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Another child killed by a dog...

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tnorfotkcab · 09/04/2026 22:08

Another poor child is killed by a dog.... We already know this is an XL Bully, don't even have to wait for confirmation.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

A Google street view of Hardale Grove. It is a residential cul-de-sac with cars parked on the pavement.

Child dies in Redcar dog attack, police say

Police remain at the scene in Dormanstown, where one dog was destroyed earlier.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

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TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 10/04/2026 09:51

Charlize43 · 10/04/2026 09:11

I don't think so. I already have 9 up ticks. It seems to be a popular suggestion.

We don't have "upticks" on MN.

HairsprayBabe · 10/04/2026 09:52

I think one of the worst things about these dogs is that if you see one out in public you can't do anything about it. We were at the park recently and someone was walking one unleashed and unmuzzled. When sat this dog was easily bigger than my very tall five year old.

I can't say to the owner "oop this park requires dogs on leads" tinkly little laugh. The dog could literally bite my head off.

It is akin to caring a loaded weapon around with you. I would fully support a cull.

StephensLass1977 · 10/04/2026 09:52

Scampiniknak · 10/04/2026 09:13

Could you link your research? SBTs are very popular family pets. I’ve never had one myself but I have had English bull terriers of which there are barely any reported incidents of serious harm or fatalities. You are in very murky ground when you start suggesting mass cullings of breeds you just don’t like.

XL bullies are the exception and should all be PTS.

I think she's confusing Staffies with Pit Bulls. Staffies can attack, as can absolutely any breed.

tamade · 10/04/2026 09:52

Charlize43 · 10/04/2026 09:00

Quite simply, bring in laws that all dogs need to be muzzled in public. End of dog attacks.

Except for those killed in their home, which sadly seems to be the case here.

Still need to ban more of these dangerous breeds, though introducing muzzles may help

FernandoSor · 10/04/2026 09:53

Charlize43 · 10/04/2026 09:11

I don't think so. I already have 9 up ticks. It seems to be a popular suggestion.

It's a popular suggestion among people who agree with you - what a surprise.
In the real world, 41% of UK households have a dog and the vast majority of them would be hugely opposed to compulsory muzzling. Any party that suggested this as part of their manifesto would lose the election.

tnorfotkcab · 10/04/2026 09:53

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 09:46

This, basically.

The government are such pussies.

What’s a few dead kids here and there, as long as they can appease the dog owners??

Just replace the word dog with guns and you are in the US !

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HungryHungryLandsharks · 10/04/2026 09:53

YABU OP to use a child's death to make a point about bullies.

We all know there is a problem. But there is no need to use another death - particularly that of a child - to hammer home your point. It's crass and needless.

And it's stupid because inevitably, it ends up with particularly stupid posts on this thread by people who know nothing about dogs, or about Bullies even, but who have read a few articles and think they are experts. Bully jaws do not lock. They do not go for the neck. Yes, they're horrible dogs, but let's not perpetuate misinformation.

A child is dead.

Perhaps instead of people on this thread using it to advance their own agenda, they could focus on the horrible fact a child died in appalling circumstances. But that would probably require a level of emotional intelligence and selflessness that is impossible to find on Mumsnet.

How is a dead child the starting point of a AIBU thread? Disgraceful.

PersephonePomegranate · 10/04/2026 09:54

crumpetswithcheeze · 09/04/2026 22:26

Couldn’t agree more.

Me too. We came into contact with one once on a public footpath and it was scary. The path was narrow and DC was only 4. The dog was on a lead but the owner (slim built woman) was straining to keep it under control when it lunged for passersby. She could easily become overpowered by it.

Why would anyone want these hideous dogs in the first place, if not go intimidate?

Tacohill · 10/04/2026 09:55

There has been no mention of the dog breed, it is ridiculous and extremely insensitive to speculate.

The last child to die was attacked by a dog that wasn’t an XL bully - does that make it better or worse?

Perhaps pretend to care about the poor child that has died and at least give it a couple of days before starting such an insensitive thread.

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 09:55

FishingInTheRiversOfLife · 10/04/2026 09:04

There HAS to be a cull of bully breeds. I include staffordshire bull terriers in that list. I used to keep track of attacks in the UK and the vast majority were by SBTs. That was before XLs came on the scene.
Not one more child or innocent adult should have to die in this utterly atrocious way. How petrifying.

You are talking absolute rubbish, and I am willing to bet you cherry picked your alleged 'data'.

SpaceRaccoon · 10/04/2026 09:56

Scampiniknak · 10/04/2026 09:13

Could you link your research? SBTs are very popular family pets. I’ve never had one myself but I have had English bull terriers of which there are barely any reported incidents of serious harm or fatalities. You are in very murky ground when you start suggesting mass cullings of breeds you just don’t like.

XL bullies are the exception and should all be PTS.

I agree. I'm all for culling XL bullies and possibly any pitbull types, but properly bred SBTs are pretty small.

Weights would roughly be, SBT 15kg, pit bull 30kg, XL up to 60kg.

