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Benefits explosion- where will it end?

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TheBlueKoala · 30/01/2026 11:37

"PIP benefits explosion: Anxiety and depression handouts have nearly TRIPLED to £4.3bn since Covid - with autism and ADHD bill hitting £2.2bn and 'back pain' £1.6bn"

Something is not right here. When I have written before on here telling about people I know who claim for anxiety although they have rich social lives (funded by 440£ extra per month from PIP) I've had many people telling me that it's not possible etc. It sure is. How many 16 year olds are claiming PIP for anxiety?

Instead of benefits why not pay for therapy- invest massively in the NHS mental health support so that people with anxiety, adhd and autism can see a therapist regularly to help them. This would make a difference for tje individual and the society. Throwing out money won't.

AINBU- I agree with about
AIBU- No, extra money is always useful

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15510221/PIP-benefits-anxiety-depression-austism-ADHD-pain-Covid-Labour.html

PIP anxiety and depression benefits near TRIPLE to £4.3bn after Covid

The grim picture emerged in a breakdown of how much Personal Independence Payment (PIP) is being paid out for specific conditions.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15510221/PIP-benefits-anxiety-depression-austism-ADHD-pain-Covid-Labour.html

OP posts:
SleeplessInWherever · 30/01/2026 13:14

Dorisbonson · 30/01/2026 13:11

Too much screen time and social media.

Could also be the worldwide pandemic that they lived through as children/young adults.

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 30/01/2026 13:15

Therapy won't help autistic people cope in a system that isn't designed with them in mind. Things are declining generally and there's a lot of uncertainty: AI, climate change, politics. But you blame the person and not the environment. You think that therapy or a pill can fix a systemic problem. The trouble is that only harsher personalities can survive in this climate and they can never in a million years understand what it's like to be sensitive/autistic/anxious.

Anyway, my autistic DS has lost his PIP and I'm currently at the tribunal stage. It's incredibly difficult to get PIP and has been for a very long time. My friend who's had two heart attacks, has heart failure and out of control diabetes gets £29 a week. He's autistic as well and the whole process is making him more ill. When will people understand that this could happen to them? Are you not scared that you or your children could be in the same situation as my friend?

When I say 'you', I know you're a bot, mumsnet person or one of the many people employed in swaying public opinion.

gamerchick · 30/01/2026 13:15

And on the other side of the coin ,24.1 billion went unclaimed last year.

Sick to death of reading on here the whining about benefits.

Pensions make up the most of what's claimed. Maybe we need to knock those on the head sooner rather than later.

MorningActivity · 30/01/2026 13:16

Nice image…
That doesn’t reflect the fact we are NOT spending more money on benefits - That’s according to the DWP…

Having corrected that, agd to avoid going back to what has been explaimed many times before, assessments are mainly face to face now, need evidence nit just the person’s word, yep spending money on aporopriate support woukd beca good idea.
You need to realise it would probably not be that much cheaper than benefits. Unless you assume MH is like getting tonsillitis (a round of treatment and you’re good to go) rather a chronic health issue.
It would allow some people for a better life and a better quality of life. But that was not the point if your post was it?

Meadowfinch · 30/01/2026 13:17

Isekaied · 30/01/2026 12:32

Universal basic income.

And then let the people who want to work on top of that.

Already rebunked as unworkable.

If there had been a universal basic income, I'd have given up 8 years ago, and deprived the HM Treasury of £100,000

Instead they are trying to persuade us 50s and 60s to keep working to support GDP.

Echobelly · 30/01/2026 13:17

I think making the world less anxiety and depression producing would be a start. Tax billionaires and huge businesses properly and make people pay actual livable wages, build social housing so people have secure tenure and maybe even have a universal basic income scheme.

Cloud cuckoo land I know, but I bet we'd see a lot less depression and anxiety that way as well as generally better health and less strain on the NHS

x2boys · 30/01/2026 13:19

Kitte321 · 30/01/2026 13:10

This is exactly what I would expect. A diagnosis directly correlating to need.

But Autism for example is a huge spectrum
And impacts peoole in different ways.

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 30/01/2026 13:21

AuraBora · 30/01/2026 12:43

Coupled with lack of opportunities, wage stagnation v cost of living.. etc etc. I think there is a multitude of reasons young people are anxious/depressed.. but I agree ever increasing PIP is not the answer..

Same reasons for everyone else then.

Young people don't seem to have been brought up to be very resilient and crumple at the slightest bump in the road. I also thinks social media and the lack of interaction with the real world doesn't help.

gamerchick · 30/01/2026 13:21

Meadowfinch · 30/01/2026 13:17

Already rebunked as unworkable.

If there had been a universal basic income, I'd have given up 8 years ago, and deprived the HM Treasury of £100,000

Instead they are trying to persuade us 50s and 60s to keep working to support GDP.

And yet was trialed relatively recently.for 2 years. Are the results in?

