To feel bad for Helen Flanagan here?

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she’s being made to sell their home and work, taking jobs she wouldn’t normally, and being away from her kids?

I know some of you are gonna be like ‘poor little rich girl’ 😂😂😂 but honestly, what kind of man is this?? Feel for her a little (from my own, much lower, tax bracket)

Helen, is this you? In that case she has a choice. She buys the house from him or if she can’t do that she has to move. It’s that simple.

no it means that I suspect based on footballers usual eye watering bank balances, not that I know for sure, otherwise I would’ve said ‘I know’ tbh

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Sadly I think his career wasn’t stellar enough to be rich enough tbh

i suspect pp is right that a move to the Middle East may be on the cards to try and increase his income streams

What are the jobs exactly she's doing that don't suit her skill set? She's got a stage job in Bto and she's writing a book. Do you not feel she's competent to do those jobs? She's doing or done celebrity love island, I doubt she's so skint she's been forced to take the job! She does loads of celebrity endorsement and poses in not a lot of clothes. Seems to be an active choice made before her relationship broke down. She's selling stories about her sex life and has moved a new football boyfriend in and out. Seems she's playing EXACTLY to her skills

Would be a wise decision, if he's still in good enough shape to play.

One would have thought

rent or mortgage on something like that has to be £3l a month so to know never have to pay anything …..

It could be argued that it was more a case that her career had gone 'on hold', and she then thought that it would be a good idea to have his kids.

Could never ever feel sorry for her,can't stand her.

There's always jobs at Tesco

Me neither. She's a vacuous numpty. She probably surrounds herself by yes people who fawn over her like the OP.

Not sure how 'lack of options' would be preventing a move closer to the children. He's no longer tied to the south west for work. There are lots of football clubs in the north west if he wished to continue playing or look for a coaching role as many ex pros do. If he doesn't want employment and prefers to live off the proceeds of his playing career plus any endorsements he might get on the back of his social media following, it could be done more cheaply in the Bolton area than Bristol.

I see he was born in bath so maybe that’s why he’s there. But obvs if kids are at school in Bolton it is a bit far

I’m not a yes person @Gahr

I feel for her situation, I’m not fawning over her

Again, she's not in a bad situation! Why are you portaying her as this wronged woman who has been turned out in the cold? It's just nonsensical.

It's bemusing that some people think a woman who's got the offer of a paid 4 bed house and enjoys a decent level of success in her chosen career is somehow to be pitied, work averse and the various other things people have projected onto her on this thread.

But her circumstances have changed, so now she has to find work outside the home. It's the same for anyone in her position.

Maybe he’s earning in Bristol and can’t get anything else just now, we don’t know. To be honest with her as an ex I might want to be further away but I think he should be nearer so he can be with them more.
She should still work though.

We do.

He's a well known footballer with a substantial social media following, and his expertise is in a sector where publicity plays a huge part. It's not credible that he's got a secret, in person job in Bristol which is the only thing he can get. The Instagram follower numbers alone would allow him to pick up a few brand deals and earn money that way if he wanted.

Didn't she move a new boyfriend into the house - IIRC another footballer - although I think they broke up last year.

I can see why it might rankle Scott to be paying all the bills and she moved another man in to live rent-free.

I understand she and the children have lived in their home for a couple of years after they separated and now he thinks the house should be sold and a smaller house purchased . That seems reasonable as he can’t afford to maintain 2 houses . The children now stay with both parents that’s why she doesn’t have them full time.its the same situation for most separated people.She lives in a very affluent area and would still be able to buy a lovely home with half of those assets , he’s paying maintenance and yes she will need to earn herself too , they are her kids too .

I loved her in Corrie, she was brilliant as Rosie Webster. I was quite sad when she left. I was dismayed when she chose the WAG lifestyle/Only Fans thing as her next step. She was a good actress but I suppose she went where the money was. Short term thinking but not many people think long term at the age she was then.

Both of them had/ have age reliant careers. No-one is going to want to see her in her pants when she's 50. Similarly he won't be 'influencing' anyone at a similar age. Younger people will be doing what they're doing now. So the choices they made put a time limit on their agency.

I will repeat- the biggest mistake she made was not getting married. She should bite his hand off for that house.

Yeah, moved him in super fast because "she feels safer with a man about". Eldest didn't cope cos she missed her Dad so at least it seems she had the sense to move him out again. Hopefully she'll think twice before moving the next one in

Helen and Scott split in 2022 so coming up for 4 years now. As they were not married she didn't share the ownership of the house. He has offered to buy her a 4 bed house in her name but she wants to keep the 6 bed.

Their problem is that they have come to the end of their original careers and must consider what to do next. As a professional footballer in mid-30s, Scott has reached the end of the line and will never earn ago the type of money 10-15 years ago in the Premier League. Helen was mostly known as a child/teen actress from Corrie and then she did a few celebrity reality shows. I think she needs to face reality - a paid-off 4 bed is not to be sneezed at.