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If anyone is observing the carnage in Minneapolis.....

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MistressoftheDarkSide · 24/01/2026 20:18

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/live/2026/jan/24/minneapolis-shooting-live

Guardian is running a live feed, and a good unbiased source is Agenda Free TV on YouTube also running live feeds from the streets there.

Obviously multiple versions of events being thrown about as it's very fresh.

Sending solidarity across the pond to any US Mumsnetters in the locale and protesting the awful actions of ICE and disregard of your constitution by the "President".

Minneapolis shooting: Governor Tim Walz condemns ‘sickening’ fatal shooting of man believed to be 37-year-old US citizen – live

Minnesota governor decries ‘federal occupation’ after another deadly shooting less than three weeks after ICE officer killed Renee Good in the city

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/live/2026/jan/24/minneapolis-shooting-live

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LlttledrummergirI · 25/01/2026 15:06

Gloriia · 25/01/2026 15:03

Just awful. In such a volatile situation though even if I had a permit I certainly wouldn't attend a 'peaceful' protest with a loaded weapon and once reprimanded I'd stay still with my hands on my head. That's what Walz and co need to be telling the locals.

Yes it is of course horrific but stay still, follow instructions and then everyone's intentions will be clear.

It's something else written in the constitution that you think should now be ignored.

How much more do you think shouldn't exist?

Threewordname · 25/01/2026 15:10

ietsfrans · 25/01/2026 13:58

Accusing posters of being hysterical is generally seen as poor form on Mumsnet. It's sexist.

And why not "carnage"??

ICE actions have led to death, chaos, fear and massive harm. Why are people so snowflakey about forceful language when it’s directed at a group that carries out forceful and violent actions? Hypocritical and perhaps disingenuous.

Why not "carnage"?

Because "carnage" means "the violent killing of large numbers of people". https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/carnage

The violent killing of one man, however appalling, is not "carnage". Especially in fraught situations like this, the accurate use of language matters.

Gloriia · 25/01/2026 15:10

LlttledrummergirI · 25/01/2026 15:06

It's something else written in the constitution that you think should now be ignored.

How much more do you think shouldn't exist?

Carrying a loaded weapon into a volatile situation just because the constitution says you can is not a good idea. Clearly.

Aethelredtheunsteady · 25/01/2026 15:11

Gloriia · 25/01/2026 15:03

Just awful. In such a volatile situation though even if I had a permit I certainly wouldn't attend a 'peaceful' protest with a loaded weapon and once reprimanded I'd stay still with my hands on my head. That's what Walz and co need to be telling the locals.

Yes it is of course horrific but stay still, follow instructions and then everyone's intentions will be clear.

He didn't get the chance to put his hands on his head - watch the video.

He goes to stand inbetween a woman who is being pushed over/pepper sprayed by ICE. They immediately swam him, pepper spray him, pistol whip him, disarm him (at no point is he going for his gun which as a reminder he is legally allowed to carry). They then shoot him multiple times at point blank range.

Your post is just victim blaming.

Aethelredtheunsteady · 25/01/2026 15:17

Threewordname · 25/01/2026 15:10

Why not "carnage"?

Because "carnage" means "the violent killing of large numbers of people". https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/carnage

The violent killing of one man, however appalling, is not "carnage". Especially in fraught situations like this, the accurate use of language matters.

Except language evolves including the word carnage. I've done a quick search on the Daily Mail and The Guardian and have found headlines using carnage in the context of student bar crawls, parenting, sport (particularly cricket), weather events etc.

I find it fascinating that posters have turned up to attack the OP for her choice of word moreso than an innocent man being murdered by the state.

I await your analysis of the choice of 'domestic terrorist' as the words to describe him from the Trump administration. In my view that's much more incorrect and inaccurate than the OP starting a thread on mumsnet and using the word carnage. And liable to have more significant impact too.

For the final time, protesting in the US is not illegal. Carrying a firearm with the proper permit (as Alex Pretti was doing) is not illegal. Filming law enforcement is not illegal. So why is he a 'domestic terrorist'?

expatme · 25/01/2026 15:32

RingoJuice · 25/01/2026 14:02

The regime haven't got the numbers to target all of the blue states (or more specifically the major cities that those states revolve around) at once. So they've hit them one or two at a time. Los Angeles. Portland & Chicago. And now the Twin Cities and Maine

And yet most ICE arrests are in Texas and Florida, because local law enforcement support ICE.

The Minnesota Governor was Kamala Harris's running mate in the 2024 Presidential Election so it's personal for the regime

Well Walz’s career is over. Fraud is too much.

