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To have put my rubbish in the neighbours bin

209 replies

Cantheowneroftheredcorsapleasemovetheircar · 14/01/2026 00:04

The people opposite me, who were tenants, moved out just a couple of days before Christmas.
The house doesn't have a "to let" sign or anything up yet, and there's definitely noone living there. However, today was bin day and someone, presumably the owner, had been round and put the wheelie bin out ready last night.
The binmen come at 7am.
At 6:45am, I had the idea of maybe adding a bag of my rubbish to their black bin, if it wasn't full, as I am still trying to catch up from Christmas and have extra.
I nipped over the road, had a peek and there was nothing but one single Tesco carrier bag of rubbish in there.
I went back inside, tied up my own full bin bag of rubbish from my kitchen bin and carried it over the road. By this time, I could hear the bin lorries already coming so I know noone was going to be using that space in that bin.
I then took the bin back up their drive for them.
I went back inside, very pleased with myself for now having completely empty bins.
DH was horrified and said it was very cheeky behaviour and very embarrassing. He really hopes noone saw.

Was it cheeky and embarrassing?

OP posts:
MrsWallers · 15/01/2026 14:01

We do this all the time, me and my neighbours and no one minds at all. We produce a very small amount of landfill so do it to reduce the number of 5 bins per household put out and blocking the pavement: cardboard, plastics, landfill, green waste and food waste . We all try to fill our garden bins too and offer any empty space to neighbours given that we pay an extra annual subscription of £104 (easier than going to the tip) on top of very high council tax to have them emptied!

SeashellDREAMS · 15/01/2026 17:46

What makes the difference between 'being cheeky' and not being, is that you knew no one was there, you looked inside, very little there, took your bag over and still nothing extra there as you heard the truck. You'd likely never have availed yourself of another resident's bin had they been actually living there.
Now that would have given your DH something legit to feel embarrassed about, and it wouldn't have gone down well with your neighbour either!

anditmakesmesmile · 15/01/2026 17:51

If you tip the binmen properly at Christmas, they tend to overlook an overfilled bin the following year...

sassyclassyandsmartassy · 15/01/2026 17:54

In the circumstances you esxplain, with the bin lorry coming down the road, fine, however, as an agent there is nothing bloody worse than rocking up to do an inventory right before someone moves in to find some CF has put rubbish in a bin that should be left empty for the new tenant to make their move in easier. Luckily its a rare occurrence!

CandidRaven · 15/01/2026 17:54

If its getting emptied any minute anyway I don't see the problem

Snakebite61 · 15/01/2026 17:57

Cantheowneroftheredcorsapleasemovetheircar · 14/01/2026 00:04

The people opposite me, who were tenants, moved out just a couple of days before Christmas.
The house doesn't have a "to let" sign or anything up yet, and there's definitely noone living there. However, today was bin day and someone, presumably the owner, had been round and put the wheelie bin out ready last night.
The binmen come at 7am.
At 6:45am, I had the idea of maybe adding a bag of my rubbish to their black bin, if it wasn't full, as I am still trying to catch up from Christmas and have extra.
I nipped over the road, had a peek and there was nothing but one single Tesco carrier bag of rubbish in there.
I went back inside, tied up my own full bin bag of rubbish from my kitchen bin and carried it over the road. By this time, I could hear the bin lorries already coming so I know noone was going to be using that space in that bin.
I then took the bin back up their drive for them.
I went back inside, very pleased with myself for now having completely empty bins.
DH was horrified and said it was very cheeky behaviour and very embarrassing. He really hopes noone saw.

Was it cheeky and embarrassing?

Crime of the century 🙄

MyMiniMetro · 15/01/2026 17:57

It’s cheeky but not wrong, you waited until the last possible moment. Just remember to take your partner’s sensibilities into account in the future and don’t do it again.

Zoec1975 · 15/01/2026 17:57

Did they have a ring doorbell:/

Single50something · 15/01/2026 18:01

bullywee · 14/01/2026 03:14

Some people are just weird about things like this. When I moved into my current house I had lots and lots of boxes from moving and from deliveries. Both my neighbour and I have separate bins but all 8 bins (general, paper, food, tins) are kept in the shared alley. I asked the then neighbours who didn't put their paper bin out of they'd mind me putting some boxes in their empty and unused bin to get rid of the boxes quicker. Absolutely not was the answer. 🙄

Our old neighbours were v fussy about bins. He would move other people's bins if he felt a little too close to his collection point 😀

Rhodie72 · 15/01/2026 18:03

No. That's really unfair. We had a similar situation. I was a tenant and moved out and a neighbour (also a supposed friend) then chucked all their rubbish, including cushions, clothes, lamps, into my bin. I had to pay out of deposit. That is a total NO

MoonWoman69 · 15/01/2026 18:10

Not cheeky at all! If there wasn't room in the bin or you'd done it and not taken the bin back, then yes. But you didn't, so it's not a problem in my eyes! It was in there literally minutes if that! Some people are so uptight when there's no need to be!

user1471538283 · 15/01/2026 18:13

I wouldn't mind if my neighbours put rubbish in my bin if it was already out ready to be collected so to put it in a houseless bin in effect does no harm. It's preferable to rubbish just being left and the bags being split and/or left or it attracting vermin.

gifdychops · 15/01/2026 18:14

Whilst I don’t think it was wrong - you could literally see the bin lorry so knew it was going to be collected and very nicely put the bin back for them.

