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AIBU for scrolling big penis videos after husband keeps commenting on boobs?

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MelonsVAubergines · 28/03/2026 22:07

I have pretty small boobs. Not non-existent but certainly not of notable size or the first thing anyone would notice about me.

DH has always loved big boobs. Not a porn addict or anything but all of his social media algorithms are clearly influenced by lots of looking at ample chested women. Fine, whatever. He also has a habit of constantly commenting on boobs in media. We were watching a film just now where a female character is based on a character in a game. The woman in the film had absolutely massive norks. He starts banging on about how the actress's boobs are tiny compared to the game character, finds a pic, starts waving it at me.

I've asked him repeatedly not to bang on about boobs. I accept he likes big boobs despite the fact I don't own a pair, it's probably my own issue that I feel uncomfortable when he's going on about them because I hate mine after 2 x pregnancies and significant weight loss. But tonight is yet another instance of him not being able to keep his big boob loving mouth shut (this happens repeatedly).

So instead of once again reminding him that I'd really rather not discuss giant boobs with him at every opportunity, I've scrolled through videos of gigantic hard cocks while he's still rabbiting in about boobs. He has ED issues and while he's not poorly endowed the monsters I was looking at were significantly larger than his.

He clocked what I was doing and started huffing. I parroted what he says to me when I ask him to shut up about boobs, "but they're not as good as yours" using the same half arsed tone and everything. Funnily enough he wasn't impressed and has stropped off to bed saying it's not the same and I'm being completely ridiculous.

AIBU?

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Onadark · 28/03/2026 22:09

Do it!

MovedlikeHarlowinMonteCarlo · 28/03/2026 22:09

Ask him why its not the same.

PeriPrime · 28/03/2026 22:11

He sounds more like an arse man.

Sorry, no. I meant he sounds like an arse.

Ineedanewsofa · 28/03/2026 22:11

Literally tit for tat

Easterbunnyishotandcross · 28/03/2026 22:12

Every man you pass by comment he looked well packed....

Sartre · 28/03/2026 22:12

Brilliant, keep doing this and waving the cocks in his face until he stops with the tits. He sounds like a fucking tithead- literally.

Bristolandlazy · 28/03/2026 22:13

Ha ha, go you

grumpygrape · 28/03/2026 22:13

Ineedanewsofa · 28/03/2026 22:11

Literally tit for tat

More like prick for tit 😉

CinnamonBuns67 · 28/03/2026 22:13

Nah yanbu. Hopefully now he'll correct his behaviour now he's experienced how it feels for himself.

Netcurtainnelly · 28/03/2026 22:15

How immature it all sounds.

JazzyJelly · 28/03/2026 22:17

What's good for the goose is good for the gander!

jellyfish798 · 28/03/2026 22:18

Think you've dealt with this brilliantly! Wish I'd done the same to my ex who was exactly the same, down to the ED! Sounds like a twat who can't take a dose of his own medicine 😆

Notmymarmosets · 28/03/2026 22:26

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Missj25 · 28/03/2026 22:29

MelonsVAubergines · 28/03/2026 22:07

I have pretty small boobs. Not non-existent but certainly not of notable size or the first thing anyone would notice about me.

DH has always loved big boobs. Not a porn addict or anything but all of his social media algorithms are clearly influenced by lots of looking at ample chested women. Fine, whatever. He also has a habit of constantly commenting on boobs in media. We were watching a film just now where a female character is based on a character in a game. The woman in the film had absolutely massive norks. He starts banging on about how the actress's boobs are tiny compared to the game character, finds a pic, starts waving it at me.

I've asked him repeatedly not to bang on about boobs. I accept he likes big boobs despite the fact I don't own a pair, it's probably my own issue that I feel uncomfortable when he's going on about them because I hate mine after 2 x pregnancies and significant weight loss. But tonight is yet another instance of him not being able to keep his big boob loving mouth shut (this happens repeatedly).

So instead of once again reminding him that I'd really rather not discuss giant boobs with him at every opportunity, I've scrolled through videos of gigantic hard cocks while he's still rabbiting in about boobs. He has ED issues and while he's not poorly endowed the monsters I was looking at were significantly larger than his.

He clocked what I was doing and started huffing. I parroted what he says to me when I ask him to shut up about boobs, "but they're not as good as yours" using the same half arsed tone and everything. Funnily enough he wasn't impressed and has stropped off to bed saying it's not the same and I'm being completely ridiculous.

AIBU?

🤣 🤣
HA HA !!!
Good fucking enough for him 🙌 😆.
That will put a stop to his shite .
Nice one OP 👏.
He wasn’t going to shut the fuck up despite you repeatedly asking him , so now this should be an end to it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Bookmarkers · 28/03/2026 22:31

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Dalmationday · 28/03/2026 22:32

I would want to say, if you like big boobs why on earth did you marry me? Why marry me and out me through misery listening to you drone on about boobs.

Vaxtable · 28/03/2026 22:34

Well done you

PrettyLilacs · 28/03/2026 22:34

I doubt it’ll solve the actual issue. Your husband is an arse, who objectifies women and doesn’t care about your feelings.

Dollymylove · 28/03/2026 22:38

Did you find any pics of large penises?
Asking for a friend 😆

Anyahyacinth · 28/03/2026 22:39

Brilliant strategy…no notes 💐

Bigtreeesss · 28/03/2026 22:42

What traits does he possess that make you want to stay with him?

I’m surprised when you googled giant d!cks his photo didn’t come up

PinkNailPolish2026 · 28/03/2026 22:42

So instead of once again reminding him that I'd really rather not discuss giant boobs with him at every opportunity

WHY are you putting up with this? Seriously if my DH was like this he’d have been binned a long time ago. If he wants bigger boobs off he pops to find someone who’d make him happy!

You gave him a taste of his own medicine and he didn’t like it so let him stew BUT as I said I’d have nipped this in the bud the first time it happened. It doesn’t sound like a very healthy relationship.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 28/03/2026 22:42
Keeping Up With The Kardashians Meme GIF

🥰🥰🥰

MelonsVAubergines · 28/03/2026 22:46

Dollymylove · 28/03/2026 22:38

Did you find any pics of large penises?
Asking for a friend 😆

Tell your friend that if they were to go on Reddit (they'll need to do age verification) and to type the phrase 'massive hard cocks' into the search they will find an absolute smorgasbord of borderline terrifyingly large members.

Please warn your friend it's not for the faint of heart....

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jellyfish798 · 28/03/2026 22:50

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Lighten up 🙄