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StabbyCat · 06/02/2026 21:38

Inspired by a clip I just saw on Instagram.

Deep breath.

Here goes.

Robin Williams wasn’t particularly funny.

ETA “Start” obviously.

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KimberleyClark · 07/02/2026 10:57

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2026 10:53

Really? If you say so.

Yeah. I agree most transwomen don’t pass, but anyone who thinks no transwoman can ever pass is deluding themselves.

thestudio · 07/02/2026 10:59

CrocsNotDocs · 07/02/2026 00:53

Childcare for under 3s is a negative experience for almost all children except children from vulnerable and chaotic households. “Studies” that show net benefits commissioned by the childcare industry and governments are an absolute cherry-picked crock of shit.

Yes. There’s so much more evidence that home care is best.

Gloriia · 07/02/2026 11:00

KimberleyClark · 07/02/2026 10:57

Yeah. I agree most transwomen don’t pass, but anyone who thinks no transwoman can ever pass is deluding themselves.

I think lady boys in Thailand pass. That's about it. Westerners may pass from 20 feet if they are small and petite but as soon as they speak it's obvious. Paris Lees being an example.

usedtobeaylis · 07/02/2026 11:01

Shayisgreat · 07/02/2026 10:56

I don't know if this is an unpopular opinion in the real world but it seems to be in my line of work.....People need to just stfu about their personal difficulties and do their job without bringing their whole self to work. I don't care about your nodes Jessica.

Oh is that an unpopular opinion? I'm on board with it. 'Bring your whole self to work' - please don't.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/02/2026 11:02

KimberleyClark · 07/02/2026 10:57

Yeah. I agree most transwomen don’t pass, but anyone who thinks no transwoman can ever pass is deluding themselves.

I’m not saying he couldn’t ever be said to pass (in a photo, not IRL, there is an uncanny valley effect with him). I’m saying i don’t think he can really be described as “stunning”. The trans aspect is clouding your judgment, I doubt you’d call a woman who looked exactly like him “stunning”, he’s pretty average looking for someone feted as a model.

StartingFreshFor2026 · 07/02/2026 11:03

Designless · 06/02/2026 21:58

"the most vulnerable" should come last in public policy not first

Ok - genuinely asking - why?

I actually don't know if I can think of a reason why this would be an idea outside of actual eugenics.

Luckyingame · 07/02/2026 11:05

Wow, this thread again! It usually gets full in no time. 😀
Here I go: Children take everything and give nothing. They literally destroy people's lives.
That's why I never had any and until today regard it as the best decision of my life.

Reallyneedsaholiday · 07/02/2026 11:07

Princess Diana was no angel and would have made a terrible Queen. Her death was undoubtedly a tragedy for her boys, but doesn't change the fact that she was not cut out to be Queen.

B1anche · 07/02/2026 11:09

Unpopular opinion - I couldn't give a shit if someone wears a Dryrobe on the school run / in Waitrose / walking the dog in a London park. I equally don't care if they have never been sea/lake swimming. I haven't got one, but I can see why they might appeal to people who want to stay warm and dry.

There. I've said it.

B1anche · 07/02/2026 11:09

Luckyingame · 07/02/2026 11:05

Wow, this thread again! It usually gets full in no time. 😀
Here I go: Children take everything and give nothing. They literally destroy people's lives.
That's why I never had any and until today regard it as the best decision of my life.

I've got kids and I agree with you!

Dollymylove · 07/02/2026 11:10

Too many people are using the mental health card to excuse their bad behaviour

Thesnailonthewhale · 07/02/2026 11:11

Being anxious about taking an exam is not the same as having anxiety and shouldn't be given access/accomodation.

Idontcareboutthestateofmyhair · 07/02/2026 11:12

MindYourUsage · 06/02/2026 21:46

Chilli is overdone and ruins most foods 🌶️

yet is added to everything FFS

100%!! Sick to death of chilli on everything while eating out! And freaking truffle everything now too! Currently on the Isle of Skye for a few days ..proper food in our hotel bar; casseroles and mashed potato, veggies cooked in glorious butter, fresh fish grilled etc .. no chilli on anything, utter bliss! I don't mind chilli in the food it should be in but leave the classics alone!

