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Labour increase benefits bill. AIBU To think what’s the point in working?

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topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 08:10

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15520831/Labours-push-lift-two-child-benefits-cap-hand-25-000-windfalls-thousands-Britains-biggest-jobless-families.html#

‘Official estimates suggest the cost of scrapping the cap will total £13.6 billion over the next five years.

The Tories said families currently affected by the cap are in line to receive windfalls worth an average £25,000 each over that period.

But the biggest families will gain far more. Thousands of families with five children will receive around £10,900 a year while those with six children will get an extra £16,600 a year.
Almost half of the families involved have no one in work.‘

Labour benefits plan 'will hand £25,000' to biggest jobless families

Ministers will bring forward legislation on Tuesday to lift the limit on benefit payments which was imposed in 2017.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15520831/Labours-push-lift-two-child-benefits-cap-hand-25-000-windfalls-thousands-Britains-biggest-jobless-families.html#

OP posts:
Pineneedlesincarpet · 03/02/2026 18:27

Fearfulsaints · 03/02/2026 18:24

They built the welfare state based in the Beveridge report. We got state education, the NHS, unemployment, sickness and pensions. Funded by a new progressive tax system. And maybe loans? We borrowed to rebuild i assume.

I very much doubt the majority of the post war population were all benefits types. They will have seen 1000 times worse than most people now and most of them would have just got on with rebuilding their lives and the country not sitting at home waiting for payouts. If there were no payouts they would have to have just got on with life. Which is what will happen here soon when we run out of money.

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 18:28

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:22

And the fact that child maintenance "doesn't count" is ridiculous too. Parents should pay to raise their kids to the best of their ability before the state has to pay. I think if the resident parent wants to claim benefits then the non resident parent should pay their maintenance into a state account to offset some of the cost (and there must be a resident parent - if the parents can't decide who it is a court should) no 50:50 so the tax payer has to fund it all.

I think it is disregarded as it is not a reliable source of income, and some shitty fathers will withhold paying if they knew it would fuck up their ex's UC.

I am not sure what the solution is to that.

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:28

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 03/02/2026 17:50

And the people already barely scraping by on benefits do what, exactly?

Claim PIP?
(Joke)

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 03/02/2026 18:29

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:28

Claim PIP?
(Joke)

I mean, we're talking about people already on PIP.

jannier · 03/02/2026 18:30

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:25

There could be more money to adapt houses and make them suitable for a disabled people if there weren't so many £££ spent every month.

Yeah right so easy.....and you only pick one point in the whole thread.....there isnt enough now but Jack is okay dispicable

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 18:32

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:28

Claim PIP?
(Joke)

Be less disabled (also a joke but you do wonder on here).

Fearfulsaints · 03/02/2026 18:32

Pineneedlesincarpet · 03/02/2026 18:27

I very much doubt the majority of the post war population were all benefits types. They will have seen 1000 times worse than most people now and most of them would have just got on with rebuilding their lives and the country not sitting at home waiting for payouts. If there were no payouts they would have to have just got on with life. Which is what will happen here soon when we run out of money.

There was one of the biggest housing programmes ever, in part to ensure veterans were housed cheaply and well. My great uncle had been a POW. He got a brand new council flat where he screamed all through the night. He didnt really work again although his wife did to support them. I dint know if he got any sickness benefit to be fair.

Inthefuturenow · 03/02/2026 18:32

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 03/02/2026 18:22

There really aren't, and this is the problem. There are hundreds of people applying for each WFH job; I recently got down to the top 20 for a WFH job out of 500 people, and couldn't get further than the top 20 with significant experience and meeting every criteria, even using the guaranteed interview scheme. The feedback was just that the successful person had more years of experience; it wasn't a case of improving my application.

Companies are cutting back WFH jobs massively and want everyone back in the office. This is hugely restricting the availability of WFH jobs.

You want more disabled people working? Give disabled applicants priority over able bodied applicants. If you have two people who meet the criteria, the disabled person gets the WFH job. That will get people off benefits.