Kitte321 · 30/01/2026 13:22

x2boys · 30/01/2026 13:19

But Autism for example is a huge spectrum
And impacts peoole in different ways.

Yeah but surely the starting point is a medical professional diagnosing autism?

ilikeeggs · 30/01/2026 13:22

I’m a UC claimant as a single parent and joined a few UC help groups on Facebook and Reddit. I have to say from what I’ve seen the vast majority of people claiming for disabilities have depression, anxiety, ADHD or Autism which surprised me a little.

AngryLikeHades · 30/01/2026 13:23

Do you know how much I get per week for having PTSD and associated symptoms after being sexually abused in childhood in my family of origin?
I've nearly committed suicide many times because of being made homeless or not having enough money and being forced back to live with them (since left) because I was in the process of applying for my claim.
Don't make ridiculous statements without having enough knowledge of the system, OP.

ScarlettSarah · 30/01/2026 13:24

PotsPies · 30/01/2026 13:11

Can you explain to the others what it's like in your head?

I can try, but this is AIBU so there's bound to be someone gaslighting me, telling me it's not that bad, etc.

I can't remember anything properly. I leave baths running and ovens going - I set timers for everything. I set reminders for everything.

I can't take in complex instructions easily, especially verbal. I also struggle with dense text and always 'skim read'.

I feel so overwhelmed that I often struggle with meal planning and household things. My husband is very good at that, he helps me cope.

I go through a cycle of 'boom and bust' where sometimes I can get more things done than the average person, sort of like a whirlwind, and then I hit a brick wall.

I'm very impulsive and have made bad decisions in the past - this is slightly improved by having an understanding now that I have ADHD.

Those are some of the ADHD issues. There are more.

I have to do things 'right' or bad things will happen. E.g. put my clothes on in the right order, or use the 'right' cup for my coffee or one of my kids might die.

That's OCD. It particularly manifests as health anxiety and every little imperfection, blemish, bump will lead me to spiral and think I am dying (or my husband, kids, etc).

Generalised anxiety = everyday dread and fear. I'm afraid of plane crashes and random people attacking me on the bus.

I wouldn't wish this on anyone. I would love to change this about myself.

And one of the largest parts of the burden is the masking - trying to appear 'normal' to stop my kids being affecting by my problems. Or feeling so much shame, like if people knew the truth about what's going on inside my head.

I've tried therapy, I've tried various meds.

It still affects me. Greatly.

Penelope23145 · 30/01/2026 13:24

ilikeeggs · 30/01/2026 13:22

I’m a UC claimant as a single parent and joined a few UC help groups on Facebook and Reddit. I have to say from what I’ve seen the vast majority of people claiming for disabilities have depression, anxiety, ADHD or Autism which surprised me a little.

Same on the facebook PIP sites. Pretty much everyone trying to claim for ADHD/ MH/ Anxiety.

PotsPies · 30/01/2026 13:24

ScarlettSarah · 30/01/2026 13:24

I can try, but this is AIBU so there's bound to be someone gaslighting me, telling me it's not that bad, etc.

I can't remember anything properly. I leave baths running and ovens going - I set timers for everything. I set reminders for everything.

I can't take in complex instructions easily, especially verbal. I also struggle with dense text and always 'skim read'.

I feel so overwhelmed that I often struggle with meal planning and household things. My husband is very good at that, he helps me cope.

I go through a cycle of 'boom and bust' where sometimes I can get more things done than the average person, sort of like a whirlwind, and then I hit a brick wall.

I'm very impulsive and have made bad decisions in the past - this is slightly improved by having an understanding now that I have ADHD.

Those are some of the ADHD issues. There are more.

I have to do things 'right' or bad things will happen. E.g. put my clothes on in the right order, or use the 'right' cup for my coffee or one of my kids might die.

That's OCD. It particularly manifests as health anxiety and every little imperfection, blemish, bump will lead me to spiral and think I am dying (or my husband, kids, etc).

Generalised anxiety = everyday dread and fear. I'm afraid of plane crashes and random people attacking me on the bus.

I wouldn't wish this on anyone. I would love to change this about myself.

And one of the largest parts of the burden is the masking - trying to appear 'normal' to stop my kids being affecting by my problems. Or feeling so much shame, like if people knew the truth about what's going on inside my head.

I've tried therapy, I've tried various meds.

It still affects me. Greatly.

I'm on your side btw.

Badbadbunny · 30/01/2026 13:25

MotherofPufflings · 30/01/2026 12:04

We need to know urgently why so many more people are struggling with their mental health to the extent that they need PIP. What has changed in society to make life so much more difficult for so many people? I'm not convinced that it's all down to poverty and cost of living crisis etc because it seems to be affecting younger adults disproportionately.

