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AIBU to think mental health crises should not be treated as antisocial behaviour

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Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 15:12

TW: Some references to suicide.

In my local area Police have started a new initiative to reduce the demands & costs involved in attending to 'concern for welfare'/mental health crisis type calls.

They have issued a number of formal enforcement notices and warnings using Antisocial Behaviour legislation to people who have caused inconvenience through mental health crisis/suicide attempts in public places. These enforcements are community protection warning (CPW), Community Protection Notice (CPN) & Criminal Behaviour Orders (CBO).

I know one individual very well who has received one of these & they were very distressed by it & have now become very withdrawn & secretive. It's also difficult as a loved one as if I was concerned this person may be at risk I would be hesitant to involve emergency services as even a call to ambulance would likely result in police attendance & therefore have criminal implications for them. I also can see that it has increased their risk but in a more secretive & less public way. No doubt police consider this a success as they have not been called out to them.

I fully understand the pressures on police, I have friends & family that have served as officers & police staff. The funding cuts are every bit as bad as NHS or social care but with less public awareness.

This doesn't sit right with me at all. I think it's misuse of legislation designed to tackle antisocial behaviour & that a mental health crisis/someone attempting to take their life should not be labelled as antisocial behaviour.

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Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 16:49

ScaryM0nster · 12/04/2026 16:45

Is it not very possible that the two things (mental health crises and antisocial behaviour) aren’t mutually exclusive?

Yes absolutely. It's a specific question regarding the suicide attempts themselves being labelled as antisocial behaviour.

They have had contact with the criminal justice system through other incidents not related to suicide (which is very common in care-experienced young people )

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Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 16:50

MyThreeWords · 12/04/2026 16:40

The person was detained under section 136 by officers a total of 4 times in the space of a year.

So they are repeatedly engaging in this behaviour? Taking up ambulance and police time? Absolutely they should be getting proper care after these episodes, and it seems that they are not. That is the injustice - not the attempt to regulate their anti-social behaviour.

There are many very desperately unhappy people who don't repeatedly draw the emergency services to themselves in this way. It does make sense to try and disincentivise an anti-social behaviour that might well have become a dysfunctional coping strategy,one which isn't really helping the person and may be preventing ambulances etc from going to other calls..

This post makes no sense. The person was sectioned. That means they can’t control the behavior that lead up to the section (most likely due to being in psychosis) you don’t get sectioned when you can control yourself

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 16:52

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 12/04/2026 16:15

A public suicide attempt runs the risk of wrecking the lives of others (the driver who runs them over, the person who has to deal with the aftermath etc).

I get it’s irrational but ruining someone else’s mental health is not the answer.

Neither is criminalising it. People don’t get to avoid real life by expecting the police punish traumatic human events egregiously.

Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 16:53

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It's not me, No. I'm very definitely no longer a teenager & these measures weren't in place when I was going through that. I was always treated with care & respect by police & mental health services were not as stretched as they are now

But any how that's not the debate.

It's about the criminalizing of mental distress in that way.

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MyThreeWords · 12/04/2026 16:54

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 16:50

This post makes no sense. The person was sectioned. That means they can’t control the behavior that lead up to the section (most likely due to being in psychosis) you don’t get sectioned when you can control yourself

Section 136 is for assessment only, and I don't think the issue of "whether you can control yourself" is what determines that you can be held in this way. (I also don't imagine that the person has psychosis, on the basis of what has been posted, though naturally I could be wrong about that.)

Shrinkhole · 12/04/2026 16:55

Lots of people suffer with their mental health and have suicidal thoughts and have conditions that are not easily treated. They don’t all need to go to very public places to make suicide attempts. People who actually do die by suicide usually have chosen a rather quieter and less broadcast method. Someone who repeatedly engages in this behaviour is not intending to end their life they are intending to attract attention in a maladaptive fashion. They are still deserving of help but they need to learn to manage their distress in a different way than this. In the end the police will likely drop you home and say to call 111 or drop you to A&E so you can cut out the middleman man and just do one of those without involving the poor police in the drama and leave them to respond to crime.

Posner · 12/04/2026 16:56

Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 16:53

It's not me, No. I'm very definitely no longer a teenager & these measures weren't in place when I was going through that. I was always treated with care & respect by police & mental health services were not as stretched as they are now

But any how that's not the debate.

It's about the criminalizing of mental distress in that way.

