Should i let my children be looked after this person?

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This is a delicate matter…
just wanted to hear peoples views.

A distant family member has gotten themself into a tricky situation where they can’t be around kids at the moment.

They are currently staying at a family members house until this is sorted out. We haven’t been for a while because they are staying there and we have children. But we do visit often under normal circumstances.

My kids are supposed to going in a few weeks for the day. Under normal circumstances i would be happy for them to go. However i have been told the person in question won’t be there, they will be a work.

Do you think it’s ok for my kids to still go. I’ve been told that they won’t be there at all whilst my kids are there.

I am a little worried, but only because I don’t wanna get into trouble doing the wrong thing.

Sorry if I’ve been vague. 🤦🏼‍♀️ don’t really know how to approach the situation.

No, I wouldn't. There are no situations where I'd trust a person who allowed someone in this 'tricky situation' to have my children in their house.

Ask the relatives (not the problem guy) to visit you or babysit in your home?

Tricky situation....just name it Stop downplaying it with euphemisms.

It's bad if they can't be around children.

Don't let your children go there, he might turn up with unexpected.

I think don't go but invite the person who wants to see the children to come to yours. That person, hosting the other family member will probably be distraught, bewildered, angry, sad, at what the other family member has done and for putting them in the situation of having them to live with them or presumably be homeless.

Your post is vague. If this person cannot be around children, the answer is no, absolutely not. Do not send your children to a place where this person could show up.

Please don't, better be careful than ruining one of your children's life for not wanting to disappoint your family member, they can come and visit your children with your supervision (not the member with the charges of doing indecency) life can change in a second and you will feel super bad for not putting boundaries.