Do you have any skills that would allow you to be self employed from home?
This is what I did when my health took a turn for the worse. Had to leave my career of 30 years but I had transferable skills and a good idea and set up my own business offering a pretty unique service I knew would be valuable in my sector. Just had to convince a few people to try my services and within 9 months I am full time working from home, very flexibly so can work any hours I want, take a break when I want etc. I don't enjoy the actual work as much as my previous role but I did have a career I really enjoyed for a long time and this works for me now.
As a single woman with a grown child I couldn't survive on benefits as I would be entitled to very little.

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:32

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 17:56

Sad to see stigma around MH issues is still alive and kicking.
You can't just "get a grip" for a diagnosed MH disorder that has a substantial impact on your life.
Oh, your asthma is getting bad? Have you tried breathing more air?

Allowing youngsters to sign up for PIP for anxiety/depression is condemning them to a lifetime on benefits. There is no incentive to work when they get as much or more than they could hope to earn. If they are out of work they can claim universal credit without disability benefits - about £400 I believe and still have an incentive to work as they can earn £1200 or so even on minimum wage. With PIP and disability uplifts to universal credit they would get about that for staying at home.

Hereforthecommentz · 03/02/2026 18:34

topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 08:38

This is the problem with people not thinking objectively - or being so blinded by cognitive bias they talk shit. .

I said above I’m happy to pay benefits to people who need them.

I’m not happy to pay benefits to sham claimants who are taking the piss.

And if you don’t understand the difference, I’m not quite sure how to move forward with discussing it with you.

I think this is how nearly all working people feel op, yanbu. Being told we have no empathy is gaslighting nonsense.

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 18:36

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:32

Allowing youngsters to sign up for PIP for anxiety/depression is condemning them to a lifetime on benefits. There is no incentive to work when they get as much or more than they could hope to earn. If they are out of work they can claim universal credit without disability benefits - about £400 I believe and still have an incentive to work as they can earn £1200 or so even on minimum wage. With PIP and disability uplifts to universal credit they would get about that for staying at home.

We need to pump more money into CAMHS, so there are less kids entering adulthood with MH issues to begin with.

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:38

Livpool · 03/02/2026 17:56

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Where will compassion get us when Britain goes broke?

TheThinkingEconomist · 03/02/2026 18:38

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 18:36

We need to pump more money into CAMHS, so there are less kids entering adulthood with MH issues to begin with.

You can't because those excessive welfare payments are crowding out investment into things like CAMHS.

Do you see the problem now?

EasternStandard · 03/02/2026 18:39

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 18:36

We need to pump more money into CAMHS, so there are less kids entering adulthood with MH issues to begin with.

They need jobs not this Labour approach which takes them away.

Look at any thread with a young person unable to get a job and every one will say their MH is being impacted. Just get young people working not these terrible policies doing the opposite.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 03/02/2026 18:40

Fearfulsaints · 03/02/2026 18:32

There was one of the biggest housing programmes ever, in part to ensure veterans were housed cheaply and well. My great uncle had been a POW. He got a brand new council flat where he screamed all through the night. He didnt really work again although his wife did to support them. I dint know if he got any sickness benefit to be fair.

Individual stories are obviously sad but also obviously dont reflect the whole population after or during the war. They just had to get on. Its a shame we do not have anyone on here who lived through it as an adult to tell us what peoples attitudes were.

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:41

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 18:03

OK, well lets cut benefits for people in wheelchairs. They don't need to spend money on shoes all the time, do they?

I have actually seen a post on here where someone questioned the parent of an anorexic adult child about their benefits. They told the mum that their child should get less money as she "has no food costs".

And that sort of blinkered thinking is what disabled people are up against all the time.

What are the costs of being anorexic?

Perhaps with less £££ to pay out more residential treatments could be funded?

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 18:44

EasternStandard · 03/02/2026 18:39

They need jobs not this Labour approach which takes them away.

Look at any thread with a young person unable to get a job and every one will say their MH is being impacted. Just get young people working not these terrible policies doing the opposite.