During covid some dodgy nonprofits were allocated funds for providing meals to vulnerable children. It was a fraud, it got investigated, they got prosecuted. There was no evidence to suggest that Minnesota officials were in any way corrupt

AG Keith Ellison received money from Feeding our Future as a campaign donation. Just prior he had a meeting with some reps where they asked him to get state agencies off their backs, that they were being racist for trying to investigate their finances.

kstp.com/kstp-news/top-news/ellison-pushes-back-after-secret-audio-tapes-posted-online/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Lots of countries had these sort of issues during the pandemic, funds were sent out without proper checks being made, think PPE in the UK

250 million stolen just in one state, just in one scam.

The ringleader of the scam was a white woman, but many of those also convicted were Somali-American

Bock was the only white person, and her Somali boyfriend was a huge part of the scam, funny how you call out the one white person verses the 80 Somalis involved.

And yes, most Somalis are legal. They are still disproportionately involved in these scams.

A far-right Youtuber posted a video on Boxing Day last year alleging widespread fraud in Minnesota daycare centres. There was no evidence to suggest that many of his claims were true

You really expect us to believe the ‘Quality Learing Center’ was legit? Really?

It is not just the daycares, but the autism centers and the home health centers. Fake invoices, fake clients, and a climate where investigations into it was seen as ‘racist’

Here is a very neutral take on it from NYT https://www.nytimes.com/2025/11/29/us/fraud-minnesota-somali.html

Well Walz’s career is over. Fraud is too much.

You do know that Donald Trump was personally convicted of fraud by a jury of his peers, right? Along with the felonies and the sexual assaults, and the being banned from running a charity and fined £2million for misuse of charitable funds. I could find you lots of neutral NYT takes on those.

Are you lining up for his career to be over?

Muffinmam · 25/01/2026 15:32

Yes. I’ve been watching what has been happening as well as what the Federal government has been reporting - particularly Homeland Security. It seems like Homeland Security is trying to gaslight the entire world right now.

What is happening there is the absolute reason why the Second Amendment to the U.S. Constitution exists.

Trump is showing signs of dementia. There needs to be a law about senile politicians in the US.

You just need to look at his posture in videos and pictures. It’s very very concerning.

Before you continue to Google Search

https://www.google.com/search?q=Second+Amendment&sca_esv=5c1233ee610bdfb6&sxsrf=ANbL-n5B_X0dp_kaQEU5CTqL_yMTUnNIZg%3A1769352854696&source=hp&ei=li52aab2J4zi2roP3-Xj-A4&oq=which+amendme&gs_lp=EhFtb2JpbGUtZ3dzLXdpei1ocCINd2hpY2ggYW1lbmRtZSoCCAIyBRAAGIAEMgUQABiABDIFEAAYgAQyBRAAGIAEMgUQABiABDIFEAAYgAQyBRAAGIAEMgUQABiABEiD6D9QmwhYsdI_cAx4AJABAZgB2gKgAd8lqgEIMC44LjExLjK4AQHIAQD4AQGYAiCgArQmqAItwgIHECMYJxjqAsICDRAjGPAFGCcYyQIY6gLCAhAQABgDGLQCGOoCGI8B2AEBwgIQEC4YAxi0AhjqAhiPAdgBAcICChAjGIAEGCcYigXCAgsQABiABBiRAhiKBcICCxAAGIAEGLEDGIMBwgILEC4YgAQYsQMYgwHCAg4QABiABBixAxiDARiKBcICCBAAGIAEGLEDwgIEECMYJ8ICBBAAGAPCAg4QLhiABBjHARiOBRivAcICCxAuGIAEGMcBGK8BwgIIEC4YgAQYsQPCAg4QLhiABBixAxjRAxjHAcICERAuGIAEGJECGMcBGIoFGK8BwgILEC4YgAQYkQIYigXCAhEQLhiABBixAxiDARjHARivAcICFBAuGIAEGLEDGIMBGMcBGI4FGK8BwgIOEC4YgAQYsQMYgwEYigWYAxzxBTkfghZ-eVIUugYECAEYCpIHCTEyLjQuMTQuMqAHpbkBsgcIMC40LjE0LjK4B-8kwgcMMC41LjE3LjcuMi4xyAeWAoAIAA&sclient=mobile-gws-wiz-hp&mstk=AUtExfACRF9h1g7usleAgZj36Hxi10Hro0FK3MJSVF4HQZjM856oXDMawDVlQO7F5uMe_RsoKf2GmcXh0X_0cHFETK-bwh1ZnUB8YDUE-zNKB1AqtDmPpk_T5MFfGGcjBT0LI9laQ6wJfk6lV5ZKy8N6ZbNnErCplCm4TYIAmm5exokhJ97Kj6PP8XTGB9XUyg2jVKRpftqdb_RKAtGKK8xtg9NMZ1PlvE_IBv9ETaA6xq4wXbEgg5-d5rxCaLSq7aMpNPr2PpsqY3Kgt2Y_7x_13xWv&csui=3&ved=2ahUKEwit4-T7_KaSAxVgT2cHHZUIEHgQgK4QegYIAQgAEAM

