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To be so scared and horrified about ICE?

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BarbaraVineFan · 14/01/2026 23:03

Sorry, I know there must be other threads about this, but I’m lying in bed alone , feeling really terrified about what’s going on in the US right now and what it will lead to. I keep seeing videos saying that Trump’s administration is behaving as though they don’t have to worry about winning an election because they will just seize power. I also saw a couple suggesting that this is the start of civil war. I think it’s such a dark time for the world and I am genuinely worried for my 6 year old DD’s future.

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Underthinker · 16/01/2026 13:59

Goldenbear · 16/01/2026 13:23

Even worse- reckless, lawless, undisciplined killings, medieval!

Do you expect anyone to take that point seriously?

sleepwouldbenice · 16/01/2026 14:10

PermanentTemporary · 16/01/2026 13:21

I agree it wasn’t a coldly considered killing. It was a panicked reaction by an officer who, assuming he did think Good was a threat, could very easily have stepped further away from the car, but instead his first reaction was to stand still and draw his gun. Which escalated the risk both to him and her.

And shoot directly at her, 3 times
I have read this thread with interest, to see what trump supporters thought. They very much are of the "she bought it on herself" view. I do have to say that, even if most or even all that was said about Good was true...if... I still think it was clear she wasn't using the car as a weapon, and him shooting her THREE times, is just indefensible..

Goldenbear · 16/01/2026 14:15

Underthinker · 16/01/2026 13:59

Do you expect anyone to take that point seriously?

Why wouldn't they, that's a more accurate description..

5MinuteArgument · 16/01/2026 14:24

Goldenbear · 16/01/2026 11:19

You literally stated that the UK had soft approach to policing and it was different in Europe where Police are routinely armed.

I was making 2 points. First that European police forces are generally armed so that having an armed police force is not unusual. And second that compared to the rest of the world the USA is not an outlier in terms of police killings.

I am not an advocate of police killing civilians but some perspective is in order.

Underthinker · 16/01/2026 14:27

Goldenbear · 16/01/2026 14:15

Why wouldn't they, that's a more accurate description..

Because a law enforcement officer killing someone in cold blood is obviously worse than one killing someone in panic.

Underthinker · 16/01/2026 14:35

PermanentTemporary · 16/01/2026 13:21

I agree it wasn’t a coldly considered killing. It was a panicked reaction by an officer who, assuming he did think Good was a threat, could very easily have stepped further away from the car, but instead his first reaction was to stand still and draw his gun. Which escalated the risk both to him and her.

Agree. But I would say poor decisions on both sides led to tragedy. The agent shouldn't have stood in front of the car at all. Good shouldn't have driven forwards while the agent was positioned ahead of her, then the agent could have jumped aside rather than firing.
Ideally there will be an investigation and a trial. But America's polarised politics may prevent that happening.

Goldenbear · 16/01/2026 14:42

Underthinker · 16/01/2026 14:27

Because a law enforcement officer killing someone in cold blood is obviously worse than one killing someone in panic.

So panicking, undisciplined, untrained officers are people you'd want hanging around your neighbourhood?

Goldenbear · 16/01/2026 14:43

5MinuteArgument · 16/01/2026 14:24

I was making 2 points. First that European police forces are generally armed so that having an armed police force is not unusual. And second that compared to the rest of the world the USA is not an outlier in terms of police killings.

I am not an advocate of police killing civilians but some perspective is in order.

Edited

I see, it didn't read like that.

DdraigGoch · 16/01/2026 14:46

Sskka · 16/01/2026 06:23

@Newbutoldfather Exactly. None of this is real, people have become addicted to picking a side and arguing, and it’s ridiculous. We saw it before with BLM, and now it’s happening again – ‘activism’ to no sensible purpose, beyond making the activists feel righteous. That’s why it produces no sensible results, just madness and the occasional tragedy. Don’t get caught up in it.

“if you do think immigration should be controlled, you have to enforce it somehow, so you need something like ICE”

Well, quite. People talk like they’re protesting about the methods, or concerned lawful migrants might get deported. I did ask someone upthread whether, if the methods were different, they would be in favour of removing all the illegal migrants – crickets. Nobody’s actually concerned about any of that. They barely even care about migrants. They just want to be protesters.

Do you believe that ICE are right to beat up 17 year olds and dump them several miles away just because of the colour of their skin?

The fact that the 17 year old was actually a US citizen makes it even more absurd.

Do you believe that ICE are right to frequently use chokeholds when that is a very dangerous method of restraint?

DdraigGoch · 16/01/2026 14:49

RingoJuice · 16/01/2026 08:21

She resisted arrest. And then drove at a federal agent. Don’t say they didn’t try!

He had already swapped his phone to his left hand and unholstered his weapon while she was reversing. He leaned in to get in the way. The subsequent shots (the ones that actually proved fatal) were through the side window - he was practically running after her for the last one. This was murder.

Sskka · 16/01/2026 14:51

DdraigGoch · 16/01/2026 14:46

Do you believe that ICE are right to beat up 17 year olds and dump them several miles away just because of the colour of their skin?

The fact that the 17 year old was actually a US citizen makes it even more absurd.

Do you believe that ICE are right to frequently use chokeholds when that is a very dangerous method of restraint?

I could not care less. How ICE goes about its business is nothing to do with me.

Underthinker · 16/01/2026 14:53

Goldenbear · 16/01/2026 14:42

So panicking, undisciplined, untrained officers are people you'd want hanging around your neighbourhood?

You are genuinely so bad at arguing I suggest you give up before you do your cause more harm.

