:01

It really should be automatic deportation for anyone who breaks the law. I really don’t care if they have a family or will be deported to a war zone. It’s really not that hard to not rape or assualt anyone. The majority of us get through the day without committing a single crime.

100% agree with this.

criminals should be deported and I don’t care about their “human rights” or their family’s rights.

it might be an incentive not to commit crime.

WiggyPig · 01/05/2026 12:45

Trint · 01/05/2026 11:58

@Birdsongisangry
You write,
I don't think that we should be sent to a country we've never known because our DNA is from there. Referencing Odele being Nigerian
This man was a criminal. He is 24 . He could have applied for British Citizenship at anytime. He chose not to do so. In his heart he was Nigerian or he would have bothered with British citizenship. He has had plenty of time. His mother and presumably lots of relatives are Nigerian. The UK law is quite clear on foreign criminals. Yet, you want to protect him and keep him here. In between his first conviction and the second, did he apply for British citizenship?
Odele wants it all ways and that is not fair. It is completely unfair on his victims.

No, he couldn't have applied for British citizenship at any time. He entered legally (sounds like under the EEA Regs) and was resident lawfully 2014-18, then seems not to have renewed for a couple of years, then another residence card (so pre-settled status). To apply for citizenship you have to have lived for a continuous lawful period of five years in the UK, with at least one year of indefinite leave to remain / settled status, and he'd not had ILR at all.

You can't just apply for citizenship at any point you fancy it like applying for work experience.

Abra1t · 01/05/2026 12:46

5128gap · 01/05/2026 07:50

I think this case highlights serious flaws in the way we deal with dangerous violent men within our CJS. This is a hugely important issue.
I think it is wrong to use cases like this to prop up anti immigration agendas because it perpetuates the falsehood that if we deport people the problem will go away.
Had this man been simply deported he would have posed a threat to women in his country of origin. I don't think its any more acceptable for Nigeran women to be raped than British ones.
Had this man been deported, it would have made no difference to the fact that our system permits dangerous men to rape women. We would have been safe from this one man, but just as much at risk from the white British men who rape.
Making this about immigration rather than about how the UK deals with dangerous men in general is trying to fit a problem into your preferred solution which is short sighted and ineffective.

It's not acceptable for anyone to be raped, but I don't see why we should pay for him to be imprisoned. His home country can do that. Our first duty is to our own citizens' security.

Birdsongisangry · 01/05/2026 12:46

Trint · 01/05/2026 11:58

@Birdsongisangry
You write,
I don't think that we should be sent to a country we've never known because our DNA is from there. Referencing Odele being Nigerian
This man was a criminal. He is 24 . He could have applied for British Citizenship at anytime. He chose not to do so. In his heart he was Nigerian or he would have bothered with British citizenship. He has had plenty of time. His mother and presumably lots of relatives are Nigerian. The UK law is quite clear on foreign criminals. Yet, you want to protect him and keep him here. In between his first conviction and the second, did he apply for British citizenship?
Odele wants it all ways and that is not fair. It is completely unfair on his victims.

There are lots of children who grow up in the UK who have the right to be here but don't get citizenship, and I've never known anyone to have made the choice because 'their heart isn't here'. It's usually not being able to afford the solicitor or not having access to the documents you need, or assuming that having the right to be here, work here and access medical care here (eg indefinite leave) is enough, without seeing any need to apply for citizenship on top.

WiggyPig · 01/05/2026 12:47

JHound · 01/05/2026 12:44

This is factually inaccurate. She did not have another citizenship and was made stateless.
Having the ability to another citizenship is not holding that citizenship. Having a claim to another citizenship is not holding that citizenship. You cannot enforce residency rights on a “claim”.

That is not comparable to this case where he actually holds Nigerian citizenship. He IS a citizen of Nigeria.

The two are not comparable.

Edited

Oh I see what you mean, I thought you were saying she could be deprived of citizenship but had no right to any other nationality, whereas it was her entitlement to another nationality that made it legally feasible to deprive.

Contrast the (adult male) ISIS fighters who have had to come back to the UK because they were too old to be entitled to take up theoretical alternative Bangladeshi citizenship.

EasternStandard · 01/05/2026 12:48

Abra1t · 01/05/2026 12:46

It's not acceptable for anyone to be raped, but I don't see why we should pay for him to be imprisoned. His home country can do that. Our first duty is to our own citizens' security.

Yes I wish people would not argue women just have to have these men here.

