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Another school stabbing- Embarrasing

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Netcurtainnelly · 11/03/2026 12:40

https://news.sky.com/story/teenage-girl-stabbed-at-school-police-say-13517653

Total embarrassment now.
Is anyone ever going to get a grip on this?

Has anyone become nervous or their children about going to school?

There was one the other day too. Boy was injured.

Teenage girl stabbed at school, police say

Officers were called to Thorpe St Andrew School, near Norwich, on Wednesday morning following reports a girl had been stabbed.

https://news.sky.com/story/teenage-girl-stabbed-at-school-police-say-13517653

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cardibach · 12/03/2026 14:29

RainbowBagels · 12/03/2026 14:27

I agree. I know where this is. It's a fairly nice area. Until this last week I think the school had a good reputation. It looks like the boy stabbed her at 10.30, so school break time, jumped the fence and was caught 20 minutes later outside the school. I suspect its another kid at the school, and I bet she rejected him so he came back with a knife. Thank God it didn't look like it was something that caused her serious injury. I'm not sure why it's national news when it happens in London all the time.

It’s national news because it doesn’t happen ‘all the time’ - in London or anywhere else.

RainbowBagels · 12/03/2026 14:30

EvangelineTheNightStar · 12/03/2026 11:51

What @KiposWonderbeasts ?
Obviously it's not acceptable to use violence and lad should be prosecuted, but "treated for minor injuries" doesn't fall into "horrifying."
We don't know what was used , whether it was knife crime or a pair of compasses from a maths set. Let's not jump to extremes.

so if your child came home injured from being stabbed with a compass you’d say “meh… least it’s not a knife”. Or if same happened to you at work or public, you’d brush it off as. “thems the breaks! Nothing to see here!”

To be fair, If be pissed off but bloody relieved it was just a compass and not a knife.

RainbowBagels · 12/03/2026 14:31

cardibach · 12/03/2026 14:29

It’s national news because it doesn’t happen ‘all the time’ - in London or anywhere else.

Not in school, but outside schools, it does. I have heard of a couple of cases that weren't national news

cardibach · 12/03/2026 14:34

RainbowBagels · 12/03/2026 14:31

Not in school, but outside schools, it does. I have heard of a couple of cases that weren't national news

Violent crime, including knife crime, is falling in London and nationally.

EvangelineTheNightStar · 12/03/2026 14:54

cardibach · 12/03/2026 14:26

That’s such a cop out. ‘The figures aren't coming down, every second person is getting stabbed they just don’t report it’. Utter nonsense.

And mine was a question, not a statement. Your rather agressive response was quite defensive.

EvangelineTheNightStar · 12/03/2026 14:56

@cardibach do you work in this field of crime and violence and that’s why you have such certainty that everything is going so well now?

Goldeh · 12/03/2026 15:03

Violent crime is on the decrease as a whole. While this is an awful incident, it is not part of a pattern of increasing violence or an epidemic of violence. Britain is not "getting worse" but coverage of incidents via rolling news coverage, sensationalist reporting, and social media rent-a-gobs make you think it is by shoving negativity in your face 24/7.

I agree with points made about the mental health crisis, lack of funding for family support services, parenting, etc. These are all areas which require attention and link to issues which need to be addressed, particularly those relating to VAWG.

However, an isolated incident is not indicative of the imminent downfall of society.

EasternStandard · 12/03/2026 15:06

EvangelineTheNightStar · 12/03/2026 14:56

@cardibach do you work in this field of crime and violence and that’s why you have such certainty that everything is going so well now?

The BBC focussed on the issue of violence for school age specifically, after the horrendous murder of Harvey Willgoose

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c77d06vde4po

cardibach · 12/03/2026 15:08

EvangelineTheNightStar · 12/03/2026 14:56

@cardibach do you work in this field of crime and violence and that’s why you have such certainty that everything is going so well now?

No. But I can read and I’m not swayed by right wing ‘the sky is falling’ narratives.

