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£30 Easter budget

209 replies

Okayfolks · 05/04/2026 11:43

My friend just told me her and her husband spend £30 each on each other on Easter eggs.

She’d prefer a nicer one and some small bits and he’d prefer lots of mid sized ones so he had about 8 eggs.

AIBU to think this is insane?

They have no kids.

OP posts:
Dragonflytamer · 05/04/2026 14:09

wandawaves · 05/04/2026 13:34

You sound jealous OP.

Literally nobody is jealous of someone being given £30 of easter eggs.

L0bstersLass · 05/04/2026 14:11

Dragonflytamer · 05/04/2026 14:09

Literally nobody is jealous of someone being given £30 of easter eggs.

My husband would be. He bloody loves Easter eggs.

henlake7 · 05/04/2026 14:11

It sounds lot to spend on eggs but I suppose if you are doing posh ones it isnt alot.
Besides they are no crazier then me....I dont even have a partner and I bought myself 2 choccy eggs (single people need chocolate too!).

godmum56 · 05/04/2026 14:11

inickedthisname · 05/04/2026 14:01

I know what you mean, Op. Of course people can choose to spend thousands if they want and everyone on MN can go “well they earned it, if they want to buy chocolate eggs instead of going on holiday, what’s it to you?” but I will privately be thinking that those people and all who agree with it are insane.

i think people who suffer horrible experiences at airports to get on holiday or sit in traffic jams are insane.....we each choose our own insanity

JLou08 · 05/04/2026 14:11

I don't care how other couples decide to gift each other. I struggle to understand why anyone would care.

Imisscoffee2021 · 05/04/2026 14:13

Okayfolks · 05/04/2026 12:11

I think this is it. £60 on Easter eggs is insane for the two of them? Especially to have a pile of about 15 eggs just sat there? It seems so wasteful.

Does he not eat them then? Its not wasteful if he eats them, doesn't matter how long it takes. It's only seeming like showing off if you somehow compare it to your own way of thinking and lifestyle. Which you obviously are, they don't have kids so they will have more disposable income. If they can afford it why not, I find it so odd that some adults think these seasonal treats and enjoyment should cease when they grow up! We aren't long on this earth, a bit of expensive chocolate for a couple who that eachother is no biggy.

FunkyFringe · 05/04/2026 14:14

Okayfolks · 05/04/2026 12:01

I buy my parents an egg.

Some might think that ‘insane’ too!

RoastLambs · 05/04/2026 14:14

I think it’s stranger to buy your mammy an egg. Why don’t you get divorced and leave your kids, then you can start a new life making pancakes and buying Easter things.

Dragonflytamer · 05/04/2026 14:14

L0bstersLass · 05/04/2026 14:11

My husband would be. He bloody loves Easter eggs.

But £30? That is a pretty low bar - it's like half a bottle of just about drinkable wine.

MsCrawford · 05/04/2026 14:16

Don’t come round my house today OP, you would not be happy! Seriously though- how can you care what other people do in this way? They are enjoying their lives, working hard, having treats- it’s a good thing. The more happy people the better!

BoogieTownTop · 05/04/2026 14:19

Okayfolks · 05/04/2026 11:47

It feels a bit show off and what adult needs ten eggs from their partner? That isn’t including any they’ll get from other people.

They always go over the top with spending insane amounts at Christmas too.

What adult needs one egg? Does it matter?

They’re not harming anyone!

Trusttheawesome · 05/04/2026 14:22

Dragonflytamer · 05/04/2026 14:14

But £30? That is a pretty low bar - it's like half a bottle of just about drinkable wine.

I do love the fake snobs on mumsnet. Pretending they can’t possible drink a bottle of wine below £60 because even that would be “barely drinkable” when most likely you’re in a bog standard job and shop in Aldi.

The trope of everyone on mumsnet earning 6 figures and being oh so middle class has gone on too long, it’s not believable anymore. Especially when it’s shoehorned into an Easter egg thread. No one with actual money would post this comment. I certainly wouldn’t. It’s ridiculous.

Smeegall · 05/04/2026 14:22

I have been on a diet since January and I said the budget for my egg was £30 as I was only going to have one. I've got a lindt one.

Unfortunately all I can think about is the calories so I'm not sure I'll eat it all! I had half an egg thinking that was 250 calories but then I realised the calories on the packet were per 100g not per the whole thing!!! Half the egg was 450 calories. Or there abouts!

BoogieTownTop · 05/04/2026 14:23

MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 05/04/2026 12:39

I got my 3 DC standard eggs-one each under £5 Anything more is excessive IMO. The chocolate used is normally shit

Surely the individual eating them will decide if they like the chocolate?

Whatatodo12 · 05/04/2026 14:25

Okayfolks · 05/04/2026 12:38

Okay I accept IABU about this but I don’t know how to explain it.