Gloriia · 07/02/2026 11:12

Luckyingame · 07/02/2026 11:05

Wow, this thread again! It usually gets full in no time. 😀
Here I go: Children take everything and give nothing. They literally destroy people's lives.
That's why I never had any and until today regard it as the best decision of my life.

They don't 'literally destroy lives' at all dearie me how ott but I can see how people who chose not to have them and now regret it would make themselves feel better by thinking this.

usedtobeaylis · 07/02/2026 11:14

Dollymylove · 07/02/2026 11:10

Too many people are using the mental health card to excuse their bad behaviour

I think there's a lot to be said for the stuff upper lip in terms of mental health. I think there's a balance between 'it's good to talk', and pulling your socks up. That's not to say that mental health issues can be resolved by pulling your socks up - just that resilience is becoming a lost trait.

The fact I feel the need to almost over-explain because context and nuance aren't things any more.

Gloriia · 07/02/2026 11:15

I don't understand the popularity of pistachio chocolate. There's green bars in all the chocolate areas it doesn't look right.

sarahwarah11 · 07/02/2026 11:15

Gribouille · 06/02/2026 22:52

There's a right batch now... Car Seat Headrest... Snapped Ankles... Wet Leg... I like some of their music, but I deplore their 'that'll do' names...

That'll Do is probably one...

But I can't bring myself to hate Pigs Pigs Pigs Pigs Pigs Pigs Pigs... (though we call them 'Seven Pigs')...

I struggle with Spandau Ballet and Joy Division. Both horrendous names.

ForWittyTealOP · 07/02/2026 11:15

SouthernNights59 · 07/02/2026 06:03

In the UK, very probably. In many other parts of the world no-one cares two figs what anyone is called.

Names are fascinating. A colleague was talking to me about Cuban names. Apparently Toniblair was quite popular at one point and she'd come across a Usnavy (pronounced kinda Us-nabbee) after a ship his parents had spotted in dock.
Not controversial, sorry! But interesting.

Mydogisblackandwhite · 07/02/2026 11:16

Createausername1970 · 06/02/2026 21:51

I enjoy watching BBC programmes and don't mind paying the TV licence.

Prosecco is unpleasant.

I enjoy eating dairy products. I don't like the trend towards replacing "vegetarian" options on menus with only "vegan" options.

But, that said, Greggs Vegan Sausage Rolls are just as tasty as the meat version.

The vegan sausage rolls aren't as grease,I quite like them

KimberleyClark · 07/02/2026 11:17

Gloriia · 07/02/2026 11:12

They don't 'literally destroy lives' at all dearie me how ott but I can see how people who chose not to have them and now regret it would make themselves feel better by thinking this.

And vice versa, I can see how people who had children and now regret it would n make themselves feel better by saying how worth it it all is. I expect the truth is somewhere in between.

LizzybugMeeting · 07/02/2026 11:17

Claudia Winkleman's hairdo is bonkers. It went out of style in Cairo about three thousand years ago.

(I'm taking cover from the incoming)

Idontcareboutthestateofmyhair · 07/02/2026 11:21

EmotionalSupportVest · 06/02/2026 22:15

Garlic is not necessary.

Agree! Hate the bloody stuff. It stinks to high heaven 🤮 it is so overused in the UK by people that can't bloody cook!

Fodencat · 07/02/2026 11:22

Why have so many kids these days got glasses? Is it a trend? No kids had glasses when I was a kid.

Gagagagadoesthegoose · 07/02/2026 11:23

giddyboo · 06/02/2026 23:21

Garlic tastes lovely, has antibiotic properties and keeps vampires away how can you not like it?

Found my tribe!

usedtobeaylis · 07/02/2026 11:25

Fodencat · 07/02/2026 11:22

Why have so many kids these days got glasses? Is it a trend? No kids had glasses when I was a kid.

I barely had eye tests when I was a kid never mind glasses.

Apparently less natural light is a major factor.

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