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Labour increase benefits bill. AIBU To think what’s the point in working?

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topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 08:10

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15520831/Labours-push-lift-two-child-benefits-cap-hand-25-000-windfalls-thousands-Britains-biggest-jobless-families.html#

‘Official estimates suggest the cost of scrapping the cap will total £13.6 billion over the next five years.

The Tories said families currently affected by the cap are in line to receive windfalls worth an average £25,000 each over that period.

But the biggest families will gain far more. Thousands of families with five children will receive around £10,900 a year while those with six children will get an extra £16,600 a year.
Almost half of the families involved have no one in work.‘

Labour benefits plan 'will hand £25,000' to biggest jobless families

Ministers will bring forward legislation on Tuesday to lift the limit on benefit payments which was imposed in 2017.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15520831/Labours-push-lift-two-child-benefits-cap-hand-25-000-windfalls-thousands-Britains-biggest-jobless-families.html#

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LadyKenya · 04/02/2026 10:03

All of these posters knowing that their neighbours, the postman's Aunt, that man down the road, who does break dancing as a hobby, are gaming the system, and yet they are never reported. Strange.

Lmktrf · 04/02/2026 10:05

Nanalovesnature · 04/02/2026 09:22

She will be saying at least one of them are disabled or will claim to have a disability herself, maybe a touch of depression/anxiety/fybro and then the cap doesn't apply.

I've met a student who used pip backpay for autism to jet off to NYC with friends. Despite already getting the maximum student loan (and then some extra for being disabled and then DSA on top of that).

When I went to NYC I paid for my own tickets 🤷

nomas · 04/02/2026 10:05

Bilster · 04/02/2026 08:47

I don’t think we should be giving benefits to endless people born overseas who have never worked in this country. If you come from overseas to work in the UK your spouse should be able to claim benefits but not your auntie and your gran etc.

That’s not what’s happening though.

And are you saying you are happier to give benefits to white people?

Kirbert2 · 04/02/2026 10:08

Lmktrf · 04/02/2026 10:05

I've met a student who used pip backpay for autism to jet off to NYC with friends. Despite already getting the maximum student loan (and then some extra for being disabled and then DSA on top of that).

When I went to NYC I paid for my own tickets 🤷

Maybe it shouldn't take so long to go through that people end up getting thousands and thousands of pounds in backpay?

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 04/02/2026 10:09

Lmktrf · 04/02/2026 10:05

I've met a student who used pip backpay for autism to jet off to NYC with friends. Despite already getting the maximum student loan (and then some extra for being disabled and then DSA on top of that).

When I went to NYC I paid for my own tickets 🤷

You paid for your own tickets with money you should have been putting into savings in case you end up disabled.

nomas · 04/02/2026 10:23

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 04/02/2026 10:09

You paid for your own tickets with money you should have been putting into savings in case you end up disabled.

So NT people shouldn’t hope to rely on benefits if they get disabled?

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 04/02/2026 10:29

nomas · 04/02/2026 10:23

So NT people shouldn’t hope to rely on benefits if they get disabled?

Where does NT come into any of this?

I'm just repeating back some of the rhetoric used in the thread so far; the people saying "I wouldn't need benefits if I became disabled because I have savings and health insurance".

Health insurance wouldn't have helped me (it would have been classed as a pre-existing condition even though I wasn't aware of it until I was 28), and my savings disappeared quickly once I couldn't work anymore.

ArrghNoJustNo · 04/02/2026 10:49

nomas · 04/02/2026 10:05

That’s not what’s happening though.

And are you saying you are happier to give benefits to white people?

Are white people the only British nationals? The poster is clearly talking about British citizens of any race.

whataguddle · 04/02/2026 10:50

LadyKenya · 04/02/2026 10:03

All of these posters knowing that their neighbours, the postman's Aunt, that man down the road, who does break dancing as a hobby, are gaming the system, and yet they are never reported. Strange.

It’s not strange at all it’s what is going on in plain sight….scammers and frauds.