Here’s what happened to us. Dad passed away in the summer and the house all ready to for exchange this week. Someone in the tiny road, decided to fill their bin with the biggest load of shite (think decorating - plaster etc) and put their bin on our drive. When I knocked to ask for my bin they said it was full too! Promised to put it back for bin collection day of 23/12. Bin men collected on Monday after some shite excuse of snow. Not a drop of snow in the area.

So, I think if neighbours are good to share (mine are ace) or like you can see the bin lorry then no harm but now I’ve got a filthy shitty bin - that was sat out for weeks with god nose what else shoved on the top and new people moving in soon!

Laurmolonlabe · 15/01/2026 18:15

If anyone is living there, very cheeky, but otherwise it's fine- I live on an inside corner and people are always putting things in my bin, even filling it sometimes- infuriating.

TreacleMoon · 15/01/2026 18:17

We haven't moved out and our grotty neighbour used to put their shitty nappies and broken bin liners full of God knows what in the top of our bin on collection day (bin was out of sight and hidden behind a hedge) meaning muggins had to then wash out the bin full of rancid liquid 🤢
We don't put the bin there now and there's been nothing since - as I can see the bin from my kitchen window 👀

That said, I don't think it's cheeky to do what you did at all.. But only if they've moved out 😉

Jan24680 · 15/01/2026 18:18

When my tenants changed in my rental flat the council charged me £12 for it being vacant less than 2 weeks. If the neighbours had asked I'd have told them to fill it (within reason) and put it back when it had been emptied. Crack on until you see the owner about to ask or it gets new tenants. Never mind the husband.

UnhappyHobbit · 15/01/2026 18:20

I don’t think that’s too bad if there is room in the bin and it’s someone who doesn’t live there.

I once watched a next door neighbour of mine put extra bin bags in my bin to the point where the lid wouldn't close and was left open.
The CF made sure hers was fully closed of course.
The councils here are very picky about overflowing bins and threaten to not collect them so I went out and removed her bags and put them on top of her wheelie bin.

They didn’t collect the extra bags. It was quite rewarding watching her throw a hissy fit later on and I gleefully watched her bring back the extra bags in defeat. One of my pettier moments, I will admit.

TequilaNights · 15/01/2026 18:22

All my neighbours have agreements that if its bin day and there is space, have at it.

Ceceprincess80 · 15/01/2026 18:22

Its not your bin, so yes too cheeky. Its their property (the owners) so just leave well alone in future

Jukeboxjulie69 · 15/01/2026 18:23

Cantheowneroftheredcorsapleasemovetheircar · 14/01/2026 00:04

The people opposite me, who were tenants, moved out just a couple of days before Christmas.
The house doesn't have a "to let" sign or anything up yet, and there's definitely noone living there. However, today was bin day and someone, presumably the owner, had been round and put the wheelie bin out ready last night.
The binmen come at 7am.
At 6:45am, I had the idea of maybe adding a bag of my rubbish to their black bin, if it wasn't full, as I am still trying to catch up from Christmas and have extra.
I nipped over the road, had a peek and there was nothing but one single Tesco carrier bag of rubbish in there.
I went back inside, tied up my own full bin bag of rubbish from my kitchen bin and carried it over the road. By this time, I could hear the bin lorries already coming so I know noone was going to be using that space in that bin.
I then took the bin back up their drive for them.
I went back inside, very pleased with myself for now having completely empty bins.
DH was horrified and said it was very cheeky behaviour and very embarrassing. He really hopes noone saw.

Was it cheeky and embarrassing?

Not cheeky at all. No one was using it and the bin is not the property of the tenant. It’s council property. No one complained and you got your rubbish out. Think no more of it.

Jukeboxjulie69 · 15/01/2026 18:24

Ceceprincess80 · 15/01/2026 18:22

Its not your bin, so yes too cheeky. Its their property (the owners) so just leave well alone in future

It’s actually council property

Isobel201 · 15/01/2026 18:24

yeah as long as you make sure its emptied and put back, then its fine. I've done the same once.

Holycowhowmuch · 15/01/2026 18:25

Beurocracy gone mad. We are marching towards an all seeing all knowing communist paradise.

Ceceprincess80 · 15/01/2026 18:27

Jukeboxjulie69 · 15/01/2026 18:24

It’s actually council property

Still not the posters

SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 15/01/2026 18:27

It is indeed. The people in the flat downstairs, who live there illegally were regularly putting the discarded and left over food, cartons and other stinking rubbish from the takeaway they work at in my bin.

Was informed by my local Council that they were technically fly tipping and if l could get proper evidence they could be prosecuted.

They said this sort of practise is rife and common place with takeaways who do not have a licence with an approved rubbish collection contractor

So my bin is now safe under lock and key in a neighbours brick outhouse.

If l do have extra space in my bin and a neighbour asks to use it now and then They would be welcome. But they must ask. I pay the Council tax for my bin to be emptied .

Best to keep to your of own in.

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