Partner doesn’t shower enough

[anonymous73181921]

my partner doesn’t shower often enough, I mean he can go days without showering and putting clean boxers on,
I’ve mention it so many times but his excuse is he doesn’t have time as he has the gym then work but there is time and I just lost it today and told him he’s being lazy and it’s off putting cos he smells.
he thinks I shouldn’t have called him lazy cos he really doesn’t have time but he does have plenty time.

this is why gyms stink of arse, balls and armpits.

Why didn’t you leave? Months of no washing and you stuck around until he cheated?! Who the hell would cheat with him anyway?

He doesn't put on clean pants every day? Yuck!

OP he’s likely to give you a nasty infection.

Bed sheets smelling of arses

You know his smell transfers. You might smell like him if he's hugged you or you've sat close to him or where he's sat or laid in the same bed. Your house smells like him. People won't want to be around him and they won't want you around either if you bring him.

theres not a thing he wouldn’t do for me

Well, that's false. You live with someone too lazy to wash his body for you. He's got old urine and feces bits on him and staph and God knows what's growing in his mouth. He smells bad because he's a filthy slob and that bad bacteria is multiplying. Yes, he's very likely to give you UTIs and skin infections.

Wait what am I reading. He doesn’t shower, doesn’t wear clean boxers and doesn’t clean his teeth? He’s an absolute dirty rat. That makes me feel sick. 🤢. He wouldn’t be entering my house like that.

Yeah I genuinely don’t think I could live with that, it’s grim.

I’m not of the mindset that people must shower twice daily, but definitely needs to happen regularly and especially after the gym. No excuse for not changing boxers or brushing teeth.

Id just be so turned off by this.

Please say you don’t get in the same bed as him and have sex? Absolutely revolting,
🤢

Jesus Christ, how have you managed to put up with this? Has he been wanting to kiss you & have sex?
What must his work place think of him too 🤮

Please move out. He’s disgusting 🤮

He was emotionally abusive and manipulative it wasn't easy to leave. I'm surprised anyone else wanted the scruffy git to be honest

This is absolutely minging. I don’t think I could live this way. It’s really unhygienic and disrespectful. And not cleaning his teeth is also revolting. I get people have different standards but if it were me I’d be clear that he needs to shower at the gym after he has worked out, and daily otherwise, and make that a hard boundary for the relationship continuing.

This has got to be made up. Geez, no self respecting human could live with this stinking disrespectable bacterially ridden vermin.

Actually rank my soon to be husband showers twice a day sometimes!

There is no fucking hope here.

You are living with a smelly overgrown teen. That is gross.

You end up monitoring and reminding this overgrown smelly teen that he stinks and needs to wash/brush his teeth. Like his mummy.

Send him back to his parents house for retraining. Seriously.

You need to shower daily. Only excuse is if hungover haha

Totally skanky

This would be a deal breaker for me tbh

No time to shower? Is he a junior doctor from the 1990s working 100 hour+ weeks? I was, and I would have died rather than not shower once a day...bullshit that he doesn't have time.

How long ago did he move in, 4 days would be long enough for most people to tolerate that? Oh yuck @anonymous73181921 set your standards higher please.

You should set your bar higher than a man who doesn't change his underwear, doesn't brush his teeth, and doesn't shower.

It's basic adulting. And he's failing.

That’s disgusting he doesn’t shower after the gym. Would take 5 mins. He must stink.

Well there’s a simple solution then if he wants more sex….

He doesn't respect you enough to wash and brush his teeth daily. he isn't a good man, he is disrespectful.

sharing a bed with you stinking, leaving the house stinking, sitting on the sofa STINKING. Kissing you with teeth he hasn't cleaned in multiple days, he might hate you.

The only person who I can fathom acting like toward me, is an enemy.

God, you,d think the guy had murdered someone……