EvangelineTheNightStar · 12/03/2026 15:09

Thanks @EasternStandard thatw something that hadn’t considered, it may be happening less, but the actual incidents are more violent, so not actually that great.

cardibach · 12/03/2026 15:09

EvangelineTheNightStar · 12/03/2026 14:54

And mine was a question, not a statement. Your rather agressive response was quite defensive.

It’s the same question that’s always ‘asked’ though. Like Farage is always ‘only asking’. It’s disingenuous in most cases.

EasternStandard · 12/03/2026 15:16

EvangelineTheNightStar · 12/03/2026 15:09

Thanks @EasternStandard thatw something that hadn’t considered, it may be happening less, but the actual incidents are more violent, so not actually that great.

I think his mother / parents were right to say this isn’t good enough for dc. The answer shouldn’t ever be it’s something that happens. Or overall stats are going down don’t mention it.

EvangelineTheNightStar · 12/03/2026 15:18

cardibach · 12/03/2026 15:09

It’s the same question that’s always ‘asked’ though. Like Farage is always ‘only asking’. It’s disingenuous in most cases.

erm… ok? Why are you mentioning Farage because I asked “Is that less attacks are happening, or less are being reported/prosecuted?”
again you present as very defensive with regards to those who are committing violent crime.

cardibach · 12/03/2026 15:20

EasternStandard · 12/03/2026 15:16

I think his mother / parents were right to say this isn’t good enough for dc. The answer shouldn’t ever be it’s something that happens. Or overall stats are going down don’t mention it.

Nobody has said don’t mention it. They’ve said it’s terrible but not indicative of societal collapse.

cardibach · 12/03/2026 15:21

EvangelineTheNightStar · 12/03/2026 15:18

erm… ok? Why are you mentioning Farage because I asked “Is that less attacks are happening, or less are being reported/prosecuted?”
again you present as very defensive with regards to those who are committing violent crime.

Because as I said in the post ypu reply to, it’s mostly meant to suggest that is the case, in a technique Farage uses a lot. That was an illustration. If that’s not you, if you genuinely asked a question, then I don’t mean you.

EasternStandard · 12/03/2026 15:23

cardibach · 12/03/2026 15:20

Nobody has said don’t mention it. They’ve said it’s terrible but not indicative of societal collapse.

The parents are right to say it shows a failing that needs to be addressed.

GarlicFound · 12/03/2026 15:30

Babsandherwabs · 11/03/2026 12:56

It’s not a problem unique to this generation though is it? I thought rates of stabbings were coming down. Maybe that’s just London.

I'm 70. A girl in my year stabbed another one with a scalpel over a row about a boyfriend. Victim was badly injured. There were serious fights from junior school onwards - definitely not new!

As PPs have pointed out, it's news because it's unusual.

SparklyTwinkleGlitter · 12/03/2026 15:33

It all started going downhil in 1979 when Maggie got in with her brand of conservatism and the ‘everyone for himself’ mentality and her now infamous “there’s no such thing as society” bollocks.

Allseeingallknowing · 12/03/2026 15:35

Don’t think embarrassing is the right word- it’s horrific!

cardibach · 12/03/2026 16:29

EasternStandard · 12/03/2026 15:23

The parents are right to say it shows a failing that needs to be addressed.

Yes, of course.
Still not societal collapse or ‘embarrassing’ though.

84figi · 12/03/2026 16:32

What goes into someone's head to stab another classmate? There was that awful case in Sheffield.

GarlicFound · 12/03/2026 17:12

84figi · 12/03/2026 16:32

What goes into someone's head to stab another classmate? There was that awful case in Sheffield.

Children don't really understand pain, injury and death. It's the same reason they take unreasonable risks and make stupid mistakes. It takes quite a bit of teaching to get some values & boundaries into them, after which we hope their maturing brains will piece it together themselves.

I think exposure to violent language and/or actions will make them more likely to turn verbal expressions of violence into action. Lots of kids may say "I'll kill you!" or "You're dead, haha", and lots of games have violent content that isn't meant to be taken seriously. But if no-one's ever explained why it mustn't be taken beyond words in play ...

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