JHound · 01/05/2026 12:50

Abra1t · 01/05/2026 12:46

It's not acceptable for anyone to be raped, but I don't see why we should pay for him to be imprisoned. His home country can do that. Our first duty is to our own citizens' security.

What “home country”? That’s why people are saying it’s murky.

The only passport he holds is for a country he has never lived (or it appears been).

The only countries he has lived in (Italy and the UK - so his “home” countries) he has no citizenship in.

Gealach · 01/05/2026 12:50

There is also a measure of racism that foreign countries such as Nigeria do not have a legal system that can cope with a returned violent rapist and so he should be left in the UK for us to deal with.

What a weird take on what people are saying. If he was deported he would have done his time in the UK so there would not be a case for their legal system to deal with.

People are pointing out it is not straight forward case as he was raised here. The law should be applied to everyone no matter how distasteful we find them.

Personally I think that rape should have much more severe sentencing. Also it looks like he was convicted of a sexually motivated crime previously. These type of crimes - groping, up skirting , harassment- they need to carry much more severe sentencing. People get longer for stealing property, it’s disgraceful.

I completely agree with @Lemonthyme

JHound · 01/05/2026 12:53

WiggyPig · 01/05/2026 12:47

Oh I see what you mean, I thought you were saying she could be deprived of citizenship but had no right to any other nationality, whereas it was her entitlement to another nationality that made it legally feasible to deprive.

Contrast the (adult male) ISIS fighters who have had to come back to the UK because they were too old to be entitled to take up theoretical alternative Bangladeshi citizenship.

She certainly had a claim to it but even having a claim I don’t believe makes it automatic. But yes my point was the two are not comparable because this man is actually a citizen of Nigeria so no de facto statelessness concerns.

I still think him never having been there makes it murky.

(And it’s tiring to see people here insisting those who can see the murkiness are “pro-rapists” or even “racist against Nigerians”.)

FernandoSor · 01/05/2026 12:55

Trint · 01/05/2026 10:20

@FernandoSor
I't was an immigration tribunal judge (Judge James Simpson) who let him remain in the country, not the judge in his initial trial for false imprisonment, who recommended he be deported.'
Why can an immigration judge overrule the law and the Home Office and allow a convicted foreign rapist to remain in the UK because he thought the rapists rights were more important. It is absolutely wrong and the immigration judge should be asked to apologize to the poor victims of Oladele.
I hope the huge wave of repulsion about the details of this case, filters back to the Immigration Department and this judge in particular and awkward questions are asked. It seems completely wrong that an immigration judge has the right to overturn law and the Home Office in favour of Oladele's 'human rights'.

Judges don’t overrule the law, they decide whether the law has been correctly applied. That’s literally their job.

In the case of a tribunal they make a ruling on whether the law has or has not been applied correctly. In this case the tribunal judge ruled that the Home Office had not followed its own rules correctly and that the deportee should be permitted to remain.

Obviously the Home Office did not exactly help its case by failing to show up to the hearing.

FernandoSor · 01/05/2026 12:58

JHound · 01/05/2026 12:50

What “home country”? That’s why people are saying it’s murky.

The only passport he holds is for a country he has never lived (or it appears been).

The only countries he has lived in (Italy and the UK - so his “home” countries) he has no citizenship in.

Deportations are to a country of citizenship (or a safe third country). “Home country” doesn’t really mean anything in law.

JHound · 01/05/2026 12:59

FernandoSor · 01/05/2026 12:58

Deportations are to a country of citizenship (or a safe third country). “Home country” doesn’t really mean anything in law.

I am not the one who used the term “home country” to define where he holds citizenship.

Meadowfinch · 01/05/2026 13:03

How depressing that we now need to rely on other prisoners to safeguard the public, when that duty should reside with the judiciary.

I hate the thought but it's true.

Middlechild3 · 01/05/2026 13:09

FinchiePink · 01/05/2026 07:47

I don't think a sentence of 17 years in prison is "a slap on the wrist". It's a fairly substantial sentence by anyone's book.

You know they won't serve 17 years though don't you?

dizzydizzydizzy · 01/05/2026 13:17

ClassyCuckoo · 01/05/2026 07:50

Do you really think he’ll serve 17 years? I don’t.

https://www.northwales.police.uk/news/north-wales/news/news/2026/april/man-jailed-for-17-years-for-raping-young-woman-in-wrexham/

according to this, his sentence is 25 years and he will be spending 17 years in prison.

