Bitchy e-mail re fertility rates for older women

[Jude03]

AIBU to feel upset after receiving an e-mail from a friend - who thought it would be "helpful" to send some data on declining fertility rates for women... for me to give my 40 year old daughter ?! This, from a woman who herself has two similarly aged sons, neither of whom have ever had a girlfriend and still live at home. My DD has been in long-term relationship and for all I know, does not want to have children - but in any event surely this is none of my business.

Delete and block.
I do it all the time. Its my age. Less people means more happiness.

Does the friend think your daughter is an idiot? Tell your friend the email was bitchy and you are not passing anything on to your daughter because your daughter is not an idiot.
Then block the friend.

This

Jesus, people need to learn boundaries!

Don’t be upset by it. It doesn’t need to affect you.

This is all about her and not about you. She assumes you have the same worries she has.

I’d tell her to print her email out and fold it into tiny pieces and shove it up her ass. Your daughter’s fertility is none of her business.

Send her some helpful Rightmove links.

I voted YABU cause why would you even care never mind get upset.
Email back with 'well looks like no more kids for you then'

I'd send her an article about Oedipus complex.

😂

Love this! I'd want to add more about her sons, but this is better, precise, concise but puts her in her place brilliantly!!

Message back and tell her that you've wanted to send her something for her sons about men with Mummy issues, but that you’re not unspeakably rude enough to involve yourself in something that is ABSOLUTELY NOT YOUR BUSINESS

and THEN block her.