Nanny0gg · 25/01/2026 15:34

DdraigGoch · 25/01/2026 14:02

To be fair to some of them, certain red states make it very difficult for people in blue counties to vote.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voter_suppression_in_the_United_States

Though I've absolutely no sympathy for the people who chose to abstain because of Gaza. Harris wasn't perfect, but failing to elect her hasn't exactly been an improvement.

Oh, that's true.

I'm aware they can make it very difficult, especially for POC

Can't imagine that here - but who knows?

expatme · 25/01/2026 15:35

ietsfrans · 25/01/2026 14:55

It's been like this thread after thread, it's a rhetoric.

It’s just the law
They’re criminals
They're illegals
No one forced them
FAFO

Aiming to sound so sensible, rational, logical, reasonable, calm and measured.

It is classic DARVO.

It's also, frankly, not normal.

I don't care if we differ politically, but this isn't politics. It's a rot that goes far deeper. Well-adjusted people without disorders don't believe the lies that they can literally see are lies with their own eyes, defend them or propagate them.

Blinky21 · 25/01/2026 15:38

A supposedly civilised country lets masked men run its streets kidnapping and executing its civilians. America has sunk so low

ExtraOnions · 25/01/2026 15:45

Blinky21 · 25/01/2026 15:38

A supposedly civilised country lets masked men run its streets kidnapping and executing its civilians. America has sunk so low

It’s like Chile under Pinochet, or Argentina under the Junta .. they are one step away.

Threewordname · 25/01/2026 15:45

Aethelredtheunsteady · 25/01/2026 15:17

Except language evolves including the word carnage. I've done a quick search on the Daily Mail and The Guardian and have found headlines using carnage in the context of student bar crawls, parenting, sport (particularly cricket), weather events etc.

I find it fascinating that posters have turned up to attack the OP for her choice of word moreso than an innocent man being murdered by the state.

I await your analysis of the choice of 'domestic terrorist' as the words to describe him from the Trump administration. In my view that's much more incorrect and inaccurate than the OP starting a thread on mumsnet and using the word carnage. And liable to have more significant impact too.

For the final time, protesting in the US is not illegal. Carrying a firearm with the proper permit (as Alex Pretti was doing) is not illegal. Filming law enforcement is not illegal. So why is he a 'domestic terrorist'?

For the final time,
Why "the final time", as if you’ve said this to me before? You haven’t, and I wouldn't have disputed it if you had.

protesting in the US is not illegal.
Who on here said it was? Certainly not me.

Carrying a firearm with the proper permit (as Alex Pretti was doing) is not illegal. Filming law enforcement is not illegal.
Of course they aren’t.

So why is he a 'domestic terrorist'?
He isn’t. The Trump administration's use of that phrase is disgusting.

I don’t know why you apparently assume that anyone objecting to the inaccurate use of the word "carnage" must therefore support the Trump administration. I certainly don’t, but I don’t believe that hyperbole helps defeat it. It simply gives them a valid line of defence.

Yes, the word "carnage" is often used metaphorically, as in the examples you give. But when it’s used to describe killing it means many people, not one. The OP is being criticised for her choice of word because it is misleading and gives ICE supporters legitimate grounds on which to criticise their opponents.

Boudy · 25/01/2026 15:46

I do remember Trump saying something along the lines of 'there will never be an election again'. Unfortunately I cannot remember when I heard him say it. Do people think it a possibility he wants to cause civil unrest so he can impose martial law? Then he can 'rule' like a dictator. Just wondered really. It is all so very grim and frightening.

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Here’s something else for you to froth about and abuse me for: attributing the wrong meaning to a word is nothing to do with "grammar".

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/01/2026 16:06

Threewordname · 25/01/2026 16:00

Here’s something else for you to froth about and abuse me for: attributing the wrong meaning to a word is nothing to do with "grammar".

Not interested in fuelling any masochstic fantasies you may have, sorry.

Pedantry is a useful shield for the self righteous. Vocabulary police then, if we're playing petty trumps.

