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To have put my rubbish in the neighbours bin

209 replies

Cantheowneroftheredcorsapleasemovetheircar · 14/01/2026 00:04

The people opposite me, who were tenants, moved out just a couple of days before Christmas.
The house doesn't have a "to let" sign or anything up yet, and there's definitely noone living there. However, today was bin day and someone, presumably the owner, had been round and put the wheelie bin out ready last night.
The binmen come at 7am.
At 6:45am, I had the idea of maybe adding a bag of my rubbish to their black bin, if it wasn't full, as I am still trying to catch up from Christmas and have extra.
I nipped over the road, had a peek and there was nothing but one single Tesco carrier bag of rubbish in there.
I went back inside, tied up my own full bin bag of rubbish from my kitchen bin and carried it over the road. By this time, I could hear the bin lorries already coming so I know noone was going to be using that space in that bin.
I then took the bin back up their drive for them.
I went back inside, very pleased with myself for now having completely empty bins.
DH was horrified and said it was very cheeky behaviour and very embarrassing. He really hopes noone saw.

Was it cheeky and embarrassing?

OP posts:
busyd4y · 14/01/2026 08:09

Catladywithoutacat · 14/01/2026 04:58

I wish my life was this boring

Why does a minor disagrees with her husband mean the OPs life is boring? Don't you ever have anything similar?

mondaytosunday · 14/01/2026 08:12

@Nutsabouttopicbut she’s given you permission to do so.
OP I guess it was ok in this instance but I wouldn’t do it myself.

IngridBurger · 14/01/2026 08:12

Zov · 14/01/2026 00:09

If there is no-one living there, then I may have done the same. Bit cheeky but no harm done. Hopefully no-one grasses you up, because the council love to fine people for shit like this. One woman was fined for sticking her own rubbish out of her car (a cardboard cup and a tissue I think) into a public bin. because it was her personal rubbish. (I know, batshit!) Also, someone got a fine in my area some weeks back for having their empty wheelie bin still on the public pavement, 3 days after it was emptied. They're so petty, so be careful!

The public bin thing is madness. Really I think anything which makes it easier for people to dispose of rubbish will make the environment a much nicer place for everyone. Where I used to live the rules for taking stuff to the tip were getting ridiculous. It was noticeable that the area was way more affected by fly tipping than previously.

If my bin is out for collection I couldn't care less who puts what in it, as long as it's still deemed collectable by the council.

Mamabear487 · 14/01/2026 08:13

We do it all the time. Although we regularly socialise with our neighbours and they don’t mind if they have space and our bins are full

NippyNinjaCrab · 14/01/2026 08:15

It's not cheeky if it's not being used. We are the same here re catch up. Our neighbour moved out Monday and we will utilise their general bin. Another neighbour was away for 3 weeks and they asked if we would put the bins out, we did ask them if it was okay to add one bag to their bin before we did it.
I don't see a problem 🤷

butterdish93 · 14/01/2026 08:15

Obviously the bin man was coming so unlikely that they needed the bin on this occasion.

but often when tenants move out there is an interim period were either the tennants are popping back to clean and clear the property ready for inspection and deposit or the landlord/lady is preparing the house to put on the market again. In these instances the bin is very much needed. So I’m general I wouldn’t just assume it’s fair game. On this occasion it was fine tho.

CharlotteStreetW1 · 14/01/2026 08:19

HipHopDontYouStop · 14/01/2026 03:07

I don’t see why it’s cheeky to put your rubbish in someone’s bin.

If my bin were not full on collection day and someone else needed the space, I wouldn’t mind at all if they put their rubbish in with mine. It’s all going to be collected. What’s the big deal?

We were away for a few days at Christmas and didn't have a lot of recycling at that point. (Normally lovely) neighbours put a load of boxes in our bin (not broken down) and a plastic bag of packaging which I had to move into our general bin.

Because of the snow and ice, our post-Christmas recycling collection was eventually cancelled altogether so I have several large boxes in my hall and an indoor bin full of recycling waiting to go out once the collection finally happens.

So yes, quite fucking cheeky.

But the OP certainly did nothing wrong in this case and her DH needs to unclench..

BlanketyBlankBlank · 14/01/2026 08:19

Thelittlegreyone · 14/01/2026 06:50

It doesn’t sound right, but it is technically flytipping. Like the woman fined for littering because she poured the dregs of her coffee in the drain,

That’s was overturned.

BringBackCatsEyes · 14/01/2026 08:41

Our bins are lined up at the road side on bin day. I think it's not unreasonable to consider that they are not going to be added to by the owner at that stage, so it would be ok to put more rubbish in one with space.

StephensLass1977 · 14/01/2026 08:42

I don't see how fines come into it when she put her rubbish into a bin correctly? It might not have been her bin (which is where the potential "cheeky" aspect comes into it) but it's still being correctly disposed of.

BringBackCatsEyes · 14/01/2026 08:42

CharlotteStreetW1 · 14/01/2026 08:19

We were away for a few days at Christmas and didn't have a lot of recycling at that point. (Normally lovely) neighbours put a load of boxes in our bin (not broken down) and a plastic bag of packaging which I had to move into our general bin.

