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Labour increase benefits bill. AIBU To think what’s the point in working?

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topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 08:10

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15520831/Labours-push-lift-two-child-benefits-cap-hand-25-000-windfalls-thousands-Britains-biggest-jobless-families.html#

‘Official estimates suggest the cost of scrapping the cap will total £13.6 billion over the next five years.

The Tories said families currently affected by the cap are in line to receive windfalls worth an average £25,000 each over that period.

But the biggest families will gain far more. Thousands of families with five children will receive around £10,900 a year while those with six children will get an extra £16,600 a year.
Almost half of the families involved have no one in work.‘

Labour benefits plan 'will hand £25,000' to biggest jobless families

Ministers will bring forward legislation on Tuesday to lift the limit on benefit payments which was imposed in 2017.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15520831/Labours-push-lift-two-child-benefits-cap-hand-25-000-windfalls-thousands-Britains-biggest-jobless-families.html#

OP posts:
Countrysidepicnic · 03/02/2026 19:12

When we run out of money, benefits for eating disorders will be at the forefront to be removed.

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 19:12

Bilster · 03/02/2026 19:12

Keep on trying to defend the indefensible.

Educate yourself. It is not hard.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 03/02/2026 19:13

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 19:11

I give up. I do not have the time or crayons to explain it to you.
Off you go in your little bubble.

Bit rude. Not very persuasive approach and if you aren't trying to persuade what's the point of you posting? JUST TO RANT??

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 03/02/2026 19:13

Julen7 · 03/02/2026 19:08

Yes. This is what it comes down to now.

So Ebenezer Scrooge "let them die and decrease the surplus population"?

Easy to say it when it isn't your family experiencing it; I doubt you'd be so "it's just financial" then.

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 03/02/2026 19:14

TheThinkingEconomist · 03/02/2026 19:09

Yes, I do.

As does every other person who is a net tax contributor.

The country cannot afford the sheer level of entitlement that I have seen written in this thread.

How entitled of me to be disabled 😂

Pineneedlesincarpet · 03/02/2026 19:14

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 03/02/2026 19:13

So Ebenezer Scrooge "let them die and decrease the surplus population"?

Easy to say it when it isn't your family experiencing it; I doubt you'd be so "it's just financial" then.

Again...why do you think Labour are forcing the Assisted Dying Bill through?

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 19:15

Frequency · 03/02/2026 18:48

Higher food bills due to a severely restricted diet. Higher heating bills due to being chronically cold. Taxis to and from everywhere because you have no energy to walk/take public transport. Supportive seat cushions so you don't have to sit on the bones of your arse. Vitamin supplements. Specialist skincare due to how dry/flaking sore your skin is.

I could go on.

Anorexia is not a cheap disease to live with.

OK I'm not believing the higher food bills sorry (distasteful as you might find that).

Taxis OK- so we consider how much is reasonable. Medical appts plus a little maybe. Seat cushion and vitamins - ok there's £30 one off plus £6 a month.

If a person with anorexia had costs associated with their illness they could put them forward in a cost based benefit claim. E.g. if it was transport to medical appointments then they could evidence that.

This discussion is not about punishing anyone. If we had a small and stable amount of people claiming disability benefits and healthy public finances we could look after them well and I wouldn't waste my time discussing it. We have an unsustainable welfare bill and a disaffected working population increasingly refusing to put their nose to the grindstone extra to bleed taxes.

Where do you think we should cut? Can I guess you don't? Let's find "billionaires" to pay.

Here is a question for you. Why should even a billionaire fund someone's lifestyle choice to have 6 kids? It's not about "stopping people having kids" as someone suggested earlier. It's simply saying after a certain point (which was 2 kids) you will need to fund any more yourself.

Bilster · 03/02/2026 19:16

Pineneedlesincarpet · 03/02/2026 19:13

Bit rude. Not very persuasive approach and if you aren't trying to persuade what's the point of you posting? JUST TO RANT??

I’d leave her be. She’s clearly not very bright. Some people have no idea that their personal entitlement - expanded to the wider populace on a grand scale - is the one reason why benefits HAVE to be cut in the future. They’re digging their own grave. And that of those whose disability genuinely leaves them in need to cash.

I have an ADHD / ASD child. It’s expensive stuff. Cannot wear most clothes due to sensory issues, paying for private schooling due to the need for peace. I don’t claim a penny because I believe in supporting ourselves.

Julen7 · 03/02/2026 19:16

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 03/02/2026 19:13

So Ebenezer Scrooge "let them die and decrease the surplus population"?

Easy to say it when it isn't your family experiencing it; I doubt you'd be so "it's just financial" then.

You asked the question. I am replying with the stance I think the next govt will take. Sorry if it’s not what you want to hear.

Julen7 · 03/02/2026 19:18

Bilster · 03/02/2026 19:16

I’d leave her be. She’s clearly not very bright. Some people have no idea that their personal entitlement - expanded to the wider populace on a grand scale - is the one reason why benefits HAVE to be cut in the future. They’re digging their own grave. And that of those whose disability genuinely leaves them in need to cash.

I have an ADHD / ASD child. It’s expensive stuff. Cannot wear most clothes due to sensory issues, paying for private schooling due to the need for peace. I don’t claim a penny because I believe in supporting ourselves.

