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Parent went mental at my Ddog!

386 replies

WesternAmy · 30/04/2026 17:42

Can someone please tell me how Ddog was at fault here?! We were walking on a footpath close to our house earlier, and a woman was pushing her toddler along on a sort of bike thing.

As we were passing, the toddler dropped a cuddly toy. Ddog instinctively went to pick this up (it resembled a dog toy) and I stopped him.

The woman went mental, shouted at Ddog “NO, NO” and I hurried us away.

I can tell it has impacted him, he has been really subdued since which is not like him at all.

Am I wrong to think the woman should have had some restraint?

OP posts:
ForCosyLion · 01/05/2026 20:14

I think anyone who has a ddog and only writes "dog" is extremely weird. Don't they love their dog? I would be suspicious. If it's not a ddog, they should give it up to someone who DOES think of it as a ddog!

AgentPidge · 01/05/2026 20:17

Latitudeohyeah · 30/04/2026 17:46

What the hell is the ddog?

It's traditional on MN (Like DH, DD, etc.) We had dchameleon once. I think it's sweet.

AgentPidge · 01/05/2026 20:20

Calliopespa · 30/04/2026 23:13

It isn't dogs' fault people anthropomorphise them, prioritise their human needs over the animals' by treating them as little babies

Yes, why wasn't DDog safely tucked up in one of those doggy prams OP?😄

I don't mind dogs, but I am a bit bemused by a couple we know (childless) who will say at about 6pm "Well we must be off: we need to take the Ddog for a walk" as if it is some leggy Great Dane who needs to burn off energy with laps of the park, when in fact it is some kind of Jack Russel cross who has been so overfed it's legs don't hold it up and it gets pushed round the block in its pram. I just don't get what they think is "needed" about that walk - though I guess they unload him outside someone else's house to take a dump, then hoist him back in and push him home.

I went to an event recently and the woman sitting next to me said, "I'd better go. I told the dog I'd only be an hour."

Harhar · 01/05/2026 20:25

Are people using their dogs as an excuse to go home rather than hanging round with you often?

Calliopespa · 01/05/2026 20:46

AgentPidge · 01/05/2026 20:20

I went to an event recently and the woman sitting next to me said, "I'd better go. I told the dog I'd only be an hour."

I love this!

Harhar · 01/05/2026 20:53

I love the arrogance that they believe there’s something wrong with the dog owner rather than their conversation. It’s an excuse to get away. Nothing more.

MyLimeGuide · 01/05/2026 20:54

Lol DDOG! Dwtf

Harhar · 01/05/2026 21:01

Latecomer Ddunce

ForCosyLion · 01/05/2026 21:48

AgentPidge · 01/05/2026 20:17

It's traditional on MN (Like DH, DD, etc.) We had dchameleon once. I think it's sweet.

I think it's sweet, too!

ForCosyLion · 01/05/2026 21:49

Calliopespa · 01/05/2026 20:46

I love this!

Me too!

I wonder if ddog was wearing a watch!

ForCosyLion · 01/05/2026 21:59

I think all the posters who are mocking Ddog for being upset are really mean!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 02/05/2026 08:38

ForCosyLion · 01/05/2026 21:59

I think all the posters who are mocking Ddog for being upset are really mean!

Ffs it’s a dog! Will only momentarily be traumatised. Stop putting human feelings into/onto dogs. It’s hardly like the mother hit it hard.

Harhar · 02/05/2026 08:44

Also, ffs it was a cuddly toy. Hardly the end of the world the dog glanced at it.

AgentPidge · 02/05/2026 08:57

Harhar · 01/05/2026 20:25

Are people using their dogs as an excuse to go home rather than hanging round with you often?

I think it was the event she was bored with, rather than my company!

ForCosyLion · 02/05/2026 09:11

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 02/05/2026 08:38

Ffs it’s a dog! Will only momentarily be traumatised. Stop putting human feelings into/onto dogs. It’s hardly like the mother hit it hard.

