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To wonder what the future of Girlguiding is.

273 replies

Skippythebeercan · 27/01/2026 12:08

I have run a Brownie unit for many years, and have seen the decline of Girlguding, we have lost so many units and leaders to the point locally our organisation is probably less than half the size it was 10 years ago and is going to shrink again with the loss of more leaders and therefore units imminently. There is a huge disconnect between national Girlguiding leadership and grass roots guiding.

I now wonder what the future holds for the organisation, I personally value the girl only space and think it is important for girls to have this. But, I can see that being lost. A friend suggests she thinks we may start to admit boys and loose our single sex status, I personally think that we may end up merging with the Scouts - both organisations have their differences but do share a founder and many fundamentals, plus I do think each organisation could learn something from the other.

I would be interested in other views on how the organisation may evolve - it may well disappear altogether - possibly sooner rather than later.

I am hoping this thread doesn't become about the trans issue, I appreciate it is divisive but there are other threads. Law suits and this very issue have certainly contributed to Girlguiding's significant image problem on both side of the argument, but there are plenty of other threads about this issue.

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Lych333 · 28/01/2026 06:57

OwlOfBrown · 28/01/2026 00:24

I think it depends on the leaders.

We (Brownies) have done some sewing and the girls do love cooking, crafts and acting/singing. Over the last couple of years we have also done the following:

Night hikes (several)
Evenings at our local campsite (lighting fires, cooking, etc.)
PGL weekend
Football evening (the girls all played as no boys to judge them)
Kickboxing session
Swimming
Climbing wall
Visit to the Fire Station
Day at the Air Tattoo (RIAT)
Canoeing
Litter picking
Grass sledging

Ultimately though, activities have to be a mix of what leaders would like to encourage the girls to do and what the girls want to do.

And therein lies the problem dominate girls seem to be catered to the most. Ours did none of the above- mostly very dull crafts and games in a hall. The girls that didn’t really fit in to that were not. catered for at all.

Beavers which my sons did was so much better and did a lot on that list.

Lych333 · 28/01/2026 07:07

There was also so much less bullying and unpleasant behaviour, more inclusivity, more varied less stereotypical activities and frankly a much healthier happier environment in Beavers, Cubs and Scouts. My husband volunteered. I think Brownies and Guides are hugely outdated.

Lych333 · 28/01/2026 07:15

Our scouting groups had male and female volunteers which helped hugely with the quality , feeling of inclusivity and variety of activities alongside the atmosphere. Our Brownies and Guides felt quite churchy but hopefully that has changed.

LostMySocks · 28/01/2026 07:16

IDontDrinkTea · 28/01/2026 06:39

Money seems to be a huge issue here - I offered to volunteer for my daughter’s unit and they can’t afford to put me through the training that’s required. As a parent volunteer, there’s a limit to how often I’m allowed to stay for a session without having had the training - I think it’s twice a term or something. It seems silly when they sometimes can’t run as they don’t have enough adults to meet ratio, when I’d be willing to stay but they just don’t have the funds

This is changing from the start of March. We will no longer pay for leaders and other volunteers. This means that units can have more leaders and hopefully spread the load which longer term may help recruitment.
If you're still interested it might be worth asking again

FirstdatesFred · 28/01/2026 07:18

Its lack of energised leaders here, my DDs found the sessions quite uninspiring and numbers dwindled so then they combined the brownie and guides group, but inevitably the age range is then too large to be fun for the older ones.

It's a big time commitment for leaders and with all the paperwork now too it's changed from 30 years ago.

Tunnocksmilkchocolatemallow · 28/01/2026 07:19

OwlOfBrown · 28/01/2026 00:51

To put it simply, LEGAL PROTECTION.

If something went wrong on an activity and a child was lost/injured/killed, the parents would, rightly, want the person in charge prosecuted and/or would want compensation. Girlguiding has insurance to cover that, including to protect leaders from personal liability - I love providing activities for the Brownies but certainly not at the expense of my freedom and the roof over my children's heads. How does girlguiding ensure it has communicated the correct procedures to leaders (and that they have understood them) so that they are covered by insurance? By getting them to complete a course/pass a qualification.

Which makes it more odd that they were so determined to break the law and their charitable objectives by admitting a group of boys and men, and then unlawfully expelling leaders who raised safeguarding and legal concerns.

FirstdatesFred · 28/01/2026 07:19

In contrast in our area the beavers/cubs/scouts are thriving with long waiting lists. They go and do many more different activities.

OwlOfBrown · 28/01/2026 07:30

IDontDrinkTea · 28/01/2026 06:39

Money seems to be a huge issue here - I offered to volunteer for my daughter’s unit and they can’t afford to put me through the training that’s required. As a parent volunteer, there’s a limit to how often I’m allowed to stay for a session without having had the training - I think it’s twice a term or something. It seems silly when they sometimes can’t run as they don’t have enough adults to meet ratio, when I’d be willing to stay but they just don’t have the funds

This isn't correct. There is no charge for the DBS and safeguarding training for either units or individuals. In my county we do have to pay for the first aid training but that's not compulsory for every volunteer.

