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To have put my rubbish in the neighbours bin

209 replies

Cantheowneroftheredcorsapleasemovetheircar · 14/01/2026 00:04

The people opposite me, who were tenants, moved out just a couple of days before Christmas.
The house doesn't have a "to let" sign or anything up yet, and there's definitely noone living there. However, today was bin day and someone, presumably the owner, had been round and put the wheelie bin out ready last night.
The binmen come at 7am.
At 6:45am, I had the idea of maybe adding a bag of my rubbish to their black bin, if it wasn't full, as I am still trying to catch up from Christmas and have extra.
I nipped over the road, had a peek and there was nothing but one single Tesco carrier bag of rubbish in there.
I went back inside, tied up my own full bin bag of rubbish from my kitchen bin and carried it over the road. By this time, I could hear the bin lorries already coming so I know noone was going to be using that space in that bin.
I then took the bin back up their drive for them.
I went back inside, very pleased with myself for now having completely empty bins.
DH was horrified and said it was very cheeky behaviour and very embarrassing. He really hopes noone saw.

Was it cheeky and embarrassing?

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nomas · 14/01/2026 06:21

Morepositivemum · 14/01/2026 06:15

We pay per weight so I’m surprised people are so find with this tbh!! Even if ye don’t it just seems wrong to me, I don’t know why!!!

It pays to have good neighbourly relations.

FaceDownInAPuddle · 14/01/2026 06:22

Zov · 14/01/2026 00:09

If there is no-one living there, then I may have done the same. Bit cheeky but no harm done. Hopefully no-one grasses you up, because the council love to fine people for shit like this. One woman was fined for sticking her own rubbish out of her car (a cardboard cup and a tissue I think) into a public bin. because it was her personal rubbish. (I know, batshit!) Also, someone got a fine in my area some weeks back for having their empty wheelie bin still on the public pavement, 3 days after it was emptied. They're so petty, so be careful!

What the hell else is a public bin for? Baffling.

FaceDownInAPuddle · 14/01/2026 06:25

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Who said she was distressed? Stop being weird about it, swipe left move on if you're not interested.

Clara27 · 14/01/2026 06:35

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Where did she say that? How weird…

Rosscameasdoody · 14/01/2026 06:38

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Why would the neighbour have come out of a house they moved out of before Christmas ?

Slightyamusedandsilly · 14/01/2026 06:41

I do this ALL the time. I had an excess of rubbish and a empty house on my street and took FULL advantage of their empty bin. Put it out and took it back in weekly until the overflow of (post moving) rubbish was gone.

Nos4r2 · 14/01/2026 06:45

Thelittlegreyone · 14/01/2026 05:01

It’s technically flytipping.

Surely fly tipping is chucking stuff on the floor anywhere, this rubbish went into an almost empty bin.

Appenzell · 14/01/2026 06:46

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Oh do stop it. It's clearly bothering the OP. Why the need to be so nasty?

HipHopDontYouStop · 14/01/2026 06:49

Morepositivemum · 14/01/2026 06:15

We pay per weight so I’m surprised people are so find with this tbh!! Even if ye don’t it just seems wrong to me, I don’t know why!!!

Obviously if you pay per weigh then that is different.

Where I live, they just pick up the bin regardless. Half empty or full.

Thelittlegreyone · 14/01/2026 06:50

Nos4r2 · 14/01/2026 06:45

Surely fly tipping is chucking stuff on the floor anywhere, this rubbish went into an almost empty bin.

It doesn’t sound right, but it is technically flytipping. Like the woman fined for littering because she poured the dregs of her coffee in the drain,

xSnowFairyx · 14/01/2026 07:03

To all the people saying “you should ask first”

Who exactly was she meant to ask if the property currently doesn’t have any tenants?

nomas · 14/01/2026 07:03

Thelittlegreyone · 14/01/2026 06:50

It doesn’t sound right, but it is technically flytipping. Like the woman fined for littering because she poured the dregs of her coffee in the drain,

Which was rightly withdrawn.

Thelittlegreyone · 14/01/2026 07:10

Yes, I know. i was giving an example of something that doesn’t make sense.