But they do have many of the same feelings we do. They feel anger, happiness, loneliness, depression, sadness, fear, joy, contentment. The only reason that humans can labour under the impression that they do not is because they can't talk. They would have plenty of feelings to express if they could! Also, remember how sensitive dogs' ears are. When the woman shouted, it must have deafened him. Him, note, not it!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 02/05/2026 10:20

ForCosyLion · 02/05/2026 09:11

But they do have many of the same feelings we do. They feel anger, happiness, loneliness, depression, sadness, fear, joy, contentment. The only reason that humans can labour under the impression that they do not is because they can't talk. They would have plenty of feelings to express if they could! Also, remember how sensitive dogs' ears are. When the woman shouted, it must have deafened him. Him, note, not it!

Yes but only in that moment. I can guarantee that the dog won’t have held onto those emotions for the same length of time OP said it would. My cat gets pissed off if you yell at her (not often) but is over it in a short time.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 02/05/2026 10:21

ForCosyLion · 02/05/2026 09:11

But they do have many of the same feelings we do. They feel anger, happiness, loneliness, depression, sadness, fear, joy, contentment. The only reason that humans can labour under the impression that they do not is because they can't talk. They would have plenty of feelings to express if they could! Also, remember how sensitive dogs' ears are. When the woman shouted, it must have deafened him. Him, note, not it!

I know dogs and cats and other animals have similar emotions to us too. Well aware of that.

HelpMeGetThrough · 02/05/2026 10:34

Guess I’ve traumatised a neighbours dog and it’ll now need months of therapy, after telling it to fuck off.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 02/05/2026 12:18

HelpMeGetThrough · 02/05/2026 10:34

Guess I’ve traumatised a neighbours dog and it’ll now need months of therapy, after telling it to fuck off.

🤣🤣🤣

ForCosyLion · 02/05/2026 17:02

HelpMeGetThrough · 02/05/2026 10:34

Guess I’ve traumatised a neighbours dog and it’ll now need months of therapy, after telling it to fuck off.

Why would you speak like that to a defenceless animal? He or she (not "it") will know from your tone that you were being horrible. Also, the dog might well recognise the word as a sign of aggression, since humans use it that way so often.

You only swore at it because you know it can't answer back. 😡

ForCosyLion · 02/05/2026 17:03

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 02/05/2026 10:20

Yes but only in that moment. I can guarantee that the dog won’t have held onto those emotions for the same length of time OP said it would. My cat gets pissed off if you yell at her (not often) but is over it in a short time.

Well, why not? Dogs can remember things for a few hours.

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 02/05/2026 17:42

ForCosyLion · 02/05/2026 17:02

Why would you speak like that to a defenceless animal? He or she (not "it") will know from your tone that you were being horrible. Also, the dog might well recognise the word as a sign of aggression, since humans use it that way so often.

You only swore at it because you know it can't answer back. 😡

Lenny must be horribly traumatised - I swear at him quite frequently when he brings his friends in to play. 🤣

Parent went mental at my Ddog!
ElevenBells · 02/05/2026 18:04

I’m an experienced dog owner and I can assure you that “ddog” won’t have been impacted and been subdued by being told no, loudly or otherwise 🙄

It’s that kind of thinking that has resulted it a nation of babied, badly behaved dogs that are allowed to do whatever they want because apparently their needs come before the general public’s.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 02/05/2026 18:29

ForCosyLion · 02/05/2026 17:03

Well, why not? Dogs can remember things for a few hours.

Oh please.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 02/05/2026 18:30

ElevenBells · 02/05/2026 18:04

I’m an experienced dog owner and I can assure you that “ddog” won’t have been impacted and been subdued by being told no, loudly or otherwise 🙄

It’s that kind of thinking that has resulted it a nation of babied, badly behaved dogs that are allowed to do whatever they want because apparently their needs come before the general public’s.

Thank you for posting this!