Lych333 · 28/01/2026 07:34

LostMySocks · 28/01/2026 07:16

This is changing from the start of March. We will no longer pay for leaders and other volunteers. This means that units can have more leaders and hopefully spread the load which longer term may help recruitment.
If you're still interested it might be worth asking again

So you’re saying people running and volunteering will have less training.

MovedByFanciesThatAreCurled · 28/01/2026 07:34

NoisyGreenNewt · 27/01/2026 13:05

Quite a lot of ignorance in this thread. Most units are operating waiting lists of over 10 girls (given around 20-30 in a unit, very healthy), at least in Hampshire. Girls are not being put off due to trans girls joining.

The lack of leaders is critical. Some units in my area are being run by 19 year olds, which is lovely in some ways but really not ideal as the age gap between 14 and 19 is just too small. Plenty of parents bemoan the closure of units, or girls going to Scouts, but refuse to get involved themselves.

I know the trans topic is a big hitter on MN, but a handful of kids across the country who, in all areas of their life, are living as girls, joining is not what is hurting the organisation, regardless of your own opinion on it.

it clearly is a ‘big hitter’ judging by the comments on this thread so perhaps it’s your experience that is more limited rather than those of a collection of people.

Lych333 · 28/01/2026 07:37

FirstdatesFred · 28/01/2026 07:18

Its lack of energised leaders here, my DDs found the sessions quite uninspiring and numbers dwindled so then they combined the brownie and guides group, but inevitably the age range is then too large to be fun for the older ones.

It's a big time commitment for leaders and with all the paperwork now too it's changed from 30 years ago.

It’s also very dull,cliquy( adults and children)and not inclusive. I’m not sure many women would choose to volunteer in that environment. I wouldn’t.Scouts was far more welcoming and vibrant hence my husband volunteering, if I’d have the time I would have too but definitely not for brownies or guides.

FoxRedPuppy · 28/01/2026 07:38

On the increased SEND issue… my daughter is autistic, she did Rainbows and Brownies, she started Guides but couldn’t manage. But the unit were awesome at trying to include her. She was overwhelmed from school (ended up being out for 18 months).

If she had gone to GG when I was younger I don’t think she would have managed. So yes there probably is an increase in SEND, because now there is more understanding and expectation for those children to be included.

I know it’s hard, and not always possible to accommodate. But I will always be so grateful for the kindness and effort put in to try and include her.

Lych333 · 28/01/2026 07:42

FoxRedPuppy · 28/01/2026 07:38

On the increased SEND issue… my daughter is autistic, she did Rainbows and Brownies, she started Guides but couldn’t manage. But the unit were awesome at trying to include her. She was overwhelmed from school (ended up being out for 18 months).

If she had gone to GG when I was younger I don’t think she would have managed. So yes there probably is an increase in SEND, because now there is more understanding and expectation for those children to be included.

I know it’s hard, and not always possible to accommodate. But I will always be so grateful for the kindness and effort put in to try and include her.

Brownies and guides were awful as regards my autistic child and her other ND friends who moved to scouts. Really poor and a significant proportion of the girls attending were frankly vile ditto the staff who had zero knowledge,expertise or understanding. Interesting as on looking back cubs and scouts had far more autistic kids( my sons being two)and I can see why now. Guiding only wants a particular type of girl.

DeluluTaylor · 28/01/2026 07:42

My Dd has just started guides having not done rainbows or brownies. She’s ND and has an EHCP in school, struggles with anxiety. Guides has been fantastic.
The amount of individual support she gets and the thought they put into making things accessible for her is great.
She’s also met some other quirky girls who are older and also speaking about LGBTQ stuff which is inspirational for my DD who has similar interests. It’s made her less worried about secondary school as she’ll know a few of the older girls.
I can’t praise it enough!

Tunnocksmilkchocolatemallow · 28/01/2026 07:44

Lych333 · 28/01/2026 07:37

It’s also very dull,cliquy( adults and children)and not inclusive. I’m not sure many women would choose to volunteer in that environment. I wouldn’t.Scouts was far more welcoming and vibrant hence my husband volunteering, if I’d have the time I would have too but definitely not for brownies or guides.

Our local scout group was so dull and cliquey most cubs left within a few weeks of moving up.

OwlOfBrown · 28/01/2026 07:46

GuidingSpirit · 28/01/2026 06:24

To everyone saying that they sent their daughters to scouts instead of guides due to the trans issue, do you ever agree to mixed sex accommodation on residentials/ camps? And if not, how do you know that there is not a trans girl in a girl allocated tent? Or is it just the principle of GG being a single sex space that is the issue?

The scout trans policy says: Information about an individual’s trans identity is confidential and you must not share this with others without that person’s consent.

Then the accommodation bit says:
To make sure all members feel included you can:
Make a range of different sleeping options available to all members, including mixed-sex accommodation, single and multiple occupancy tents or dorms, or compartment tents with single rooms in them that a young person could discreetly use.
Speak to the young person discreetly about what would make them feel comfortable and included. Avoid making assumptions about what this will look like, but be aware that having access to a private space may be important.
Ask who they'd be happy to share accommodation with.