Owly11 · 14/01/2026 07:15

Yes it is a bit cheeky and embarrassing. You did it in a way that didn't cause a problem but that's not always the point. You had one perspective on the situation, your dh had a different one - just accept he found it cheeky and move on.

Lurkingandlearning · 14/01/2026 07:20

@Bobiverse OP didn’t post about nothing happening with the neighbour or the bin men. She posted about her husband’s reaction.

OP his reaction didn’t entirely surprise me. Anyone watching you might have assumed you were using someone’s bin without permission, which can be irritating. Which you were for the few minutes it took the bin men to take it away. You being foresighted and practical apparently didn’t outweigh your husband’s need for approval from people he doesn’t know. That must get very tedious.

millymollyminging · 14/01/2026 07:25

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You’ve never suffered with insomnia then?

Youdontseehow · 14/01/2026 07:27

@Cantheowneroftheredcorsapleasemovetheircar yeah it’s not really bin etiquette I’m afraid.

Putting your rubbish in someone else’s bins is considered cheeky fuckery behaviour by most naice people.

That said, I think the breaching of the bin etiquette is permissible on this occasion because;

  • no one currently living in the house
  • the bin was not full immediately prior to collection ergo no chance of the owner needing to fill the bin up
  • you took the wheelie bin back to its allocated place which in part atones for your bin sins.

So I think you are okay this time.

HesterLee · 14/01/2026 07:40

Yanbu for using the bin

Yabu for repeatedly writing "noone"

Howwilliknow122 · 14/01/2026 07:54

Morepositivemum · 14/01/2026 06:15

We pay per weight so I’m surprised people are so find with this tbh!! Even if ye don’t it just seems wrong to me, I don’t know why!!!

How do you pay for your rubbish by weight ? The council weighs what you have then sends you a bill? 🤔

TittyGajillions · 14/01/2026 07:59

We pay for waste collection here so that would annoy me no end.

Schmojoe · 14/01/2026 07:59

It sounds perfectly reasonable to me. Your DH seems obsessed with "sticking to the rules" whether or not anyone else is affected. I suspect he might be a bit of a bore.

Schmojoe · 14/01/2026 08:02

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How rude.

johnd2 · 14/01/2026 08:02

Zov · 14/01/2026 00:09

If there is no-one living there, then I may have done the same. Bit cheeky but no harm done. Hopefully no-one grasses you up, because the council love to fine people for shit like this. One woman was fined for sticking her own rubbish out of her car (a cardboard cup and a tissue I think) into a public bin. because it was her personal rubbish. (I know, batshit!) Also, someone got a fine in my area some weeks back for having their empty wheelie bin still on the public pavement, 3 days after it was emptied. They're so petty, so be careful!

Oh yeah my aunt's gardeners sister in law's dog walker was fined £1000 and prosecuted because they walked past a bin and saw a wrapper fall out so they popped it back in, they were technically clearing a fly tip so they needed a waste carriers licence. Councils are ridiculous nowadays.

Edit sorry I quoted by accident and can't remove it, I'm not disagreeing with you at all! Anything is believable nowadays.

Mumsntfan1 · 14/01/2026 08:03

Zov · 14/01/2026 00:09

If there is no-one living there, then I may have done the same. Bit cheeky but no harm done. Hopefully no-one grasses you up, because the council love to fine people for shit like this. One woman was fined for sticking her own rubbish out of her car (a cardboard cup and a tissue I think) into a public bin. because it was her personal rubbish. (I know, batshit!) Also, someone got a fine in my area some weeks back for having their empty wheelie bin still on the public pavement, 3 days after it was emptied. They're so petty, so be careful!

Why would you be fined for using a public bin? Are they not for the public to use. Maybe the person used it for more than a cup and tissue.

busyd4y · 14/01/2026 08:05

Nutsabouttopic · 14/01/2026 02:00

I would have done the same. A friend travels a lot and has asked a few of us to put her bins out at appropriate times. She asks us to fill her bins with our rubbish. Her thinking being that she pays for her bins whereas I don't have a collection. I go to the tip. So it saves me time and money and she feels that shes getting her moneys worth

So a totally different situation 😂

Doing it without asking is pretty rude, doing it because you've literally been asked , hmm?