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Another child killed by a dog...

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tnorfotkcab · 09/04/2026 22:08

Another poor child is killed by a dog.... We already know this is an XL Bully, don't even have to wait for confirmation.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

A Google street view of Hardale Grove. It is a residential cul-de-sac with cars parked on the pavement.

Child dies in Redcar dog attack, police say

Police remain at the scene in Dormanstown, where one dog was destroyed earlier.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

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DugnuttEyeBoogies · 10/04/2026 10:04

UniquePinkSwan · 10/04/2026 08:53

Statistically, I think it’s labs and golden retrievers that cause the more damage…

In terms of deaths, it’s absolutely XL’s leading the stats.

Labs are the most popular breed in the country I think so yes maybe in minor bites. But ripping you apart? Nope.

PlayingDevilsAdvocateisinteresting · 10/04/2026 10:04

ejmog · 09/04/2026 22:19

If we are.going with statistics more.spaniels and labs are owned uk there are far more stipulations on bully's my bet it lab , alsation rottweiler

A Labrador would have to have rabies, or some other dreadfully painful illness, before it would kill anyone.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 10:05

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:00

Speak for every local authority/constabulary in the country, do you?

What will they do with the information?

Enlighten me.

Imaginary86 · 10/04/2026 10:06

Tragic 😢 poor child

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:07

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 10:05

What will they do with the information?

Enlighten me.

Are you REALLY unable to work out what might happen to information passed to the authorities?

TheRealMagic · 10/04/2026 10:07

HairsprayBabe · 10/04/2026 09:52

I think one of the worst things about these dogs is that if you see one out in public you can't do anything about it. We were at the park recently and someone was walking one unleashed and unmuzzled. When sat this dog was easily bigger than my very tall five year old.

I can't say to the owner "oop this park requires dogs on leads" tinkly little laugh. The dog could literally bite my head off.

It is akin to caring a loaded weapon around with you. I would fully support a cull.

Agreed. These dogs - particularly since the ban - are disproportionately owned by people who don't follow rules and are themselves aggressive.

I was on a train recently and someone got on with one of these dogs. It became apparent the owner hadn't bought a train ticket and the inspector just let it go - and thank god, everyone in the carriage was terrified that the man would get riled up and it would set off the dog. People can say 'it's not the breed it's how they're raised' all they like - I don't believe it's true of XL Bully anyway, but in any case of course the illegal dogs with a reputation for aggression are not bought by responsible owners.

OneDivineHammer · 10/04/2026 10:08

Imdunfer · 10/04/2026 09:24

When did a labrador last kill a child in the UK?

Never, according to the stats on Wiki. 14 of the latest 16 deaths, though.... List of fatal dog attacks in the United Kingdom - Wikipedia

List of fatal dog attacks in the United Kingdom - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_fatal_dog_attacks_in_the_United_Kingdom

toffeeappleturnip · 10/04/2026 10:08

2Hot2Greedy · 10/04/2026 09:45

I live in a block of 8 HA flats. There are three families with small children here. One of our neighbours has an XL and allows it to wander the communal areas. He doesn't muzzle it because as far as he's concerned if it's indoors he doesn't need to. It's made me and my neighbours terrified to leave our flats. We've complained to the HA and the police but so far nothing has been done.

He also thinks that the communal grassed area outside our block counts as his garden so he doesn't need to muzzle it or put in on a lead when he lets it out to go to the toilet, which he does several times a day. He stands at the back door, usually on his phone, while the dog runs about/chases cats/growls at passers by. It's only a matter of time before the disgusting creature harms someone, but nobody we report it to seems particularly bothered.

That's horrendous.

He's literally holding you all hostage.

Keep publicising and complaining to anyone who'll listen: local newspapers, local schools, local councillors. Don't stop until it's properly safe for the children.

