SD16 has been claiming DLA for the last few years and has put in a claim for PIP and I'm wondering how easy it actually is.
SD is perfectly capable in all areas. She's excelling at school, she has many hobbies which she is very engaged in and has Grades and Awards in, she's fit, healthy and independent. She's an excellent baker and is always making some complicated new recipe with caramel or melted chocolate or both. She travels across the country by train often. She volunteers with children, and is applying for part-time jobs alongside her studies.
However, she's quite averse to washing and has to be reminded to shower, occasionally gets engrossed in an activity and doesn't eat for a while, and uses a timer on the Echo Dot to remind her when to get things out of the oven or start cooking things to be ready at the right time. She has a phone alarm to remind her to take her meds. She wants to wear baggy joggers and a hoodie everywhere and never wears a coat (although she has no issue wearing uniforms for her various activities and school). She's dyslexic and if she has the option to get someone else to read and summarise something, she will. Based on this, she thinks she will score:
Needs to use an aid or appliance to be able to either prepare or cook a simple meal. 2 points.
Needs prompting to be able to take nutrition. 4 points.
Needs supervision, prompting or assistance to be able to manage therapy that takes no more than 3.5 hours a week. 2 points.
Needs supervision or prompting to be able to wash or bathe. 2 points.
Prompting or assistance to be able to select appropriate clothing. 2 points.
Needs prompting to be able to read or understand basic written information. 4 points.
=16 points, higher rate.
I think she's a completely healthy and competent 16 yo who uses completely normal strategies, like reminders on her phone, to stay organised.
But she's adamant that she knows other people with similar needs to her and they also get higher rate.
If that's the case, I do think it's ridiculous. The DLA is spent (and PIP will be spent) on day trips, holidays and nights out. Her argument is that people with ADHD get bored more easily and so she needs to go to theme parks and concerts regularly!
FWIW I also have ADHD and wouldn't dream of trying to get money for it.