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Parent went mental at my Ddog!

369 replies

WesternAmy · 30/04/2026 17:42

Can someone please tell me how Ddog was at fault here?! We were walking on a footpath close to our house earlier, and a woman was pushing her toddler along on a sort of bike thing.

As we were passing, the toddler dropped a cuddly toy. Ddog instinctively went to pick this up (it resembled a dog toy) and I stopped him.

The woman went mental, shouted at Ddog “NO, NO” and I hurried us away.

I can tell it has impacted him, he has been really subdued since which is not like him at all.

Am I wrong to think the woman should have had some restraint?

OP posts:
Viviennemary · 30/04/2026 18:25

No. The woman didn't want your dog eating the toy or running off with it. Perfectly understandable.

PennyThought · 30/04/2026 18:26

Surprisednotusedb4 · 30/04/2026 18:24

well at least you’re honest

Thank you!

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2026 18:26

WesternAmy · 30/04/2026 18:02

He’s snuggled up with me now x

(as indeed is the toy with the toddler - and slobber free)

BudgetBuster · 30/04/2026 18:26

PennyThought · 30/04/2026 18:24

No, maybe I made it up to be cool on MN.

Cool 😂
Try harder hun

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 30/04/2026 18:26

WesternAmy · 30/04/2026 17:45

He’s a very tame DLab.

Actually YABU if you don’t tell us what colour lab 😬

ColourThief · 30/04/2026 18:26

cobrakaieaglefang · 30/04/2026 17:46

You stopped him, no harm done to toy or child. She's obviously a mner.. dislikes dogs. 😉

You’re obviously a dog obsessive and think everyone should love them, hence the snarky comment.

Bore off, not everyone wants a smelly, slobbering dog near them or their kids.

Not read the full thread but I’m willing to bet someone’s already made the predictable comparison of dogs to kids.
”I’d rather have a dog (insert example) than a kid!”

Predictable every time there is a thread even remotely critical of dogs. 🥱

Surprisednotusedb4 · 30/04/2026 18:26

PennyThought · 30/04/2026 18:26

Thank you!

No problem

outerspacepotato · 30/04/2026 18:27

It's another DDog one. 😎

Dog should be over a loud No within a few minutes. If not, maybe he's part elephant.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 30/04/2026 18:27

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 30/04/2026 18:26

(as indeed is the toy with the toddler - and slobber free)

I doubt it if it belongs to a toddler - they are slobbery little creatures

PennyThought · 30/04/2026 18:28

BudgetBuster · 30/04/2026 18:26

Cool 😂
Try harder hun

I don't want to be friends with neurotic people who raise neurotic children.

My friends are mentally balanced, strong, reasonable women.

Dog drool and big labs who are being friendly wouldn't make us run and scream and send the most bizarre message to our children.

If that's what being cool on MN means, then, I'm a happy outlier.

Gardenimp · 30/04/2026 18:29

Clockbook · 30/04/2026 17:53

Oh come on. You seem massively OTT now. ‘Bloody crazy woman’ because she said no x 2 to your dog? It’s not like she kicked your dog or spat at you is it? Confused

Life must be very difficult for DDog if he's impacted by someone shouting No twice.

BudgetBuster · 30/04/2026 18:29

PennyThought · 30/04/2026 18:28

I don't want to be friends with neurotic people who raise neurotic children.

My friends are mentally balanced, strong, reasonable women.

Dog drool and big labs who are being friendly wouldn't make us run and scream and send the most bizarre message to our children.

If that's what being cool on MN means, then, I'm a happy outlier.

😂😂😂 The mother in question said "No" to a dog

You've made up a lovely far fetched story though

WesternAmy · 30/04/2026 18:29

One thing this has taught me - there is something that (D)Mumsnetter’s hate more than having to sleep with their Husband’s. DDogs!

OP posts:
Ved · 30/04/2026 18:30

TheOtherSide21 · 30/04/2026 18:25

I love dogs, have my own working lab, and think a whole raft of folk on here are miserable wenches for their dog hating tendencies… and I think you’re a bit mental on this one 😂

She doesn’t know your dog from Adam, whether it’s tame, feral, whether if it got the toy she’d get it back and actually who wants someone else’s dogs slobber all over their stuff? And maybe the kid was allergic? Who knows. You got the dog, she also tried to stop the dog in case you didn’t, no harm done 🤷🏼‍♀️

Exactly! I don't give a stuff if a dog's mouth has less germs than a child's hand, the muddy ground, or an ant's arse, I wouldn't want MY CHILD, handling their toy after someone's mutt had drooled all over it!

Sorry, their DMutt!

!

mydogisthebest · 30/04/2026 18:30

Laughing at just how many posters had to use the word "slobber". Not all dogs slobber, in fact most don't but the dog haters like to think they all go round slobbering and moulting like crazy.

HormonalHairyPoppins · 30/04/2026 18:30

WesternAmy · 30/04/2026 17:51

He’s definitely impacted, I know what my Ddog is like. Bloody crazy woman!

One of you is...

BudgetBuster · 30/04/2026 18:30

WesternAmy · 30/04/2026 18:29

One thing this has taught me - there is something that (D)Mumsnetter’s hate more than having to sleep with their Husband’s. DDogs!

😂 No, we don't hate dogs.
We do think you need some help though.

vodkaredbullgirl · 30/04/2026 18:31

WesternAmy · 30/04/2026 18:29

One thing this has taught me - there is something that (D)Mumsnetter’s hate more than having to sleep with their Husband’s. DDogs!

Yes 😆

HormonalHairyPoppins · 30/04/2026 18:31

Ddog?
Dlab?

D-
Must try harder.

Surprisednotusedb4 · 30/04/2026 18:32

Your poor dog

Suffering with impaction and yet you are too much of a cheapskate to deal with it. Instead posting on mumsnet 😢

Clockbook · 30/04/2026 18:32

WesternAmy · 30/04/2026 18:29

One thing this has taught me - there is something that (D)Mumsnetter’s hate more than having to sleep with their Husband’s. DDogs!

I think the total opposite actually. MN is generally very very pro dogs.

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 30/04/2026 18:32

Arlanymor · 30/04/2026 18:24

But if the dog was under control, it wouldn't have been necessary to say 'no' twice, would it?

have you read the OP correctly?

I can’t see anywhere that suggests the dog needed to be told to leave the toy twice.

TilerSwift · 30/04/2026 18:33

You should’ve shrieked ‘leave it ddog, you don’t know what you’ll catch from that little germ factory’

Melsy88 · 30/04/2026 18:33

Metromayhem · 30/04/2026 17:55

But the whole point of DH is that it’s quicker to type than husband. DDog is more letters, it’s so weird and cringe. Also nobody thinks your dog is dear or darling other than you, and I would shout at it if it tried to out its horrible slobbery mouth around my kids toys too.

Edited

Love how triggered mumsnetters get when anyone dares to show affection towards their pets 🤣

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 30/04/2026 18:33

Clockbook · 30/04/2026 18:32

I think the total opposite actually. MN is generally very very pro dogs.

Apart from the minimum of 10 posts a month complaining about them in some capacity.