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Labour increase benefits bill. AIBU To think what’s the point in working?

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topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 08:10

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15520831/Labours-push-lift-two-child-benefits-cap-hand-25-000-windfalls-thousands-Britains-biggest-jobless-families.html#

‘Official estimates suggest the cost of scrapping the cap will total £13.6 billion over the next five years.

The Tories said families currently affected by the cap are in line to receive windfalls worth an average £25,000 each over that period.

But the biggest families will gain far more. Thousands of families with five children will receive around £10,900 a year while those with six children will get an extra £16,600 a year.
Almost half of the families involved have no one in work.‘

Labour benefits plan 'will hand £25,000' to biggest jobless families

Ministers will bring forward legislation on Tuesday to lift the limit on benefit payments which was imposed in 2017.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15520831/Labours-push-lift-two-child-benefits-cap-hand-25-000-windfalls-thousands-Britains-biggest-jobless-families.html#

OP posts:
Countrysidepicnic · 03/02/2026 15:41

PinkFrogss · 03/02/2026 15:41

Has anyone suggested workhouses yet?

You

PandoraSocks · 03/02/2026 15:42

Nanalovesnature · 03/02/2026 15:37

They are not my neighbours, they are members of a mental health hub that I volunteer at, they advise each other on how to milk the system, openly, it is no secret there, they have a very nice life on benefits, they tell each other how to word the answers to the questions on the ADP application form, what to say to the GP, to keep going back to the GP/physio/mental health nurse to get more "evidence". Lucky you for not being aware of it or for living in a place where it doesn't go on, where I live it is rife.

I think perhaps you are not suited to volunteer at a mental health hub, given your contempt for your clients and your disregard for their confidentiality.

x2boys · 03/02/2026 15:46

Nanalovesnature · 03/02/2026 15:37

They are not my neighbours, they are members of a mental health hub that I volunteer at, they advise each other on how to milk the system, openly, it is no secret there, they have a very nice life on benefits, they tell each other how to word the answers to the questions on the ADP application form, what to say to the GP, to keep going back to the GP/physio/mental health nurse to get more "evidence". Lucky you for not being aware of it or for living in a place where it doesn't go on, where I live it is rife.

Why do you
volunteer there when it is clearly winding you up?

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 15:47

DeftGoldHedgehog · 03/02/2026 13:59

The Conservatives were suppose to reduce the benefits bill, but they increased it with Universal Credit, and they cut services elsewhere which means people are more reliant on benefits. We came into 2024 with a huge deficit and national debt. The current government are trying to sort all this out. It's difficult and expensive. If you cut benefits and public services people just end up ill and on the street, then the NHS, homeless charities and police keep picking up the bill instead. As they have been doing increasingly in the last ten years or more.

And they are "trying to sort it out" by incentivising people reliant on benefits to have large families?

topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 15:47

Happyjoe · 03/02/2026 11:03

Lol, Labour are so middle ground, have been since last time they were in power.
Many old left Labour supporters detest the Labour we have that they call them 'right wing'.

But if you don't understand the differences of someone not having to be hard left politically in order not to want to see people starve then what can we do.

lol.

Who ‘wants to see people starve’?

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XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 15:51

x2boys · 03/02/2026 15:46

Why do you
volunteer there when it is clearly winding you up?

Gives them something juicy to talk about on MN about, especially if it helps them get their view across that all benefit claims for MH are bogus.

Nanalovesnature · 03/02/2026 15:51

x2boys · 03/02/2026 15:46

Why do you
volunteer there when it is clearly winding you up?

I do it to help people, but am shocked at the number of people faking it with nothing wrong with them. I have stepped back quite a lot, used to volunteer weekly, now just volunteer at one off events like fund raisers.

topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 15:55

WiddlinDiddlin · 03/02/2026 13:45

But do you think it is acceptable that in order to avoid paying benefits to those not actually in need, some people in need will miss out?

Because that is the reality. A system strict and rigorous enough to catch out the fraudulent grifters, is so strict and rigorous it will also deny benefits to genuine claimants too.

I know which I'd rather see happen, and unfortunately there is no way of ensuring 100% genuine claims, 0% fraud.

And.. as ever, we're all being pointed to look in the wrong direction. Yes, some people are better off on benefits than they are working.

Not because benefits offer a lavish lifestyle, but because working pays very badly, with outrageous expectations (eg that you're not unwell for more than x days a year, as if anyone actually has control over that, zero hours contracts, toxic expectations and work culture), for many people.