DdraigGoch · 16/01/2026 14:56

5MinuteArgument · 16/01/2026 09:30

One of the Jan 6th mob was shot, Ashli Babbitt. It was very sad and unfortunate. But she shouldn't have been there.

In fact quite similar to the shooting of Renee Good.

It wasn't similar in the slightest. The January 6th insurrectionists were an armed mob trying to force their way into a secure area and lynch the Vice President. Renee Good and her wife were a lesbian couple who emasculated a short-tempered thug. Listen to his voice when he says "fucking bitch". It's not frightened, it's not shaken, it's angry.

Goldenbear · 16/01/2026 15:02

Underthinker · 16/01/2026 14:53

You are genuinely so bad at arguing I suggest you give up before you do your cause more harm.

I think the problem you are finding is that you have no coherent argument so you cannot reply to the most basic of questions about what you think.

DdraigGoch · 16/01/2026 15:21

surreygirly · 16/01/2026 09:31

Ludicrous post
You live in the uk
You are not an illegal immigrant
Grow up fgs
I assume you think anyone has the right to just turn up at another country without going through the legal visa process?

Jonathan Garcia is a US citizen. He was born in the US. Yet he still got abducted by ICE, beaten up and dumped miles away. Just because he looked a bit brown.

Just a reminder, some Spanish speaking families in California and a few other states can trace back their ancestors there back to before the US took the state from Mexico. They've got more right to be there than white Americans.

It gets worse. Indigenous people from tribes including Oglala Sioux have been detained. These people have been living there since long before any European crossed the Atlantic. But according to ICE the only true Americans are the white ones.

DdraigGoch · 16/01/2026 15:22

surreygirly · 16/01/2026 09:32

Or maybe they think illegal immigration is wrong and immigrants should resect the law ?

Murder is wrong. ICE should respect the law.

DdraigGoch · 16/01/2026 15:33

5MinuteArgument · 16/01/2026 10:22

According to a list on Wikipedia Venezuela has the highest rate of police who kill citizens: 1,829 per 10 million. USA comes in 29th with 33 per 10 million. Its not good, but it does lend some perspective.

"US police officers don't kill as many people as Venezuelan officers do" is not the flex that you think it is.

Newbutoldfather · 16/01/2026 15:36

I think ICE need to exist (or something similar) but they should behave like any other area of law enforcement: no face masks, visible badges and being accountable for their behaviour.

The Minneapolis shooting did look like manslaughter at least to me and keeping local law enforcement out of it is outrageous.

But undocumented immigrants do need to be forcibly removed, or why should anyone apply to immigrate legally?!

DdraigGoch · 16/01/2026 15:41

sleepwouldbenice · 16/01/2026 14:10

And shoot directly at her, 3 times
I have read this thread with interest, to see what trump supporters thought. They very much are of the "she bought it on herself" view. I do have to say that, even if most or even all that was said about Good was true...if... I still think it was clear she wasn't using the car as a weapon, and him shooting her THREE times, is just indefensible..

Particularly given that two of those shots were through a side window.

DdraigGoch · 16/01/2026 15:45

Underthinker · 16/01/2026 14:27

Because a law enforcement officer killing someone in cold blood is obviously worse than one killing someone in panic.

Nothing about the way that he acted suggests that he was in a panic. Look at his own video.

DdraigGoch · 16/01/2026 15:47

Sskka · 16/01/2026 14:51

I could not care less. How ICE goes about its business is nothing to do with me.

If you ever get beaten up we'll be sure to look the other way then.

Underthinker · 16/01/2026 15:47

Goldenbear · 16/01/2026 15:02

I think the problem you are finding is that you have no coherent argument so you cannot reply to the most basic of questions about what you think.

My argument was pretty clear - An officer who kills a protester in a panic is not good, but is better than one who sets out to murder a protester in cold blood.

You stated the reverse was true. Then made the logical fallacy that if I think A is better than B, then I think A is good. I would expect a person of average intelligence or above to easily avoid such sloppy thinking.

DdraigGoch · 16/01/2026 15:51

Newbutoldfather · 16/01/2026 15:36

I think ICE need to exist (or something similar) but they should behave like any other area of law enforcement: no face masks, visible badges and being accountable for their behaviour.

The Minneapolis shooting did look like manslaughter at least to me and keeping local law enforcement out of it is outrageous.

But undocumented immigrants do need to be forcibly removed, or why should anyone apply to immigrate legally?!

If they used only reasonable & proportionate force (as per the law) then no one would be objecting.

Likewise their detention centres need to be humane (the conditions in many legally amount to torture) and detainees should be allowed to phone their families and be given access to a lawyer as soon as possible.

Sskka · 16/01/2026 16:01

DdraigGoch · 16/01/2026 15:47

If you ever get beaten up we'll be sure to look the other way then.

If you’re in the US and I get beaten up in Britain then I wouldn’t even expect you to know about it, let alone form a view. Why on earth would you care? It would be nothing to do with you.

Boomer55 · 16/01/2026 16:03

BarbaraVineFan · 14/01/2026 23:03

Sorry, I know there must be other threads about this, but I’m lying in bed alone , feeling really terrified about what’s going on in the US right now and what it will lead to. I keep seeing videos saying that Trump’s administration is behaving as though they don’t have to worry about winning an election because they will just seize power. I also saw a couple suggesting that this is the start of civil war. I think it’s such a dark time for the world and I am genuinely worried for my 6 year old DD’s future.

Unless you’re living in America, it doesn’t really affect you. It’s awful, but not a personal worry.

There’s enough to worry about over here. 🤷‍♀️