Lack of jobs
Crap schools
Lack of skills training
Too much online even at Unis
Long NHS waiting lists
Virtually impossible to see a GP
Lack of social activities for young people causing social anxiety
Too much online (shopping, even schools, job hunting etc) - makes for lonely existence
Hopelessness knowing virtually impossible to buy their own flat/house
Everything costing so much
Even going to pubs/clubs is too expensive as are shows/concerts

We were heading in this direction (all of the above) even before Covid, but the stupidly long lockdowns and restrictions have ruined an entire generation and so much has closed down that will never open again.

Ladyfromthehill · 30/01/2026 13:25

Jesus, it's you again about the benefits and your ableist bs.

Do you know how expensive therapy is? And that for it to be effective, you need a LOT of it with people who really know what they are doing, and that it could/would cost well above £400 month? One therapy sessions would do nothing at all you need long term continuous support.
While there is no abundance of therapists (definitely not on the NHS).

You need to wind down your benefit obsession based on that one girl who you think gets PIP for beign a bit anxious.

EuclidianGeometryFan · 30/01/2026 13:25

SpaceRaccoon · 30/01/2026 12:57

What if too few people want to, how would it all then be paid for with not enough tax payers?

Easy, make the UBI a pittance - the same level as current Job Seekers Allowance. No-one wants to live on that; it can hardly be called 'living' as it is just existing and scraping by.
Most people would want to earn more to have a better life.
Those that don't can enjoy their poverty.

It is a different question as to whether UBI should be topped up by a) housing benefit and b) disability benefits.

There is an argument for top-up disability benefits for specific things like wheelchairs, adapted cars, special diets, home adaptations, etc, but not getting more than JSA/UBI just because you can't work.

ScarlettSarah · 30/01/2026 13:26

PotsPies · 30/01/2026 13:24

I'm on your side btw.

Thank you, that's kind of you.

x2boys · 30/01/2026 13:26

Kitte321 · 30/01/2026 13:22

Yeah but surely the starting point is a medical professional diagnosing autism?

Well obviously, but a diagnosis alone doesnt guarantee an award ,
If you can independently care for, yourself, feed yourself, undertake a journey from A to B then you are unlikely to awarded regardless of your diagnosis.

MorningActivity · 30/01/2026 13:27

Also worth remembering that MAYBE the people struggling with stress and anxiety in much greater number is only the reflection of a society that is stress and anxiety inducing.
That there is nothing wrong with people who suffer from stress, deiression, anxiety. Theyre only reflecting how our society now is. Working full time, sometimes 2 jobs and still no money. Unable to but a house. Instability in housing due to renting. Unable to see a GP or get treatments in an appropriate way/timing, caring duties etc etc etc.
That it’s just a reflection on our lives, our society and Thars where we should put our attention rather than blaming individuals.

CloudPop · 30/01/2026 13:27

SnoopyPajamas · 30/01/2026 13:07

We need a reform of society. Reform the inflexibility of the system, and the benefits cliff edge that makes it difficult for so many people to take up part time work. Reform child care. Reform the forty hour work week that is causing so much burnout. Reform housing, so people aren't pouring half their income into rent with no return. Improve social mobility - stop demanding unnecessary credentials for entry level positions. No-one needs a degree to answer the phone and reply to emails.

It's really very simple. If the advantages of work outweigh the negatives, people will work. If the system is so broken people can't afford to participate, they won't. People will endure the stigma of being unemployed if it gets them help with rent and keeps a roof over their head. They will stay home with the kids and make cutbacks to their lifestyle, if the cost of childcare makes working impossible. They will accept the shame of unemployment and struggle to survive on a low income, if they're too burned out or chronically ill to function, and they've hit a wall.

There are some people who have no interest in work and would rather live off "the system". There always have been. But the explosion in benefits claimants we're seeing speaks to major problems with society. Structural problems. We can't keep ignoring them.

Edited

Some very good points there

TigerRag · 30/01/2026 13:27

Penelope23145 · 30/01/2026 13:24

Same on the facebook PIP sites. Pretty much everyone trying to claim for ADHD/ MH/ Anxiety.

Ive seen some who have just been diagnosed and their first question is what can I claim? Not how do I get support / advice on coping with xyz

Ladyfromthehill · 30/01/2026 13:27

Kitte321 · 30/01/2026 13:22

Yeah but surely the starting point is a medical professional diagnosing autism?

And vast majority of people on PIP do have such a diagnosis, and dont need it underminded by Mumsnet armchair experts in MH.

TheThinkingEconomist · 30/01/2026 13:28

gamerchick · 30/01/2026 13:21

And yet was trialed relatively recently.for 2 years. Are the results in?

UBI trials are done on very small sub-sets of the population.

UK Working population: 50M

UBI of £10,000/year = £500bn cost

Income tax in the UK collects less than £400bn.

Its effectively unworkable.

A much better option is a negative income tax allowance. So you pay income taxes but not on an initial amount (its a simplified form of the personal allowance). For this to work NI would also need to be rolled into income tax to simplify the tax code.

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