I think there is a strong discourse on Mumsnet that benefits has everyone on the poverty line. I have name changed for this but I have been on Mumsnet a decade.
I am also going to add a caveat that I'm stuck as if I don't claim DLA for my children then I don't have the work exemption. I do work but I cant work full time so I need that exemption.
I get
Wages £1200
UC £2067
DLA £970
Child benefit £170
We are not struggling, they have everything they need and we have a good lifestyle.
My one child is on high rate DLA and the other middle. Both have complex needs with a tonne of evidence. My high rate one attends a specialist school for the children with the most complex needs.
I do want to be clear that the children do have super high needs and I am not wrongly claiming and have never had to appeal for anything like their school placements, EHCPs or DLA as the evidence is strong. But i also want to be clear that the state looks after us. I work 18.5 hours a week. The support from the state has allowed me to keep my foot in the door of a professional job, which will massively help when my kids are older and probably in supported placements.
The state also looks after my alcoholic neighbour and his wife to be his carer. They do not struggle either. He openly states he has no incentive to get better as if he gets better he loses all this money and will have to work. Id argue the state is actively contributing to killing him.
The child benefit lift won't help those who just can't be bothered to work, it will help those who are working enough to be over the cap, the very people we should be helping.
We do need to stop inadvertently incentivisng those who are claiming for mental health difficulties to not get better as it leaves them financially up a creek. This is where it is spiralling out of control.