What do you find hot in a man? What do you think men like on a woman? Lighthearted Friday chat 🤷‍♀️

[freedomformeismotherhood]

In a man:
Muscles
Height (sorry)
Aura - are they strong or weak?

I think straight men notice:
Skin (does it have that dewy look)
Shape
How much you care for yourself (manicure, hair, etc)

A dark haired hannah waddingham?

Capable
Supportive
Loyal
Funny
Good morals and work ethic
Physically fit
Nice bum
Strong arms
Calm and dependable in a crisis / bad situation

Thankfully DH has / is all of the above (or do I find them hot because of DH?! 🤔)

I know! There is just something about being able to play an instrument.

I think mathematicians might be a weird one though 😬. My dh is quite gifted mathematically, and I am definitely not, so I do find it weirdly really attractive. I heard him on a work call a while ago and out of nowhere thought "hot".

I like both men and women.
In both:

• funny
• has integrity
• has a reasonable amount of confidence and faith in themselves

For women I'd add that they have a nice shape like a good waist and bum, I don't like straight up and down, but think most women are physically quite attractive.
For men I'd add that they one or two physical things that I can like, strong hands, wide shoulders, nice eyes, hot smile - something like that, tbh I'm not as physically attracted to men.

Definitely agree with this. As a teen/early 20's I was into rocker looking guys. Then mid to late 20's I all of a sudden wanted shaved head and hairy body. I wanted a manly man if you see what I mean. Definitely hormone related I reckon 😁

What I look for:
Funny
Loyal
Good with children
Decent size cock

What I think men look:
Loyal
Not overweight
Someone who brings peace not drama
Decent size boobs

Good arms
glasses
intelligence
kindnes
more introvert than extrovert
Calm
funny
i think everyone likes different things but I have been told

eyes
bum
personality

Competence is a huge turn on for me. Doesn’t really matter what they’re doing, if they’re doing it well. Something about a strong man being very gentle, or doing something that requires a light, careful touch, makes me a bit weak at the knees.

For men, seeing that they make you happy is captivating and listening to them talk has a disproportionate impact.

When I was on social media years ago, there was a group for Men Reading in Public Places (pictures of men reading in public) that was phenomenally sexy. I think men underestimate holding a book and holding a baby as ovary clanging siren behaviour.

It depends on the book, though. Nul points for The Da Vinci Code or a footballer's autobiography that he hasn't even read!

Funny in a quirky way
academic but not boring
beard
completely stable
full head of hair

bonus points for. -
posh Welsh accent (iykyk)
brown eyes

You dont want too much do you! 😂

I physically recoiled when a lad on a bus was reading The Stoics.
It isn't usually the Alpha Bro types who gravitate towards literature...

I forgot to put hairy on my list. I like hairy men. Really hairy men. Gorillas, if you like.

Ideally. My husband has less body hair than I do.

But I did like cuddling men with lots of long soft body hair.

I might start getting him to bathe in regaine

See if I saw a man reading in public, I would automatically assume he is doing it to impress women and would get the ick 😩

I get what you mean

Being gifted is hot

definitely not any tattoos.

as you can't see their cock straightaway do you dump them if it's not a 'decent Size'?

Oh I like a tattoo 😏

How come youre not a fan?

Men;
kindness in his eyes
the ability to make me laugh
upper arms
bit of a belly (I like a dad bod!)

women;
I notice long and glossy hair first
eyes (especially wide/big eyes)
a great arse!

personality attracts me first but these are physical attributes I always notice.

You can assess dick length by looking at how it sits when they're wearing trousers!

I'll find the tiktok about it and share 🤭🤭

I would dump a guy for having a small willy, 100% lifes too short

Nah. I disagree in some cases. The old grower not show-er. One I’ve seen was unbelievable, like a kebab skewer until you presented it with the slightest bit of attention and it was like a medieval longsword.

Not really. Some of them dont gain much length but others seem to balloon out of nowhere!

One minute it's a little fat ball and the next minute it can poke your eye out from across the room.

I suspect that "willing to have sex with me" is a top scorer for 'what men find hot in a woman', tbh.

A big beautiful nose that looks like it belongs on an ancient marble statue. So beautiful.

Big strong chest and big thighs. A little bit fat around the middle. Not a big belly but a bit of softness. I hate visible abs on men.

Nicely shaped stubble on the face which ends at the chin and a smooth hairless neck. (Does that make sense? I don’t know what it’s called. Designer stubble?)

Hair with really short back and sides, like a fade. I just want to touch it.

Small ears.

Men like a thin waist, big butt and long hair.