Because of the snow and ice, our post-Christmas recycling collection was eventually cancelled altogether so I have several large boxes in my hall and an indoor bin full of recycling waiting to go out once the collection finally happens.

So yes, quite fucking cheeky.

But the OP certainly did nothing wrong in this case and her DH needs to unclench..

That's quite different to OP's situation.

ForFunGoose · 14/01/2026 08:44

what other services do you use that you don’t pay for? I think it’s cheeky.

Tresd · 14/01/2026 08:47

As long as your rubbish was properly bagged with no smells or leaks - your bag was “clean”, then doing this 15 mins before collection is ok.

I don’t like people putting dog shit in my bin. Even bagged, it stinks and the bin still stinks after collection. I also don’t want anyone putting a bag in the night before - as I may go out with a bag in the morning. And yes, obviously if the collection hasn’t happened for whatever reason, you would have needed to remove the bags.

we are on collections once every 3 weeks now. I have to manage this carefully and put small handfuls of rubbish into my car to shove in random bins like at petrol stations etc. if I’ve had food in somewhere like McD then that will stay in my car until I find a bin to shove it.

Tresd · 14/01/2026 08:48

ForFunGoose · 14/01/2026 08:44

what other services do you use that you don’t pay for? I think it’s cheeky.

The service is fully paid - she’s presumably paid council tax as has this neighbour.

chattychatchatty · 14/01/2026 08:49

I really don’t understand DH’s reaction. Trust he’s happy to make the tip run another time rather than risk the supposed public humiliation of getting caught using empty space in a wheelie bin?

Full disclosure, in the good old days before parking apps I would offer a parking ticket with time remaining to someone coming in as I was leaving, and many people did the same to me. I guess DH would be appalled about that too!

peacefulpeach · 14/01/2026 08:57

I’m with your DH. Going on someone else’s property and helping yourself to using their bins, without permission (you don’t know them/ aren’t friends), is questionable / entitled. Embarrassing for you as he says! But I can see I’m in a minority 🤷‍♀️

BringBackCatsEyes · 14/01/2026 08:59

peacefulpeach · 14/01/2026 08:57

I’m with your DH. Going on someone else’s property and helping yourself to using their bins, without permission (you don’t know them/ aren’t friends), is questionable / entitled. Embarrassing for you as he says! But I can see I’m in a minority 🤷‍♀️

Well that's not what happened. The bin was on the road side and OP put some rubbish in 15 mins before it was collected.

IngridBurger · 14/01/2026 08:59

peacefulpeach · 14/01/2026 08:57

I’m with your DH. Going on someone else’s property and helping yourself to using their bins, without permission (you don’t know them/ aren’t friends), is questionable / entitled. Embarrassing for you as he says! But I can see I’m in a minority 🤷‍♀️

I can't understand for the life of me why anyone would begrude their unused bin space to anyone. Keeps the neighbourhood clean and tidy and costs nobody anything? I guess we're all different!

ETA I think the bin was already out on the roadside for collection. I do agree that trespassing on the property would cross a line.

Andepeda · 14/01/2026 09:01

I could write a book about my bin problems with my neighbours. CF's doesn't cover it.

You've caused no problems for any one OP, non event.

NotnowMildrid · 14/01/2026 09:01

I would much rather a neighbour did what you did, rather than leave excess bags of rubbish outside that attract rodents and foxes who make a complete mess out of them.

Good of you to put the bin back afterwards, as it helps to make the house look occupied.

peacefulpeach · 14/01/2026 09:16

BringBackCatsEyes · 14/01/2026 08:59

Well that's not what happened. The bin was on the road side and OP put some rubbish in 15 mins before it was collected.

She did trespass onto their property. To put it back (after she’d used it without permission, not as a selfless gesture), yes well done.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 14/01/2026 09:20

Thelittlegreyone · 14/01/2026 05:01

It’s technically flytipping.

No, it's the opposite of fly tipping as she used a bin 🤣

bluegreengreenblue · 14/01/2026 09:23

Hmm. When we moved into our rental both bins were crammed with rubbish. I was not impressed! But it was bin day- so I guess just don’t get in the habit? And obviously don’t put anything too manky in there?

AllJoyAndNoFun · 14/01/2026 09:30

If my neighbour's bin is out for collection and not full, I do sometimes stick some extra cardboard, green waste or a bag of rubbish in there and I don't care if they do likewise. The only time I was annoyed was when the Airbnb guest next door put non recyclable stuff in my recycling (disposable bbq) and the bin men therefore didn't empty it (they take a look in before they hook the bin up).

Xkk · 14/01/2026 09:32

When is bin day and we have extra we just put the bag next to the bin. They would rather take the bin bag off the floor then having to remove it from an overfilled bin so they always send messages to us don't overfill just put next to it. Black or recycling doesen't matter it always gets picked up if is on the kerb. I sm surprised people look for space in neighbours bins, I lived here 10 years and it never was a problem for us.

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