Spaghettea · 10/04/2026 10:09

I reported an unmuzzled XL in our north hampshire town centre last year. On a fucking stupid feeble extendable lead walked by a twat with his face full of metal. I got photos too as it pissed me off so much.

A police officer called me back a few days later with a half arsed lengthy explanation about how they couldn't possibly tell what breed of dog it was. Tbh, I didn't need a call as it wasn't my problem anymore. But the police officer didn't appear to think it was anything they needed to check. Pissed me off as that dog was dangerous.

takealettermsjones · 10/04/2026 10:09

HungryHungryLandsharks · 10/04/2026 09:53

YABU OP to use a child's death to make a point about bullies.

We all know there is a problem. But there is no need to use another death - particularly that of a child - to hammer home your point. It's crass and needless.

And it's stupid because inevitably, it ends up with particularly stupid posts on this thread by people who know nothing about dogs, or about Bullies even, but who have read a few articles and think they are experts. Bully jaws do not lock. They do not go for the neck. Yes, they're horrible dogs, but let's not perpetuate misinformation.

A child is dead.

Perhaps instead of people on this thread using it to advance their own agenda, they could focus on the horrible fact a child died in appalling circumstances. But that would probably require a level of emotional intelligence and selflessness that is impossible to find on Mumsnet.

How is a dead child the starting point of a AIBU thread? Disgraceful.

I could not disagree with you more strongly. In all of human history, horrible tragedies have been the starting point for legal and societal reforms that have saved and/or improved people's lives. Of course this kind of event should engender discussions.

Delphiniumandlupins · 10/04/2026 10:11

Charlize43 · 10/04/2026 09:00

Quite simply, bring in laws that all dogs need to be muzzled in public. End of dog attacks.

This death occurred in a home, not in public.

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 10/04/2026 10:11

Charlize43 · 10/04/2026 09:11

I don't think so. I already have 9 up ticks. It seems to be a popular suggestion.

It will be popular on here as MN is notoriously anti-dog and threads like these are a klaxon to the germaphobes/haters etc like yourself. However the UK is still a nation of mostly animal lovers and dog ownership is a huge part of our culture.

I am a dog owner and lover and I absolutely think all XL’s should be humanely PTS. They are not really dogs - they are a mutant breed with the DNA of a dodgy firework ready to explode.

I agree there should be harsher punishments for owners proven to have broken the law either around the banned breed requirements or dog out of control. But I think it’s a little extreme to suggest state sanctioned execution for them.

HungryHungryLandsharks · 10/04/2026 10:12

takealettermsjones · 10/04/2026 10:09

I could not disagree with you more strongly. In all of human history, horrible tragedies have been the starting point for legal and societal reforms that have saved and/or improved people's lives. Of course this kind of event should engender discussions.

Debate can be had without using a child’s death and without saying ‘child dead, AIBU.’

Using a dead child to further your own agenda is grim, at best and disgraceful at worst.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 10:12

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:07

Are you REALLY unable to work out what might happen to information passed to the authorities?

Go on.

MabelAnderson · 10/04/2026 10:12

BridgetJonesV2 · 10/04/2026 09:41

I used to work in a florist shop, and the only time I was ever bitten on a delivery was by a labrador - I was really shocked but it didn't draw blood and was just made as a warning. These XL bullies go for the neck, that's the difference. I don't understand why people try to argue that other dogs bite - yes of course they do, but these dogs know exactly where to aim to kill.

The only time I was bitten, it was a tiny Yorkshire terrier.. he snapped at my hand, nicked it with his sharp teeth and drew blood. He didn’t keep on biting, he was an anxious dog and the bite was my fault. I was a child at the time, I was used to dogs but I misjudged this, I’d reached my hand towards him and he was nervous and protective of his owner, so snapped at me.
XL bullies aren’t giving warning snaps. Part of the problem seems to be that they attack with no warning, out of enjoyment rather than fear or stress. I saw some of the horrifying footage a while ago, of a man being attacked (he was subsequently killed). The XLB was wagging his tail, it was fun and enjoyment to the dog, not like normal aggression in a dog, really shocking to see. They are incredibly powerful, go for the neck, and do not appear to care when people try to hit them to get them to stop the attack.

