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Labour increase benefits bill. AIBU To think what’s the point in working?

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topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 08:10

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15520831/Labours-push-lift-two-child-benefits-cap-hand-25-000-windfalls-thousands-Britains-biggest-jobless-families.html#

‘Official estimates suggest the cost of scrapping the cap will total £13.6 billion over the next five years.

The Tories said families currently affected by the cap are in line to receive windfalls worth an average £25,000 each over that period.

But the biggest families will gain far more. Thousands of families with five children will receive around £10,900 a year while those with six children will get an extra £16,600 a year.
Almost half of the families involved have no one in work.‘

Labour benefits plan 'will hand £25,000' to biggest jobless families

Ministers will bring forward legislation on Tuesday to lift the limit on benefit payments which was imposed in 2017.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15520831/Labours-push-lift-two-child-benefits-cap-hand-25-000-windfalls-thousands-Britains-biggest-jobless-families.html#

OP posts:
WiddlinDiddlin · 03/02/2026 14:32

1457bloom · 03/02/2026 13:50

Asylum seekers get free accommodation, free healthcare and their kids get free education all funded by workers.

What would you have them do - starve on the streets whilst they wait the impossible time frames for asylum applications to be processed?

A better system would be to allow them to work, and speed up the asylum process. But then it would be 'asylum seekers are stealing our jobs' (to which I would point out if an asylum seeker fleeing something awful, in a foreign country, is a better employee prospect than you, thats a you problem!)

BillieWiper · 03/02/2026 14:37

EasternStandard · 03/02/2026 13:47

Does it make sense for the last line to happen? If someone is high earning enough to pay a certain amount of tax should there be a claim?

Well if they're paying loads of tax then that's good surely?
You can't be saying 'benefit claimants pay no tax so are useless'
As well as 'people who pay loads of tax and claim benefits are also wrong'.

bemoresloth · 03/02/2026 14:38

ThatPerkyBiscuit · 03/02/2026 14:30

NHS care. Including free prescriptions, free dental care, free eye tests and some funding towards glasses.

Education. All DC of asylum seekers are expected to be in education from 5-17, funded by the taxpayer. This also applies to visa overstayers who subsequently claim asylum. This usually includes access to free school meals.

Adult education - an asylum seeker can go to University in the UK so long as their claim does not have a no study condition or it's been over 6 months since they submitted their asylum claim and have had no response.

Though they are expected to pay, there are numerous organisations that can be applied to for funding.

If a disabled asylum seeker has care and support needs arising from a physical disability, they can access social housing under the care act 2014.

If an asylum seeker has been sectioned under certain sections of the mental health act, under sec 117 provision, the local authority has to provide aftercare services including supported/social housing because these aftercare services are not classed as public funds.

Again, this applies to anyone with a claim for asylum, including visa-overstayers.

You can Google all of this and find i'm correct.

It's really not as simple as 'no recourse to public funds'

And is a rebuttal to all the 'why would anyone risk a boat crossing for the destitute asylum payment of £50 a week' claims.

It is not much more than the minimum a civilised country should offer.

Would you prefer a system of detention camps?

tabbycat897 · 03/02/2026 14:39

I think she is referring to the "benefits" they get once their claims are processed and they are certified refugees as opposed to their ability to claim benefits. If you are a refugee the local authority that you are placed within has an obligation to find you accommodation, ensure you have access to healthcare, your kids get a place in the local school etc. Things that maybe wouldn't have been contentious ten years ago when public services weren't so stretched and there weren't so many refugees in the country.

StepAwayFromGoogling · 03/02/2026 14:40

@1457bloom There are approx 62,000 asylum seekers in the UK. There are 7.9m people on universal credit. You do the maths.

ArrghNoJustNo · 03/02/2026 14:41

Namechange1012026 · 03/02/2026 13:16

I think there is a strong discourse on Mumsnet that benefits has everyone on the poverty line. I have name changed for this but I have been on Mumsnet a decade.

I am also going to add a caveat that I'm stuck as if I don't claim DLA for my children then I don't have the work exemption. I do work but I cant work full time so I need that exemption.

I get

Wages £1200
UC £2067
DLA £970
Child benefit £170

We are not struggling, they have everything they need and we have a good lifestyle.

My one child is on high rate DLA and the other middle. Both have complex needs with a tonne of evidence. My high rate one attends a specialist school for the children with the most complex needs.

I do want to be clear that the children do have super high needs and I am not wrongly claiming and have never had to appeal for anything like their school placements, EHCPs or DLA as the evidence is strong. But i also want to be clear that the state looks after us. I work 18.5 hours a week. The support from the state has allowed me to keep my foot in the door of a professional job, which will massively help when my kids are older and probably in supported placements.

The state also looks after my alcoholic neighbour and his wife to be his carer. They do not struggle either. He openly states he has no incentive to get better as if he gets better he loses all this money and will have to work. Id argue the state is actively contributing to killing him.