How do you know she’s not been reported it’s not a secret, I’m not the only one who is aware.

Stop denying the sheer scale of the problem.

Nanalovesnature · 04/02/2026 10:59

whataguddle · 04/02/2026 10:50

It’s not strange at all it’s what is going on in plain sight….scammers and frauds.

How do you know she’s not been reported it’s not a secret, I’m not the only one who is aware.

Stop denying the sheer scale of the problem.

It is going on in plain sight, on a huge scale and the people denying it are either at it themselves, or have a loved one at it or they are living in la la land.

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 04/02/2026 11:08

whataguddle · 04/02/2026 10:50

It’s not strange at all it’s what is going on in plain sight….scammers and frauds.

How do you know she’s not been reported it’s not a secret, I’m not the only one who is aware.

Stop denying the sheer scale of the problem.

So have you reported her?

Bilster · 04/02/2026 11:10

nomas · 04/02/2026 10:05

That’s not what’s happening though.

And are you saying you are happier to give benefits to white people?

Of course not. There are plenty of non-white people who have been born in the UK.

Lmktrf · 04/02/2026 11:10

Kirbert2 · 04/02/2026 10:08

Maybe it shouldn't take so long to go through that people end up getting thousands and thousands of pounds in backpay?

Wasn't the max student loan, (extra student loan on top of that + DSA enough).

Used it to buy a playstation as well. But that's not enough?

Kirbert2 · 04/02/2026 11:12

Nanalovesnature · 04/02/2026 10:59

It is going on in plain sight, on a huge scale and the people denying it are either at it themselves, or have a loved one at it or they are living in la la land.

Or have actually gone through PIP or DLA themselves and have first hand experience at just how difficult it is and how much medical evidence is required to know it is far from as simple or easy as some people seem to think it is.

TigerRag · 04/02/2026 11:12

Lmktrf · 04/02/2026 11:10

Wasn't the max student loan, (extra student loan on top of that + DSA enough).

Used it to buy a playstation as well. But that's not enough?

DSA isn't money. You can get reimbursed for the extra costs because being a disabled student costs more than a non disabled student

ticktickticktickBOOM · 04/02/2026 11:18

'On average' is the key phrase here.

An 'average' £96 per week extra if you have 4/5/6 children is hardly a windfall,
but it could just help give those children nutritious food, warm new clothes and shoes, and afford to take part in out of school sports and swimming lessons

Bilster · 04/02/2026 11:19

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 04/02/2026 10:29

Where does NT come into any of this?

I'm just repeating back some of the rhetoric used in the thread so far; the people saying "I wouldn't need benefits if I became disabled because I have savings and health insurance".

Health insurance wouldn't have helped me (it would have been classed as a pre-existing condition even though I wasn't aware of it until I was 28), and my savings disappeared quickly once I couldn't work anymore.

It’s not health insurance, it’s sickness insurance.

I am insured so that if I am deemed unable to work through sickness I will receive 50% of my current salary until pensionable age.

I am insured so that I receive a lump sum if I suffer a critical illness (terminal cancer etc).

If I die while working for my current employer my estate receives 8 x my current salary.

I also have savings of 4 years of salary and a DC pension (only worth £300k so pitiful compared to DB) and these savings cover our outstanding mortgage.

My workplace provides free health insurance (all prior conditions covered too) for which I pay a monthly benefit in kind charge for that I’d not inconsiderable.

I spend money on these things because they are important to me. They give me peace of mind. I can afford it as I save in other areas. My car is over 10 years old. My hair is graying and I’m living with it. I had a haircut over 6 months ago. I’ve never used deliveroo or got a tattoo or my nails done or any other fripperies. These things don’t matter to me. I rarely buy new clothes. Financial security is all about priorities.

Julen7 · 04/02/2026 11:23

Bilster · 04/02/2026 11:19

It’s not health insurance, it’s sickness insurance.

I am insured so that if I am deemed unable to work through sickness I will receive 50% of my current salary until pensionable age.