Tacohill · 10/04/2026 09:56

HungryHungryLandsharks · 10/04/2026 09:53

YABU OP to use a child's death to make a point about bullies.

We all know there is a problem. But there is no need to use another death - particularly that of a child - to hammer home your point. It's crass and needless.

And it's stupid because inevitably, it ends up with particularly stupid posts on this thread by people who know nothing about dogs, or about Bullies even, but who have read a few articles and think they are experts. Bully jaws do not lock. They do not go for the neck. Yes, they're horrible dogs, but let's not perpetuate misinformation.

A child is dead.

Perhaps instead of people on this thread using it to advance their own agenda, they could focus on the horrible fact a child died in appalling circumstances. But that would probably require a level of emotional intelligence and selflessness that is impossible to find on Mumsnet.

How is a dead child the starting point of a AIBU thread? Disgraceful.

Absolutely this!!

I am disgusted how someone can be so insensitive.

SixSevenShutUp · 10/04/2026 09:56

HungryHungryLandsharks · 10/04/2026 09:53

YABU OP to use a child's death to make a point about bullies.

We all know there is a problem. But there is no need to use another death - particularly that of a child - to hammer home your point. It's crass and needless.

And it's stupid because inevitably, it ends up with particularly stupid posts on this thread by people who know nothing about dogs, or about Bullies even, but who have read a few articles and think they are experts. Bully jaws do not lock. They do not go for the neck. Yes, they're horrible dogs, but let's not perpetuate misinformation.

A child is dead.

Perhaps instead of people on this thread using it to advance their own agenda, they could focus on the horrible fact a child died in appalling circumstances. But that would probably require a level of emotional intelligence and selflessness that is impossible to find on Mumsnet.

How is a dead child the starting point of a AIBU thread? Disgraceful.

There is never a good time to discuss this, it seems. Either there has been no trouble recently so why should we care or its too close to another, yes ANOTHER, death by dog, so we should be respectful and not mention it.

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 09:57

HairsprayBabe · 10/04/2026 09:52

I think one of the worst things about these dogs is that if you see one out in public you can't do anything about it. We were at the park recently and someone was walking one unleashed and unmuzzled. When sat this dog was easily bigger than my very tall five year old.

I can't say to the owner "oop this park requires dogs on leads" tinkly little laugh. The dog could literally bite my head off.

It is akin to caring a loaded weapon around with you. I would fully support a cull.

Nonsense - you can do something about it. You could call 101 or report it to your local dog warden/council for starters.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 09:58

The government would save an awful lot of heartbreak and money, if they culled the damn dogs, rather than imprisoning the owners when the dog has killed someone.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 09:59

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 09:57

Nonsense - you can do something about it. You could call 101 or report it to your local dog warden/council for starters.

Who’ll do precisely fuck all with the information.

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:00

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 09:59

Who’ll do precisely fuck all with the information.

Speak for every local authority/constabulary in the country, do you?

HairsprayBabe · 10/04/2026 10:00

@Lemonfrost report what exactly? If I ring up my council and say oh there is a random person with an XL bully walking down the street, I don't know who they are or where they live. What exactly do you think they will do?

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 10:01

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 09/04/2026 22:50

Sometimes other breeds have killed children. Not often but sometimes.

In the same way that sometimes biological women domestically abuse their partners, not often hardly fucking ever, but sometimes according to all the men in the comments section after ANOTHER women or child is killed.

Catlover465 · 10/04/2026 10:02

crumpetswithcheeze · 09/04/2026 22:12

Because they know how statistics work and see patterns forming from previous dog attacks, use their brain and that’s the (correct) conclusion in 99% of dog attacks these days.

👏

Lemonfrost · 10/04/2026 10:02

HairsprayBabe · 10/04/2026 10:00

@Lemonfrost report what exactly? If I ring up my council and say oh there is a random person with an XL bully walking down the street, I don't know who they are or where they live. What exactly do you think they will do?

Well, you could start by giving a time, place and description. Plus, you said you were in a park, so that's a static and identifiable location. Dog owners tend to be creatures of habit when it comes to walks.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 10:03

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 09:58

The government would save an awful lot of heartbreak and money, if they culled the damn dogs, rather than imprisoning the owners when the dog has killed someone.

I’m going to guess they hoped that the hard-of-thinking would euthanise their own dogs as they’d realise they were less attached to them than their kids, unfortunately that hasnt happened.

Monty36 · 10/04/2026 10:03

No matter what the breed how very sad. It will likely be a breed that is problematic. Dogs bred originally for guarding, hunting, fighting. Not docile breeds.
One problem is the owners. If you already have a breed that are prone to guard, fight, hunt, and you add on socially inadequate owners you have a problem waiting to happen.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 10:04

MolkosTeenageAngst · 10/04/2026 10:02

Sounds like they were some sort of smaller bull breed but not an XL bully, according to witnesses: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/redcar-dog-attack-armed-police-

Horrific whatever the breed and I still can’t believe anybody would have a dog in the house with pre-school aged children. Just not worth the risk.

A bull breed you say? Everyone is very, very surprised 😐