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PickAChew · 30/04/2026 22:13

Inburess · 30/04/2026 21:29

I’m looking at a similar house (in a slightly different area) and I suppose wanted to know what people would think of me if I lived somewhere like that! I know it’s shallow!

Ignoring the bland decor and weird grey room, it's a perfectly decent house and a lot more house than the majority of people are living in.

Consider whether the house suits your needs - family, budget and lifestyle - before you worry about what others might think. The decor, you can change, so focus on location and floor plan.

Justusethebloodyphone · 30/04/2026 22:13

WildGarden · 30/04/2026 21:57

Living room - Somewhere you sit on a settee and eat rich tea biscuits straight from the packet.

Sitting room - The settee's called a sofa and it's chocolate Hobnobs served on a plate with doily.

Lounge - You're horizontal a couch with a Domino's pizza balancing on your hoody front.

Parlour - Purely used for viewing dead aunt in casket.

A settee belongs in a front room!

Zov · 30/04/2026 22:13

Teeny tiny garden too, for the size of the house. Most middle class people I know have land, some have acres of it. Not a postage stamp back garden.

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IckyIck · 30/04/2026 22:14

Definitely not upper class, it has a WC not a lavatory.

Crispynoodle · 30/04/2026 22:15

Upper middle class for sure

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 30/04/2026 22:15

Inburess · 30/04/2026 21:29

I’m looking at a similar house (in a slightly different area) and I suppose wanted to know what people would think of me if I lived somewhere like that! I know it’s shallow!

What do you want people to think about you?

5128gap · 30/04/2026 22:16

Zov · 30/04/2026 22:04

It's giving 'desperate to make people think I'm middle class' vibes...

Ha. I don't think so. People desperate to appear MC wouldn't have that decor and hot tub. The aspiring MC abhors a hot tub.
Looks to me like the house of people with enough money to have their house the way they want it with the things they want in it, who couldn't give a monkeys about class.

HarkHarktheDogsdoBark · 30/04/2026 22:17

Zov · 30/04/2026 22:13

Teeny tiny garden too, for the size of the house. Most middle class people I know have land, some have acres of it. Not a postage stamp back garden.

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Edited

I do not associate middle class with land owning.

More with Victorian semis or detacheds in the south-east with teal blue front parlours and too many pictures on the wall.

Funnys · 30/04/2026 22:18

Justusethebloodyphone · 30/04/2026 22:13

A settee belongs in a front room!

nooo, front room has a sofa, a lounge has a settee

PickAChew · 30/04/2026 22:18

Ineedanewsofa · 30/04/2026 21:56

Nevermind middle class, it’s in the middle of nowhere! MC is less about the house and more about the area IMO - there are terrace rows in London that are undoubtedly MC and mansions in other areas that definitely are not.

It's in the middle of some gorgeous countryside. Many people would want to live there for that or simply for where their family is settled.

Lifeomars · 30/04/2026 22:18

Be able to fit my run down little slum of a house in there about 6 times with room to spare. In fact you could buy around 4 or 5 houses on my street for that amount of money.

Wolmando · 30/04/2026 22:19

It does look a bit like a MN house, the sort you get on the kitchen threads, is that what you wanted OP

justasking111 · 30/04/2026 22:19

It wouldn't be band F here but G. Decent size plot.

ToffeeCrabApple · 30/04/2026 22:20

Nice middle class home but it's a cramped plot. All that money on decor for a small garden, its a bit fur coat no keks

HarkHarktheDogsdoBark · 30/04/2026 22:20

I tend to notice if people are enjoying their house rather than judging their class. Do they have a pizza oven / hobby herb garden / makeshift art studio / sports equipment / ongoing fun DIY / a Dutch tile collection / lived-in, messy or sociable spaces with books or board games and comfortable seating and little tables / a set of family bikes, or whatever

TinkyBella · 30/04/2026 22:20

It’s not what I’d call middle class. It’s got good bones but the decor / interior design does not say middle class.

flagpolesitta · 30/04/2026 22:21

Also why is new money used negatively? It just means you actually worked for your wealth rather than acquired or inherited.

Funnys · 30/04/2026 22:21

and to answer your question @Inburess , no its not a MC house. That would be a double fronted victorian or Georgian house with a good bit of land

Nedward · 30/04/2026 22:22

Are you referring to the price of the house or the decor ?
It's well out of a lot of people's price ranges (myself included).

"Middle class" i think is a broad brush

sammylady37 · 30/04/2026 22:22

Pallisers · 30/04/2026 21:59

quite a good insight into what people really think about class in the UK on this thread. Every cliche out in full. First prize probably goes to this:

at best it's upper working class / lower middle class. The decor is not nice, there's no sense of class, style or history. Quite a few tacky features (like the hot tub).

Indeed. I’m so glad to be Irish, we don’t have this ridiculous obsession with class.

NoSoupForU · 30/04/2026 22:22

What the fuck is a middle class house? And why the fuck are people so obsessed with labelling themselves middle class? Can't you just live your life and like whatever you like rather than whatever you feel curated to like in order to appear sufficiently middle class?

I don't like the house. I'm not a fan of new build Barratt type houses and I don't like the layout or decor.

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 30/04/2026 22:22

flagpolesitta · 30/04/2026 22:21

Also why is new money used negatively? It just means you actually worked for your wealth rather than acquired or inherited.

Agreed. Being ‘new money’ is nothing to be ashamed of. It means you’ve worked for your money instead of inheriting it from other people.

HarkHarktheDogsdoBark · 30/04/2026 22:22

Can you easily get to a good city or enjoyable countryside or is it a Suburban Trap? I fear suburbs.

Where I live now is a tiny fraction of the space where I grew up, but both were in interesting cities and not far from nice walks.

Funnys · 30/04/2026 22:23

flagpolesitta · 30/04/2026 22:21

Also why is new money used negatively? It just means you actually worked for your wealth rather than acquired or inherited.

no, it means you have no taste

suki1964 · 30/04/2026 22:23

Houses say nothing about you

This is the same size as mine. just 4 miles up the road, only we dont have gates

https://www.propertypal.com/kilbarchan-house-140-moycraig-road-ballymoney/1036503

Im very much working class, as is DH,

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