I'm a member of a really small Jewish community in the UK. We are varying in orthodoxy, as most of us have come to our rural community for a variety of reasons. There are under 15 of us.
When October 7 happened, none of us said a thing to each other for about 3 days. The shock was too great, too significant, too horrifying. Then we came together and cried our eyes out and prayed. *
When the Manchester Synagogue attack happened we texted each other as some of us were from Manchester. **
When Bondi happened, there was again a delay for about 12 or so hours then the messages went around about who knew whom, and the connections which alot of us had, including me who was originally from Australia. My father had a good friend who was murdered.
This time? Just a wry text of 'here we go again. is everyone feeling okay?'.
- when October 7 happened we had quite a bit of contact from other religious groups in our community. The one that meant hugely were our Catholic community who reached out with such warmth and grief and who made it clear they were here for us.
** when Manchester happened our local village police force contacted us and said they were ready to stand outside our homes - we only had to give the indication. Cannot tell you how much we appreciated that.
None of the above should have happened.