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Is it safe to visit The US?

191 replies

niknak1234 · 02/04/2026 16:59

Over the last few months I have seen a lot of is it safe to travel to The US threads, and a lot of replies of "I wouldn't chance it."

Why do people really think is going to happen at the most popular tourist destinations?

Strip searched at JFK airport because you posted you didn't like Trump on Mumsnet? Shot by ICE at The Magic Kingdom whilst queueing up to meet Chip n Dale? Deported to Caracas whilst watching Lion King on Broadway?

OP posts:
MrsPenelopeBridgerton · 03/04/2026 15:45

Another one of these threads 🙄 Yes, it’s safe. I’m going for my second visit this year in a couple of months.

warmpinkshawl · 03/04/2026 15:52

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 02/04/2026 19:40

Well, that would explain why you aren't worried about his fascist tendencies, I suppose.

… and could even be cheering him on.

Sskka · 03/04/2026 15:55

I’ve read you just get killed straightaway.

Pacificsunshine · 03/04/2026 15:58

It’s safe. I share Trump jokes and complaints with family and friend social media. I am not a US citizen, I go to the US frequently, no one bats an eye.

I don’t agree with the Trump administration on almost anything, but I do wonder if all this stuff is hyped up because I just don’t see any evidence of overreach when I am on the country or passing through immigration.

Mypyjamasarebaggy · 03/04/2026 16:19

I don’t want to support any part of the Trump regimen or take my child where gun crime, racism and bigotry are rife so am not going to the US for the foreseeable. Travelled there many times over the years, prefer to go elsewhere now.

SugarPuffSandwiches · 03/04/2026 16:23

niknak1234 · 02/04/2026 17:49

I think he is great.

What is it that you find great about him? (Genuinely curious)

cardibach · 03/04/2026 16:29

BeavisMcTavish · 03/04/2026 15:24

Absolutely not - but then I wouldn’t go to Turkey either. I don’t think there’s any comparison.

But the people are the same as they’ve always been. (As are British people). So what’s stopping you? It’s the leader/regime, isn’t it? Fairly reasonably. Many of us feel the same about Trump. In fact I dislike the Turkish leadership less I think.

Whatthefork1 · 03/04/2026 16:39

I don’t think the issue is necessarily safety in the literal sense of something happening. For me the issue is what is happening over there right now, politically and everything else in-between. I mean we have all seen what’s come out from the Epstein files! Would I personally want to go to a country that is ran by PDfiles? Absolutely not, but each to their own.

LittleRonnie · 03/04/2026 16:40

niknak1234 · 02/04/2026 16:59

Over the last few months I have seen a lot of is it safe to travel to The US threads, and a lot of replies of "I wouldn't chance it."

Why do people really think is going to happen at the most popular tourist destinations?

Strip searched at JFK airport because you posted you didn't like Trump on Mumsnet? Shot by ICE at The Magic Kingdom whilst queueing up to meet Chip n Dale? Deported to Caracas whilst watching Lion King on Broadway?

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/feb/21/karen-newton-valid-visa-detained-ice?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other

‘Don’t go to the US – not with Trump in charge’: the UK tourist with a valid visa detained by ICE for six weeks

Karen Newton was in America on the trip of a lifetime when she was shackled, transported and held for weeks on end. With tourism to the US under increasing strain, she says, ‘If it can happen to me, it can happen to anyone’

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/feb/21/karen-newton-valid-visa-detained-ice?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 03/04/2026 16:44

niknak1234 · 02/04/2026 17:43

I find that so odd.

Not very aware then, are you?

LittleRonnie · 03/04/2026 16:44

niknak1234 · 02/04/2026 16:59

Over the last few months I have seen a lot of is it safe to travel to The US threads, and a lot of replies of "I wouldn't chance it."

Why do people really think is going to happen at the most popular tourist destinations?

Strip searched at JFK airport because you posted you didn't like Trump on Mumsnet? Shot by ICE at The Magic Kingdom whilst queueing up to meet Chip n Dale? Deported to Caracas whilst watching Lion King on Broadway?

apnews.com/article/border-tourists-german-canadian-detention-immigration-408cd27338e8065268fabc835f8b0c34

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 03/04/2026 16:54

niknak1234 · 02/04/2026 17:11

I am, what do you think would happen to a black person or Asian person at Disneyland?

This must be a windup. You know the plane doesn’t just drop you at Disneyland??? You’re most likely to be shot during a traffic stop, I would imagine. They read your rental car’s plate wrong and suddenly a very militarized US cop is pointing a gun at you. But no, none of my non-white friends have the US on the “to visit” list this year, and my Hispanic friend who grew up in California (so liberal! So safe!) worries every time she passes through the Camp Pendleton border checkpoint that she’ll be shot by some ICE psycho. Also, Starmer has already made it clear that he might risk a little Europe-backed rebellion, but in general, he tries to placate Trump, so the govt won’t be fighting in your corner if you get detained. So no, I would never go to any country that no longer respects the writ of habeas corpus; the US is now one of those countries, openly.