Lemonthyme · 01/05/2026 13:29

The world is full of people who would hurt women, like this man. And there are elements in politics and the media who want to distract us all. Believe it or not, there's some great research back in 2018 about bots and trolls in Russia, not trying to push a certain viewpoint but to push discord. (But that's for another thread.)

And it's working. Our politics is becoming more polarised. More angry. People are making claims and counter claims. I fall into it sometimes too.

But I don't see anyone on here advocating that what this man did was anything but abhorrent. And yet I keep reading comments stating... "defending this man..." etc etc.

Nobody is defending that piece of crap. Nobody.

And who is all of this hate and vitriol helping? Not us. Not women. It's not making women (anywhere) any safer.

Politics aside, and I say this not having voted for Labour since 1997, one person I have a lot of time for in any discussion in VAWG is Jess Phillips. One of the few politicians who has gone into it with real purpose and with experience of working in refuges. Her yearly reading in parliament of the names of women who have lost their lives to men always brings me to tears.

She does this every year. On International Women's Day.

Look at who is there and listening. Is your MP? If not, I'd perhaps drop them a note. Because much as people are trying to weaponise this to make it about other topics, VAWG is going largely unpunished in the UK. Rape is virtually decriminalised men are so likely to get away with it.

That's worth getting angry about.

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JoeSikoraTommysStory · 01/05/2026 13:29

For PPs stating (his heavy jail sentence) and banging on about white British men raping; which is of course true but you are completely missing the point.
We should 100% deport as soon as a crime is committed it obviously escaped numerous posters on the amount of dangerous criminals released early to make more room in prisons.
We don’t have room in our prison for all the British men committing crimes never mind all the criminals for other countries and why the fuck should the UK tax payer have to pay to keep the scum locked up?

They don’t deserve a second chance once they commit a crime any crime DEPORT them. They have zero respect for the laws or country as a whole.

EasternStandard · 01/05/2026 13:34

Lemonthyme · 01/05/2026 13:29

The world is full of people who would hurt women, like this man. And there are elements in politics and the media who want to distract us all. Believe it or not, there's some great research back in 2018 about bots and trolls in Russia, not trying to push a certain viewpoint but to push discord. (But that's for another thread.)

And it's working. Our politics is becoming more polarised. More angry. People are making claims and counter claims. I fall into it sometimes too.

But I don't see anyone on here advocating that what this man did was anything but abhorrent. And yet I keep reading comments stating... "defending this man..." etc etc.

Nobody is defending that piece of crap. Nobody.

And who is all of this hate and vitriol helping? Not us. Not women. It's not making women (anywhere) any safer.

Politics aside, and I say this not having voted for Labour since 1997, one person I have a lot of time for in any discussion in VAWG is Jess Phillips. One of the few politicians who has gone into it with real purpose and with experience of working in refuges. Her yearly reading in parliament of the names of women who have lost their lives to men always brings me to tears.

She does this every year. On International Women's Day.

Look at who is there and listening. Is your MP? If not, I'd perhaps drop them a note. Because much as people are trying to weaponise this to make it about other topics, VAWG is going largely unpunished in the UK. Rape is virtually decriminalised men are so likely to get away with it.

That's worth getting angry about.

The systems in place deprioritise women and girls. 96% can feel that on this thread. It has nothing to do with bots.

Lemonthyme · 01/05/2026 13:37

EasternStandard · 01/05/2026 13:34

The systems in place deprioritise women and girls. 96% can feel that on this thread. It has nothing to do with bots.

Edited

You know I think we're violently agreeing.

But what you're missing is that it's only because this man isn't white that it's even being covered by the press. I have personal experience of it. It's only because he was an immigrant that it's "newsworthy".

Look at who is in the chamber when Jess is speaking? And who isn't there.

If the likes of Farage and Badenoch gave a shit about VAWG, where are they?

EasternStandard · 01/05/2026 13:47

Lemonthyme · 01/05/2026 13:37

You know I think we're violently agreeing.

But what you're missing is that it's only because this man isn't white that it's even being covered by the press. I have personal experience of it. It's only because he was an immigrant that it's "newsworthy".

Look at who is in the chamber when Jess is speaking? And who isn't there.

If the likes of Farage and Badenoch gave a shit about VAWG, where are they?

Kemi does. I’m happy with her approach so probably not agreeing.

All the systems and I include asylum policies prioritise men over women and girls. Both for those arriving and the citizens here.

For too long women have been told to be kind, don’t mention it, you’re bots etc.

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