Well all these comments in, and there you have hit the nail on the head.

How do we ensure those who need benefits get them, whilst ensuring those who don’t need them don’t get them. It’s difficult, and it will never be achieved perfectly or fairly.

However at the moment we’ve gone so far away from what is fair - that the benefits bill is bulging and unsustainable. That so many people who Don’t need free cash from tax payers, are receiving it. Something needs to be done. It’s politicians job to address the fact. But they never do. And Labour are making a bad situation much worse.

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Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 15:56

WiddlinDiddlin · 03/02/2026 14:32

What would you have them do - starve on the streets whilst they wait the impossible time frames for asylum applications to be processed?

A better system would be to allow them to work, and speed up the asylum process. But then it would be 'asylum seekers are stealing our jobs' (to which I would point out if an asylum seeker fleeing something awful, in a foreign country, is a better employee prospect than you, thats a you problem!)

So you think asylum seekers are a poor employment choice? You better check your lefty woke credentials there - they are slipping.

PandoraSocks · 03/02/2026 15:56

Nanalovesnature · 03/02/2026 15:51

I do it to help people, but am shocked at the number of people faking it with nothing wrong with them. I have stepped back quite a lot, used to volunteer weekly, now just volunteer at one off events like fund raisers.

So you are saying that people with no mental health difficulties attend a mental health hub? Why would they bother going that far in their fakery?

I have stepped back quite a lot, used to volunteer weekly, now just volunteer at one off events like fund raisers

So you don't currently eavesdrop on people discussing how to play the system?

Coffeeandbooks88 · 03/02/2026 15:56

Just to point out that unless you have someone with disability or are working then you won't benefit from this as there is still a benefits cap.

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 15:58

PandoraSocks · 03/02/2026 15:56

So you are saying that people with no mental health difficulties attend a mental health hub? Why would they bother going that far in their fakery?

I have stepped back quite a lot, used to volunteer weekly, now just volunteer at one off events like fund raisers

So you don't currently eavesdrop on people discussing how to play the system?

Also, a volunteer is not going to be privy to any meaningful information about the people attending, including their medical information.
But I suppose they think someone is faking because they managed to get out the house and get to the hub to begin with.

Coffeeandbooks88 · 03/02/2026 15:59

MidnightPatrol · 03/02/2026 08:41

This is part of the ‘why have PIP claims increased so much’ story - as claiming certain benefits removes the cap…

And AFAIK it doesn’t apply if you work 16 hours a week either?

UC goes by wages earned not hours. The concept of 16 hours is outdated.

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 16:00

topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 15:55

Well all these comments in, and there you have hit the nail on the head.

How do we ensure those who need benefits get them, whilst ensuring those who don’t need them don’t get them. It’s difficult, and it will never be achieved perfectly or fairly.

However at the moment we’ve gone so far away from what is fair - that the benefits bill is bulging and unsustainable. That so many people who Don’t need free cash from tax payers, are receiving it. Something needs to be done. It’s politicians job to address the fact. But they never do. And Labour are making a bad situation much worse.

How do you differentiate between someone who needs benefits, and someone who does not?

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 16:00

bemoresloth · 03/02/2026 14:38

It is not much more than the minimum a civilised country should offer.

Would you prefer a system of detention camps?

The problem is that global need for people that could legitimately be considered at risk of persecution/ at risk of torture/inhumane treatment etc etc is so large relative to the size of the UK that we may as well consider it infinite. That is where "safe and legal routes" fall down - when literally a billion plus people would have a legitimate claim. We cannot give bed and board to the world's population of people with shit lives.

topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 16:01

TheThinkingEconomist · 03/02/2026 12:11

This is false.

Eligibility for mental health issues has exploded since 2019.

And the % of F2F checks on those has gone from over 90% to less than 5%.

It really is not difficult to understand why PIP claims are out of control now.

Yes. It is only difficult if people perform the mental gymnastics to make themselves believe it’s difficult.. Which as can be seen on this thread, is not unusual.

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topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 16:02

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 16:00

The problem is that global need for people that could legitimately be considered at risk of persecution/ at risk of torture/inhumane treatment etc etc is so large relative to the size of the UK that we may as well consider it infinite. That is where "safe and legal routes" fall down - when literally a billion plus people would have a legitimate claim. We cannot give bed and board to the world's population of people with shit lives.

‘That is where "safe and legal routes" fall down - when literally a billion plus people would have a legitimate claim. ‘

Exactly that.