Um, do you know who CAMHS is for? Not for people who are of working age.
Catch the problem early on. Treat it.

"Just get young people working" does not help when there are no jobs for them to go to. The job market out there is fucking awful right now.

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 03/02/2026 18:45

Inthefuturenow · 03/02/2026 18:32

Do you have any skills that would allow you to be self employed from home?
This is what I did when my health took a turn for the worse. Had to leave my career of 30 years but I had transferable skills and a good idea and set up my own business offering a pretty unique service I knew would be valuable in my sector. Just had to convince a few people to try my services and within 9 months I am full time working from home, very flexibly so can work any hours I want, take a break when I want etc. I don't enjoy the actual work as much as my previous role but I did have a career I really enjoyed for a long time and this works for me now.
As a single woman with a grown child I couldn't survive on benefits as I would be entitled to very little.

I am self employed but it's very seasonal, not related to my skills and not viable as a full time job. My skills are in education but my condition is so variable I can't commit to tutoring.

I'm currently retraining in a totally different field that has much more flexibility for working from home, but I'm about 4 years away from qualifying.

Julen7 · 03/02/2026 18:45

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:41

What are the costs of being anorexic?

Perhaps with less £££ to pay out more residential treatments could be funded?

Posters will come up with the usual. Extra heating. Food because they can only eat x, y, z. Therapy.

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 18:46

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:41

What are the costs of being anorexic?

Perhaps with less £££ to pay out more residential treatments could be funded?

OK, I hope you are actually joking by asking that.
Google is free to use. It would be better for you to quietly educate yourself before you offend people with lived experience of severe eating disorders.

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:46

Ihateboris · 03/02/2026 18:07

I'm not on benefits so have no dog in the fight. However, it really pisses me off when people make this suggestion.

What if the cloth has been cut so much there's nothing left to cut? What if I'm already working 12 hours a day? That's my situation. Every penny goes on utilities, travelling expenses and rent. These have all increased substantially over the last few years, but my wages haven't. Pray tell..what can I do?

Have a society that allows you to keep more of your earnings? If you are working lots of 12 hour days even at minimum wage you must be earning a fair bit and paying quite a lot of tax snd NI?

Fearfulsaints · 03/02/2026 18:46

Pineneedlesincarpet · 03/02/2026 18:40

Individual stories are obviously sad but also obviously dont reflect the whole population after or during the war. They just had to get on. Its a shame we do not have anyone on here who lived through it as an adult to tell us what peoples attitudes were.

Who do you think was living in the housing, using the nhs, going to the schools, claiming the new pensions, sickness benefits and unemployment benefits . just one individual with a sob story

Something like 12,000 veterans got a pension for shell shock.

A whole heap of disability laws were introduced to encourage employment for disabled people. There was a huge labour shortage unlike now.

They 'just got on with it' by creating the welfare state and using it. They wanted better.

People might hace been private about it and had a sense of shame attached but they did use it.

It may need reform and improvement but what did they do after ww2 is a silly comment in relation to welfare.

Frequency · 03/02/2026 18:48

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 18:41

What are the costs of being anorexic?

Perhaps with less £££ to pay out more residential treatments could be funded?

Higher food bills due to a severely restricted diet. Higher heating bills due to being chronically cold. Taxis to and from everywhere because you have no energy to walk/take public transport. Supportive seat cushions so you don't have to sit on the bones of your arse. Vitamin supplements. Specialist skincare due to how dry/flaking sore your skin is.

I could go on.

Anorexia is not a cheap disease to live with.

NancyBellaDonna · 03/02/2026 18:48

You need to stop reading the Daily Mail OP - it's full of misleading and biased information the likes of which you keep spouting.

You are a high earner. Think yourself fortunate.

LadyKenya · 03/02/2026 18:50

Julen7 · 03/02/2026 18:45

Posters will come up with the usual. Extra heating. Food because they can only eat x, y, z. Therapy.

All of these things, and more. It costs money, does it not?

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