The child benefit lift won't help those who just can't be bothered to work, it will help those who are working enough to be over the cap, the very people we should be helping.

We do need to stop inadvertently incentivisng those who are claiming for mental health difficulties to not get better as it leaves them financially up a creek. This is where it is spiralling out of control.

Was all that just to end up with the point that 'mental health difficulties' can't be as debilitating as physical health or developmental conditions or are you only limiting this conclusion to your neighbour?

People with physical health difficulties or developmental difficulties or mental health difficulties who can work (and there are many who can) with accommodations should be supported to earn and contribute.

Those who can't should be fully supported to have a decent quality of life. There is no hierarchy of disabilities.

EasternStandard · 03/02/2026 14:42

BillieWiper · 03/02/2026 14:37

Well if they're paying loads of tax then that's good surely?
You can't be saying 'benefit claimants pay no tax so are useless'
As well as 'people who pay loads of tax and claim benefits are also wrong'.

Of course asking whether claims should go to all is a reasonable question. There are cut offs for many things.

Theda13 · 03/02/2026 14:43

A benefits bashing thread. We haven’t had one of these for the past half an hour. Just what we needed.

PandoraSocks · 03/02/2026 14:44

TheThinkingEconomist · 03/02/2026 14:29

Its lost all sense of reality vs 5 years ago.

DT was always a centre-right newspaper, but now its trying to copy Fox news in the US which makes it publish some truly bizarre pieces. I mostly just visit the travel section as their writers are actually decent (and I like their hotel scoring database).

I got a month's free sub in the run-up to the budget. I still get daily e-mails with the main articles and headlines. Some of them really are Fox/ Daily Mail material.

Hellohelga · 03/02/2026 14:46

topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 08:38

This is the problem with people not thinking objectively - or being so blinded by cognitive bias they talk shit. .

I said above I’m happy to pay benefits to people who need them.

I’m not happy to pay benefits to sham claimants who are taking the piss.

And if you don’t understand the difference, I’m not quite sure how to move forward with discussing it with you.

What do you mean by sham claimants taking the piss? What makes a claimant a sham and a piss taker? I thought we were just talking about people with more than two children getting a bit more money. The children exist so it’s not a sham. I feel the cognitive bias may be yours.

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 03/02/2026 14:46

Theda13 · 03/02/2026 14:43

A benefits bashing thread. We haven’t had one of these for the past half an hour. Just what we needed.

They are becoming relentlessly frequent, aren't they?

TheThinkingEconomist · 03/02/2026 14:48

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 03/02/2026 14:46

They are becoming relentlessly frequent, aren't they?

I would expect a lot more of these if I were you as people get increasingly angry due to taxes and costs rising.

And you really can't blame them given what is happening in the UK.

Ignore this at your own peril.

EasternStandard · 03/02/2026 14:50

TheThinkingEconomist · 03/02/2026 14:23

We (Economists) had a good laugh over that article.

Lower amounts of private debt don't fix a failing infrastructure.

The problem in the UK has always been too much consumption, and very little productive investment.

Going by the links on here maybe the journo wanted some pro Labour to do some work getting his article noticed.

24kPalamino · 03/02/2026 14:51

roundaboutthehillsareshining · 03/02/2026 08:54

But what's the solution? It's a dangerous path to stop people reproducing - it violates one of our most innate human rights. And once the children are here, they can't be "handed back". If they don't receive adequate nutrition and care in their first years of life, their entire lives will be negatively affected and their ability to grow to become productive in society is compromised.

Hungry, cold children perform less well academically, they're less likely to go on to tertiary and higher education, less likely to become higher earners.

Once the children are here, they need to be supported, otherwise we're just pushing the problem down the road.

There are parents on benefits who spend taxpayers money on their children.

There are parents on benefits who spend taxpayers money on themselves. Alcohol. Cigarettes. Nails. Hair and even, and I’ve read it on Mumsnet…Mounjaro.

Offering these parents extra money to please look after your children, isn’t going to result in happier, healthier children, unless you limit what can be purchased through use of vouchers. Many of these parents will remain selfish and lazy. They’ll just be richer at my expense. More money for Botox I guess.

ThatPerkyBiscuit · 03/02/2026 14:52

bemoresloth · 03/02/2026 14:38

It is not much more than the minimum a civilised country should offer.

Would you prefer a system of detention camps?

Nope.

My post was in response to all the MN posters who seem to believe that there are no benefits or incentives to claiming asylum in this country so to do so must mean the person is absolutely desperate to flee their country of origin. Even if they've already lived here for years and claim asylum after being found out that they've overstayed their visas.

When the benefits are numerous. So there are other incentives.