Again, categorically not what you have said in numerous other posts and threads. Aside from being a teen, the parallels are extraordinary.

anyway by the way - you weren’t there (you say)…. Say really, I’m going to trust the police who were actually there on this one

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 12/04/2026 16:56

BillieWiper · 12/04/2026 16:47

If someone persistently causes alarm or distress to others in public or does things that could harm themselves or others in public then something does need to be done about it.

If it is due the MH then you'd hope they could be signposted somewhere for help or fast tracked to seeing a psychiatrist but instead they just fine and criminalise them. Sad really.

I wish I knew how we could help people like that in a meaningful way.

We could put more money into mental health services and alongside that make them truly person centered.

I took so many calls over two decades in my previous job from people desperate for help, for themselves or a loved one. People who were turned away by the NHS, who couldn't get a GP appointment, who didn't meet the threshold for secondary care. One of the last ones I took, the person later killed themself. Sometimes the person had emailed dozens of people, I'd respond and they'd come back to me thanking me for being the only person who had.

There is so, so much unmet need out there, people who are pleading for help - and that's before you get to the hard to reach people, those who don't want to engage.

Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 16:57

ohyesido · 12/04/2026 16:35

There has been a significant increase in the number of people throwing themselves in front of trains in my area recently.

the general consensus is they are selfish bastards who inconvenience honest working people who just want to get home.

there but for the grace of god

Yes there are always very similar comments on posts local to me too & I feel sad at the lack of compassion shown

If someone survived one of these attempts would issuing them with a caution or behavioural order be okay? That's what concerns me.

Yes it's a huge inconvenience - I missed an important family event due to a concern for safety on the M4 but I wouldn't want that individual punished for that inconvenience

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Shrinkhole · 12/04/2026 16:57

S136 is a police power. The police are not good at determine who is mentally ill. They quite frequently deploy it on drunk or high people. Very rarely is anyone in a S136 in fact psychotic. I would not take use of a S136 to be diagnostic

Posner · 12/04/2026 16:58

Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 16:57

Yes there are always very similar comments on posts local to me too & I feel sad at the lack of compassion shown

If someone survived one of these attempts would issuing them with a caution or behavioural order be okay? That's what concerns me.

Yes it's a huge inconvenience - I missed an important family event due to a concern for safety on the M4 but I wouldn't want that individual punished for that inconvenience

You haven’t sat for 4 hours on a train
knowing your child is at nursery, with no other child and the staff are staying late and very pissed pff have you and racking up fees for every 15 mins late?

x2boys · 12/04/2026 16:59

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 16:50

This post makes no sense. The person was sectioned. That means they can’t control the behavior that lead up to the section (most likely due to being in psychosis) you don’t get sectioned when you can control yourself

A section 136 is a police section it gives them the powers to take somone ,in public who they beleive is acting in way ,that means they maybe suffering with a mentalhealth crisis to a place of safety( this was the 136 suite in the mental health trust i worked for )to be assesed by a mental health professional ,obviously the police are not mental health professionals themselves and sometimes after assement the person brought in by the police maybe assesed as fit to leave.

Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 16:59

Shrinkhole · 12/04/2026 16:57

S136 is a police power. The police are not good at determine who is mentally ill. They quite frequently deploy it on drunk or high people. Very rarely is anyone in a S136 in fact psychotic. I would not take use of a S136 to be diagnostic

It's not meant to be diagnostic. Police have no training or qualifications to be able to diagnose.

S136 is a power to remove someone 'suspected of having a mentally disorder' to a place of safety.

Someone attempting suicide would be detained on s136 that's fairly standard & there would be serious questions if police attended a suicide attempt & did not detain that person

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Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 17:00

Shrinkhole · 12/04/2026 16:57

S136 is a police power. The police are not good at determine who is mentally ill. They quite frequently deploy it on drunk or high people. Very rarely is anyone in a S136 in fact psychotic. I would not take use of a S136 to be diagnostic

It’s not rare at all. I was visiting a hospital last month and the 4 people brought in under section were all psychotic (acute ward, admittedly)

of course the police don’t diagnose. They also generally don’t lose officers to accompanying sectioned people unless they need to.

rileyy · 12/04/2026 17:00

Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 16:46

My fear is that it would do the opposite. It may reduce resources on the surface but I think it could increase the risks of suicide & actually discourage someone from engaging with help for fear of police enforcement.

