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What's some --more-- juicy gossip that you can't share irl but can share with nosy strangers on mumsnet?

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 08/04/2026 21:37

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2pence · 09/04/2026 01:27

mrsCtheRed · 09/04/2026 00:41

Oohhh I like this 🧐

I once found out years ago, that an ex colleague (married woman with two kids), was actually in a polyamorous relationship, and they all lived together.

It turned out that there was
"Husband"
Wife no. 1
Wife no. 2, who was also Wife no. 1's sister!
Wife no. 3
Wife no. 4, who was Wife no. 3's sister!!

They all lived together in one big house, and there were children with three of the wives.

And the best part?
He didn't work, he stayed home, whilst all 4 wives went out to work, and they all kept him!
He must have been living the dream.
And these women were all professional intelligent women. Think, nurse, teacher, vet type thing.

Still blows my mind when I think about it 🤯🤯

Perhaps he’s a pet? Be good to think the balance of power in that house wasn’t one man controlling 4 women.

Puffalicious · 09/04/2026 01:30

My DSis had my wonderful DN 23 years ago with donor sperm. Both she & BIL have no intention of telling DNiece at all, as 'Her dad is her dad & it won't change that'. Well, yes, but i think she should know. She's training to be a doctor, so I wonder if she'll work it out somehow via medical information as BIL gets older. They're super close & it bothers me she doesn't know.

OPTIMUMMY · 09/04/2026 01:38

2pence · 09/04/2026 01:27

Perhaps he’s a pet? Be good to think the balance of power in that house wasn’t one man controlling 4 women.

Agree, maybe actually the women are using the man to have children then he stays at home doing all the chores for everyone and looking after all the kids! Maybe it works out well for the women :-)

Shitmonger · 09/04/2026 01:46

I’ll just leave this here and be back later

What's some --more-- juicy gossip that you can't share irl but can share with nosy strangers on mumsnet?
Ihateknowingthis · 09/04/2026 01:48

Late brothers child is not his, but a relatives.
Should I tell?

LBFseBrom · 09/04/2026 01:55

suburberphobe · 08/04/2026 23:49

My sister’s son is the result of a long running affair with her business partner.

Hope the son never falls in love with someone who he could be related to.

The mind boggles.

That sounds like the basis for a TV drama about forbidden love.

LBFseBrom · 09/04/2026 01:56

People over the road run a prostitution racket for the over 65s from their garage.

HelenaWaiting · 09/04/2026 02:06

Puffalicious · 09/04/2026 01:30

My DSis had my wonderful DN 23 years ago with donor sperm. Both she & BIL have no intention of telling DNiece at all, as 'Her dad is her dad & it won't change that'. Well, yes, but i think she should know. She's training to be a doctor, so I wonder if she'll work it out somehow via medical information as BIL gets older. They're super close & it bothers me she doesn't know.

We can be dismissed for accessing medical information for non-medical reasons so I would say it's highly unlikely that she would find out through her work.

Bigcat25 · 09/04/2026 02:42

mrsCtheRed · 09/04/2026 00:41

Oohhh I like this 🧐

I once found out years ago, that an ex colleague (married woman with two kids), was actually in a polyamorous relationship, and they all lived together.

It turned out that there was
"Husband"
Wife no. 1
Wife no. 2, who was also Wife no. 1's sister!
Wife no. 3
Wife no. 4, who was Wife no. 3's sister!!

They all lived together in one big house, and there were children with three of the wives.

And the best part?
He didn't work, he stayed home, whilst all 4 wives went out to work, and they all kept him!
He must have been living the dream.
And these women were all professional intelligent women. Think, nurse, teacher, vet type thing.

Still blows my mind when I think about it 🤯🤯

My mind is blown too!

CallItLoneliness · 09/04/2026 02:51

HelenaWaiting · 09/04/2026 02:06

We can be dismissed for accessing medical information for non-medical reasons so I would say it's highly unlikely that she would find out through her work.

You really can't imagine a situation where she (for example) works out that her Dad can't be her Dad through e.g. blood types? It really doesn't require sophisticated insight into the medical records of a parent for this to come to light, especially when older parents lean on medical children for medical support, and disclose their own medical information.

NavyNorris · 09/04/2026 02:53

Oh I love this!

Someone I know has raised their child all their life believing they are the biological father, found out when child was 16 that the wife had had an affair abroad at the time of conception and he isn't the father... Aside from obviously being very sad, there is a man out there who she didn't even get the name of that has a 16 year old child they know nothing about 😮

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 09/04/2026 02:53

mrsCtheRed · 09/04/2026 01:05

He must have, but I can't imagine how.
I met him once when he picked her up from work, and he was just a little, beige middle aged man.
Must have oozed charisma when he turned it on....🤔

Can I ask how you’re sure it wasn’t religious? My exDH tried to use religion as an excuse for bringing another woman into our marriage, and we’re about the last people you would expect - when people are dealing with religious abuse, they usually keep it very quiet. ExDH cut the bullshit religious excuses when I left and is now finally “out” as his true self - a sociopath and Mensa member, and he’s enormously proud of both.