I do love her dearly but she’s so over the top it just feels like everything has to be an event or an occasion and is very performative.

I asked her what she’s doing today and she said they’ve had mini egg pancakes for breakfast and are decorating Easter cookies later. I refuse to believe most normal adults without children are sat there decorating Easter themed cookies amongst piles of Easter eggs with their husband.

they live in the real world.

Sounds a lovely day they are spending together. Would you like to be doing sorting like this? I can’t imagine posting a thread about my friends giving their partners eggs and enjoying a day together.

MyCrushWithEyeliner · 05/04/2026 14:29

YABU especially for the catty ‘they have no kids’ comment at the end.

aredrosegrewup · 05/04/2026 14:36

Ilovelurchers · 05/04/2026 13:46

I mean, I agree the cookies thing is weird, but each to their own - it's not hurting anyone. If I suggested to my boyfriend that we decorate Easter cookies together he would think I had gone insane, but different strokes for different folks....

You say 'performative" - who do you feel they are performing this for? Do they stock it on social media?

Surely if they do, most people would just think, that's weird, grown adults doing an Easter activity aimed at kids. It's not like everyone will be seeing it and jealously envying them their sexy glamorous lifestyle....

I just don't know why it gets to you that much! And yeah, I wouldn't spend £60 on eggs myself, but it's not the worst extravagance ever. Pretty sure there are some lush looking ones in Hotel Chocolat that cost that much just for one, and some people must buy them.

My boyfriend is far from an extravagant spender, and he told me that last year the egg he got his mom was £30. It's just not that much to spend on an occasional treat. If you had said they spent £600, then I would hear you.....

But also, what's wrong with them decorating cookies? Why does it have to very weird? One of them could really e joy baking for example or just really enjoy fun, light hearted things. Not sure why it's labelled weird just because someone has decided this is normally an activity that kids do.

StationJack · 05/04/2026 14:40

They have no kids. ODFOD

JJMama · 05/04/2026 14:40

It’s only insane if they can’t afford it, but the clearly can so why are you poking your nose? What other people spend their money on is none of your business!!

Dragonflytamer · 05/04/2026 14:42

Trusttheawesome · 05/04/2026 14:22

I do love the fake snobs on mumsnet. Pretending they can’t possible drink a bottle of wine below £60 because even that would be “barely drinkable” when most likely you’re in a bog standard job and shop in Aldi.

The trope of everyone on mumsnet earning 6 figures and being oh so middle class has gone on too long, it’s not believable anymore. Especially when it’s shoehorned into an Easter egg thread. No one with actual money would post this comment. I certainly wouldn’t. It’s ridiculous.

Plenty of people earn 6 figures? It hardly uncommon these days. I find it harder to believe that anyone would be jealous of buying £30 of chocolate. Even if your into cheapo wine, you'll barely get a meal in a harvester for that amount

Different people post different things - who knew?

FavouriteBiggle · 05/04/2026 14:42

I made an Easter Egg hunt for my DH this morning.

properidiot · 05/04/2026 14:43

It's not really performative - it's just her and her DH spending a little cash on each other as a treat. You actually sound a bit jealous of her. Why can't adults have some fun and decorate cookies at Easter?

Stop being such a fun sponge OP - lighten up!

Pessismistic · 05/04/2026 14:44

Okayfolks · 05/04/2026 12:38

Okay I accept IABU about this but I don’t know how to explain it.

I do love her dearly but she’s so over the top it just feels like everything has to be an event or an occasion and is very performative.

I asked her what she’s doing today and she said they’ve had mini egg pancakes for breakfast and are decorating Easter cookies later. I refuse to believe most normal adults without children are sat there decorating Easter themed cookies amongst piles of Easter eggs with their husband.

they live in the real world.

Op are you jealous of her? It’s really up to them how they spend their money I don’t see why you’re so bothered tbh. It’s Easter they enjoy it and spoil themselves so what.

AndrewPreview · 05/04/2026 14:44

Does it matter?

  1. They sound like they're having a rather nice day.
  2. Who pissed on your chips?
KenAdams · 05/04/2026 14:44

Okayfolks · 05/04/2026 12:38

Okay I accept IABU about this but I don’t know how to explain it.

I do love her dearly but she’s so over the top it just feels like everything has to be an event or an occasion and is very performative.

I asked her what she’s doing today and she said they’ve had mini egg pancakes for breakfast and are decorating Easter cookies later. I refuse to believe most normal adults without children are sat there decorating Easter themed cookies amongst piles of Easter eggs with their husband.

they live in the real world.

This sounds like a lovely Easter. I think you're jealous. Perhaps instead of spouting shit online you could go and have a nice day yourself?

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