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Dragonflytamer · 03/02/2026 16:06

Labour increase the benefit bill? Is the pope catholic. Hardly worth discussing it is the Labour way.

bemoresloth · 03/02/2026 16:10

topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 16:02

‘That is where "safe and legal routes" fall down - when literally a billion plus people would have a legitimate claim. ‘

Exactly that.

A billion plus, literally? Are you always prone to exaggeration?

TheBlueKoala · 03/02/2026 16:10

topicalaffair · 03/02/2026 08:33

It’s faux naive to think that ‘benefit cap’ can’t be worked around.

Yes. PIP and DLA don't count why there is an explosion of demands on the grounds of anxiety/depression/autism/adhd. Some are authentic and I would be the last person to not to want to support people suffering but it's just too easy to get; no diagnosis needed, no in person interview needed. You just have to say how badly you are coping in all areas of life- having said the same thing to the GP that's what they would have in writing as well. It's just too easy for dishonest people to claim it (and sometimes too hard for honest people who are in need).

TheIrritatingGentleman · 03/02/2026 16:14

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 03/02/2026 08:41

What the point of working?

Well, I don't know. Greater financial security and opportunities for progression? A sense of achievement or personal satisfaction? The camaraderie that you can find when working in a team towards a common goal? The structure and sense of purpose that work can offer? The chance to learn and grow and develop? Higher self esteem? The freedom to make choices about how to live your life?

It will be different for everyone, I suppose, but personally, I would never choose a life on benefits if I had the option to work.

Personally, I'm happy that some of my taxes will be used to help lift children out of poverty. In fact, that's just another reason to be grateful for the fact that I'm able to work and pay into the system.

I don't lift myself up by dragging others down.

Not even just all those great points - you do NOT live a life of luxury being on benefits. Been there and it is hand to mouth, constant guilt you can;t afford extras for your children. Living in any rental property that will take you when you're not working full time, or possibly getting a council property which will normally be in a shit area (if you have a big family). No pension, no security. Ca;t get credit unless it's astronomical interest fees.

I read people going on about those on benefits going on holidays abroad, having latest phones, hair and nails done...all bullshit. If someone who is on benefits can afford these things then they are doing something dodgy on the side, because you do NOT have any extra money.

It's an awful existence.

XenoBitch · 03/02/2026 16:16

TheBlueKoala · 03/02/2026 16:10

Yes. PIP and DLA don't count why there is an explosion of demands on the grounds of anxiety/depression/autism/adhd. Some are authentic and I would be the last person to not to want to support people suffering but it's just too easy to get; no diagnosis needed, no in person interview needed. You just have to say how badly you are coping in all areas of life- having said the same thing to the GP that's what they would have in writing as well. It's just too easy for dishonest people to claim it (and sometimes too hard for honest people who are in need).

Are people really going through all the faff of applying for PIP etc, just to get round the benefit cap?
Unless you have a large family, you wont get enough in benefits to get near the cap anyway.

x2boys · 03/02/2026 16:20

TheBlueKoala · 03/02/2026 16:10

Yes. PIP and DLA don't count why there is an explosion of demands on the grounds of anxiety/depression/autism/adhd. Some are authentic and I would be the last person to not to want to support people suffering but it's just too easy to get; no diagnosis needed, no in person interview needed. You just have to say how badly you are coping in all areas of life- having said the same thing to the GP that's what they would have in writing as well. It's just too easy for dishonest people to claim it (and sometimes too hard for honest people who are in need).

Utter nonsense
It goes off needs not diagnosis because two people with a diagnosis of say autism can hsve very different needs
And why do people think DLA/ PIP just take a GP,s patient / mum says letter aa evidence ?
They want to see evidence from professionals working with the person / child
Like school ,paediatrician, portage ,OT ,physio. Etc.

Winter2020 · 03/02/2026 16:22

bemoresloth · 03/02/2026 16:10

A billion plus, literally? Are you always prone to exaggeration?

I'm not exaggerating at all. I think it's a perfectly reasonable guess.

I work with many people from Nigeria. They left Nigeria because they did not feel safe in their country. Unsafe enough to leave smallholdings/jobs and pay £££. The population of Nigeria alone is 230 million people.

Edit to say world population is over 8 billion. 1 in 8 people unsafe sounds pretty reasonable to me.

Lavenderflower · 03/02/2026 16:26

The government needs people to have children…they are worried about the declining birth rate. This wouldn’t encourage me to have more children though.

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