Yeah just leave it, she just can’t grasp the problem sadly.

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 19:19

Pineneedlesincarpet · 03/02/2026 19:13

Bit rude. Not very persuasive approach and if you aren't trying to persuade what's the point of you posting? JUST TO RANT??

Really? Have you seen the comments about how a severe eating disorder does not benefits?
Utterly batshit ignorant comments about the true cost of a devastating MH disorder that I have lost too many friends too.

If you are on PIP, a person you live with can claim carer's allowance.... which is about £80pw. If you have severe anorexia, you often have someone needing to make sure you eat, not run to the loo after meals, not do exercises to burn calories off. That is a full time job in itself.

Countrysidepicnic · 03/02/2026 19:20

Pineneedlesincarpet · 03/02/2026 19:14

Again...why do you think Labour are forcing the Assisted Dying Bill through?

Well yes. Aside from relief to those with terminal illness, for everyone else when welfare collapses it will be work or starve, so I guess some will choose it.

NorthXNorthWest · 03/02/2026 19:20

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 19:10

It is not "entitlement" to be disabled and rely on the state for support.
And plenty of people work in jobs where they don't earn enough to be a net tax contributor. Are they to be shunned too?

It's entitlement to talk about benefits as something you are owed irrespective of the wider costs. The benefits bill is unsustainable, we are hurtling towards a point where there will be more people drawing out than putting in.

We can't keep funding growing welfare commitments with a shrinking tax / net tax payer base. Where do you thing the money should come from?

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 19:20

Bilster · 03/02/2026 19:16

I’d leave her be. She’s clearly not very bright. Some people have no idea that their personal entitlement - expanded to the wider populace on a grand scale - is the one reason why benefits HAVE to be cut in the future. They’re digging their own grave. And that of those whose disability genuinely leaves them in need to cash.

I have an ADHD / ASD child. It’s expensive stuff. Cannot wear most clothes due to sensory issues, paying for private schooling due to the need for peace. I don’t claim a penny because I believe in supporting ourselves.

No, I am not very bright. Happy?

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 19:21

NorthXNorthWest · 03/02/2026 19:20

It's entitlement to talk about benefits as something you are owed irrespective of the wider costs. The benefits bill is unsustainable, we are hurtling towards a point where there will be more people drawing out than putting in.

We can't keep funding growing welfare commitments with a shrinking tax / net tax payer base. Where do you thing the money should come from?

Most of the welfare bill is actually pension.
How do you propose to cut that?

Bilster · 03/02/2026 19:22

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:32

Allowing youngsters to sign up for PIP for anxiety/depression is condemning them to a lifetime on benefits. There is no incentive to work when they get as much or more than they could hope to earn. If they are out of work they can claim universal credit without disability benefits - about £400 I believe and still have an incentive to work as they can earn £1200 or so even on minimum wage. With PIP and disability uplifts to universal credit they would get about that for staying at home.

This in absolute spades. I had clinical depression for 12 years. There were days when I could barely talk. But I still got up and went to work because my tediously dull admin job it was the best thing in my life. It got me up, dressed, thinking of something other than extending despair for a few hours. If someone had handed me a wedge of cash to sit about at home I’d still be there.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 03/02/2026 19:22

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 19:19

Really? Have you seen the comments about how a severe eating disorder does not benefits?
Utterly batshit ignorant comments about the true cost of a devastating MH disorder that I have lost too many friends too.

If you are on PIP, a person you live with can claim carer's allowance.... which is about £80pw. If you have severe anorexia, you often have someone needing to make sure you eat, not run to the loo after meals, not do exercises to burn calories off. That is a full time job in itself.

You can make your point without being rude to people. You have some valid experience and knowledge which may make people think but you ruin it by talking about crayons.

AND THE CAPITALS ARE DISTRACTING.

Ihateboris · 03/02/2026 19:23

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 19:21

Most of the welfare bill is actually pension.
How do you propose to cut that?

Exactly...how about scrap the triple lock for the pensioners that don't need it??

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 19:23

Julen7 · 03/02/2026 19:18

Yeah just leave it, she just can’t grasp the problem sadly.

You are one accident/breakdown/stroke away from having to "need" to grasp the same problem.
Stay humble... although I don't think doing so will protect you from disability.

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 19:24

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 19:04

Say you know nothing about ARFID without saying you know nothing about AFRID.

And, again, PIP is not awarded based on costs!

and again we know that and that is why the costs are completely out of control - because people are claiming for disabilities that cost them nothing.

Ihateboris · 03/02/2026 19:24

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Pineneedlesincarpet · 03/02/2026 19:24

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 19:23

You are one accident/breakdown/stroke away from having to "need" to grasp the same problem.
Stay humble... although I don't think doing so will protect you from disability.

You're incorrigible.

Bilster · 03/02/2026 19:24

Ihateboris · 03/02/2026 19:23

Exactly...how about scrap the triple lock for the pensioners that don't need it??

But the bill is riding exponentially for disability. Cut pensions and you save yourself a few months of PIP rise. Why put it off? Why not tackle both?

LadyKenya · 03/02/2026 19:24

Some posters seem to think that disability is something that only happens to other people.

Ihateboris · 03/02/2026 19:25

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