LittleRonnie · 03/04/2026 17:02

I had hoped to visit last year or this year from Ireland with my husband and child to visit family in the States. However no way would we go since the immigration issues started under Trump. My child is autistic, so given the negative views also in the Trump administration about autism this also influenced my decision.
My child is 7 and minimally verbal. Their language is mainly repeating what’s said to them or what they’ve heard recently. So my main concern would be that immigration officials wouldn’t understand why my child is not answering questions and would separate us and possibly detain us (together or separately) if my child couldn’t confirm their name or who I was etc. Or Eg if they asked my child ‘are you scared?’ My child could very likely respond ‘scared’ automatically as they often repeat the last word said to them.
I’ve posted some media articles also above that have made me aware of the issues for tourists since last year in USA and there are many more similar stories publicly available. It’s been clear since early to mid 2025 that things had changed drastically and quickly for the worst at US borders for tourists. Then came the anti autism rhetoric.

LittleRonnie · 03/04/2026 17:09

Pacificsunshine · 03/04/2026 15:58

It’s safe. I share Trump jokes and complaints with family and friend social media. I am not a US citizen, I go to the US frequently, no one bats an eye.

I don’t agree with the Trump administration on almost anything, but I do wonder if all this stuff is hyped up because I just don’t see any evidence of overreach when I am on the country or passing through immigration.

You must surely understand that not everything has to happen to you or in front of you to make it real though.. There are many first hand accounts (I’ve posted some above) of very scary immigration situations happening since last year.

Pacificsunshine · 03/04/2026 17:38

LittleRonnie · 03/04/2026 17:09

You must surely understand that not everything has to happen to you or in front of you to make it real though.. There are many first hand accounts (I’ve posted some above) of very scary immigration situations happening since last year.

Yes, I do understand this.

I also understand that we don’t understand the full details of the horror stories.

Holidayexpectations · 03/04/2026 17:44

It’s safe but I wouldn’t spend a penny of my hard earned money in there so boycott for me.

AquaShark · 03/04/2026 17:54

As others have said, as a white European, I wouldn't avoid going for safety reasons. But equally as a European I am absolutely boycotting it for political reasons. Threats, insults and tariffs to us, our European neighbours and the wider world have 100% changed my view of USA. I view it in the same eyes as Russia (possibly worse because I had higher expectations of friendship).

LemonyCurd · 03/04/2026 17:56

I love the States, also pro-Trump. Don’t read MSM for the most part. Excited to go back shortly.

FlapperFlamingo · 03/04/2026 18:03

Yes it's fine, DH is there now for work. No worries at all about it. I wouldn't go on holiday there, but only cos I prefer other places. I would have no concerns from a safety point of view.

logicisall · 03/04/2026 18:04

Beekman · 03/04/2026 15:34

Thanks but this is for visas and not tourist travel on an ESTA, which is what people are mainly talking about. Getting stopped at immigration on an ESTA and being forced to show your social media isn’t happening on arrival in the US.

I was asked about social media for the visa interview I had under the Obama administration, not that anyone actually checked any of it, so this isn’t new, just a little more aggressively worded.

I’m not a Trump fan, I can’t wait til he is gone, but scaremongering does no good. There are lots of reasons not to visit the US at the moment but this really isn’t one of them.

Where in the OP's post referred only ESTA? Did the OP say somewhere that the question only applied to non ESTA travellers?
This is an international site, so it's not hard to resale that some tourists would require a visa to visit the US.
I really take exeception to your branding me a scaremonger, when you have failed to understand the international ramifications of the OP's post, yourself. FFS.

Ilovewatchingthedrama · 03/04/2026 18:13

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So that would be a no from me then

Bingbongsingalong · 03/04/2026 18:15

I've cancelled 3 trips there, not out of concern for safety, but because I have no interest in spending a penny of my money or a second of my time in a country that is determined to terrorise the entire world and cause untold damage and destruction. Fuck Trump.

Catterbat · 03/04/2026 18:20

Love how as soon as the OP was asked to specify what was great about Trump, they disappeared. I wish it was that easy to get rid of all the other idiots.

LittleRonnie · 03/04/2026 18:33

Pacificsunshine · 03/04/2026 17:38

Yes, I do understand this.

I also understand that we don’t understand the full details of the horror stories.

It’s actually very easy to understand if you just believe victims. I had hoped we were there in a post Me Too and now Epstein files world. But if you’re not ready to believe victims when they initially speak out against evil systems, you can follow the money- ie ICE’s budget is 14 times greater than a decade ago.

Quote from the Guardian article I posted above about the English tourist detained at Canadian border despite valid holiday visa and held for 6 weeks by ICE:

‘So why did ICE detain her, and keep her locked up for so long? A possible answer began to emerge over the weeks she was incarcerated. As Karen got to know the guards at the Northwest ICE Processing Center where she was held, she kept hearing the same thing from them: that ICE officers are paid a bonus every time they detain someone. “Individual ICE agents get money per head that they detain – the guards told me that,” Karen says.
It’s no secret that the Trump administrationhas been pouring money into ICE. Its annual budget – $6bn a decade ago – is now $85bn; ICE is now the highest -funded law enforcement agency in the US.’

There are two distinct issues however in my view arising in these tourist cases- first the initial detention. Then secondly and more worryingly is that tourists are not being immediately deported but held for lengthy periods. This is also different from prior to 2025. If your tourist visa was invalid then (that’s not a prerequisite anymore of course!), you were put on next flight home. Fair enough. Detained indefinitely for ‘ issues ‘ with tourist visa however as is now happening - not fair enough.

I do genuinely hope it stays fine for you on any future trips. But with ICE at the airports now I would keep your wits about you.

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