So no mention at all of tent allocation being on biological sex or that you would even know whether eg. There was a trans girl in a girl allocated tent. Does anyone have insight on how it works in practice?

Indeed. Surely the same issues regarding trans children sharing accommodation apply to every organisation taking young people on overnight stays (Scouts as well as Girlguiding, youth clubs, schools, etc.).

OwlOfBrown · 28/01/2026 07:52

Lych333 · 28/01/2026 07:42

Brownies and guides were awful as regards my autistic child and her other ND friends who moved to scouts. Really poor and a significant proportion of the girls attending were frankly vile ditto the staff who had zero knowledge,expertise or understanding. Interesting as on looking back cubs and scouts had far more autistic kids( my sons being two)and I can see why now. Guiding only wants a particular type of girl.

Again this is down to individual leaders. I have several autistic girls in my unit and they seem to thrive. Perhaps because they have an autistic leader!

Tunnocksmilkchocolatemallow · 28/01/2026 07:52

OwlOfBrown · 28/01/2026 07:46

Indeed. Surely the same issues regarding trans children sharing accommodation apply to every organisation taking young people on overnight stays (Scouts as well as Girlguiding, youth clubs, schools, etc.).

By law, where facilities or services are separated by sex, children who identify as trans must use the facilities associated with their sex. This includes sleeping arrangements. Not doing so or requiring other children to pretend they are the opposite sex is not only a breach of the equality act, it is also a huge breach of safeguarding.

TemperanceBooth · 28/01/2026 07:53

I'm a mum of boys but would love to volunteer for a girls only space/group but won't volunteer for one that would allow boys in. The safeguarding issues are not something that can be avoided on a thread like this really. It's not about the trans issue so much as about the lack of safeguarding! Even if I wasn't a "terf" 🤷 I wouldn't be happy volunteering for and organisation that is happy to tell young girls that they have to welcome boys and men into their girls only spaces and pretend they are girls and women!

I agree with others that have said women probably also have less time and resources now to volunteer which is a real shame for local communities.

And having worked in paid roles with young children I can imagine the paperwork!

OwlOfBrown · 28/01/2026 07:58

Tunnocksmilkchocolatemallow · 28/01/2026 07:52

By law, where facilities or services are separated by sex, children who identify as trans must use the facilities associated with their sex. This includes sleeping arrangements. Not doing so or requiring other children to pretend they are the opposite sex is not only a breach of the equality act, it is also a huge breach of safeguarding.

So when Scouts go on residentials/camps sleeping arrangements are separated by sex. When schools take children on residential, sleeping arrangements are separated by sex. So schools and Scouts face the same issues.

Needmorelego · 28/01/2026 08:06

I often wonder if the Girls' Brigade have any problems with trans girls wanting to join? Would they accept them? (and vice versa for the Boys' Brigade)

Smorgs · 28/01/2026 08:06

I'm based in France and am a Cub Scout leader but know many people who were part of British Girl guiding Overseas and the way they cut them off with no warning was so completely shocking and appalling I think it alienated many, many people. They need a serious pr campaign with some very visible, strong leadership if they are to come back from that but I recognize that, with the trans debate, that is a big ask for a volunteer organisation.

Tunnocksmilkchocolatemallow · 28/01/2026 08:09

Needmorelego · 28/01/2026 08:06

I often wonder if the Girls' Brigade have any problems with trans girls wanting to join? Would they accept them? (and vice versa for the Boys' Brigade)

If they want to accept some boys then they must become a mixed sex organisation and accept all boys. A female only organisation by law cannot accept boys.

Didimum · 28/01/2026 08:10

I have twins. One does scouts, the other brownies. Sorry to say, but here at least, the scouts appear so much more fun. They get up to so many things. They are active and creative. They go on trips.They are great at getting new members. I get an update email every week on what they did. They complete badges in sessions.

The Brownie group doesn’t do much at all. My daughter never comes home with much to say. I never get any updates from leaders. They never put themselves out there to recruit, despite gradually losing members. They don’t do trips. They complete badges at home which I don’t have much time to do on top of homework and everything else.

If her Brownie unit closes, then I think she’ll have a much better time in the scouts.

OwlOfBrown · 28/01/2026 08:14

Didimum · 28/01/2026 08:10

I have twins. One does scouts, the other brownies. Sorry to say, but here at least, the scouts appear so much more fun. They get up to so many things. They are active and creative. They go on trips.They are great at getting new members. I get an update email every week on what they did. They complete badges in sessions.

The Brownie group doesn’t do much at all. My daughter never comes home with much to say. I never get any updates from leaders. They never put themselves out there to recruit, despite gradually losing members. They don’t do trips. They complete badges at home which I don’t have much time to do on top of homework and everything else.

If her Brownie unit closes, then I think she’ll have a much better time in the scouts.

Presumably you mean one is doing Brownies, the other is doing Cubs?

Why doesn't your daughter just join Cubs? Or does she actually enjoy Brownies, even if you think it's boring in comparison?