It could also make that person feel a sense of shame or as a burden on society. These are both strong factors in people who die by suicide.

It's also how we feel as a society about labelling distress as 'antisocial behaviour'

That could be true, it’s too soon to be able to tell. The current reality is that as it is this is not workable for the police. My thinking is this is an attempt to put pressure back on the services that should be responsible for care in the first place, and as @Shrinkhole mentioned in their post, this is an intervention for a repeated pattern of behaviour, likely not a one off crisis.

You mentioned in a previous post that this person was assessed under Section 136 4x in one year and discharged each time. May I ask the reasoning given for the discharges?

ohyesido · 12/04/2026 17:00

Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 16:57

Yes there are always very similar comments on posts local to me too & I feel sad at the lack of compassion shown

If someone survived one of these attempts would issuing them with a caution or behavioural order be okay? That's what concerns me.

Yes it's a huge inconvenience - I missed an important family event due to a concern for safety on the M4 but I wouldn't want that individual punished for that inconvenience

I think not. I think even dreaming up such an initiative is self righteous and ignorant

they should think of the young woman who slipped from a bridge after changing her mind and pleading with a stranger to help her before she fell to her death aged 25

Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 17:01

Posner · 12/04/2026 16:58

You haven’t sat for 4 hours on a train
knowing your child is at nursery, with no other child and the staff are staying late and very pissed pff have you and racking up fees for every 15 mins late?

What if it was your child though?

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Posner · 12/04/2026 17:02

Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 17:01

What if it was your child though?

Are you really asking such a bizarre and daft question? How would I feel if I was delayed on a train because my child had committed suicide on the tracks?

silproblem · 12/04/2026 17:04

What's the larger story - was this a one off first time there's ever been a concern in public or is this part of a wider they've made many attempts kinda vibe?

Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 17:04

rileyy · 12/04/2026 17:00

That could be true, it’s too soon to be able to tell. The current reality is that as it is this is not workable for the police. My thinking is this is an attempt to put pressure back on the services that should be responsible for care in the first place, and as @Shrinkhole mentioned in their post, this is an intervention for a repeated pattern of behaviour, likely not a one off crisis.

You mentioned in a previous post that this person was assessed under Section 136 4x in one year and discharged each time. May I ask the reasoning given for the discharges?

The assessment is a mental health act assessment and they were assessed as not meeting criteria for detention under a section of the mental health act.

There is virtually no capacity for voluntary admission locally & long waiting lists for a bed even when detained.

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Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 17:04

silproblem · 12/04/2026 17:04

What's the larger story - was this a one off first time there's ever been a concern in public or is this part of a wider they've made many attempts kinda vibe?

4 times in 6 months at the same location.

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Shrinkhole · 12/04/2026 17:05

Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 16:46

My fear is that it would do the opposite. It may reduce resources on the surface but I think it could increase the risks of suicide & actually discourage someone from engaging with help for fear of police enforcement.

It could also make that person feel a sense of shame or as a burden on society. These are both strong factors in people who die by suicide.

It's also how we feel as a society about labelling distress as 'antisocial behaviour'

It is about how the person chooses to cope with that distress not the distress itself. What is wrong with calling a helpline or going to A&E instead? They need to learn a different way of coping.
If they were fast tracked to see a psychiatrist what do you imagine a psychiatrist would do for this? There are usually no medications for the kind of conditions that cause people to behave in these ways. Prolonged psychotherapy would be required for which some commitment and motivation for change is a pre requisite. There are no easy answers.
MH services are not to blame either.
The person ultimately to blame is this persons abuser.

Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 17:06

Posner · 12/04/2026 17:02

Are you really asking such a bizarre and daft question? How would I feel if I was delayed on a train because my child had committed suicide on the tracks?

Edited

If the positions were reversed. If it was your child up there with the police negotiator desperately trying to persuade them to come to safety - how would you feel about people grumbling about the delays.

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Shrinkhole · 12/04/2026 17:06

Serencwtch · 12/04/2026 17:04

4 times in 6 months at the same location.

Well in that case an order is very much justified. They need to be deterred from this behaviour that is helping no one and to engage with more constructive options. Admission cannot help an issue like this.

Doyouthinktheyknow · 12/04/2026 17:09

I think YABU because these cases are very complex and it really does take a lot for police to take such steps!