To think my daughter is too young for her bf?

[CraftyHazelSeal]

My daughter is 20 years old. A few months ago she started dating a man 16 years older than her. Me and DH didn't know about him, we assumed she was dating someone her age. She told us she never felt uncomfortable with him, he never suggested her alcohol and he treats her well. But we're still worried about his intentions. I can't confirm but as she says he's single, never did drugs and his criminal record is clean. She's suggested us to meet with him.

She's 20 - she is an adult.

Unless there are some facts you're not telling us - keep your nose out

And of course the moment you become an 'adult' you are automatically imbued with wisdom and life experience that allows you to make sound decisions without mistakes or regrets. Or perhaps, maybe, despite being a young adult, they might occasionally benefit from the well meaning advice of others who have walked a longer road then them.

I had a short relationship when I was 20 with someone in his late 30s. It was never going to go anywhere but it was fun for a summer, and the sex was amazing. I met someone else and moved on, as did he.