Whattodo1610 · 10/04/2026 10:12

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 10:04

A bull breed you say? Everyone is very, very surprised 😐

But not an XL bully that op claimed it will definitely be? 🤨
As others have said, a poor young child has died - that is more important than speculating on the breed of dog that killed her.

Sunglade · 10/04/2026 10:13

TofuTuesday · 09/04/2026 22:34

Im really shocked the government are just ok with kids and members of the public being picked off and killed by these dogs. How many more until there is a cull?

It is absolutely shocking. It's just going to be a given that half a dozen people per year will die until all the dogs live their full lifespan..imagine being OK with that. I guess it mostly only affects people in poor areas which we know no government cares about.

Lemonthyme · 10/04/2026 10:13

I've not read all of the posts. But I run as a hobby, for fitness and mostly to keep my brain from noodling.

I've been bitten twice by dogs, I've had several close calls. Only one of those close calls was with an XL Bully "type" of dog (I'm not an expert). Many of them and both actual bites were with small dogs. Sure they're not going to do as much harm as a thing just built on muscle but they can do enough especially to a young child.

It's not only XL Bullies that can be dangerous and while 99% of dog owners are fine (it's always the owner's fault, not the dog), there is 1% who are not.

The warning signs I see are:

  • Does not recall. I.e. if the owner calls the dog back, they do not respond.
  • Running after other people (especially combined with the above) in a way which is obviously not in control.
  • Jumping up at someone else who is not their owner. Again, especially combined with lack of recall.
  • Owner does little to stop the behaviour.
  • Owner blames the other person, not their dog. (One thing I've heard from two owners was "it chased you because you were running". No. It chased me because it was poorly trained.)

You know what both owners told me before their dog bit me "they're just being friendly". You know what both told me after they did "they've never done that before".

So my request, if you think you might be in that 1% or perhaps not totally sure you're not is to think it's not just about XL Bullies but about training and how much you'd beat yourself up if your dog harmed a child.

Monty36 · 10/04/2026 10:13

There is a reason police forces pick certain breeds of dog for different tasks. Breeds have different temperaments. There is a reason that criminals who use dogs for fighting pick certain breeds of dog to do so. Breed does matter.
The human adds another dimension.

I am almost of the view a sort of police force to monitor and manage dog related issues is needed. There are too many people dying as a result of dogs.

MyLimeGuide · 10/04/2026 10:14

crumpetswithcheeze · 09/04/2026 22:26

Couldn’t agree more.

Same. We are not allowed lions tigers etc to roam about why should these killers be let loose?

StrictlyCoffee · 10/04/2026 10:14

cadburyegg · 09/04/2026 22:20

All XL bullies should be put to sleep. Otherwise we will just have 10 more years of this.

Agreed

Vile ugly dangerous things

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:15

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 10:12

Go on.

Sorry, not playing your game. Educate yourself. The Internet has endless possibilities for you to do so.

Lemonthyme · 10/04/2026 10:15

After my last run in with a poorly trained dog and poorly trained owner, I did contact local police and the council. My suggestion was to put out some awareness campaigns for the signs of aggression / poor training and what could happen. Hey if people want to be the big man and buy a big aggressive dog, it will probably do very little. But it might help those who may not kill a child but could end up scarring one for life.

Lemonthyme · 10/04/2026 10:16

(I got no reply by the way.)

Shessweetbutapsycho · 10/04/2026 10:16

ejmog · 09/04/2026 22:19

If we are.going with statistics more.spaniels and labs are owned uk there are far more stipulations on bully's my bet it lab , alsation rottweiler

sure, it’s every other week we get a news report about another lab going beserk and ripping someone’s face off in an unprovoked attack 🙄