I am insured so that I receive a lump sum if I suffer a critical illness (terminal cancer etc).

If I die while working for my current employer my estate receives 8 x my current salary.

I also have savings of 4 years of salary and a DC pension (only worth £300k so pitiful compared to DB) and these savings cover our outstanding mortgage.

My workplace provides free health insurance (all prior conditions covered too) for which I pay a monthly benefit in kind charge for that I’d not inconsiderable.

I spend money on these things because they are important to me. They give me peace of mind. I can afford it as I save in other areas. My car is over 10 years old. My hair is graying and I’m living with it. I had a haircut over 6 months ago. I’ve never used deliveroo or got a tattoo or my nails done or any other fripperies. These things don’t matter to me. I rarely buy new clothes. Financial security is all about priorities.

Same. I have also prioritised it.

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 04/02/2026 11:23

Bilster · 04/02/2026 11:19

It’s not health insurance, it’s sickness insurance.

I am insured so that if I am deemed unable to work through sickness I will receive 50% of my current salary until pensionable age.

I am insured so that I receive a lump sum if I suffer a critical illness (terminal cancer etc).

If I die while working for my current employer my estate receives 8 x my current salary.

I also have savings of 4 years of salary and a DC pension (only worth £300k so pitiful compared to DB) and these savings cover our outstanding mortgage.

My workplace provides free health insurance (all prior conditions covered too) for which I pay a monthly benefit in kind charge for that I’d not inconsiderable.

I spend money on these things because they are important to me. They give me peace of mind. I can afford it as I save in other areas. My car is over 10 years old. My hair is graying and I’m living with it. I had a haircut over 6 months ago. I’ve never used deliveroo or got a tattoo or my nails done or any other fripperies. These things don’t matter to me. I rarely buy new clothes. Financial security is all about priorities.

If I'd had that insurance policy, it wouldn't have paid out when I was diagnosed because the condition is deemed "pre-existing". I checked.

I had that death in service cover through work, then I had to leave because of my health. Protection gone.

Financial security is about choices which you get the privilege of making if you have the luck to not be born with a serious condition that voids health/sickness insurance and means you have to leave work before you die.

Kirbert2 · 04/02/2026 11:24

Bilster · 04/02/2026 11:19

It’s not health insurance, it’s sickness insurance.

I am insured so that if I am deemed unable to work through sickness I will receive 50% of my current salary until pensionable age.

I am insured so that I receive a lump sum if I suffer a critical illness (terminal cancer etc).

If I die while working for my current employer my estate receives 8 x my current salary.

I also have savings of 4 years of salary and a DC pension (only worth £300k so pitiful compared to DB) and these savings cover our outstanding mortgage.

My workplace provides free health insurance (all prior conditions covered too) for which I pay a monthly benefit in kind charge for that I’d not inconsiderable.

I spend money on these things because they are important to me. They give me peace of mind. I can afford it as I save in other areas. My car is over 10 years old. My hair is graying and I’m living with it. I had a haircut over 6 months ago. I’ve never used deliveroo or got a tattoo or my nails done or any other fripperies. These things don’t matter to me. I rarely buy new clothes. Financial security is all about priorities.

How about if your child becomes disabled? Are you covered for that too?

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 04/02/2026 11:24

I could have poured loads of money into an insurance policy when I was healthy and working and earning; it wouldn't have paid out when I was diagnosed. I checked.

Bilster · 04/02/2026 11:28

Kirbert2 · 04/02/2026 11:24

How about if your child becomes disabled? Are you covered for that too?

I have enough savings to downside and live of them until retirement, so yes. It’s why I’ve prioritised saving hard.

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 04/02/2026 11:29

Bilster · 04/02/2026 11:28

I have enough savings to downside and live of them until retirement, so yes. It’s why I’ve prioritised saving hard.

Not sure how people are supposed to achieve that by their mid to late 20s, but good for you.

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 04/02/2026 11:30

And another pointless thread comes to an end.

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 04/02/2026 11:30

Same time tomorrow everyone?

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