Same as the posts pointing out claiming benefits in the UK for UK citizens can be lucrative and provide gateways to numerous other benefits so it doesn't mean the claimants are necessarily living terrible poverty-stricken lives forcing them to claim just to survive.

It's not the case for many. As PP have said, they feel trapped in claiming because the literal benefits are so great.

Whammyammy · 03/02/2026 14:54

It wouldn't benefit me personally, but my friend has given up work. She was on minimum wage, 3 kids and rents. No incentive to work as she reckons she's a lit better off not working.

24kPalamino · 03/02/2026 14:54

WiddlinDiddlin · 03/02/2026 14:32

What would you have them do - starve on the streets whilst they wait the impossible time frames for asylum applications to be processed?

A better system would be to allow them to work, and speed up the asylum process. But then it would be 'asylum seekers are stealing our jobs' (to which I would point out if an asylum seeker fleeing something awful, in a foreign country, is a better employee prospect than you, thats a you problem!)

If they knew there was no accommodation and no money, most wouldn’t come.

No one in their right mind would move to this cold, damp country for asylum, if they knew there were no benefits to keep them comfortable. The boats would pretty much stop.

southerngirl10 · 03/02/2026 14:56

Seems like the only people who know how much better off they'll be are the asylum seekers. Most people on here either haven't got a clue or don't care.

PandoraSocks · 03/02/2026 14:59

TheThinkingEconomist · 03/02/2026 14:48

I would expect a lot more of these if I were you as people get increasingly angry due to taxes and costs rising.

And you really can't blame them given what is happening in the UK.

Ignore this at your own peril.

Ignore this at your own peril

What do you think is going to happen? A Reform government? Or something even worse?

ThatPerkyBiscuit · 03/02/2026 15:01

ArrghNoJustNo · 03/02/2026 14:41

Was all that just to end up with the point that 'mental health difficulties' can't be as debilitating as physical health or developmental conditions or are you only limiting this conclusion to your neighbour?

People with physical health difficulties or developmental difficulties or mental health difficulties who can work (and there are many who can) with accommodations should be supported to earn and contribute.

Those who can't should be fully supported to have a decent quality of life. There is no hierarchy of disabilities.

But what is happening is that there is a hierarchy of disabilities with non-physical, MH disabilities being the top of claimants saying they're too sick to work and claiming PIP.

And I think that's resulted from the attitude of 'they should be treated the same'.

I don't think they should in all cases.

In terms of working, making reasonable adjustments under the Equality etc then fine.

But not in terms of disability benefits.

There are vast, vast differences. Particularly when it comes to PIP.

TheThinkingEconomist · 03/02/2026 15:02

PandoraSocks · 03/02/2026 14:59

Ignore this at your own peril

What do you think is going to happen? A Reform government? Or something even worse?

Reform coalition.

They have made it clear they will slash and burn public spending. One of the few things they have been consistent about. I have little doubt they will do so in a chaotic way.

Countrysidepicnic · 03/02/2026 15:04

Just putting this out there, a well known saying (not my words):-

"If you can't feed, don't breed"

Julen7 · 03/02/2026 15:06

Theda13 · 03/02/2026 14:43

A benefits bashing thread. We haven’t had one of these for the past half an hour. Just what we needed.

Yes it shows people have had it up to here with taxes going on welfare

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 15:08

PandoraSocks · 03/02/2026 11:49

I claim a benefit. I am also a taxpayer and pay tax on the benefit I recieve.

Which benefit is taxable? Child benefit for people earning over 60k that is taken back?

nevernotmaybe · 03/02/2026 15:08

ThatPerkyBiscuit · 03/02/2026 14:30

NHS care. Including free prescriptions, free dental care, free eye tests and some funding towards glasses.

Education. All DC of asylum seekers are expected to be in education from 5-17, funded by the taxpayer. This also applies to visa overstayers who subsequently claim asylum. This usually includes access to free school meals.

Adult education - an asylum seeker can go to University in the UK so long as their claim does not have a no study condition or it's been over 6 months since they submitted their asylum claim and have had no response.

Though they are expected to pay, there are numerous organisations that can be applied to for funding.

If a disabled asylum seeker has care and support needs arising from a physical disability, they can access social housing under the care act 2014.

If an asylum seeker has been sectioned under certain sections of the mental health act, under sec 117 provision, the local authority has to provide aftercare services including supported/social housing because these aftercare services are not classed as public funds.

Again, this applies to anyone with a claim for asylum, including visa-overstayers.

You can Google all of this and find i'm correct.

It's really not as simple as 'no recourse to public funds'

And is a rebuttal to all the 'why would anyone risk a boat crossing for the destitute asylum payment of £50 a week' claims.

So no benefits. With social care and medical care nobody was under the impression they can't get, and nobody who isn't a very unpleasant person has issues with then getting it rather than dying or not being able to survive at all while waiting for an application.

What benefits can they get? The other person claims pip etc, and specific disability benefits.

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