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AliceandOscar · 25/01/2026 16:08

Anyone trying to justify this execution, should take a look at these pictures and then tell me why we shouldn’t be worried by the direction the US is going

If anyone is observing the carnage in Minneapolis.....
Aethelredtheunsteady · 25/01/2026 16:08

Threewordname · 25/01/2026 15:45

For the final time,
Why "the final time", as if you’ve said this to me before? You haven’t, and I wouldn't have disputed it if you had.

protesting in the US is not illegal.
Who on here said it was? Certainly not me.

Carrying a firearm with the proper permit (as Alex Pretti was doing) is not illegal. Filming law enforcement is not illegal.
Of course they aren’t.

So why is he a 'domestic terrorist'?
He isn’t. The Trump administration's use of that phrase is disgusting.

I don’t know why you apparently assume that anyone objecting to the inaccurate use of the word "carnage" must therefore support the Trump administration. I certainly don’t, but I don’t believe that hyperbole helps defeat it. It simply gives them a valid line of defence.

Yes, the word "carnage" is often used metaphorically, as in the examples you give. But when it’s used to describe killing it means many people, not one. The OP is being criticised for her choice of word because it is misleading and gives ICE supporters legitimate grounds on which to criticise their opponents.

I think we'll have to agree to disagree here. I just don't think that the word carnage - given the fact it's now routinely used to describe the chaos of bad traffic, Christmas sales etc is that off target. And I certainly don't think it's the thing to be focusing on after watching an innocent man get gunned down in the street by an administration who will cover it up.

The language I'm more upset by is Alex Pretti's loved ones having to hear him described as a domestic terrorist by their own government when he was just being a Good Samaritan. For me that's more relevant than berating the OP for using the word carnage when 'only' one person was illegally killed.

Threewordname · 25/01/2026 16:09

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/01/2026 16:06

Not interested in fuelling any masochstic fantasies you may have, sorry.

Pedantry is a useful shield for the self righteous. Vocabulary police then, if we're playing petty trumps.

Yep, I’m happy to be a member of the vocabulary police.

Words matter (as those trying to retain the correct meaning of the word "woman" know…)

ietsfrans · 25/01/2026 16:10

Gloriia · 25/01/2026 15:03

Just awful. In such a volatile situation though even if I had a permit I certainly wouldn't attend a 'peaceful' protest with a loaded weapon and once reprimanded I'd stay still with my hands on my head. That's what Walz and co need to be telling the locals.

Yes it is of course horrific but stay still, follow instructions and then everyone's intentions will be clear.

stay still, follow instructions and then everyone's intentions will be clear.

else, 🔫🔫

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/01/2026 16:13

Threewordname · 25/01/2026 16:09

Yep, I’m happy to be a member of the vocabulary police.

Words matter (as those trying to retain the correct meaning of the word "woman" know…)

Another box marked on the inevitable bingo card - have a gold virtue star.

OP posts:
Threewordname · 25/01/2026 16:13

Aethelredtheunsteady · 25/01/2026 16:08

I think we'll have to agree to disagree here. I just don't think that the word carnage - given the fact it's now routinely used to describe the chaos of bad traffic, Christmas sales etc is that off target. And I certainly don't think it's the thing to be focusing on after watching an innocent man get gunned down in the street by an administration who will cover it up.

The language I'm more upset by is Alex Pretti's loved ones having to hear him described as a domestic terrorist by their own government when he was just being a Good Samaritan. For me that's more relevant than berating the OP for using the word carnage when 'only' one person was illegally killed.

Yes, the "domestic terrorist" description is despicable. I just don’t think that justifies the use of "carnage" in this situation.

Threewordname · 25/01/2026 16:14

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/01/2026 16:13

Another box marked on the inevitable bingo card - have a gold virtue star.

Thanks

Aethelredtheunsteady · 25/01/2026 16:21

Statement from Alex Pretti's parents -

"We are heartbroken but also very angry.

Alex was a kindhearted soul who cared deeply for his family and friends and also the American veterans whom he cared for as an ICU nurse at the Minneapolis VA hospital. Alex wanted to make a difference in this world. Unfortunately, he will not be with us to see his impact.

I do not throw around the ‘hero’ term lightly. However, his last thought and act was to protect a woman. The sickening lies told about our son by the administration are reprehensible and disgusting. Alex is clearly not holding a gun when attacked by Trump’s murdering and cowardly ICE thugs. He had his phone in his right hand and his empty left hand is raised above his head while trying to protect the woman ICE just pushed down, all while being pepper sprayed.

Please get the truth out about our son. He was a good man. Thank you."

Meanwhile, border control commander Greg Bovino -
"The victim, the victims are the Border Patrol agents"

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