I don't agree with either of you at all about Iran. Iran supported a 2 state solution in 2024 and has categorically said it had no wish to obliterate anyone, it will only act in defence. This reflects the view of the current administration.
There are definitely things I think the international community should raise with Iran such as the threat of death in relation to homosexuality, but the idea that this could be done by bombing, assassinations is ridiculous. The aims of the bombing are geopolitical, gaining land, resources, power, not to do with human rights. Netanyahu drove the war against Iraq in a similar way 20 odd years ago and then Syria and this is simply Take 3.
And as for women - you will find documentaries in which educated, professional Iranian women talk about wanting to find love within the framework of their religion, traditions and culture and who choose to wear the hijab (not all women in Iran do) - it is somewhat patronising that MNetters who have zero knowledge of their traditions or culture are telling them they need to be saved.
I can post examples of women not wearing hijab in the streets and also a documentary if anyone is open minded enough to watch it.