Things you secretly know

[Daygloboo]

Just a general lighthearted one. Not aibu. Tell us something surprising, shocking, gripping or funny about someone you know personally , or an experience you had , or a famous person. Without giving anything away.
I've said this one before but....I know a very very well loved tv actor who is absolutely vile IRL. Im not going to out him but your jaw would drop if you knew..
Also I once lived in a place where a woman and her husband were upstanding members of the community, prominant locally, liked being respected, true blue types. They loved pronouncing on who was right and who was wrong in all situations. One day she told me conspiratorially and with great glee that they thought they'd been shafted financially by a local business bloke, so one night they put sugar in his petrol tank and slashed two of his tyres. I was young at the time and completely shocked.
Finally, in the C of E church in my old village where I grew up there were a bunch of smiley 'upstanding 'regular churchgoers who didnt like the new , slightly happy clappy vicar . He waa modern, and kind and seemed to care about the poorer people in the village . Rather like you'd imagine Jesus might have done. So the nice upatanding churchgoing regulars orchestrated a smear campaign against him and didn't stop until they'd made sure the vicar had had a breakdown and hadcto keave his post. It was.such a lovely, kindly village .🤣

Unless she is explicitly employed to manage the wealth of the people she knows and they therefore know she has this information, she is presumably looking at records for nosiness reasons rather than professional need.

I'm confused why you have decided she isn't personally working on them?
As a side note, my sister sends out letters for the NHS in paediatrics, she can see all kids medical record (I imagine in our area), she has told me she has checked my sons before which I wasn't too happy with so I don't think the NHS is a good example for this one..

Actually I've just remembered she checked our aunty's also when she was waiting for a diagnosis on something, she did ask her to check because she didn't want to wait for the letter but yeah, she could see hers too.

I have a personal connection with an extremely famous singer.

He loves to sing his most famous song whilst playing his willy like a banjo.

I'm lying of course, but does it matter because threads like this are absolutely ridiculous.

'Tell me a secret about someone I don't know, without mentioning names, which can be totally made up'

And this would make much more logical sense if you were using codewords for sextoys

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However, the laughing face emoji after the OP describes the treatment of the vicar is fucking grim. Maybe she is sloshed? Or I have incorrectly scanned it and she is laughing at the concept of the perfect village with a savage cynicism!

He loves to sing his most famous song whilst playing his willy like a banjo.

Well, even if this is false, my poor mind's eye visualised ed sheeran, What an unfortunate way to start the day. A dick banjo might sound better than his published music tho, but then again, so would a string of random farts

i know for a fact that a well known model was available for hire as a “girlfriend”. The rate back then was $30 000 for the weekend. I was working in the Middle East at the time and involved in the travel and payment arrangements.

I think it would be surprising if she were personally working on them. She says they are clients at her work, not that they are her clients. If they were he clients they would surely know she knows their secrets.

This whole story is really bad if it's true. I hope the family members find out and blow the whistle.

I'm confused why you have decided she isn't personally working on them?
As a side note, my sister sends out letters for the NHS in paediatrics, she can see all kids medical record (I imagine in our area), she has told me she has checked my sons before which I wasn't too happy with so I don't think the NHS is a good example for this one..

Then your Sister is a fool who would be sacked if she got found out. I work in the NHS and have records at my fingertips we all know to never ever look at anybody unless we are caring for them.

I work with the biggest tool of a man I had ever met in my life. Obnoxious, brash, loud and totally shit at his job. He was married and used to bring his wife into work every now and again she seemed like a lovely woman. Anyway he started having an affair with a woman he had met whilst out and made everyone aware of all the sordid details, taking her on holidays, letting us the details of his sex life - totally unprofessional and like he had won a prize. I set up a fake FB profile and told his wife, his life imploded when she chucked him out and like in The Traitors he has no idea who told his wife. He is pretty sure it is somebody at work and hates us all but it has been a joy to watch the total prick fall from his perch. Of course it is not his fault but that of the person who told his wife. Nobody else in the world knows it was me.

I used to work for a local authority, I interviewed lots of people who had served time in prison for the most serious of offences. I have knowledge of them that is privileged, in that I only know it due to my work. Many years ago I worked in a police control room, I could access records on whether an individual had committed a crime. Accessing those records for personal use would have resulted in me being disciplined.
I would never, ever access records other than for professional reasons, and would never tell anyone what I know. Anyone who does really needs to give their head a wobble, it's a very serious offence to make private information public. It's legally /morally wrong.

Last night I had a nightmare that I forgot to put the bin out.

I've just realised that I haven't put the food waste bin out! Thanks for reminding me. 🙂

I'm in the NHS and Social Care even if someone asks I'm nit allowed to look on the file unless I've good reason to be on there such as a professional involvement. Our systems have an audit trail built in so that these is a record of who has been doing what to the file and when. Aside from the moral issue its abusing your position. I hope the gets caught.

That’s a sackable offence in the NHS she’s an idiot.

I know my dad cheated on my mum many times. He’s dead now and I found out after he died. I haven’t told anyone.

Finally, in the C of E church in my old village where I grew up there were a bunch of smiley 'upstanding 'regular churchgoers who didnt like the new , slightly happy clappy vicar . He waa modern, and kind and seemed to care about the poorer people in the village . Rather like you'd imagine Jesus might have done. So the nice upatanding churchgoing regulars orchestrated a smear campaign against him and didn't stop until they'd made sure the vicar had had a breakdown and hadcto keave his post. It was.such a lovely, kindly village .🤣

That's absolutely appalling and I'm not sure why you've used the laughing emoji!

I have similar. They left, not because as they've told everyone, they were headhunted, but because there was a serious allegations of bullying including discrimination and they were very likely to have been pushed.
They don't know I know and so I have to sit through their description of how their previous job keeps begging them to return but they are oh so needed...

You can get the sack/ disciplinary in the nhs if you are accessing records for a reason that is not related to your work. Your sis should know that she absolutely should not access your son’s record unless she is having to type a letter etc. In that case, the right thing to do would be to ask a colleague to type it due to the relationship. If they are electronic records, there will be an audit trail as to who has accessed them

Even with your aunty’s permission, she should not be accessing her records! Staff should have information governance training on a regular basis which spells this out.

How do know this? How do you know what he sent out for and what arrived within what timeframe?

Great idea for a thread....love it!! Thanks for setting it up
Will definitely post later but gotta get to work....
Oh poor vicar - why did they hate him so much if he was so Jesus like? He sounds lovely....

I know where the bodies are buried.

Nor me. A decent man's life destroyed. Not funny.

I know that someone who is officially on leave for burnout actually had affairs with not one but two of his colleagues and is now dealing with the fallout and broken marriage. Of course because I've been on MN for far too long this came as no surprise to me, but it's still a secret within the organisation. A woman has stepped into his role and is now pulling everyone well and truly into line as a lot of piss has been taken while people were busy not doing their jobs.