Evidemment · 09/04/2026 02:55

HelenaWaiting · 09/04/2026 02:06

We can be dismissed for accessing medical information for non-medical reasons so I would say it's highly unlikely that she would find out through her work.

Why would she suddenly go looking though medical records if she has no idea? Think you've somehow managed to get completely the wrong end of the stick there.
PP definitely meant she might work it out through acquired knowledge of (e.g.) genetics etc as her training continues

PetsPalace · 09/04/2026 02:59

When I started my first job a male manager and female colleague were having an affair, not hiding it very well and I walked in on them kissing anyway. I knew he was married but didn't know whether they were separated etc.
A few weeks later at a family gathering my partner's cousin's teenage son introduced us to his girlfriend who turned out to be the male manager's daughter. It became clear that no, they didn't know he was having affair.
I didn't know anyone well enough to say anything (I suppose I wasn't 100% sure it was the same Mr Manager although the details I did know matched). It played out quite quickly after that with them getting a flat together near work and him moving out. Horrendous.
I don't think anyone knows about this weird coincidence.

Aworldofmyown · 09/04/2026 02:59

My sons PE teachers wife is having an affair with one of the mums at their daughters school.
Hes a really nice man and everyone seems to know but him 😔

BooneyBeautiful · 09/04/2026 03:44

Puffalicious · 09/04/2026 01:30

My DSis had my wonderful DN 23 years ago with donor sperm. Both she & BIL have no intention of telling DNiece at all, as 'Her dad is her dad & it won't change that'. Well, yes, but i think she should know. She's training to be a doctor, so I wonder if she'll work it out somehow via medical information as BIL gets older. They're super close & it bothers me she doesn't know.

That reminds me of a couple I know, let's call them George and Mildred. Mildred got pregnant by her then boyfriend. They split up early in the pregnancy and she started seeing George. They subsequently went on to get married and have two more DC. To this day, the oldest DC (now in his late thirties) still doesn't know George isn't his biological father.

double0seven · 09/04/2026 04:18

NavyNorris · 09/04/2026 02:53

Oh I love this!

Someone I know has raised their child all their life believing they are the biological father, found out when child was 16 that the wife had had an affair abroad at the time of conception and he isn't the father... Aside from obviously being very sad, there is a man out there who she didn't even get the name of that has a 16 year old child they know nothing about 😮

Approx 10% of men bring up a child mistakingly believing they are the biological father of that child.

Jane143 · 09/04/2026 04:43

03cg73 · 09/04/2026 00:52

my mums famous home made steak pie that she’s often asked to bring to extended family gatherings is actually from the local butchers. She buys it and very carefully transfers it to her own pie dishes 😂

🤣🤣🤣🤣good old mum! Well done

mjf981 · 09/04/2026 04:47

Cismyfatarse · 08/04/2026 22:55

My sister’s son is the result of a long running affair with her business partner. Both of them are married. Neither spouse knows. She often takes her son to meet her business partner and his children in the park.

Your sister is a horrible person.
I don't know how she can live with herself.

mjf981 · 09/04/2026 04:55

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How did you find this out?!

Golden407 · 09/04/2026 04:56

Pebblesonthebleach · 08/04/2026 23:15

Guy across the road is a real fitness fanatic, as is his wife. But every Wednesday afternoon, without fail, Dominos turns up with two large pizzas when I know he’s home alone, working. A few hours later, he emerges with the boxes and puts them in the bin, having polished off the lot. His wife is non the wiser.

This is my favourite ❤️

Hobsonschoiceofhob · 09/04/2026 05:05

@03cg73this is the best one for me. Salacious but nobody gets hurt !!

HelmholtzWatson · 09/04/2026 05:08

double0seven · 09/04/2026 04:18

Approx 10% of men bring up a child mistakingly believing they are the biological father of that child.

Do you have a source for this? This particular statistic is very difficult to measure, for obvious reasons.

Rudicoolcat · 09/04/2026 05:14

Blimms · 08/04/2026 23:12

So the child is being lied to by all of you.

🙄...

Rudicoolcat · 09/04/2026 05:26

03cg73 · 09/04/2026 00:52

my mums famous home made steak pie that she’s often asked to bring to extended family gatherings is actually from the local butchers. She buys it and very carefully transfers it to her own pie dishes 😂

I used to do similar with shop bought mince pies at Christmas.... Until my late husband's father asked "if I could make some more that tasted as good as the ones from Markies.... ?" Okay Pete, no worries 😁 😋🤣🤣